Any chance to reclaim the money from my GF

[lopangkar]

We have a long time relationship ( more than 8 years ) but we are separate in two country ( not living together ) .

Recently I found that she was cheating on me and for quite a long time ( hidden Boyfriend - I discovery at Facebook ).

And I decide to leave her ( we didn`t marriage ) and just walk away .

But I do provide money to her monthly by Bank Transfer ( I keep all the bank receipt ). It`s not a small amount of money.

I just wanna is it any way or method that I can claim those money that I ' Borrow ' to her ?

Any advise .

lopang

[7by7]

Unless you can prove that the money was a loan, not a gift; no chance.

[transam]

These birds with folk like yourself on a leash are very happy to take your cash for as long as it lasts, until they are found out. Perhaps there are others sending her cash too. I have known a few doing this. Forget it and move on and learn your lesson.

[ExpatOilWorker]

Can you "undo" all the sex she gave you?

The answer is the same to your question.

[neverdie]

Ohhhh wilber.

[Suradit69]

Any advise .

Probably one of the more ridiculous questions posed on Thai Visa ... and believe me you're up against stiff competition.

Assuming you ever dated a woman anywhere else in the world and eventually broke up with her, did she refund you all the money you spent on her?

Did you think you were making hire-purchase (installment plan) payments and she came with a money-back guarantee?

For some reason your post makes me think of something ... now what is it ... rhymes with roll or toll or something like folderol ... no can't remember what the word is.

[henksteeghsth]

Yes you can do GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOD Luck

[AlphMichaels]

Get a copy of the book "Jungle Fever". Your money was your money until you gave it to her. Lesson learned. I hope so anyway.

Sorry but it's a story as old as TV Forum..., actually considerably older.

[Johnnie99]

I think I am getting to know what we are calling 'trolling'.

No one could possibly be as stupid as this poster so it must be a troll post.

[Familyonthemove]

Nope

[malt25]

This is a trick question... punch line coming soon.

[Phoenix1312]

The money is most likely spent and long gone. Just forget about it and move on. You are not the first and won't be the last to experience deceit.

[Suradit69]

I think I am getting to know what we are calling 'trolling'.

No one could possibly be as stupid as this poster so it must be a troll post.

"No one could possibly be as stupid as this poster ..."

New to Thai Visa, are you?

And for the benefit of some posters who tend to take things very, very literally, my comment comes with this notice:

The money is most likely spent and long gone. Just forget about it and move on. You are not the first and won't be the last to experience deceit.

Or to practice it.

We haven't heard the other side of the story. Hard as it may be to believe, everything posted on Thai Visa isn't guaranteed to be the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

[F4UCorsair]

Somebody tell me there aren't people as stupid as this.... somebody..... anybody!

Or he's a troll. That has to be it.

Edit. I should have checked first, 2 posts. Troll !!!

[marioc]

This post can't be true...........

[realenglish1]

Under Civil Law you can sue her A local attorney can handle it for you

Good luck

[slipperylobster]

Absolutely. Just look at the headlines...all the rice farmers are getting their money handed to them.

Anything is possible. Perhaps the new crackdown on corruption will lead to the returning of money scammed by the gals over the internet and in the bars. Maybe special courts will be set up and your case will get heard.

[Phoenix1312]

I think I am getting to know what we are calling 'trolling'.

No one could possibly be as stupid as this poster so it must be a troll post.

"No one could possibly be as stupid as this poster ..."

New to Thai Visa, are you?

And for the benefit of some posters who tend to take things very, very literally, my comment comes with this notice:

The money is most likely spent and long gone. Just forget about it and move on. You are not the first and won't be the last to experience deceit.

Or to practice it.

We haven't heard the other side of the story. Hard as it may be to believe, everything posted on Thai Visa isn't guaranteed to be the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth.

So true.

[skorchio]

Send me a deposit and I will start working on your unique case right now.

[jinners]

Where's your head? I can only assume you are heartbroken which explains why you posted such an idiotic comment on here. Not sure what TV excuse is for listing it?

[EASYDOGG]

Another misguided tool who thinks he should bank roll a girl, particularly one he never saw! He is his one worst enemy and after 8 years he never married her, so of course she took his money and found a guy to take care of her other needs. I blame you bro!

When will guys learn to change the I send you money mentality?

[glasswort]

I have a court order in respect of the repayment of money loaned and not repaid in Thailand, but I have little or no chance of getting anything; "blood out of a stone" and all that. I suggest you have no chance whatsoever!!!!

[tubby johnson]

Fat chance.

Move on.

[Miami Bob]

You can't be serious! At least you gave me a good laugh this afternoon...thanks.

[fritzzz25]

There is an "Ask the Lawyer" section in this forum. You should ask over there......

[easybullet3]

if she sweet talked you and you gave money from your heart to her pocket,, (as a gift), then there is NOTHING you can do about it.

if you have written proof or verbal recorded conversations to show that it was a LOAN that she will pay back to you,, then you can try claiming/suing her for it in a Thai Court.

if you have proof that she CHEATED you... (as in, give me this money as an investment for something).. and you can prove the money went elsewhere... then you can try filing charges as a trickery business scam.

but really: the chances of that is LOW.

there is nothing you can do. sorry.

as a previous person said in this forum,, you cant get a refund from a gf that cheated on you in your home country for all the meals and presents you gave her!!! Lol

[surfinglife]

Is this a trick question?

[BWPattaya]

Sometimes I wonder if posts like this are just there to boost TV traffic.

[dotpoom]

I suppose there is nothing stopping you reclaiming the money.......but will you get it?

[TomAikins]

Are you insane?