pgrahmm Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Good luck to you.....and everyone else that used those scenic venues for pic ops...... Whether real or opportunity driven - beware....... Eyes/ears open - zipper closed..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoteng Posted September 5, 2014 Author Share Posted September 5, 2014 So you spent £5000 in three weeks in Bangkok but let your teelak pay for flights to Samui. The holes in the story are getting bigger.People don't read things properly do they? I said I won a few thousand, so I had unexpected money to go out and blow to go and have a good time and get over my previous relationship. I return home and my situation money wise is back to normal. There is a 3 month gap of my return to Thailand so I am hardly going to be loaded for my next trip. I wanted to leave it a little longer but holidays at work were fully booked in august and weather in September is hardly great in Thailand. I would've paid for the flights anyway but she was very insistent. What is actually wrong with her paying for something anyway? Considering she actually probably doesn't earn far off what I get and I'm spending £2,500 total for the trip and her practically nothing? Is it not normal for a british woman to pay money towards things? So any holes you think are getting bigger in this story, well I have just filled them back in. Anything else I'm saying to make any holes bigger for me to fill in? So anyone else saying I'm a troll or making this story up well 555 you are wrong because this is 100% reality and I'm not sad enough like some clowns are to make stories up for giggles. I maybe sad or stupid enough to start a relationship with a bar girl on the other hand. I work nights as a croupier remember so I'm hardly wanting to use any spare time wasted making stories on this website, but of course I might have made up being a croupier 5555 whatever. Sorry but I'm just getting annoyed with people thinking this real situation is made up and I'm a troll. If you think that don't comment. Dude, go back and read your post #245 and you wrote £5000. Some people don't write things properly. If you dropped that kind of cash (or even half that) teelak probably thinks you're a big fish and just trying to be modest or make her show sincerity. Anyway, I think you're playing around with her and you're playing around with us on this forum. You went Thailand, had some fun with a bar girl, and now want to convince yourself and the world that it was more than that. Especially yourself. If your feelings were legit you would be desperately trying to keep this girl chaste. You'd be asking how can I make sure she doesn't bar fine, you might even be taking up or wanting to take up some forum members offers to investigate. Instead you're fairly laid back about it. You go to see her in November, have some more fun, and then decide, to move no. No issue with that, it's what guys and gals like you two do. What irks is when you dress it up as a big love affair when your actions and responses show that it is not. Yes mate I spent £5,000 the first time I was there on a big blow out. 2nd time I only spent £1,200 in spending money the rest was flights and accommodation. She's very cheap to look after, as she eats thai food which is obviously cheap and barely drinks (probably as she is having a break from drinking so much in her job). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TacoGuy Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Her jewellery don't look to cheap. Mind you, you're not at that stage yet. She's a sweet looking girl, seems over twenty though. Not sure it was a good idea to post on TVF given the number of budding private eyes there appear to be on here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2fishin2 Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Im not judging you or her but, let me ask you a couple simple questions. Just think about them. Did you not pick up a girl who has said to you repeatedly that she doesnt bar fine? Yes. Did she not go home with you? Yes. Just think about it. Sent from my iPad using Thaivisa Connect Thailand 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2fishin2 Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Her jewellery don't look to cheap. Mind you, you're not at that stage yet. She's a sweet looking girl, seems over twenty though. Not sure it was a good idea to post on TVF given the number of budding private eyes there appear to be on here. Actually that was my first thought looking at her necklace for sure. Sent from my iPad using Thaivisa Connect Thailand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 A post containing personal photos has been removed. Even though posted by OP is in violation of this forum rule: 20) You will not post any member's personal information including emails, personal messages, photos or web site details. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Don't be stupid. Remove the pictures. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgrahmm Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 I missed the pics?????? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balo Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 (edited) Give us the name of the bar so we can find out if she's willing to sleep with a man over 50 for 2000 baht. Then I can report back to you. Edited September 5, 2014 by balo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoteng Posted September 5, 2014 Author Share Posted September 5, 2014 Her jewellery don't look to cheap. Mind you, you're not at that stage yet. She's a sweet looking girl, seems over twenty though. Not sure it was a good idea to post on TVF given the number of budding private eyes there appear to be on here. Ha ha she bought that necklace as soon as I returned to the UK the first time. She said she bought it with the money I paid her for her company. Think it cost her 20,000 baht and she showed me the shop where she got it from. She openly admits that first time I went to Thailand I was just about the money, but she started liking me properly towards end of my holiday and she said she expected me to go home and not return to see her. I kept in touch with her everyday and she liked that and she knew I was more serious, then I returned to see her and we got on really well, just like any normal couple would do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandomSand Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 She's very cheap to look after, as she eats thai food which is obviously cheap and barely drinks (probably as she is having a break from drinking so much in her job). Drinking too much fanta isn't good for their teeth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoteng Posted September 5, 2014 Author Share Posted September 5, 2014 Give us the name of the bar so we can find out if she's willing to sleep with a man over 50 for 2000 baht. Then I can report back to you. Not much point I can get my friend to do it who lives over there if I really wanted to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TacoGuy Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Her jewellery don't look to cheap. Mind you, you're not at that stage yet. She's a sweet looking girl, seems over twenty though. Not sure it was a good idea to post on TVF given the number of budding private eyes there appear to be on here.Ha ha she bought that necklace as soon as I returned to the UK the first time. She said she bought it with the money I paid her for her company. Think it cost her 20,000 baht and she showed me the shop where she got it from. She openly admits that first time I went to Thailand I was just about the money, but she started liking me properly towards end of my holiday and she said she expected me to go home and not return to see her. I kept in touch with her everyday and she liked that and she knew I was more serious, then I returned to see her and we got on really well, just like any normal couple would do. I have a feeling you'll have a chance to visit that shop in November. 555 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Munger Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Im not judging you or her but, let me ask you a couple simple questions. Just think about them. Did you not pick up a girl who has said to you repeatedly that she doesnt bar fine? Yes. Did she not go home with you? Yes. Just think about it. She also said, "I no like Thai man" , and "I only work bar for one week", and "I no like old man" , because the OP is young. When she talks to the old fools she says " I no like young farang because too much bum bum" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TacoGuy Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Im not judging you or her but, let me ask you a couple simple questions. Just think about them. Did you not pick up a girl who has said to you repeatedly that she doesnt bar fine? Yes. Did she not go home with you? Yes. Just think about it. She also said, "I no like Thai man" , and "I only work bar for one week", and "I no like old man" , because the OP is young. When she talks to the old fools she says " I no like young farang because too much bum bum" It's odd that Thai's don't learn the expression "don't like" instead of "no like". It can't be that hard to remember and would make their English sound so much more natural. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
2fishin2 Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 (edited) A forum where a person cant even post pics of himself....now this has got to be a first. Come on have some common sense here. But we can call each other and different countries names and thats fine Edited September 5, 2014 by 2fishin2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandomSand Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Being with her seems so "normal" that he can hardly believe his "girlfriend" is a prostitute. Welcome to Thailand! Now you know why this country has such a reputation with western blokes. Duh. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Aussieroaming Posted September 5, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted September 5, 2014 OP if you really like this girl why the F... Are you parading your talk here. Follow your heart and if that means sticking with her then show her some respect by not airing her laundry here. My brother married a bargirl against my advice and five years later he has never been happier and she is in heaven living in Australia. I was wrong to judge and I accept that. All she wanted was a chance at life and she's a the nice girl who never dissed me back. She has never been anything but gold to her husband. Work it out yourself. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoteng Posted September 5, 2014 Author Share Posted September 5, 2014 Im not judging you or her but, let me ask you a couple simple questions. Just think about them. Did you not pick up a girl who has said to you repeatedly that she doesnt bar fine? Yes. Did she not go home with you? Yes. Just think about it. She also said, "I no like Thai man" , and "I only work bar for one week", and "I no like old man" , because the OP is young. When she talks to the old fools she says " I no like young farang because too much bum bum" She hasn't said those things actually. She had only worked a short period that was very obvious due to her Facebook page and the fact that she started becoming friends with all the girls from the bar on Facebook along with her very bad English at the time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post DLock Posted September 5, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted September 5, 2014 She says she doesn't bar fine now as she loves me too much to do that, but does shows and dancing. The OP in my opinion is just a 24 year old kid and all this is a great adventure for him. If the so-called love of his life is still in with the bar scene, than she is going with tricks, Johns, customers, however you like to describe them, no questions about it, 100%. What should be the main concerns of the OP that if he has been having unprotected sex with a prostitute is the fact that he may have been exposed to HIV or aids and should have himself tested a.s.a.p. Because the odds are that this woman will never be loyal to 1 guy but probably has several on the go, paying or not, including as most have, a hanger on Thai boyfriend. Many if not seeking an immediate earner will be looking for ways to obtain a residence and visas in the hope of living abroad and view the gullible farang as a means of leaving Thailand. Whether the OP wants to face the facts and believe or not is up to him, and how far he decides to take this adventure is at his own risk and discretion. Just a typical poster branding every bar girl as the same. Surely some of them can be good they can't all be the same? By the way she is not the love of my life. Seen her for 5 months hardly love of my life. Love of my life was my previous girlfriend. Ten girls work at the bar i use. Two of them "do not" go with customers as they have got boy friends in England and Germany. So lets get used to the idea that some girls can be and are faithful. Thank you it's nice to hear from someone that this is a practice that happens in the bars. She seems very genuine about not bar fining and is getting a bit annoyed now about me questioning it all the time. She tells me a lot about her night and about the customers so confidently it just seems true. She says there's another girl in the bar who doesn't bar fine that has a boyfriend from America but she also says there's still a lot of girls in the bar who bar fine and have boyfriends and she doesn't like it. Been questioning her a lot with all that everyone has said, and I need to stop it or she'll eventually have enough and give up and see no point in us. As regards the money she earns I think it's a very decent amount considering she doesn't bar fine. 12,500 baht basic bar pay for dancing. 6,000 baht for shows. 50 baht per lady drink and she can get up to 20 lady drinks in a night quite easy but let's say she averages 15=750 baht working lets say 25 nights a month = 18,750 baht plus any tips she gets for shows or drinking with customers it all adds up very quickly. She has a lady come in regular with her Norwegian boyfriend that has a lot of money and she sits and drinks with her. She buys champagne etc and she gets 2,000+baht off her for sitting drinking with her for the night. You imagine she came to the bar 10 nights a month that would be 20,000+ just off her. Most normal working thais get around 8000 baht. She gets 18,500 + 50 baht per drink and tips. This could easily amount to 40,000-50,000 baht per month. Is that not enough for a thai to live pretty comfortably especially as her room only sets her back 4,000 a month? She drinks 20 drinks a night...every night? Impressive. Do you think this volume of alcohol could possibly change her attitude to going with guys? I know if I had 20 beers...actually who am I kidding. If I had 20 beers I'd probably fall asleep in a puddle of my own urine...just saying. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anotheruser Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Please, whatever you decide to do, wear condoms. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtoad Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Probably too late Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scoteng Posted September 5, 2014 Author Share Posted September 5, 2014 She drinks tequila shots. What she does is get a guy to buy her a drink and egg him on to drink it so she can get more bought for her. That is definitely true as she did that with me when I first met her in the bar. I ended up necking most of her tequila shots. She also forces herself to throw up sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post mrtoad Posted September 5, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted September 5, 2014 (edited) She drinks tequila shots. What she does is get a guy to buy her a drink and egg him on to drink it so she can get more bought for her. That is definitely true as she did that with me when I first met her in the bar. I ended up necking most of her tequila shots. She also forces herself to throw up sometimes.She sounds like a keeper Edited September 5, 2014 by mrtoad 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Her jewellery don't look to cheap. Mind you, you're not at that stage yet. She's a sweet looking girl, seems over twenty though. Not sure it was a good idea to post on TVF given the number of budding private eyes there appear to be on here. Ha ha she bought that necklace as soon as I returned to the UK the first time. She said she bought it with the money I paid her for her company. Think it cost her 20,000 baht and she showed me the shop where she got it from. She openly admits that first time I went to Thailand I was just about the money, but she started liking me properly towards end of my holiday and she said she expected me to go home and not return to see her. I kept in touch with her everyday and she liked that and she knew I was more serious, then I returned to see her and we got on really well, just like any normal couple would do. If it's real 40-50k, I also see bracelets and rings. That is a lot of work consuming lady drinks. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post DLock Posted September 5, 2014 Popular Post Share Posted September 5, 2014 She drinks tequila shots. What she does is get a guy to buy her a drink and egg him on to drink it so she can get more bought for her. That is definitely true as she did that with me when I first met her in the bar. I ended up necking most of her tequila shots. She also forces herself to throw up sometimes. Scooter...you are pretty new to the scene, but she is showing many years of experience. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ATF Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 She drinks tequila shots. What she does is get a guy to buy her a drink and egg him on to drink it so she can get more bought for her. That is definitely true as she did that with me when I first met her in the bar. I ended up necking most of her tequila shots. She also forces herself to throw up sometimes. Scooter...you are pretty new to the scene, but she is showing many years of experience. Yes Scooter she is not a lowly bar girl she's a hostess. A real diamond. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtoad Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 This thread is just brilliant. If its a troll, OP great work. If it isn't a troll OP, great work and you make a great couple 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherOneAmerican Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 She drinks tequila shots. What she does is get a guy to buy her a drink and egg him on to drink it so she can get more bought for her. That is definitely true as she did that with me when I first met her in the bar. I ended up necking most of her tequila shots. She also forces herself to throw up sometimes. Scooter...you are pretty new to the scene, but she is showing many years of experience. From the photo, age somewhere between 26 and 32. Assume she started working at age 20, assume 1-2 customers every day. 6 years at 500 per year (5 day working week), that's a minimum of 3,000 customers. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrtoad Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 I dudnt see the pics. Anyone know here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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