OneMoreFarang

I think men should have an idea why a woman (of any age) is together with them. Does she love you? Is she just happy to have somebody? Is she hoping you will die soon to inherit lots of money? And the situation is obviously not static. I met my gf many years ago when we both were a lot younger than now. I didn't think about the time when I am old, and I don't think she thought about it. If guys pay a lot of money to a girl so that she stays with him, then they don't have to think too hard why she does that. And I can't imagine that that is long term a viable solution.

How much rent do they have to pay now? I am not familiar with the situation in Pattaya, but I know some rents from Bangkok from before Covid. With that level it's impossible to make any money. So how are the rents now? Same as years ago? Half? Obviously owners will try to get a high rent. But if one day they notice that nobody can afford to pay that anymore then the rents have to go down - or no rent income at all.

Weight about 40kg is also important.

If you like hookers who go to the same place for 20 years, then go there. Otherwise avoid it.

You must be a bigot if you don't subscribe to inclusion and diversity. ????

Not in Bangkok. I suggest Munich - and not the octoberfest.

IMHO from all the "western" women Margot Robbie is about as good as it gets. I never used that number system.

My first visit to Thailand was in the rainy season. I still enjoyed it. Because rain in Thailand is warm rain. If someone is on a beach holiday it doesn't matter if you are in the middle of the rain. And in Thailand rain is mostly heavy and short. 20min rain, and that's it. No problem. Obviously there are better and not so good times about the weather. But in the best weather time there is also high season in Thailand. Not only the hotels are more expensive. I don't think any time should be avoided to come here, except maybe Songkran - if you don't know what to expect.

Men and women are different in many many ways. What's so difficult about accepting that fact? And if you personally think you would like a 20-year older woman, than go ahead. Maybe you will find a rich one who buys you a car. But please don't expect from all of us to do that.

1m USD is a lot of money, but not enough to never work again - at least if we are not already old. Personally I would do the same as always with gradual changes. I.e. go more often to good restaurants, buy some more tools, maybe a new bike, etc. And for the gf: If she doesn't know about it, don't tell her. If she knows a lot of money is coming, give her what she thinks is "a lot of money", maybe 100,000 THB.

I think that is what the woke call "my truth"...

Sorry, I wasn't aware that that is the idea in this forum. ????

You take care of the old women. Someone has to do it.

It's up to her. And it's up to you. We all make our decisions. And we live with the consequences. That's life.

If she doesn't want to be with you anymore then she should end the relationship. It's up to her. Or not?

And all your knowledge comes from where? Lots of women of any age want a guy who takes care of them. Why should a guy entertain a 50 yo woman who wants his money if he can have a 20 yo who wants his money?

She had at least 4" high heels, so she almost looked grown up. ????

And then there are those people who mention that word so often without knowing what it means. Here is a hint: Guys who like teenage girls over 16 or so are not pedos. And if you don't agree then look up the definition.

That is an interesting post. I met lots of old farang young Thai girl/women in Thailand, and in some of those cases the old farang died. And then the Thai women, now a lot richer, decided again to live with old farangs together. So maybe it is not just the money. It would be an interesting statistic what new husbands Thai women chose who are now widow and who inherited substantial wealth from their farang husbands.

Yesterday I met a 21 yo girl in Nana, 144cm, 34kg. Nice. And she could dance.

That depends on the services offered in that OT. ????

Good luck that Thailand doesn't even try to be part of the modern world. Look at those females in modern world countries. Many seem to be crazy and unhappy.

It's women's work. Who else should do it? ????

Coming back to "what age gap would you aim for and why?" I wouldn't aim for any specific age group. I would follow my heart. I am now in a happy relationship, and I am not looking for a new one. But I go out and see waitresses, office girls, nurses, doctors, lots of females. And sometimes, especially after I saw some of them a couple of times, I think to myself that she could be a nice gf - if I wouldn't have one already. Over the time there are a few which would be interesting. And the age group of them is for me maybe 20 to early 30th. And some of them, which I met when they were 25, are still interesting with maybe 30. But in average, when they get older, they are less attractive. So what would I (try to get)? A young one which I will still find attractive in 5 or 10 years.