Phoenix1312 Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 I really want to know why western men get caught up with the nightmare of being with a Thai woman. When are they going to learn it's all about the money. I read so often about men committing suicide and it is unbelievable. I moved to Phuket with my husband after buying a restaurant. Within 3 months he was cheating with a Thai woman. Go figure. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post rucus7 Posted December 25, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 25, 2013 This is a holiday joke post, right? 26 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bifftastic Posted December 25, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 25, 2013 So, it's a nightmare is it? And you've worked that out because your husband cheated on you with a Thai woman,(in Phuket of all places) therefore all Thai women are the same. Thanks for that, I'll let my wife know that our marriage is over. How could I have been so blind? 44 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ultimate weapon Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 In before some farang claims his thai wife/gf isn't with him cos of the money. In before he finds some way to diss farang women. I wonder why OP is blaming thai women though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoenix1312 Posted December 25, 2013 Author Share Posted December 25, 2013 Talking about the suicide nightmares. If your happy with Thai then good for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bifftastic Posted December 25, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 25, 2013 Talking about the suicide nightmares. If your happy with Thai then good for you. I'm not 'happy with Thai' it's not like ordering food. I'm happy with my wife, who is a person, an individual who shares nothing with the person who your husband cheated with other than, perhaps language, and more certainly nationality. Also, if you're experiencing suicide nightmares, you may want to seek professional medical advice. 28 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ThaidDown Posted December 25, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 25, 2013 Instead of slagging off Thai women why not put the blame where it belongs..........your husband. 34 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
geriatrickid Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 That's nice. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cylon Posted December 25, 2013 Share Posted December 25, 2013 He was going to cheat on you back home or already had.Dont blame Thai lady 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Somtamnication Posted December 25, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 25, 2013 What did you do to the poor guy? 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post scubascuba3 Posted December 25, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 25, 2013 I really want to know why western men get caught up with the nightmare of being with a Thai woman. When are they going to learn it's all about the money. I read so often about men committing suicide and it is unbelievable. I moved to Phuket with my husband after buying a restaurant. Within 3 months he was cheating with a Thai woman. Go figure. I think its dangerous for a western wife to live in Thailand with her husband. I would almost guarantee he will wander, in most cases secretly. You can't compete with the looks of a Thai, unless you are very attractive and slim. But, I agree its all about the money,as long as the money flows it will be OK. Sent from my GT-I9300 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Phoenix1312 Posted December 25, 2013 Author Popular Post Share Posted December 25, 2013 I only loved him. He begged my forgiveness and to take him back. No way. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoenix1312 Posted December 26, 2013 Author Share Posted December 26, 2013 Thank you for agreeing. Most of the nasty comments are from guys who are pathetic anyway. Don't even read them. Some of my best friends are Thai women and I love them. It was a generalisation of the men committing suicide it is sad. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post hugmarod Posted December 26, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 26, 2013 Well for what it's worth I'm happily married to my wife who is Thai , she earns her own money etc, just for the record it was actually a western woman that ran up high debt and demanded everything! Then walked away leaving all the debt, my Thai wife married me knowing I was potless, how many western women would even look at a man like this?.......... 15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post chiang mai Posted December 26, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 26, 2013 The end of yet another deep and meaningful debate on relationships! 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
krisb Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 All women are partly there for the money. Love alone can't pay the bills. I understand your anger at Thai girls right now, but you surely must have noticed Thai women flirting with your man on previous Thai trips right? How did you catch him? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rsokolowski Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 You could of course make the argument that women of all races are with their husbands because of money and the security that he provides. This would be silly, just as silly as saying all Thai women only marry for money. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post edwinchester Posted December 26, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 26, 2013 My wife cheated on me with a couple of guys, one of them a good family friend. Then she proceeded to get most of my money in the divorce that followed. She was English btw. My Thai wife on the other hand is the most honest person I have ever known. Has always worked hard for and saved her own money. I love her to bits and along with my two daughters she is the best thing that ever came into my life. Sent from my GT-I9003 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 33 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post oxymoron Posted December 26, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 26, 2013 Instead of slagging off Thai women why not put the blame where it belongs..........your husband. Or maybe...............yourself???? 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Puyai Posted December 26, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 26, 2013 I was broke when I met her. 4 years later she's still here and I'm not much better off now! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 My wife cheated on me with a couple of guys, one of them a good family friend. Then she proceeded to get most of my money in the divorce that followed. She was English btw.My Thai wife on the other hand is the most honest person I have ever known. Has always worked hard for and saved her own money. I love her to bits and along with my two daughters she is the best thing that ever came into my life.Sent from my GT-I9003 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app How much younger than you is your Thai wife? If she is a similar age its plausible, if there is a big gap my advice is Keep it real Sent from my GT-I9300 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jai Dee Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 We are watching this topic to see that it does not get out of hand. Please remember the Forum Rules, and the following in particular: "Not to post slurs or degrading comments directed towards any group on the basis of race, nationality, religion, gender or sexual orientation." Thank you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post edwinchester Posted December 26, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 26, 2013 My wife cheated on me with a couple of guys, one of them a good family friend. Then she proceeded to get most of my money in the divorce that followed. She was English btw.My Thai wife on the other hand is the most honest person I have ever known. Has always worked hard for and saved her own money. I love her to bits and along with my two daughters she is the best thing that ever came into my life.Sent from my GT-I9003 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app How much younger than you is your Thai wife? If she is a similar age its plausible, if there is a big gap my advice is Keep it real Sent from my GT-I9300 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Keep what real? We have been married 11 years known each other for 13, has she been faking the hard work and her own savings all this time? Sent from my GT-I9003 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoenix1312 Posted December 26, 2013 Author Share Posted December 26, 2013 Yeah you could totally agree. I am a business woman and earned more than he did Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bifftastic Posted December 26, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 26, 2013 (edited) It is like ordering food. Just walk down any street lol. Maybe you should open you eyes and read if you want to comment. I said all the men committing suicide not me. I have never been happier. Just wanted an insight from losers like you. Ok, here's some insight. If you want to understand why people like your husband treat Thai women like food from a menu, then just go out and about in your little tourist ghetto island paradise and have a look what's on that menu. Then go and have a look at yourself. Maybe then you can figure it out. Another suggestion, if you are genuinely looking for insight, try forming full sentences that actually contain the meaning you are trying to articulate. You might also want to have a look on a map, engage your brain (that might require a change of meds) and realise that Phuket is a very small part of the country you happen to find yourself in, and that it is just possible that not every single woman in the country is on any menu, and that not every single foreign man in the country is a cheating scumbag like your ex husband. When I said "it's not like ordering food" I meant that my situation is nothing at all like that of your cheating husband, and I found your comment "If you're happy with Thai" extremely patronising and borderline racist. And "all the men committing suicide" I feel, after our little 'conversation' that I understand their mindset a little more now, so thank you for that. Please continue to be as happy as you are, I'm sure you deserve nothing less. Edited December 26, 2013 by bifftastic 11 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phoenix1312 Posted December 26, 2013 Author Share Posted December 26, 2013 He pretended to go for massages. Packed my bags and came back to Oz. We did notice how they flirted but he always said that it was pathetic how old men went with young woman and I believed him. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post krisb Posted December 26, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 26, 2013 Cheated. I suggest you try the ladies forum on here for more helpful, compassionate answers I feel your seeking before mods close this down, and you are left none the wiser to the answers you seek. Good luck and hope you sort things out 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post noikrit Posted December 26, 2013 Popular Post Share Posted December 26, 2013 (edited) Sorry this thread has TROLL written all over it .... Changed thread ...... Edited December 26, 2013 by noikrit 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scubascuba3 Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 He pretended to go for massages. Packed my bags and came back to Oz. We did notice how they flirted but he always said that it was pathetic how old men went with young woman and I believed him. Good luck in what you do, it must be heartbreaking. Ignore the negative comments from dodgy farang, there are a lot if those in Thailand. By the way its good to use the quote button when replying to a comment Sent from my GT-I9300 using Thaivisa Connect Thailand mobile app Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lite Beer Posted December 26, 2013 Share Posted December 26, 2013 Inflammatory posts removed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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