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I believe the solution is more pop up ads !

There are quite a few academics here including me. Good debates etc are now rare to find on this forum I use to enjoy debating about the Psychometrics of water ,natural selection and various other intellectual topics ,but unfortunately the "peasants" on this forum (,if I may use that word) have no idea about such thought provoking topics ,

I would have to second that . I find it absolutely atrocious, Please ditch the singlets

Sadly to say and please don't quote me but it seems that your more interested in pop up ads on a website you use that is a business ,we are not a community service Please have some thought for the owners on here who have to pay for full time staff ,rental of premises etc I personally want more advertising!

Thankyou to all the members on here who have confidentially messaged me to talk about mens mental health Some sent me contacts for good Samaritans Pattaya and Bangkok I don't think they are around anymore though Mens mental health is very important 💜

And yet your one of the guys sending me messages You have had a lot of problems so please don't sugarcoat it I often wonder though your personality where you bag others especially in your workplace then behind everyone's back you talk to that person you criticized Stop being a hypocrite Roo .. please

The last few weeks I have gone this "phase" of wanting to be a caring ear and help people with emotional problems Often I get up to 20 personal messages from guys on here who are lonely ,some even post abusive replies to my posts turn send me a personal message to say sorry and the hard times they are going through and that's what I believe I'm here for. Some guys have to write nasty comments to my posts because they are angry in life and I believe it's better to get their anger out at me than some old lady walking down the street They then write me a personal message to say sorry and the bad times they are going through I have met some wonderful guys o n here and met some in Pattaya when I arrived. Unfortunately many have men problems and we don't always click , I love reading books on the Psychometrics of water , Psychometrics of air etc In fact I have taken a big interest yesterday in reading about air quality and the science behind that but that's another day. My point is after being on this forum there are a lot of lonely guys , I'm shocked ,some even live in South East Asia , are married etc just their lives are not balanced and some need a farang to talk to If anyone here needs a caring ear Ask if they are ok ? Ask if you can listen , Be a mental first aider There have been many times where someone has committed suicide and never showed any signs of it ! Mens depression is not a joke , Suicide , alcohol etc is taking over this Generation Play your part in listening , Are you ok ????

Well as you have said your father never was around at at the pub every arvo, and you had domestic violence so it may have hit a raw nerve with you mate . Hope your mother forgived your father The 1970's was the worse period I believe Sad in those days with DV ,hope you healed mate 💜

Oh I have empathy for you ,.....but...look on the bright side your 83 so not much longer to go You enjoy what you have left

Probably tax payers , otherwise they get it from "other means"

I feel more sorry for you now 😭 , nearly 80yo your living in a govt housing department studio flat in Perth , Western Australia by yourself!!! With no family support,we are your family mate ,if you need a caring ear I'm here !! 💜

No prizes for second best son !

I think you may have mistaken me as as the preacher son , I want more of these guys ! I enjoy thinking about their heartbreak the sad life's they left behind. Last night I'm walking thru the streets in Australia approached by a indigenous homeless guy outside asking for money ,I said I will do better than that and bought him a cheap bottle of wine so he can totally get smashed and cause havoc 😅

No I think he posted ,"wanting" to think it includes him ,he desperately wanted to deny he wasn't And anyway he's not old at 47 !!! As Leo Sayer used to sing *I'm only a boy "

I realise your not the smartest fish in the tank ....but we are talking about mature aged expats who left their own country leaving family behind . As you don't fit into that category then it's senseless to post ,but you desperately wanted to be involved so we all notice you , you felt left out I know , .......and yes your only a boy at 47 !!😏

Still married and travelling to SEA for a good time ? Does she know? Do your kids know what their old father is up to ? Wouldn't they think your a dirty old man?

I have only respect for you,your a older Australian man living in Thailand and I'm sure you have a past story to tell. Because it's hit a raw nerve hasn't it You left them behind, I feel empathy for you I really do,your a older man living in Thailand with family you left behind , I would love to know the details if you would kindly share of your past

Yes in Soi Bukhao

Workplace friends? I work the nightshift cleaning hospital administration areas , with people I wouldn't give the time of day to

The tubby guy late 60's I would say but maybe looked older He dressed with a shirt with a collar but not tucked in

I would love to hear of some storiesd on here from guys who left it all behind . Last year I was in a bar in Soi Bukhao I actually bought the bar owner 2 or 3 expensive drinks to hear him tell me how his 2 adult sons( in Belgium) had not spoken to him since 2017 when at the age of 57 he divorced and came to Pattaya. One of his sons was a police officer in Belgium and he spoke highly of him until I made him sad to talk about him ,"you must be proud of him " I said to his smiling shaking head ,yes he said half sad half happy face "Sad he thinks your a failure of a Dad " I said back to his facial expressions turning to sadness , "he will probably never talk to you again " I said to him to watching his sadness , "you must of hurt him a lot as a Dad " I then paid the bar tab his drinks included and he actually thanked me still tears in his eyes as I walked off into the distance looking back he was still sitting at the table staring into his wine glass , obviously reminiscing 😅

I felt , I don't know exactly but a sense of making a difference I guess ,like almost creating a impact on someone', to see their "hurt" side or is the saying to touch a raw nerve ? The fact he just stood there hands under the flowing tap... head turned to the left looking at me ,not moving , it was like ....I made this person think !

When I said hundreds I meant other bars too ,wasn't hundreds but it looked a lot of farang in opposite bars too. I actually felt good though when I left and jumped on a motorbike taxi to leave ,I felt like I had achieved something, but I will never know because I didn't see him leave the bathroom It's hard to explain but I felt like it was me that made a impact on someone's life ,it's almost I feel responsible, I could really see it "hurt" him as he left his hands under the tap as he looked at me stunned ,it felt good for me

My only regret was not staying in the bar to see what he was like after he left the bathroom. Did he leave with sadness or tears ? Did he go back to play dancing with the Thai bar worker?

I sat at a bar and watched hundreds of old farang guys with Thai ladies . I sat and stared at one guy ,late 60's tubby wearing a collared shirt ,shorts and sandals ,grey balding hair . I could hear him shouting to another farang something about his ex wife I watched and studied him ,where are his family back home? I thought ,wonder what his I presume ex wife be doing now? he was gyrating with the young Thai lady laughing as she bent over dancing in front of him. I started to think of this man's past as I sat staring at him , I wonder what his life was like 20 years ago back in farang land ,where his ex wife is ? His kids he had Then he went to the bathroom in the bar . I followed him ,he said hello mate in his British accent I immediately followed with a "where is your ex wife? Did you leave your kids? The shocked look on his face as he stood washing his hands ,his lower lip was quivering stunned as a mullet The strangest thing he said which doesn't make sense was "Oh I didn't see this coming !" did she send you ? I again repeated the question, " you left your ex wife didn't you " You left your kids ! Then I walked out of the bar ,he was still inside I presume quivering hands under the tap bent over looking stunned , stunned as a mullet that a complete stranger would say such a thing to him !! Hard to describe the shocked look on his face in the face as he just went into a shocked look ,it went from a happy drunk *hello mate" to a look like this emoji 😳😳 the little thing I remember was after he was shocked his hands were not rubbing together under the tap ,he just stopped looking sideways at me bent over the sink shocked , funniest thing I ever saw My regret is not going back to my seat in the bar to see if he left that bathroom with tears in his eyes ! And I asked you the sad question too If you live in Thailand Philippines Vietnam Cambodia etc now .....where is your REAL family ? What happened? Did you leave them, did you have a life family kids years ago ? , such sadness What happened between you and your then wife to split up ? Have you ever made contact with her again ? Do your children who obviously would be if adult age ever forgive you ? Do they still make contact knowing you left them and the mother behind ? Does she know where you are nowadays