I have a 24yo daughter and a 13yo daughter.
The 24yo isn't ready for a sexual relationship, but the 13yo is ready.
We've already had to give the 13yo the 'if you have sex, you'll be back in the village' speech.
Different people have different personalities.
As for Kevin Spacey, 'American Beauty' was one of the best movies ever made.
That and 'Fight Club' changed my life. I don't really care what he did in his private life, the rich and famous are expected to be a bit more naughty than the rest of us.