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OneMoreFarang

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  1. It's called the high season. It seems like since beginning of this month Sukhumvit is full of tourists. And as far as I know now many hotels have dynamic prices depending on the demand.
  2. I think that should make the MAGA boys happy. You can talk to each other and tell yourself how great you are. That's what you want, or not? Let's wait a little and look which great the best people Trump will hire and let's see what he will do. And then he will obvious fire most of those incompetent people again and hire some more. It will be funny to watch from far away. And we all know that Americans deserve what they will get. They voted for him. Enjoy the ride!
  3. Thanks for your personal definition of that word. How can we communicate with words if people use the same words but have different meaning in their mind? Personally, I think that is why dictionaries exist, so that we can agree what words mean and then use them like that. But maybe that's only me.
  4. Please define "lefties". Is that anybody on the left side of your right-wing ideology? Are there extreme left and not so extreme left? Are they all the same?
  5. Did anybody ask him which wonder doctor or wonder medicine he is using? Maybe that should be a new hub for Thailand: From sick to top fit in weeks.
  6. If such little issues concern you, then Thailand is probably not the right place for you.
  7. That reminds me of the time when I was young and had lots of posters on the wall. No, that is no original picture from my room. But you get the idea.
  8. That gave me an idea. Now I used my summary from above and the same AI and I asked the AI to make the text longer, about 900 words. And the AI did it. Fascinating. The author reflects on his long-term relationships with Thai women, noting a consistent evolution from romantic partners to roles resembling caregivers or logistical assistants. Initially characterized by genuine connection and affection, these relationships shift subtly over time, leading the author to feel more like a "boyfriend service" rather than an equal partner. This transformation occurs without explicit demands, suggesting an unspoken expectation rooted in cultural dynamics. Despite enjoying the act of helping, the author grapples with feelings of becoming too indispensable. Ultimately, he explores how these shifts highlight the complexities of love and partnership within cross-cultural contexts, blending romance with practical support. The Nature of Relationships In examining long-term relationships with Thai women, it is essential to understand the initial stages characterized by mutual affection and connection. These relationships often begin with a strong emotional bond, where both partners share dreams, aspirations, and experiences. The author recalls moments filled with laughter, shared adventures, and deep conversations that laid a solid foundation for their partnership. However, as time progresses, subtle changes begin to emerge.The transition from romantic partners to caregivers or logistical assistants is not always overt. Instead, it manifests gradually. The author notes that tasks once shared or mutually agreed upon start to shift towards one partner taking on more responsibilities. This shift can be attributed to various factors, including cultural expectations and societal norms prevalent in Thai society. Cultural Dynamics at Play Thai culture places significant emphasis on family and caregiving roles. Women often find themselves in positions where they are expected to support not only their partners but also their families. This cultural backdrop creates an environment where the author feels compelled to fulfill these expectations, leading to a dynamic where he becomes more of a service provider than an equal partner.The author reflects on how these unspoken expectations can create tension within the relationship. While he enjoys helping and providing support, there is an underlying concern about losing his identity as an equal partner. The feeling of being indispensable can be both gratifying and burdensome; it raises questions about the nature of love and partnership. The Shift in Dynamics As relationships evolve, the initial excitement can give way to a more transactional nature. The author describes this transformation as feeling like a "boyfriend service." Tasks that were once shared now fall predominantly on him, leading to feelings of imbalance in the relationship. This shift does not occur through explicit demands; rather, it is a gradual evolution shaped by cultural norms and expectations.This phenomenon is not unique to the author's experience but is echoed in broader research on international marriages involving Thai women. Studies indicate that many Thai women marry foreign partners seeking stability and security, often leading to roles that blend caregiving with romantic involvement 1 2 . The expectation for women to support their families can intensify these dynamics, resulting in a relationship model where emotional support intertwines with practical assistance. Enjoying Helping vs. Feeling Indispensable Despite the complexities of these evolving roles, the author finds joy in helping his partner navigate various challenges. Whether it’s managing household tasks or providing emotional support during difficult times, he appreciates being there for her. However, this enjoyment is tempered by the realization that his role has shifted significantly over time.The author grapples with feelings of becoming too indispensable—wondering if his contributions have overshadowed the romantic aspects of their relationship. This internal conflict raises important questions about identity within partnerships: What does it mean to be a partner when one person takes on more responsibilities? How can both partners maintain their individuality while supporting each other? Exploring Love Across Cultures Ultimately, the author's reflections highlight the complexities of love and partnership within cross-cultural contexts. Relationships between Western men and Thai women often blend romance with practical support due to differing cultural expectations surrounding gender roles and responsibilities. As both partners navigate these dynamics, they must find ways to communicate openly about their needs and desires.To foster healthier partnerships, it is crucial for both individuals to engage in discussions about their evolving roles within the relationship. By addressing these changes openly, couples can work towards creating a more balanced dynamic that honors both partners' contributions and needs. Conclusion: A Journey of Understanding The journey through long-term relationships with Thai women reveals intricate layers of cultural dynamics that shape love and partnership. As relationships evolve from romantic connections into roles resembling caregivers or logistical assistants, both partners must navigate unspoken expectations rooted in cultural norms.While enjoying the act of helping is fulfilling, it is vital for individuals to reflect on their identities within these partnerships. By fostering open communication and mutual understanding, couples can create relationships that honor both romance and practical support without compromising their individuality.In conclusion, exploring the complexities of love across cultures invites deeper reflection on what it means to be partners in a world where cultural expectations continually shape our experiences. As individuals learn from one another and grow together, they can forge connections that transcend traditional boundaries—blending love with understanding in ways that enrich their lives together.
  9. Did you ever consider that there are people out there who don't like above women and don't like Trump? Sometimes it's the lesser evil.
  10. Is this Ali G?
  11. No intelligent person would write above. But obviously I am not surprised that a MAGA fanboy wrote something like that.
  12. Do we really have to argue about that? If someone works for a company, and the boss is an ahole, then you can accept it or move on. But why would anybody elect and ahole to be the leader of their country? There must be some nice and competent Americans out there.
  13. Let them fight each other. Then arrest them and deport them.
  14. I only read the headline. The answer is: no. Maybe he knows already, maybe he doesn't care, maybe he likes it. And maybe he is just ignorant and loves her. Let him find his own way.
  15. Yeah, why am I not surprised by your "logic"...
  16. Why should I? I don't live in that strange country far away. Obviously, there will be lots of implications for the rest of the world. But it's unlikely that I will experience them in my everyday life.
  17. He is an ahole - it's not too difficult to recognize this. Not only fascists are bad. But then, the American people have decided that an ahole should represent them. I can't argue with that one.
  18. It's available in the Microsoft Store. As far as I remember one must be logged on to that store to be able to get any Apps from there. I just installed it on my Windows 10 desktop PC.
  19. Does that have a relation to the Putin's kompromat with the golden showers? Alleged, of course.
  20. I didn't watch CNN since decades. I never called Trump a fascist. Which again proves that you have no idea about me - as expected. I am sure you see lots of demons out there. You know them exactly. The problem is that they are mostly in your head.
  21. You mean they didn't talk about that on fox news? What a surprise - or maybe not.
  22. But even if you take 100% of the bad propaganda away then it's still obvious that he is a maniac.
  23. Just that statement make clear how mentally challenged you are. How could you possibly know what I believe about Trump? Let me guess, you are one of those MAGA believers. It's all about believing. Facts don't matter.
  24. Yes, that will be interesting. I am sure Netanyahu is happy that Trump won, now he can do more of the same. Putin will also be happy. Ukraine not so much.
  25. I would be happy in Trump would only matter in the USA. They deserve him. But unfortunately, the rest of the world is also very much affected by the decision of the American people and most of the rest of the world despises Trump.
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