Cop Under Review For Openly Marrying Boyfriend

[Luckysilk]

56 minutes ago, kingkenny said:

Back in my police days in the UK permission was needed from your force to marry, buy a house, get a mortgage etc.

 

Could this not be similar, a simple case of permission not being sought?

Yes that's most likely the issue, besides the fact it's not even legal here.

 

The uniform is not his property and I could see it being taken the wrong way.

[Jingthing]

Having a party and calling it a marriage party is fully legal here. The actual marriage isn't. They didn't do that because they couldn't. 

 

The issue from the police isn't the uniform. It's homophobia. 

Edited May 9, 2017 by Jingthing

[madusa]

On 2017/5/8 at 6:15 AM, rkidlad said:

Seeing as a marriage between two members of the same sex isn't recognised by law here, I can't see how he's breached any 'regulations'. But then again, it did say 'unspecified' meaning 'made-up-as-we-go-along'. 

 

Can anyone name any powerful male figure here who's in the army, police, politician, etc, who is openly gay? Not an actor or singer. Thailand may seem like a very open society when it comes to homosexuality, but it's still way behind in my opinion. How many times have I heard "He's not a real man" meaning he's gay. That expression should be reserved for men who beat their partners. 

 

 

Beating your partner is homo sapiens pass time for many thousands of years, it's ingrained in your brain ok?

I love Lous Armstrong songs but he beat his wife you know.

[Khon Kaen Dave]

2 hours ago, Jingthing said:

Having a party and calling it a marriage party is fully legal here. The actual marriage isn't. They didn't do that because they couldn't. 

 

The issue from the police isn't the uniform. It's homophobia. 

Ahhh another homophobic entity. Your running out of people sista.

[Jingthing]

5 minutes ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

Ahhh another homophobic entity. Your running out of people sista.

Do you think the police officials would have commented/objected if the party was about the cute cop marrying a woman? Of course you don't. Of course they wouldn't. 

I see you've repeatedly referred to me with female indicators. Another indication of the homophobia you clearly expressed in your silly stereotype post. 

It's like you can't help yourself and then you cry "innocent" that you don't have a problem with gay people. You clearly have a BIG problem. That's OK for you but stop playing silly games. Readers aren't that stupid. 

Edited May 9, 2017 by Jingthing

[Khon Kaen Dave]

3 minutes ago, Jingthing said:

Do you think the police officials would have commented/objected if the party was about the cute cop marrying a woman? Of course you don't. Of course they wouldn't. 

Maybe, i dont know or care, but the way you are going through people, your next accusations will be the Father Ray foundation, and the Pattaya home for the deaf, and the Pattaya home for the homeless.

[Jingthing]

2 minutes ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

Maybe, i dont know or care, but the way you are going through people, your next accusations will be the Father Ray foundation, and the Pattaya home for the deaf, and the Pattaya home for the homeless.

Off topic garbage. 
The actual topic here, maybe you forgot with all your obsessions with anti-gay stereotyping, is about the negative police reaction to the hot cop marrying another man. 

Edited May 9, 2017 by Jingthing

[Rc2702]

Honestly speaking but sometimes it feels like gays love to jump on the slightest issue and call it homophobia. It's as if they are being hard done by when it's no harder for anyone of any sex race or anything else. I made a joke last night about sausage to a gay which was simply that; a joke. Got accused of homophobic slurs but when a gay makes same joke to another gay it's ok. I don't get it and tbh I am glad I don't I think it's all BS too about being born gay.

[Khon Kaen Dave]

10 minutes ago, Jingthing said:

Off topic garbage. 
The actual topic here, maybe you forgot with all your obsessions with anti-gay stereotyping, is about the negative police reaction to the hot cop marrying another man. 

Jingy thingy, you are a very disturbed and seriously deranged person. Your obsession thinking that people are Homophobic and that you are the saviour and the spokesperson for all people gay is a very paranoid approach. Your accusatory remarks are ridiculous and you are not a very good example of a would be example of other gay people. You are paranoid to the extent of being a psychotic. If you are not on any meds  at present, you need to be.To you everybody is a bigot and determined to undermine the gay community. There must be  many gay people who read your rants and are very worried and scared of you. I think that you have a dark agenda, and that you are a very strange person. I shall converse with you no more. You are not even a comical gay person, you are a dark side to the rest of the gay community. You see only what suits you.And your spiders web entices other gays only to be carbon copies of yourself. I pity you.You need help

[Khon Kaen Dave]

8 minutes ago, Rc2702 said:

Honestly speaking but sometimes it feels like gays love to jump on the slightest issue and call it homophobia. It's as if they are being hard done by when it's no harder for anyone of any sex race or anything else. I made a joke last night about sausage to a gay which was simply that; a joke. Got accused of homophobic slurs but when a gay makes same joke to another gay it's ok. I don't get it and tbh I am glad I don't I think it's all BS too about being born gay.

Yup, its playing the old gay card again.

[Jingthing]

Khon Kaen Dave -- You are more than welcome to stop engaging with me.  Excellent idea. Please follow through on your threat. That would be good for all concerned. 

Edited May 9, 2017 by Jingthing

[Jingthing]

13 minutes ago, Rc2702 said:

Honestly speaking but sometimes it feels like gays love to jump on the slightest issue and call it homophobia. It's as if they are being hard done by when it's no harder for anyone of any sex race or anything else. I made a joke last night about sausage to a gay which was simply that; a joke. Got accused of homophobic slurs but when a gay makes same joke to another gay it's ok. I don't get it and tbh I am glad I don't I think it's all BS too about being born gay.

I'm not really interested in your post but back to topic, do you SERIOUSLY think in the context of this thread, the police would have any problem if the party had been about an opposite sex marriage? 

 

Back to a better world. Imagine an appropriate reaction of the police to the news of this marriage.

CONGRATULATIONS! Perhaps some holiday leave for a HONEYMOON. Yes? 

Edited May 9, 2017 by Jingthing

[Rc2702]

1 minute ago, Jingthing said:

I'm not really interested in your post but back to topic, do you SERIOUSLY think in the context of this thread, the police would have any problem if the party had been about an opposite sex marriage? 

Your boring me sorry.

[Khon Kaen Dave]

4 minutes ago, Jingthing said:

You are more than welcome to stop engaging with me. 

I assume this comment was meant for me.You were gone the minute i pressed next topic button. Or are you having to have the last word. Ok, good, you got it, now do one please.

[Jingthing]

Just now, Khon Kaen Dave said:

I assume this comment was meant for me.You were gone the minute i pressed next topic button. Or are you having to have the last word. Ok, good, you got it, now do one please.

Yes, it was meant for you in response to your public announcement that you would not engage with me anymore, which I think is a very excellent idea. I edited it already to make that clear. 

[Khon Kaen Dave]

2 minutes ago, Rc2702 said:

Your boring me sorry.

Good reply, but she does like to have the parting shot(even if she doesnt know how that term came about) so be prepared for more vitriol

[Jingthing]

2 minutes ago, Rc2702 said:

Your boring me sorry.

So not really interested in the topic. Instead only interested in broadcasting your absurd belief that gay people don't face discrimination and unequal treatment based on their orientation. Okie dokie. 

[anotheruser]

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I will just reiterate my congratulations to the two newlyweds. In an ideal world their marriage should be recognized officially and hopefully one day Thailand will be in line with that wish.

 

 

[Scott]

Numerous off-topic posts have been removed along with replies.   Continue at your own peril.  

[anotheruser]

11 minutes ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

Anotheruser.

You are obviously another person who does not understand the word Homophobe. It means a phobia of homosexual people, someone who is scared of or hates Homosexuals.Understand this. I said that i did not agree with Homosexual peoples way of life. Never did i say that i hated, disliked, or had anything against them.I am allowed to disagree, without fear of insult, assault or derogatory remarks aimed at me. That is the gift of free thought. I am allowed my opinion, free speech and thinking is the right of every person. so before you call me a Homophobe, get your facts right.

I am well aware of what it means in the modern sense. I am not going to be goaded into an argument with you in which you simply fall on the wrong side of history. 

 

I wish the newly weds well and hope in the future they can exchange vows that are legally recognized. Because, you know, in spite of my opinions that's what is known as equal rights.

Edited May 9, 2017 by anotheruser

[Destiny1990]

It not mentions about a one million baht sinsod wonder why?

[Jingthing]

The "way of life" to "agree with" for this cop in the news is to be productively employed as a cop and in a loving committed relationship. Gay or straight, no big difference except this couple can't get legally married if that is their wish (I won't assume that it is).

 

It's really too bad that his police organization can't support him in his personal life outside of work as it's fair to assume they would towards any straight married couple. Instead, they appear to be hassling him. I hope it works out OK and his career isn't ruined. 

Edited May 9, 2017 by Jingthing

[Khon Kaen Dave]

10 hours ago, anotheruser said:

I am well aware of what it means in the modern sense. I am not going to be goaded into an argument with you in which you simply fall on the wrong side of history. 

 

I wish the newly weds well and hope in the future they can exchange vows that are legally recognized. Because, you know, in spite of my opinions that's what is known as equal rights.

Good post, i am happy that we agree to disagree. Free speech, thinking, and opinion, is everybody's right as a human being.We are lucky to have been born in times where these gifts exist. I am however interested in the comment, about me falling on tje wrong side of history, simply for not agreeing with a persons life style. I would be grateful for enlightenment on that spurious remark

[kingkenny]

11 hours ago, Jingthing said:

I'm not really interested in your post but back to topic, do you SERIOUSLY think in the context of this thread, the police would have any problem if the party had been about an opposite sex marriage? 

 

Back to a better world. Imagine an appropriate reaction of the police to the news of this marriage.

CONGRATULATIONS! Perhaps some holiday leave for a HONEYMOON. Yes? 

Maybe the police have a problem as the marriage is not legal, whereas with straight couples it is legal so no need for further investigation,  but hey don't let this fact get in the way of your rant and accusations that the whole world is against you..

 

I am still waiting for a response to my question whether all stereotyping is bad..

[Khon Kaen Dave]

11 hours ago, Jingthing said:

Yes, it was meant for you in response to your public announcement that you would not engage with me anymore, which I think is a very excellent idea. I edited it already to make that clear. 

 

11 hours ago, Jingthing said:

Khon Kaen Dave -- You are more than welcome to stop engaging with me.  Excellent idea. Please follow through on your threat. That would be good for all concerned. 

 

11 hours ago, Jingthing said:

Yes, it was meant for you in response to your public announcement that you would not engage with me anymore, which I think is a very excellent idea. I edited it already to make that clear. 

 

11 hours ago, Jingthing said:

Khon Kaen Dave -- You are more than welcome to stop engaging with me.  Excellent idea. Please follow through on your threat. That would be good for all concerned. 

 

11 hours ago, Jingthing said:

Khon Kaen Dave -- You are more than welcome to stop engaging with me.  Excellent idea. Please follow through on your threat. That would be good for all concerned. 

[Khon Kaen Dave]

4 minutes ago, kingkenny said:

Maybe the police have a problem as the marriage is not legal, whereas with straight couples it is legal so no need for further investigation,  but hey don't let this fact get in the way of your rant and accusations that the whole world is against you..

 

I am still waiting for a response to my question whether all stereotyping is bad..

And i feel you will be waiting for some time, on that one, if ever.

[Jingthing]

5 minutes ago, kingkenny said:

Maybe the police have a problem as the marriage is not legal, whereas with straight couples it is legal so no need for further investigation,  but hey don't let this fact get in the way of your rant and accusations that the whole world is against you..

 

I am still waiting for a response to my question whether all stereotyping is bad..

There was nothing illegal about having a party.

Nobody reading this (nor you I suspect) actually thinks the police thought having a party was illegal.

Illegality may have come into play if they tried to get an official document of marriage, which they did not, and which they couldn't have even if they had tried, which they did not.

So your post is disingenuous. 

 

Regarding your "question", I'll continue to ignore your off topic baits so don't bother. Members are not required to respond to any questions, especially baiting questions, even more so OFF TOPIC ones. Cheers. 

Edited May 10, 2017 by Jingthing

[balo]

12 hours ago, Khon Kaen Dave said:

You are paranoid to the extent of being a psychotic. If you are not on any meds  at present, you need to be.

 

I wonder why you keep posting on Thaivisa when all you do is criticize other posters using personal insults , you seem to be full of it. 

[kingkenny]

1 hour ago, Jingthing said:

There was nothing illegal about having a party.

Nobody reading this (nor you I suspect) actually thinks the police thought having a party was illegal.

Illegality may have come into play if they tried to get an official document of marriage, which they did not, and which they couldn't have even if they had tried, which they did not.

So your post is disingenuous. 

 

Regarding your "question", I'll continue to ignore your off topic baits so don't bother. Members are not required to respond to any questions, especially baiting questions, even more so OFF TOPIC ones. Cheers. 

Is the investigation into a party? The invitation is for a wedding party I am Guessing?  Is it not correct that the police check whether an illegal act is being attempted to legalize the marriage? If it not related to the marriage then I am sure the investigation would not be into the marriage but into his homosexuality and would be addressed as such should it be a disciplinary matter.

 

As for my question, it isn't really off topic, is stereotyping ok or not, or can one be Selective?   I think your refusal to answer tells me all I need to know.

Edited May 10, 2017 by kingkenny

[Khon Kaen Dave]

8 minutes ago, balo said:

 

I wonder why you keep posting on Thaivisa when all you do is criticize other posters using personal insults , you seem to be full of it. 

I suggest you stop wondering, until you are in possession of all the facts of. This topic. Do yourself a favour read all the posts and then get back to me. You will then understand about being knowledgeable of a subject before casting an opinion. It's the first rule you learn when attending law school

 It's alternative translation is engage brain before opening mouth

Have a nice day