divorce and child custody

[1970]

Hello to all

can i divorce easy and get the child custody ( 3 years old daughter )

if i have solid evidence that my  wife is a prostitute ?

evidence like 3 detective reports from 2 country's ( Australia & Germany )

and 2 website with her picture in a bordello  & mobile phone conversations with boyfriends-customers .

i don't trust allot the THAI courts or lawyers

you thing i can win with all this  ?

how long time and money i will need to finish all ?

 

ps:

my daughter is not in Thailand and she is here with me right now ,

i already win the custody in my country but i will like to win also in Thailand

and finish this marriage  .

why i care for Thailand ?

because maybe i will visit the country one day again like a tourist

and i don't want to arrested in the airport for kidnapping etc.

and if i visit Thailand i will never go together with my daughter in any case

[peterb17]

Don't believe a word of this tangled web. 

[ThaiWai]

Did it not bother you when you married her?

[melovethai]

Very suspect post

 

[does]

Very difficult question. What I would do is get a Thai lawyer and/or propose a financial "settlement" with the mother.

[TheFishman1]

Well think best to get Thai Lawyer not ask such stupid questions here and really what where you thinking marrying a Girl like that TIT

[4MyEgo]

Interesting how a court in Australia gave you custody without the presence of the mother, or at least a lawyer acting on her behalf.

 

My late brother filed for custody for his 2 daughters when they were young, the late mother of his children, was an alleged X sex worker, alcoholic and drug user, I say alleged, because I never saw her selling herself for sex, drinking like a fish or doing drugs and was allegedly living with the Sergeant of arms of the Comanchero bikie gang back then we they split up.

 

The court advised that the Sergeant of arms had an extensive criminal record, including firearms offences, drug related offences etc etc and suggested to the mother that the children could be at risk living in the same household of such a person and suggested she find alternative accommodation for the children within a 2 week period or the court could give full custody to the father, the mother said to the judge; that he had no authority to tell her who she could and could not live with, on the contrary the judge said, well I am not leaving him she stated, with the judges swift reply being; "full custody to the father effective immediately", badda bing, badda band, badda boom.

 

But wait, there is a happy ending, the girls were 5 & 7 at the time, it cost my brother $160,000 in legal fees, he raised his daughter and put them in a private school, when the oldest one turned 16 she moved to her mothers and of course the 14 year old went too, suffice to say, my brother went to a lot of bother, for what.

 

I have a daughter back in Oz who is now 20, from one and a half years of age I shared custody equally with her mother, up until December we had a good relationship, suffice to say, she no longer talks to me now, and I have no understanding as to what brought it on, but hey, that's her choice.

 

The moral of the story is, careful what you wish for, my best mans kids didn't want to stay with him anymore, aged 7 & 9 at the time, now adults, he said to me at the time, mate, if they don't want Dad, then Dad moves on, not going to get stressed and fall apart over it, I said your a hard man, but now I know what he means, so to speak.

 

From as far as I see (with respect), your X is making an income, if the kids are not in harms way, then what's the problem.

[BlindMagician]

Post her face photo, and see how many TVF members say that were her client.

[colinneil]

I think this is a troll post.

Something not quite right with his story.

[peterb17]

Well done people- think everyone realises this is total nonsense - or of course something dreamed up - to hopefully increase advertising revenue - don't believe every sensational post on ThaiVisa

will probably be banned for life.

[mikecha]

Amasing story   after 10 beers    

[abab]

2 hours ago, TheFishman1 said:

Well think best to get Thai Lawyer not ask such stupid questions here and really what where you thinking marrying a Girl like that TIT

 

Yes, you are right, better not stop stupid replies like yours !

 

 

[BlindMagician]

1 hour ago, peterb17 said:

Well done people- think everyone realises this is total nonsense - or of course something dreamed up - to hopefully increase advertising revenue - don't believe every sensational post on ThaiVisa

will probably be banned for life.

I never believe anything anyone posts here, or on any non reviewed validated content type site. It could be anything from mere opinion to trolling or subversive agendas as you suggest. Know the quality of your sources.

[elgordo38]

Weird post and even weirder answers. 

[zorro1]

Typical 1st post.

[Borzandy]

11 hours ago, 1970 said:

i have solid evidence that my  wife is a prostitute

Impossible in Thailand.....if your wife is Thai.

[twizzian]

1 hour ago, peterb17 said:

Well done people- think everyone realises this is total nonsense - or of course something dreamed up - to hopefully increase advertising revenue - don't believe every sensational post on ThaiVisa

will probably be banned for life.

 

The letter from the OP looks like it's written by a Chinese who's just finished school not an Australian.

Not sure if I believe him either.

[Freespirit]

There is no such law as kidnapping your own child in Thailand. So what are you worried about?

[Guitar God]

So where'd the OP go? Abducted by aliens?

[BTB1977]

And he just might come back as a tourist. Good plan. Lucky for him she has the last slut here. Nothing but good girls here now.

[Xobtsiwt]

This should be good, I'll get my cardigan, it can get cold late at night in February....

[Nemesis7]

Consult a good solicitor.

[DefaultName]

Why does being a prostitute make a woman a bad mother?

[steven100]

7 hours ago, elgordo38 said:

Weird post and even weirder answers. 

you couldn't make this stuff up.

[elgordo38]

35 minutes ago, steven100 said:

you couldn't make this stuff up.

No you could not but its one for the books. 

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[William C F Pierce]

How long is a piece of string?

[1970]

17 hours ago, ThaiWai said:

Did it not bother you when you married her?

no because i don't know what she do

she always say i only massage

maybe nothing that time

she always so perfect with me

5 years relationship  and after get married

move in Thailand after 2-3 years to be non-stop together

before i just visit her every 3-6 months

she visit me .we speak almost every day online.

after my move there i start to have that feeling that something is wrong

last year i start looking and checking and i find things

not saying nothing keeping for my self because i know that in Thailand i cannot find my right

and i shut up because my daughter

now i have my daughter here i don't care

she still don't admit anything

17 hours ago, melovethai said:

Very suspect post

 

why this

sorry but this is my story

16 hours ago, TheFishman1 said:

Well think best to get Thai Lawyer not ask such stupid questions here and really what where you thinking marrying a Girl like that TIT

i did not know what she doing

she always so good with lies

and never say the truth even for simple staff

she never tell me she had for example 2 more children with Thai man

1 boy and one girl

abounded in her village and sending 5000 baht per month .

the girl is today tom-girls because somebody from her family rape she small and

today she hate mans

Strange thing after 5 years we married and in her family certification was clean

no husband and no children

 

13 hours ago, Freespirit said:

There is no such law as kidnapping your own child in Thailand. So what are you worried about?

this woman is like a spider

she will find something to believe she and sue me

9 hours ago, BTB1977 said:

And he just might come back as a tourist. Good plan. Lucky for him she has the last slut here. Nothing but good girls here now.

for this reason maybe i will return

you know who is the slut and don't looking nothing more then sex

pay for short time and kick away

without looking for love etc.

i stay before always in Sukhumvit soi 1

boring all this after couple years and move to Rachada to find a nice good girl

6 hours ago, DefaultName said:

Why does being a prostitute make a woman a bad mother?

hmmm

why you thing is good mother one prostitute ?

answer me first and i will answer you after

[Yisheng]

I had "kidnapped" my daughter from Thailand 20 years ago. No legal consequences in Thailand. The mother did not sue me. But your situation is easier because your daughter is with you already. So you need not worry. Of course when you bring your daughter to Thailand you may not succeed to take her out again because your wife keeps her passport. It is also possible that your daughter wants to stay with her mother when she is older, And finally in a few years you may wish that your child stays with the mother so that you have less burdens.

[FritsSikkink]

9 hours ago, 1970 said:

 

 

So you were on overstay, got banned, took everything you owned back to your original country, took your child away from the mother, left her with nothing and now you want to take away the kid forever?