Gordy Gambino Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 OK we had a big public split up and I came home and came to the gross realisation I can't live without her. Ive rebooked Patts but was going any way. Ive known her a long time since last year when I was going to marry the other Issan girl. She tell me I have to go see Momma in Issan. Am I in trouble here? Like is momma gonna give me that look like I know what you been doing to my daughter type look. So I send her money via Western Union and I don't even have to tell her where to go to get money. Am I in trouble here? So I ring my ex fiancée and say me just give ( bargirl ) money from my home and I want you to see what she does for the rest of the night. She nearly blew the speaker out of my phone. Am I in trouble here? So I ring my tilak and she say she went out and drank 30 tequilas. Am I in trouble here? I apologised you know for stuff , the usual something about other girls and ...... Am I in trouble here? So now she will want more money. I am totally screwed here. Iv'e fallen in love with a bargirl that is a chronic alcoholic. This is karma payback crap for all the bullshit I've dished out when I was a better alco than her ( ive been sober 5 years ) She say she not only love me for my money And folks I kid you not guess what im thinking of buying her !!! Big family I get 6 Pattaya bargirls thrown in...that's right theres her and 5 farm fresh well some more than other bargirls. They are a total bunch of sluts theres not a cashier between them. Ah man this is gonna end so bad. She wants to marry me that's what this Issan thing is about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redandyellow Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 " Iv'e fallen in love with a bargirl that is a chronic alcoholic..." Looking for a beer bar in Patts will get you a doppelganger, but perhaps you should consider finding a Thai woman from the other 98%, that don't work in the sex trade.. After all, you never know how many lowest-common denominator farang she had to deal with, before you came on the scene, on the erstwhile white horse.. Signed, Many good Thai girls forgo the 3 date rule... ... thinking with the big head also works.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post redandyellow Posted January 18, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 18, 2015 "Beauty, in projection and perceiving, is 99.9 % attitude." - Anonymous Possible qualifications to allow me to write this advice include being married to a (wonderful) Thai woman, having a life in Thailand before I met her, and spending some years in the country. I also read a lot about all things South-East Asia; it's probably my favorite hobby, next to about ten other things. My wife Aiew told me that when she came to Canada 5 years ago, she was quite shocked to see nude Caucasian and Asian women in the Ladies change room at the local swimming pool, prancing around as if there was nothing wrong... Thai women are very modest you see, and are masters at changing whilst having a towel wrapped around them. Did you realize that out of the huge pool of available Thai women, legions of excellent quality ones are NOT on the take - they will take good care of you though, and make you very happy for the rest of your life. It sometimes requires on-the-ground experience though, to cut through the onion-layers of the mirage, and lessen potential grief for others keen to meet a good Thai woman. To succeed you need a goal; there are concrete steps to take before you finally meet her, so kindly allow me to assist you in this exciting and rewarding process, as it were. You are ultimately the master of your own destiny though; my goal is just to help you make the best choices possible for yourself, in regards to the subject matter, Thai women! If you want to meet a wonderful Thai lady for a long-term relationship and marriage - fly at it, but do your homework first! After all, you are your own best self-advocate, so it behooves you to do a little research of your own, before you embark on the most exciting adventure of your life - discovering the bliss of a great relationship with a traditional Thai lady! Like walking on top of an iceberg, you'll only scratch the surface when you go to Thailand half-cocked. Inherent dangers lay in wait, just under the surface - for the unwary, foolish and foolhardy foreigner in Thailand. There are way more good women in Thailand than bad, but a disproportionate amount of guys go for the 'bad' girls, just like they did in their home countries. Buying sex without love work for some forever, but most want to settle down with what they perceive is a good Thai woman... Dude, I've experienced the butterfly life, which amounts to having sex with different Thai woman pretty much every day of the week - and I've been also been on the other side - as a faithful husband to my Thai wife. I've gone full circle.. Let's face it - many western men (farang) find Thai women attractive, and why not? If you're still reading, you probably agree, LOL. By and large, Thailand missed the Women's Liberation movement of the 1960's. That fact is no slight on western women, but it renders the Thai woman a bit different by default. Born into a system of family-first, Thai women are brought up to be jai dee (good hearted), naturally happy and good-natured. They are imbued with a superior work ethic, and generally like their man to be the 'leader' in a marriage. It also doesn't hurt that Thai women are known around the world as being some of the most attractive women on the planet... However, if you think for one minute that a Thai-farang, inter-racial, inter-cultural marriage is made in heaven by default - please reconsider. It takes plenty of work, so roll up your sleeves. Ultimately, you'll make the marriage what it is by dint of your behaviors and attitudes. With the mistakes I made, I cannot imagine a better situation these last eight years, since I met her in Bangkok. In Thailand, almost any western man has the capability to find a superior, beautiful Thai woman inside and out - if he acts accordingly and makes good choices. For us farang - being married to a good Thai lady is like being a parent - it comes with huge rewards and challenges. Let's get that straight right off the bat, so the reader won't get the idea that eternal bliss lies within their grasp - it doesn't. You'll have the time of your life though, with many existentially rewarding and troublesome events, just like every marriage that ever existed. Thai women are very traditional in the sense that they want the man to be the leader in the arrangement. As the leader in the partnership, it doesn't mean the man should take advantage of his exalted position - in fact he does so at his 'peril.' The proactive man will quickly realize he's got it very good, and will endeavor to nurture the relationship - and yes - even help her and her family with money as needed. You'll discover how to screen out the 'undesirables' - and find a fantastic Thai partner for life. I put undesirables in quotations - because very few Thai women are horrible people (they are out there though - in small numbers). You see, when you date a few (or many) Thai women in the process of discovering your ultimate 'Thai beauty' (if you're like me), you'll quickly find that you have empathy for most of them at the core - because you care about people, right? Your journey will be as rewarding as the destination, which may be marriage - and a very happy life with an A-grade, generally highly sexual (compared to western standards) Thai lady. Or it may be you just want to sow your wild oats in Thailand - and if the right Thai women comes along.. My wife has a Chinese background (incoming...), so we had a lot of traditional Chinese activities at our wedding. Some Thai expats scoff at the notion of Thai-Chinese wives, as they consider it much more of a rarity than it really is. No matter the location or religion of the individual, there are fantastic Thai women in all corners of the country, bar none. If you're the type of foreign man ( farang ) that wants to quit the butterfly scene and settle down with one good woman, there are literally thousands of Thai women that would suit your ultimate emotional, social and physical needs - and once you find one of them you'll probably stop at practically nothing to gain her favor! The number one rule is - once you meet her in person, you should probably stop playing the field! She may (many quality Thai women will insist on this - as it is a BIG trump car) ask you to hold off on sex until marriage, but don't panic - you'll already know she wants you from her actions. She'll probably tell you to go see a 'short time' bar-girl in the interim. to relieve inherent sexual tension, because she'll assume BY DEFAULT that as farang - we cannot hold off on sex, even for a little while. Right or wrong, this is how she's been taught in her culture. Sometimes you can make that work in your favor.. In conclusion, beware the bad girls..for like a passion fruit vine, they will take the host (the deluded farang), envelop him, chew him up, and spit him out... NEXT! I wish you all the best Dude, r and y 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrRed Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 That's you told Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jip99 Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 Looks fine to me, you seem well-suited. Mamma will not give a toss what you have been doing with her daughter - as long as the cash cow is sending money home. Take ATM card. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matej Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 Welcome in Thailand and man up for God's sake. How old are you? Next time don't look for a partner in bars, and if you are newbie here definitely not in Pattaya, nana plaza and so on ... well know places. The best what can you do is to leave, don't say anything and just leave. You might end up very bad if you stay with her/ them ... naked with no money!!! In Thailand are many down to earth, kind and nice women/kathoeys. For example start in cosmetic departments in Robinson stores ... Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post NeverSure Posted January 18, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 18, 2015 Does anyone else see a troll having a bit of fun? OP, take 3 ATM cards and a new Kubota. You'll get along fine with the mother. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redandyellow Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 Does anyone else see a troll having a bit of fun? OP, take 3 ATM cards and a new Kubota. You'll get along fine with the mother. Never Sure if the rest of us have the blinders on or not.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matej Posted January 18, 2015 Share Posted January 18, 2015 (edited) Few days ago this guy started a thread about buying a beer bar in Pattaya ... it ended up in a very creepy way. No one, who is able to board the plane, can't be stupid like this. We should rather keep an eye on him ... Edited January 18, 2015 by Matej Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Songhua Posted January 19, 2015 Share Posted January 19, 2015 So her mother raised 6 farm fresh, bargirl sluts?. Go for it. This will make a good chapter in your life story... Anxiously waiting for the "wife stole my house & money" thread.I'm waiting for the 'I cheated on my bargirl gf with three of her sisters - am I in trouble?' thread. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gordy Gambino Posted January 19, 2015 Author Share Posted January 19, 2015 I only cheated with 1 sister so im ok anyway she say nothing . I bribe her. She say Thailand cheap but nothing free. Cheap???? That bribe would sink an African nation. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TallGuyJohninBKK Posted January 19, 2015 Share Posted January 19, 2015 This is not trolling. So go see momma is like some form of acceptance ceremony. The English translation for "go see Momma" is.... "this is how much money her family will expect you to pay them in order to marry their slutty bargirl daughter / your chronic alcoholic girlfriend." Have your wallet open and be prepared. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Rimmer Posted January 19, 2015 Popular Post Share Posted January 19, 2015 Troll topic //CLOSED// 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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