Thai culture !

[benalibina]

Called today Childline again regarding issues I have related to the invisible abuse related to my children. I told them that I would like to visit them next week to explain them about....emotional abuse...and that it is harmful for young children for now and in future. Many children unknowingly suffer from this abuse in broken families. I had contacted them before but without any succes. The recent threats by the mother of my children to me and the way how she spoke, like an immature 10 yr old, decided for me to call them again. My kids cant be helped, for now at least, so I thought maybe if Childline is really interested in the childs welfare they would be pleased with my visit.

 

The answer was.....this is Thailand and not Europe.

 

So.....what is Thai culture and where do the big differences lie between The West and Thailand ?

 

Kapom !

[Kwasaki]

6 hours ago, benalibina said:

The answer was.....this is Thailand and not Europe.

Correct.

 

6 hours ago, benalibina said:

So..what is Thai culture and where do the big differences lie between The West and Thailand ?

 

Silly question and if you try to be dominate in Thailand like you sound in your post soooo superior forget it or get with it.

[swissie]

Farangs walking out of divorce court, may be best qualified to shed a little light concerning "differences between the West and Thailand."
Cheers.

[Social Media]

Seems to me YOU are the one with the problem.What may have started out as an unfortunate situation, you have turned into an obsessive disorder.

 

You wont accept any advice you are given. YOU have to be heard and you keep droning on with the same story and catch-phrases over and over.

 

Its obvious you are not listening to anyone but your own blinkered version of events and your own "wo is me, hard done by story" where YOU are the victim.

 

You seem to have latched on to a few key phrases like "child abuse" and "alienation" and now thats all you see and all you want is confirmation from others as to how wonderful you are and what sacrifices you have made.

 

You have now created your own "reality"  of this story and nothing and no one else can get through.

I would strongly suggest you seek help and guidance before you do real damage not just to yourself but those around you.

 

But I doubt you will listen or see what is being said as you are too entrenched in your own "sob story" and feeling sorry for yourself.

 

Sorry if this seems harsh but you need a jolt of reality.

Seek professional Medical help, 4 years banging the same drum has taken its toll on you.

Lord knows what damage you are now unwittingly parting to those kids as a result. You are probably now inflicting upon them through your obsession the very thing you complained was being donr to them by others.

 

But hey, we both know you wont listen, so keep beating the drum.

As someone once said, "to keep doing the same thing and expect a different result is insane !!"

 

 

 

[BEVUP]

9 hours ago, Black Ops said:

Seems to me YOU are the one with the problem.What may have started out as an unfortunate situation, you have turned into an obsessive disorder.

 

You wont accept any advice you are given. YOU have to be heard and you keep droning on with the same story and catch-phrases over and over.

 

Its obvious you are not listening to anyone but your own blinkered version of events and your own "wo is me, hard done by story" where YOU are the victim.

 

You seem to have latched on to a few key phrases like "child abuse" and "alienation" and now thats all you see and all you want is confirmation from others as to how wonderful you are and what sacrifices you have made.

 

You have now created your own "reality"  of this story and nothing and no one else can get through.

I would strongly suggest you seek help and guidance before you do real damage not just to yourself but those around you.

 

But I doubt you will listen or see what is being said as you are too entrenched in your own "sob story" and feeling sorry for yourself.

 

Sorry if this seems harsh but you need a jolt of reality.

Seek professional Medical help, 4 years banging the same drum has taken its toll on you.

Lord knows what damage you are now unwittingly parting to those kids as a result. You are probably now inflicting upon them through your obsession the very thing you complained was being donr to them by others.

 

But hey, we both know you wont listen, so keep beating the drum.

As someone once said, "to keep doing the same thing and expect a different result is insane !!"

 

 

 

Quite right the OP has no idea Ahh he rang a help line in Thailand. What was he expecting ? Some help & as mentioned this is Thailand so we suggest you take a look around to see how we help our own when the fathers run off & that should give you a better understanding that it is better for what we do here as back in the west you would get the same with the added bonus of being pennyless & assetless 

[Rimmer]

A troll/threat of some sort and reply to it have been removed

[benalibina]

By reading some of the responses it certainly seems that in regards to stating uninformed, prejudiced, projected and ignorant opinions, with the sole aim of putting someone down, there is no difference between cultures. Its good you guys left and you must fit in very well overhere !

 

Furthermore i truly cant see how i feel superior to the thais when my sole reason was to try explain a childwelfare organization about this type of abuse and that it has a very, lifelong, effect on children. Overhere....Thai children ! I care about that because i have seen the effects, through my eyes as being a father, on my children.

 

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[CharlieH]

Troll post temoved.

 

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[Been there done that]

On 4/26/2017 at 6:02 PM, Black Ops said:

Seems to me YOU are the one with the problem.What may have started out as an unfortunate situation, you have turned into an obsessive disorder.

 

You wont accept any advice you are given. YOU have to be heard and you keep droning on with the same story and catch-phrases over and over.

 

Its obvious you are not listening to anyone but your own blinkered version of events and your own "wo is me, hard done by story" where YOU are the victim.

 

You seem to have latched on to a few key phrases like "child abuse" and "alienation" and now thats all you see and all you want is confirmation from others as to how wonderful you are and what sacrifices you have made.

 

You have now created your own "reality"  of this story and nothing and no one else can get through.

I would strongly suggest you seek help and guidance before you do real damage not just to yourself but those around you.

 

But I doubt you will listen or see what is being said as you are too entrenched in your own "sob story" and feeling sorry for yourself.

 

Sorry if this seems harsh but you need a jolt of reality.

Seek professional Medical help, 4 years banging the same drum has taken its toll on you.

Lord knows what damage you are now unwittingly parting to those kids as a result. You are probably now inflicting upon them through your obsession the very thing you complained was being donr to them by others.

 

But hey, we both know you wont listen, so keep beating the drum.

As someone once said, "to keep doing the same thing and expect a different result is insane !!"

 

 

 

Nice comment. 

 

To me it seems that you are the ignorant one on here. You write about matters in which you have no knowledge.

 

If the OP is convinced of the wrongs which are being inflicted upon his children but cant help them, I think it is very commendable to inform a childwelfare organization about this type of abuse. Only knowledge can possibly prevent other children to stay in a similar situation.

 

But on this forum he is being put down for it.

 

Very strange !