Met a Thai Girl, Need Advice

[manfredtillmann]

please, do not seek advice here where everyone is either burned or pink - glassed.

use you own judgment.

casually formed relationships, particularly those initiated on cruises or holidays, don't seem to last. but, hey... that does not mean you can't have lots of fun in the meantime.

one life only for everyone of us (and you), if you got introduced to her friends at least you know who to screw next when #1 is finished.

[lemonjelly]

She works on a boat, she must like seamen!

Sorry, couldn't stop myself

[Rayk]

No, she was a crew member on the ship.

My suggestion to you is to pay no attention to this forum when it comes to discussing Thai women and understand that most TV members are old, boring and for the most part angry individuals who have at one point probably been taken for a ride by a young Thai girl 30 years their junior and who now can't even read let alone ever give out any positive feedback.

Don't listen to any of them and do what you think is right.

Best of luck.

[mcfish]

No, she was a crew member on the ship.

My suggestion to you is to pay no attention to this forum when it comes to discussing Thai women and understand that most TV members are old, boring and for the most part angry individuals who have at one point probably been taken for a ride by a young Thai girl 30 years their junior and who now can't even read let alone ever give out any positive feedback.

Don't listen to any of them and do what you think is right.

Best of luck.

oh the irony, that is precisely how the old boring farts got taken for a ride

[Scotwight]

No, she was a crew member on the ship.

My suggestion to you is to pay no attention to this forum when it comes to discussing Thai women and understand that most TV members are old, boring and for the most part angry individuals who have at one point probably been taken for a ride by a young Thai girl 30 years their junior and who now can't even read let alone ever give out any positive feedback.

Don't listen to any of them and do what you think is right.

Best of luck.

oh the irony, that is precisely how the old boring farts got taken for a ride

Actually the irony is you are a young guy and Landy is a young guy and Rayk is a young guy. Think about a bit and you may figure it out or maybe not.

[MissAndry]

No, she was a crew member on the ship.

My suggestion to you is to pay no attention to this forum when it comes to discussing Thai women and understand that most TV members are old, boring and for the most part angry individuals who have at one point probably been taken for a ride by a young Thai girl 30 years their junior and who now can't even read let alone ever give out any positive feedback.

Don't listen to any of them and do what you think is right.

Best of luck.

oh the irony, that is precisely how the old boring farts got taken for a ride

OP claims to be a western male, 50+ and recently divorced, he fits right in with the ThaiVisa demographic!

Edited July 3, 2016 by MissAndry

[landy77]

I am a western male, but much younger than 50. I am retired from the military and staying that way.

[NickJ]

Well...my response was pretty decent....my bet she has already seen everything he owns and he is trying to impress her.....and she is thinking.........got one......now start with the 10lb test and start reeling......but it smells so innocent said the newbie.

[slipperylobster]

No problem finding this forum, to help you with your love life.

Listen well...and then do the exact opposite.

[landy77]

Thanks for the comments everyone. I don't feel like chasing a random girl on a cruise ship (unless I am on the ship). So the few days of my experience was fun and why ruin that. I learned a lot about Thailand and Thai women lol. From what I have gathered from you guys is always stay in control of yourself, finances and always have the option to bail if you want to.

[wooloomooloo]

Recently divorced as well, he probably hasn't had sex for ten years, I know my husband (former) didn't.

Your ex-husband was probably traumatised.

[eldragon]

She is the captain of the ship

Every woman wants to steer the ship until it's about to crash into the rocks. Then she hands her man the wheel and will blame him if he can't fix it.

[elgordo38]

You guys are funny. I have no intentions on knowing this person in any way. I have never had anyone be so agressive and I didn't know if that is normal or if I am the one looking stupid is my question.

She sees something she wants/likes and is going after it using her female wiles. Wile away the hours on the cruise but once you get home while she is not looking RUN FOR IT MAN!!

[blackcab]

No sex?

"We were pretty physical the whole day and for the rest of the trip"

I guess they must have been wrestling or something, the mind boggles..

Probably British, we don't do sex all that much.

'Pretty physical' for us is holding hands and a good night peck on the cheek.

Recently divorced as well, he probably hasn't had sex for ten years, I know my husband (former) didn't.

Not with you, anyway.

[MartyMcFly]

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[MissAndry]

I am a western male, but much younger than 50. I am retired from the military and staying that way.

Former SAS/Special Forces?

Even better.

[MissAndry]

No sex?

"We were pretty physical the whole day and for the rest of the trip"

I guess they must have been wrestling or something, the mind boggles..

Probably British, we don't do sex all that much.

'Pretty physical' for us is holding hands and a good night peck on the cheek.

Recently divorced as well, he probably hasn't had sex for ten years, I know my husband (former) didn't.

Not with you, anyway.

But I cook a very nice roast dinner, pizza, biscuits, custard tarts .........

[theguyfromanotherforum]

^hi anna

[jerojero]

Quick. Marry her! Before another bloke beats you to a prize gal such as her.

[HooHaa]

A Thai girl in Mexico. Ok.

i know of five thai women who bartend on cruise ships they make excellent money and all have US green cards.

the world is a larger place than you may care to admit.

[likeke]

Just don't take this Thai girl seriousy. I live in Bangkok. Been there done that.

[Berkshire]

I am a western male, but much younger than 50. I am retired from the military and staying that way.

You're confusing Thai females in the west with Thai females in Thailand. A Thai female who speaks English well and was raised in the west is more like a western female than Thai. So which are you talking about?

[landy77]

Thai girl raised in Thai, I stopped speaking to her and her friends since I am back home. It was a unique experience though.

[taiwangirl]

As others have said, this is a fake story by the OP. I know some people who work on cruise ships, and the #1 thing is not to get involved with a guest. That is automatic firing by the cruise line. They may have a relationship with another crew member, but 99.9999999% of the time, they will not with a guest. For a third world national, the salary/tips is relatively good, and there is no reason they would but that in danger for a few days romance with a passenger.

Edited July 7, 2016 by taiwangirl

[NoshowJones]

"The last day of the trip about five other Thai girls arrive at our table and tell me she is a good girl and we get into a conversation about keeping this going after the trip is over"

That would send the alarm bells and the dogs barking in my head into overdrive

and who paid for the meals for the "about five other Thai girls?" Don't tell me.

[NoshowJones]

"The last day of the trip about five other Thai girls arrive at our table and tell me she is a good girl and we get into a conversation about keeping this going after the trip is over"

That would send the alarm bells and the dogs barking in my head into overdrive

and who paid for the meals for the "about five other Thai girls?" Don't tell me.

[NoshowJones]

No sex?

"We were pretty physical the whole day and for the rest of the trip"

I guess they must have been wrestling or something, the mind boggles..

Probably British, we don't do sex all that much.

'Pretty physical' for us is holding hands and a good night peck on the cheek.

Recently divorced as well, he probably hasn't had sex for ten years, I know my husband (former) didn't.

I am beginning to like your posts MissAndry, but without being rude, is that really you on your avatar?

Or is the photo only there to prevent some posters from getting any ideas? You know what I mean.

[NoshowJones]

No sex?

"We were pretty physical the whole day and for the rest of the trip"

I guess they must have been wrestling or something, the mind boggles..

Probably British, we don't do sex all that much.

'Pretty physical' for us is holding hands and a good night peck on the cheek.

Recently divorced as well, he probably hasn't had sex for ten years, I know my husband (former) didn't.

Right oh, one of the advantages of living in Thailand is you don't have to have sex with your wife very much.

How can that be an advantage? Unless she is the photo on MissAndry's avatar.

Edited July 8, 2016 by possum1931

[NoshowJones]

No, she was a crew member on the ship.

My suggestion to you is to pay no attention to this forum when it comes to discussing Thai women and understand that most TV members are old, boring and for the most part angry individuals who have at one point probably been taken for a ride by a young Thai girl 30 years their junior and who now can't even read let alone ever give out any positive feedback.

Don't listen to any of them and do what you think is right.

Best of luck.

oh the irony, that is precisely how the old boring farts got taken for a ride

OP claims to be a western male, 50+ and recently divorced, he fits right in with the ThaiVisa demographic!

Fat, ugly, tattooed, facial haired,rich? Not unless he is one of them, though there are a few exceptions, me being one of them.

[FruitPudding]

On Monday, July 04, 2016 at 0:11 PM, MissAndry said:

But I cook a very nice roast dinner, pizza, biscuits, custard tarts .........

 

Lol.  I do enjoy your posts. 

 

But you cant present such an argument to attract a man.

 

Men's instincts don't attract them to custard tarts. It's other kinds of tarts we are instinctually attracted to.