Well, considering many do not work but at least the Son- in - law in the main pays for the high school and university fees and often in the past chipped in as the 20K maximum at the ATM.
As regarding meals out and noticed recently and yes we are driven to some wonderful restaurants but around the Christmas and New Yeah it seems that recently picked up the tab a lot of the times.
However, tbf they do contribute and do buy food for the 2 Granddaughters and us and yes including fruit.
My wife's Daughter-in-law's family are quite wealthy and have been given a lot of land but stating this they are living in very nice accommodation and yes who of course who originally bought and living in free of charge and there is obviously no rent to pay.
There are definitely swings and roundabouts but I am not moaning at all and we know we can not say too much as the families do not listen and to the Authorites we are Aliens