I would check your current transformers, it could be that one is faulty or disconnected which would make the inverter only measure power on 2 phases. That is the only thing that came to mind which will cause a discrepancy in both directions.
I think those are reactive power which they just measure but don't charge you for. I do also have a digital meter but not an export one and therefore get a bill looking a bit different from yours but it shows a monthly slightly increasing value for reactive power.
All digital meters display this, analogue meters can't measure it.