Met a Thai Girl, Need Advice

[landy77]

So I am on this cruise to Mexico and hit the spa. This Thai girl cuts my hair etc. I invited her to hang out once we reach Mexico, she said sure and we agreed to a time. I didn't take her seriously and when I walked off the ship she was waiting for me (I was an hour late). So her Thai friend was playing third wheel while she followed me around for the day. We were pretty physical the whole day and for the rest of the trip I had a little Thai girl friend if you want to call it that. The last day of the trip about five other Thai girls arrive at our table and tell me she is a good girl and we get into a conversation about keeping this going after the trip is over. I don't really know what to do with this. I have never dealt with Thai girls, ever. She was a darker complexioned Thai than the other women and had a few very generic tattoos.

[Rob13]

A Thai girl in Mexico. Ok.

[daveAustin]

Nice try.

[sipi]

"She was a darker complexioned Thai than the other women and had a few very generic tattoos".

555555

[tomwct]

Good Luck!

[landy77]

No, she was a crew member on the ship.

[cornishcarlos]

Haha...

You never dealt with Thai girls, ever ! But thought it important to mention she was darker skinned and has tattoos

Next ?

[Scotwight]

Landy I tink you may be a loll. But not to wolly. Good girl is Thai slang for lady boy.

[MissAndry]

Elderly wealthy western cruise passenger meets poor young 3rd world serving girl.

One of you is a lottery winner!

[namatjira]

Sounds like a keeper my man....I suggest you might have had luck and met the love of your life.

Marry her and be happy ever after......she will love you so much......

[theguyfromanotherforum]

She is the captain of the ship

[mcfish]

"The last day of the trip about five other Thai girls arrive at our table and tell me she is a good girl and we get into a conversation about keeping this going after the trip is over"

That would send the alarm bells and the dogs barking in my head into overdrive

[landy77]

You guys are funny. I have no intentions on knowing this person in any way. I have never had anyone be so agressive and I didn't know if that is normal or if I am the one looking stupid is my question.

[cornishcarlos]

You guys are funny. I have no intentions on knowing this person in any way. I have never had anyone be so agressive and I didn't know if that is normal or if I am the one looking stupid is my question.

To answer your question then, yes you look stupid...

[BKResort]

I hope at least you used condoms... if not....you may took a "souvenir" home....

[landy77]

I didn't have sex with her. I mainly just used her for someone to tag along with during the trip since I went alone. I am smart enough not to seal the deal with a random Thai girl on a cruise ship to Mexico.

[theguyfromanotherforum]

The problem with this story is what guy goes alone on a cruise ship?

[CharlieH]

"aggressive" ? I think "desperate" would be more fitting.

[landy77]

I am recently divorced is why

[CharlieH]

The problem with this story is what guy goes alone on a cruise ship?

Quite a high percentage of some cruises carry older divorced/widowed etc men & women. They have the time and the money.

Thats why they employ men as "dance partners" on the cruise liners too.

[shirtless]

Your a lucky guy you found your soul mate , 5555

[sipi]

Ok Landy. If you are genuine, and I will now give you the benefit of doubt; go for it. Get to know her and spend some time together.

[NickJ]

Yeah....and she is working. Based in your home country. No visa worries and.....she is gone alot....sounds great. Date her and watch for alarm claxons, like I hate my job. I wanna quit. buy me a house for my parents. lets get you resetteled in Thailand and get married......The latter not such a bad thing after TIME...and its a solid relationship .Just use your protective common sense and slip it into overdrive and keep it there for a good while.....Of course they are not all bad. But.....that being said. Thai women are master planners and manipulators. Lots of other women are as well....but a Thai girl can exzude vulnerbility and innocene that can fool even the Motion Picture Academy.

[landy77]

I would not mind visiting Thailand for a few weeks or even a few months. In the future MAYBE she could be my tour guide. If I wanted to get married to a Thai, Vietnamese or Korean girl I can go shopping around any military base in the U.S. and save on the plane tickets to Thailand. The purpose of the OP what to know if this is common behavior for Thai girls and stupid Americans.

[Fabricus]

I would not mind visiting Thailand for a few weeks or even a few months. In the future MAYBE she could be my tour guide. If I wanted to get married to a Thai, Vietnamese or Korean girl I can go shopping around any military base in the U.S. and save on the plane tickets to Thailand. The purpose of the OP what to know if this is common behavior for Thai girls and stupid Americans.

I've read your story and don't consider it remotely unusual. I don't find it particularly interesting, either.

My ex (my son's mother, in fact) worked on cruise ships. Sometime around May/June 2000 she flew to Alaska and joined a cruise ship. A few months later she sailed down to LA, transited the Panama Canal, and headed out into the Caribbean. I don't recall her stopping en route in/at Mexico.

Lots of Thai girls do this. They work as bar maids, waitresses and casino staff. My son's mother was a Service Captain.

These girls form little cliques. The Thai girls typically complain ad nauseum about the Filipinos, and everyone joins in to bash the Romanians and Bulgarians.

So yes, you can meet these girls. If they're not married or don't have boyfriends back home, they'll be single.

So what?

[colinneil]

OP you say you did not have sex

Well if that is the case you wasted your time, and hers.

[mcfish]

No sex?

"We were pretty physical the whole day and for the rest of the trip"

I guess they must have been wrestling or something, the mind boggles..

[MissAndry]

No sex?

"We were pretty physical the whole day and for the rest of the trip"

I guess they must have been wrestling or something, the mind boggles..

Probably British, we don't do sex all that much.

'Pretty physical' for us is holding hands and a good night peck on the cheek.

Recently divorced as well, he probably hasn't had sex for ten years, I know my husband (former) didn't.

[Scotwight]

No sex?

"We were pretty physical the whole day and for the rest of the trip"

I guess they must have been wrestling or something, the mind boggles..

Probably British, we don't do sex all that much.

'Pretty physical' for us is holding hands and a good night peck on the cheek.

Recently divorced as well, he probably hasn't had sex for ten years, I know my husband (former) didn't.

Right oh, one of the advantages of living in Thailand is you don't have to have sex with your wife very much.

[NativeSon360]

A Thai girl in Mexico. Ok.

FYI ~ The huge Carnival Cruise Line employs a boatload of SE Asian females (cooks, housekeepers, janitors, etc.) many of whom are Thais. Again, an FYI update