A lot don't look like their pictures and if they are busy, they have you for a fool and send one of their mates thinking you won't realize. Bear in mind, plenty of gold diggers with an agenda online, OK that is true in the bars as well.
I no longer bother, TBH, been with my other half 28 years and set in my ways. I am still very early sixties, just been here so long now, I no longer get the ' buzz ' from the go-go scene.
Likewise, I do get approached, when out and about in the Bangkok bars when travelling, but I know it's only for cash and not my Tom Cruise looks.
If people want good-looking 20 something girls, they are looking in the wrong country nowadays, the places to look are Phnom Penn, Cambodia and HCMC in Vietnam.