What Do Thai Girls Expect From A Farang?

[klink]

Hi

Im trying to understand how things work in thailand and more about thai girls. It seems that many girls i Thailand are looking for a farang relationship. Im thinking why would they do this unless it was for some economical reason. Does this mean that they are just on the lookout for a better more comfortable life (which is understandable)... hum. This got me thinking about the expectations they would have on a farang, Im refering to a regular thai girl looking for a farang not a bargirl.

I would like to have some kind of idea what would be expected from me, can anyone tell me?

By the way, Im 26 years old and from Sweden.

[PanzerJohn]

I'd stay at home mate,they'll eat you alive.

[kayo]

Hi

Im trying to understand how things work in thailand and more about thai girls.

So are most of us mate. Some of us have been trying for years.

So are most if us...

Maybe you wish to ask the moderators to move this question to the jokes forum.

edit: to attempt a partial introductory reply>

Bear in mind that most foreigners were only known to thai people during wars, 1st ww a little, 2 ww a LOT and then of course korea vietnam,

therefore most foreigners who arrived in this country initially were military types, only here for rest and recreation, and spent money (lots) on booze and women... and as a result it all went a bit pear shaped, YES, even for the decent girls who didn't know HOW to get to know us differently...

I'll allow others to continue...

Edited October 8, 2006 by kayo

[game4shame]

Im refering to a regular thai girl looking for a farang not a bargirl.

well, that can sometimes be a problem!! it's not always that black and white!!

[ilyushin]

Reach for the sky! Not all but most will only want your money. The others will take material stuff too.

[samran]

Im trying to understand how things work in thailand and more about thai girls. It seems that many girls i Thailand are looking for a farang relationship.

hmmm, and you got this impression from visiting where in Thailand exactly???

[bkkmadness]

Im trying to understand how things work in thailand and more about thai girls. It seems that many girls i Thailand are looking for a farang relationship.

hmmm, and you got this impression from visiting where in Thailand exactly???

You could get that impression from many parts of Thailand, its certainly true. What's your point?

[lannarebirth]

Hi

Q:Im trying to understand how things work in thailand and more about thai girls. It seems that many girls i Thailand are looking for a farang relationship. Im thinking why would they do this unless it was for some economical reason. A:Does this mean that they are just on the lookout for a better more comfortable life (which is understandable).

I'd say you understand things pretty well already.

[OldAsiaHand]

I'd stay at home mate,they'll eat you alive.

Second that. When you start out this naive, you've really got no chance at all.

[klink]

Tell me exactly how they will eat me alive? give me the rundown how it works please.

Im trying to understand how things work in thailand and more about thai girls. It seems that many girls i Thailand are looking for a farang relationship.

hmmm, and you got this impression from visiting where in Thailand exactly???

Samui and also in Sweden I see thai girls. And there are websites where thai girls are looking for farangs.

[Khutan]

....hmmm, and you got this impression from visiting where in Thailand exactly???

Normally starts at about BTS Ploenchit and goes south (south-east) for about 2,500 Meters.

But, I work in an office, and there are some very nice and polite ladies working there. Maybe one could mis-understand their friendlyness and politeness for wanting a relationship.

[samran]

....hmmm, and you got this impression from visiting where in Thailand exactly???

Normally starts at about BTS Ploenchit and goes south (south-east) for about 2,500 Meters.

But, I work in an office, and there are some very nice and polite ladies working there. Maybe one could mis-understand their friendlyness and politeness for wanting a relationship.

Yeah, I've worked in Thai offices too for the past 5 years. All this time I thought my fellow co-workers were unhappy singletons or married ladies gagging to dump their Thai husbands. Go figure.

And Khutan, at this magical mile (and a half) SE of BTS Ploenchit, will the women there want me for my mind or my witty conversational style, or is it something else?

[mark henry]

Suggest you read some books (Culture Shock, Thailand confidential ect) and keep an open mind..a very open mind!

[phazey]

I just looked at my wife in a serious way and said "Darling, what do you want from me?"

She gave me a puzzled look for a few seconds, then said "Somtam."

[seanocasey]

just stay alert.

keep account of all monies spent sent.

dont take anything on face value.

allways smile allways even when you are pis* off.

once she knows that you have your eyes open, are careing, considerate are not a walking ATM.

Mabye she will eventually fall in love with you.

[Khutan]

....And Khutan, at this magical mile (and a half) SE of BTS Ploenchit, will the women there want me for my mind or my witty conversational style, or is it something else?

I think I hear the words mumbled to me I am a Shining Whit So I vote for whitty conversation.

[Thaddeus]

I just looked at my wife in a serious way and said "Darling, what do you want from me?"

She gave me a puzzled look for a few seconds, then said "Somtam."

Twice a day? ..... mine does ( for the PC brigade, she isn't mine, nor I am hers.... it's a term of affection )

[Cent]

I just looked at my wife in a serious way and said "Darling, what do you want from me?"

She gave me a puzzled look for a few seconds, then said "Somtam."

Thanks! Best laugh I've had all week!

Cent

[elsie]

First off, we are all not money grabbing little bitches, you know.

Yes, many Thai girls are seeking relationship with foreigners. First thing that came to mind is "Opposite attracts". Many white males find us attractive. And many of us find white males attractive too. And yes, better financial status is a part of the whole thing also. Another thing is that a lot of Thai girls believe are more faithful than Thai men - which I personally like to keep races out of it. Anyone can be a cheater.

Sometimes, it's difficult for Thai girls who have dated foreign men before to date Thai men. A good number of Thai men wouldn't touch Thai girls who have been with foreigners. So, if a Thai girl has dated a foreigner, her chance of hooking up with a Thai guy gets slimmer.

And last but not least, we believe that foreigners are better between the sheets.

So what do we expect? A nice loving caring handsome boyfriend/husband who is good in the sack.

[Old Croc]

So what do we expect? A nice loving caring handsome boyfriend/husband who is good in the sack.

"And yes, better financial status is a part of the whole thing also."

[Clearskyinbkk]

Hi,

I totally agree with LovelyCutie.

Well, I think many farangs got a wrong idea about Thai girls who are looking for a farang relationship. Yes, some Thai girls may look for farangs for money. As a regular Thai girl, I believe not everyone is looking for a farang just for money or comfortable life. Many of them just feel that they like farang. It's just a feeling inside that tells them that farangs are their soulmates. Some may have bad experiences about Thai guys; so they feel that farangs are better than Thais. Some may feel that farangs are more romantic than thais; while many find farang more attractive.

Many well-educated thai girls can make money by their own. They don't care about money from the guys. Take a look at a nice Thai girl. You'll eventually find out that what she expects from you is just love, understanding and sincerity. So please understand that many Thai girls who are looking for farangs is just for sincere love, not money.

[elsie]

That's a nice change from the usual Thai girls bashing.

So what do we expect? A nice loving caring handsome boyfriend/husband who is good in the sack.

"And yes, better financial status is a part of the whole thing also."

Yesssssssss. Although I have never got any monthly allowance from my boyfriends. Or let them pay my rent.. or phone bills.. or send money to my parents..

[Old Croc]

That's a nice change from the usual Thai girls bashing.

So what do we expect? A nice loving caring handsome boyfriend/husband who is good in the sack.

"And yes, better financial status is a part of the whole thing also."

Yesssssssss. Although I have never got any monthly allowance from my boyfriends. Or let them pay my rent.. or phone bills.. or send money to my parents..

Well, you choose the boyfriends!

Thai girl bashing? Me? Usually the other way round.

[Heng]

It's pretty simple... IF you think something financial is expected from you... take money out of the equation and only date gals from similar socio-economic backgrounds as yourself.

[bodypaul]

And last but not least, we believe that foreigners are better between the sheets.

So what do we expect? A nice loving caring handsome boyfriend/husband who is good in the sack.

PMSL Elsie .....so how come there are so many Thai girls with the typical Falang .....small, fat, bald, obnoxious, p*ssed up, ugly, loud, smelly, smokey, fashion terrorist, with a pencil between his legs that can only function with the aid of Cialis or Viagra?

P.S. As you know ..... I am not describing myself!

Edited October 8, 2006 by bodypaul

[elsie]

Well, you choose the boyfriends!

Not that I'm complaining though. Because I have a good job so I can support myself and get the folks something every now and then. Never asked anyone to do any of those things and never plan on starting.

Thai girl bashing? Me? Usually the other way round.

Nah, that was generally speaking. You know how it tends to happen.

PMSL Elsie .....so how come there are so many Thai girls with the typical Falang ..... fat, obnoxious, p*ssed up, ugly, loud, smelly, smokey, fashion terrorist, with a pencil between his legs that can only function with the aid of Cialis or Viagra?

That would give me a nightmare!

I think not everyone has so many choices due to looks, education, background, language skills, life style, job, social circle, etc.

Edited October 8, 2006 by LovelyCutie

[mark henry]

just stay alert.

keep account of all monies spent sent.

dont take anything on face value.

allways smile allways even when you are pis* off.

once she knows that you have your eyes open, are careing, considerate are not a walking ATM.

Mabye she will eventually fall in love with you.

......but don't expect it to be a cuddly, romantic western style love cos you ain't likely to get it.

[britmaveric]

Simply put its different for all women - there is no cookie cutter answer why a particular lady likes another person. Thai ladies are no different than Swedish or any other ethnicity.

[klink]

First off, we are all not money grabbing little bitches, you know.

Ok but generally you are? (at least according to the other forum members). But i will keep an open mind.

Yes, many Thai girls are seeking relationship with foreigners. First thing that came to mind is "Opposite attracts". Many white males find us attractive. And many of us find white males attractive too. And yes, better financial status is a part of the whole thing also. Another thing is that a lot of Thai girls believe are more faithful than Thai men - which I personally like to keep races out of it. Anyone can be a cheater.

Ppl seem to think that I am naive, but i don´t quite buy the "Opposite attracts" theory. sorry

Sometimes, it's difficult for Thai girls who have dated foreign men before to date Thai men. A good number of Thai men wouldn't touch Thai girls who have been with foreigners. So, if a Thai girl has dated a foreigner, her chance of hooking up with a Thai guy gets slimmer.

So thai men doesn´t really like farangs? I have been thinking about that one. I guess seeing fat, bald, obnoxious, p*ssed up, ugly, loud, smelly, smokey, fashion terrorist farangs with a nice thai lady under thair arm gets kinda annoying after a while.

And last but not least, we believe that foreigners are better between the sheets.

So what do we expect? A nice loving caring handsome boyfriend/husband who is good in the sack.

Thats it? You only expect a nice loving caring handsome boyfriend/husband who is good in the sack and better financial status. Hum.. and what does the farangs get?

So you don´t get anything financially from your farang boyfriends?

Do you mind telling me what type of work you do?

[allexx]

just stay alert.

keep account of all monies spent sent.

dont take anything on face value.

allways smile allways even when you are pis* off.

once she knows that you have your eyes open, are careing, considerate are not a walking ATM.

Mabye she will eventually fall in love with your money.