Will you find the trap? (bar girl...)

[wprime]

I don't see a trap although their could be one later on. If you're 60 or more then watch out but I suspect you're much younger. So go to Sisaket with her and enjoy yourself.

I'm 22

Unless you're hideously ugly, a 22 yr old farang is a catch, she obviously realises that and wants to take you somewhere where your eye won't wander.

I'll admit, I am assuming you are beyond 2 years of age...maybe way beyond. ( your profile does not list your age )

I must ask, if you are serious or if this is another troll post?

You are paying to play with a child!

If your post is a serious one, she is playing you.

Did you know the human brain does not fully mature until about 222 years of age???

You should grow up and find a woman.

Leave the children alone.

If not, you will get exactly what you deserve.

P.S. How can you justify paying a child or anyone for sex if you only have 4000 to your name?

With an income of only 20,000 per month, you will barely have enough money to survive in Thailand..and you are spending it on an 18 year old "starfish"??

You are well on your way to becoming one of those sorry expats we see sleeping on a Bangkok sidewalk in broad daylight.

Go home, earn some real money , save for your future and come back when you can afford to live here.

Again, grow up!

The human brain never 'matures', it's always capable of growth. In terms of psychological development, this is likewise a continuing process - the point of maturity is a matter of opinion.

I love the term starfish though, it took me a moment to figure it out, you crack me up mate.

[EmptyHead]

Don't worry. You are 22 and she is 18. The comments about prostitution, ripoffs and all that nasty stuff do not apply to you. Your relationship is no different that what any other young person can or will experience. In the west, young people go to bars to hookup and have quickies. The situation you experienced isn't that much different. The girl probably is happy she has met someone "normal" who is different than the usual loser she comes across. If you have the following characteristics, you most likely are appealing to the typical 18 year old girl's lust;

- The hair is on your head and not your back or arse;

- You can maintain a very firm erection without need of viagra or other drugs, and can copulate multiple times;

- You do not snore

- You have some fashion sense and do not look like those elderly twits with their fat guts in too tight shirts and varicose vein revealing capri pants.

- Your idea of fun is something more than getting drunk and smoking too many cigarettes

- If you go to a dance club, you can actually dance

- When you are together, it looks normal and not like some girl taking a customer out for a quickie or a nurse with her patient

- You have a decent body and your fat belly does not hide your feet or penis

- You do not need to trim your nose or ear hair

- You do not have ill fitting dentures or rotten teeth and bad breath

- You don't complain about everything, especially how dumb Thais are, or that the food is too spicey or your ex wife, or how your kids hate you, and you don't ridicule everyone you see such as ladyboys, homos, asians, Thai customs etc.

- If you go to the beach or a pool, people will look at you because you are cute and not because you are a fat old man in a thong

- If you have a healthy relationship with your parents/family and actually call them or send them emails.

- You know how to use a smart phone, have a vine or twitter/or snap chat or FB account

Relax. Have fun. Use a condom. Keep in touch with your family. Play safe,be polite and respectful. Use common sense. Avoid druggies, drinking and driving. Smile a lot. Stay calm and you will be fine.

Yeah, but I would be surprise if she doesn't try to relieve him of as much money has possible anyway. And what's to stop her having other sponsors? She can't respect him because he uses whores (regardless of his age).

She will get as much per month from him as she can. Maybe she'll settle for 6k and have sex with him once in a while. She'll get older guys to sponsor her for 10k a month and have sex with them more and so and and so on. She will still work in the bar and make decent money while she is younger than the rest.

they mean she is below the age of consent, though i am uncertain they are correct.

From reading a previous thread on this, I though the age of consent was as follows:

• 18 with just the girl's consent.
• 15 with marriage or parents consent.
• 13 with legal agreement (i.e. court order).

I have just leaned today that you must be 20 to be a prostitute. I actually thought it was 18, but you learn something new everyday, I suppose. Now, I realize why I have never met an 18 year old massage worker - they all just say they are 20 . Actually quite scary.

Edited July 12, 2015 by EmptyHead

[brewsterbudgen]

Don't worry. You are 22 and she is 18. The comments about prostitution, ripoffs and all that nasty stuff do not apply to you. Your relationship is no different that what any other young person can or will experience. In the west, young people go to bars to hookup and have quickies. The situation you experienced isn't that much different. The girl probably is happy she has met someone "normal" who is different than the usual loser she comes across. If you have the following characteristics, you most likely are appealing to the typical 18 year old girl's lust;

- The hair is on your head and not your back or arse;

- You can maintain a very firm erection without need of viagra or other drugs, and can copulate multiple times;

- You do not snore

- You have some fashion sense and do not look like those elderly twits with their fat guts in too tight shirts and varicose vein revealing capri pants.

- Your idea of fun is something more than getting drunk and smoking too many cigarettes

- If you go to a dance club, you can actually dance

- When you are together, it looks normal and not like some girl taking a customer out for a quickie or a nurse with her patient

- You have a decent body and your fat belly does not hide your feet or penis

- You do not need to trim your nose or ear hair

- You do not have ill fitting dentures or rotten teeth and bad breath

- You don't complain about everything, especially how dumb Thais are, or that the food is too spicey or your ex wife, or how your kids hate you, and you don't ridicule everyone you see such as ladyboys, homos, asians, Thai customs etc.

- If you go to the beach or a pool, people will look at you because you are cute and not because you are a fat old man in a thong

- If you have a healthy relationship with your parents/family and actually call them or send them emails.

- You know how to use a smart phone, have a vine or twitter/or snap chat or FB account

Relax. Have fun. Use a condom. Keep in touch with your family. Play safe,be polite and respectful. Use common sense. Avoid druggies, drinking and driving. Smile a lot. Stay calm and you will be fine.

Yeah, but I would be surprise if she doesn't try to relieve him of as much money has possible anyway. And what's to stop her having other sponsors? She can't respect him because he used whores (regardless of his age).

She will get as much per month from him as she can. Maybe she'll settle of 6k and have sex with him once in a while. She'll get an older guys to sponsor her for 10k a month and have sex with him more and so and and so on. She will still work in the bar and make decent money while she is younger than the rest.

they mean she is below the age of consent, though i am uncertain they are correct.

From reading a previous thread on this, I though the age of consent was as follows:

• 18 with just the girl's consent.
• 15 with marriage or parents consent.
• 13 with legal agreement (i.e. court order).

I have just leaned today that you must be 20 to be a prostitute. I actually thought it was 18, but you learn something new everyday, I suppose. Now, I realize why I have never met an 18 year old massage worker - they all just say they are 20 . Actually quite scary.

As has already been pointed out, 18 is the minimum age for prostitution in Thailand, not 20.

[EmptyHead]

My bad Brewburger. Sorry, I didn't read the whole thread.

That's a relief though.

[farang000999]

She is probably unhappy doing what she is doing and is desperate to stop and likes you. Perhaps 20k a month and not having to do that anymore sounds very good.

[farang000999]

But 20k a month may not be very impressive to Mom and Dad.

[chrisinth]

I don't see a trap although their could be one later on. If you're 60 or more then watch out but I suspect you're much younger. So go to Sisaket with her and enjoy yourself.

I'm 22

Think it must be asked, if you're 22, you meet a girl outside of a bar, why are you paying for sex here?

You have set your own trap my friend, even bought the bait..........................

[NoshowJones]

I don't see a trap although their could be one later on. If you're 60 or more then watch out but I suspect you're much younger. So go to Sisaket with her and enjoy yourself.

But keep in mind #3, it is not beyond the realms of possibility.

[NoshowJones]

I don't see a trap although their could be one later on. If you're 60 or more then watch out but I suspect you're much younger. So go to Sisaket with her and enjoy yourself.

I'm 22

At that age you will have a lot to learn about Thailand and it's people, It's a great country, and for the most part has great people, but do be careful.

[fey]

Pregnancy and inability to use a condom comes to mind. How's that for a trap?

[NoshowJones]

Don't worry. You are 22 and she is 18. The comments about prostitution, ripoffs and all that nasty stuff do not apply to you. Your relationship is no different that what any other young person can or will experience. In the west, young people go to bars to hookup and have quickies. The situation you experienced isn't that much different. The girl probably is happy she has met someone "normal" who is different than the usual loser she comes across. If you have the following characteristics, you most likely are appealing to the typical 18 year old girl's lust;

- The hair is on your head and not your back or arse;

- You can maintain a very firm erection without need of viagra or other drugs, and can copulate multiple times;

- You do not snore

- You have some fashion sense and do not look like those elderly twits with their fat guts in too tight shirts and varicose vein revealing capri pants.

- Your idea of fun is something more than getting drunk and smoking too many cigarettes

- If you go to a dance club, you can actually dance

- When you are together, it looks normal and not like some girl taking a customer out for a quickie or a nurse with her patient

- You have a decent body and your fat belly does not hide your feet or penis

- You do not need to trim your nose or ear hair

- You do not have ill fitting dentures or rotten teeth and bad breath

- You don't complain about everything, especially how dumb Thais are, or that the food is too spicey or your ex wife, or how your kids hate you, and you don't ridicule everyone you see such as ladyboys, homos, asians, Thai customs etc.

- If you go to the beach or a pool, people will look at you because you are cute and not because you are a fat old man in a thong

- If you have a healthy relationship with your parents/family and actually call them or send them emails.

- You know how to use a smart phone, have a vine or twitter/or snap chat or FB account

Relax. Have fun. Use a condom. Keep in touch with your family. Play safe,be polite and respectful. Use common sense. Avoid druggies, drinking and driving. Smile a lot. Stay calm and you will be fine.

Yeah, but I would be surprise if she doesn't try to relieve him of as much money has possible anyway. And what's to stop her having other sponsors? She can't respect him because he used whores (regardless of his age).

She will get as much per month from him as she can. Maybe she'll settle of 6k and have sex with him once in a while. She'll get an older guys to sponsor her for 10k a month and have sex with him more and so and and so on. She will still work in the bar and make decent money while she is younger than the rest.

they mean she is below the age of consent, though i am uncertain they are correct.

From reading a previous thread on this, I though the age of consent was as follows:

• 18 with just the girl's consent.
• 15 with marriage or parents consent.
• 13 with legal agreement (i.e. court order).

I have just leaned today that you must be 20 to be a prostitute. I actually thought it was 18, but you learn something new everyday, I suppose. Now, I realize why I have never met an 18 year old massage worker - they all just say they are 20 . Actually quite scary.

As has already been pointed out, 18 is the minimum age for prostitution in Thailand, not 20.

I think 20 is the minimum age for bargirls.

[brewsterbudgen]

Don't worry. You are 22 and she is 18. The comments about prostitution, ripoffs and all that nasty stuff do not apply to you. Your relationship is no different that what any other young person can or will experience. In the west, young people go to bars to hookup and have quickies. The situation you experienced isn't that much different. The girl probably is happy she has met someone "normal" who is different than the usual loser she comes across. If you have the following characteristics, you most likely are appealing to the typical 18 year old girl's lust;

- The hair is on your head and not your back or arse;

- You can maintain a very firm erection without need of viagra or other drugs, and can copulate multiple times;

- You do not snore

- You have some fashion sense and do not look like those elderly twits with their fat guts in too tight shirts and varicose vein revealing capri pants.

- Your idea of fun is something more than getting drunk and smoking too many cigarettes

- If you go to a dance club, you can actually dance

- When you are together, it looks normal and not like some girl taking a customer out for a quickie or a nurse with her patient

- You have a decent body and your fat belly does not hide your feet or penis

- You do not need to trim your nose or ear hair

- You do not have ill fitting dentures or rotten teeth and bad breath

- You don't complain about everything, especially how dumb Thais are, or that the food is too spicey or your ex wife, or how your kids hate you, and you don't ridicule everyone you see such as ladyboys, homos, asians, Thai customs etc.

- If you go to the beach or a pool, people will look at you because you are cute and not because you are a fat old man in a thong

- If you have a healthy relationship with your parents/family and actually call them or send them emails.

- You know how to use a smart phone, have a vine or twitter/or snap chat or FB account

Relax. Have fun. Use a condom. Keep in touch with your family. Play safe,be polite and respectful. Use common sense. Avoid druggies, drinking and driving. Smile a lot. Stay calm and you will be fine.

Yeah, but I would be surprise if she doesn't try to relieve him of as much money has possible anyway. And what's to stop her having other sponsors? She can't respect him because he used whores (regardless of his age).

She will get as much per month from him as she can. Maybe she'll settle of 6k and have sex with him once in a while. She'll get an older guys to sponsor her for 10k a month and have sex with him more and so and and so on. She will still work in the bar and make decent money while she is younger than the rest.

they mean she is below the age of consent, though i am uncertain they are correct.

From reading a previous thread on this, I though the age of consent was as follows:

• 18 with just the girl's consent.
• 15 with marriage or parents consent.
• 13 with legal agreement (i.e. court order).

I have just leaned today that you must be 20 to be a prostitute. I actually thought it was 18, but you learn something new everyday, I suppose. Now, I realize why I have never met an 18 year old massage worker - they all just say they are 20 . Actually quite scary.

As has already been pointed out, 18 is the minimum age for prostitution in Thailand, not 20.

I think 20 is the minimum age for bargirls.

20 is the minimum age for consuming alcohol in a bar, but it's 18 for working in a bar! Of course bargirls under 20 only drink soft drinks at work

[chrisinth]

Just an interesting fact, sex is legal at 18, drinking is legal at 20.

Now, employment..............

It is legal to employ an 18yo to work in a bar, so watch your lady drinks here with the staff. An exploit I'm surprised isn't used more.................

In the case of the OP, he states he met a 'bargirl', but not in the bar. If he paid money for sex, then this is solicitation which is something else again.

Not sure where the reference to 'bargirl' came from in this instance.

[chrisinth]

As has already been pointed out, 18 is the minimum age for prostitution in Thailand, not 20.

I think 20 is the minimum age for bargirls.

20 is the minimum age for consuming alcohol in a bar, but it's 18 for working in a bar! Of course bargirls under 20 only drink soft drinks at work

Sorry BB, looks like we posted at the same time......................

[Heng]

The trap is to latch on to anyone who will lessen their burden. You have to look at it from their point of view. You know what financial security for a beggar is? Knowing they will have something to eat today.

[DLock]

Hookers at 22?

Your life will never be the same again.

At 22, I think I'd be racking up University girls rather than paying for my turn in the queue.

But that's just me.

[slipperylobster]

It is very typical to pay for two short times boom booms....and get the third free.

You won't be first..but you can be next.

[faraday]

Just Googled the OP's nic, he's somewhat active on t'net.

[slipperylobster]

Hookers at 22?

Your life will never be the same again.

At 22, I think I'd be racking up University girls rather than paying for my turn in the queue.

But that's just me.

He might hang around the bar a few days and see how many of us old farts are getting the same deal...

[slipperylobster]

The trap is to latch on to anyone who will lessen their burden. You have to look at it from their point of view. You know what financial security for a beggar is? Knowing they will have something to eat today.

You will notice, however, that in Thailand, that is a bunch of crap.

These girls eat more often than I do.

They are in it for the big bucks...not a MacSandwich.

Most of these suckers are each forking over 10 or 20 thousand baht a month...lol...in the mail !!!

The more on the line..the more income. They are paying off cars and houses...not meals.

[FireMedic]

I showed her that I have only 4000 baths in my Kasikorn account, and about 20.000 per month of revenue.

Are you retarded?

[Tonto21]

Some are so sharp they will cut themselves!

OP..... Maybe she likes you....Maybe

Maybe she is not after your money

Maybe she see something in you..... You don't see.

She is young...you are young..... Maybe that all there is to it..... Maybe.

But whether you like her or not, keep this up and she won't hang around.

[samuibeachcomber]

Why would you show her your financial status after 4 days...are you daft man ? never show a Thai woman anything about your finances !

You've paid her for sex and she is 18 years old.......yes she will be your true love forever....you found a gem !

The spider and the fly.

[faraday]

Thing is though, we were all young once...& no doubt made some daft mistakes with girls & many other things too.

But it's how we learn....& eventually become the serene & mature adults we are today.

[Cypress Hill]

Some aspects of this topic of discussion are really quite disturbing.

One of the reasons I would sooner die than attend a Thaivisa function.

Just knowing that I could potentially be within spitting distance of ageing, lecherous old men who see nothing morally-wrong with subjecting an 18 year old girl to the trauma of a sexual encounter with a Viagra-powered mummy, turns my gut.

[samuibeachcomber]

I don't see a trap although their could be one later on. If you're 60 or more then watch out but I suspect you're much younger. So go to Sisaket with her and enjoy yourself.

I'm 22

bar girls are clever,just like a fisherman catching a fish the bait is added(short time),no mention of money after,she may even buy you little inexpensive things to dull your senses.Beware the "hit" will come later.

You can do better,university girls,girls working in shops,girls that have real jobs still want to be taken care of with someone that has some money to support them.Going to sisaket is a bad idea in my opinion.Just keep shagging and smiling,by all means pay your dues and move on to the next one.You will soon understand everything because it will all be repeated to you over and over again like a broken record.

[samuibeachcomber]

sorry i have just seen your post and you are 22.When you have nothing you have nothing to lose,go and have a good time,dont fall in love with these little temptresses...it could drive you crazy.

[TheFishman1]

You ask where the trap well how about BAR GIRL GET REAL MOVE ON NEXT

[brewsterbudgen]

Some aspects of this topic of discussion are really quite disturbing.

One of the reasons I would sooner die than attend a Thaivisa function.

Just knowing that I could potentially be within spitting distance of ageing, lecherous old men who see nothing morally-wrong with subjecting an 18 year old girl to the trauma of a sexual encounter with a Viagra-powered mummy, turns my gut.

My God, how old are you if you think someone who is 22 is an aging lecherous old man?! 12?

[MobileContent]

It's against the law for a prostitute to be under 20.

The bar is breaking the law and may be punished by a huge fine.

You too.

And that's the trap, her family will have you arrested, and blackmail you for a huge amount of money to be let out of jail.

It's amazing how fast a poor foreigner can find 250,000bht when being held in a Thai jail.

No in fact it is 18 years.