How to proactively show respect for late King?

[Rc2702]

I want to suggest a way for my family in thailand to come together and pay respect to the late King.

 

I have a very young child and a wife and 30 miles away I have her mom, dad and  brother. I can get them together but I'd like to know if there is a way to organise such an event without crowds and with safety in mind. 

 

Will temples be open?

Will it be ok with a screaming kid? (He's golden but you never know)

Can we just rock up at a temple are their processions going on throughout October? 

How long is acceptable to do this respect for. (Wakes for monks are sometimes 100 days)

Should we buy anything, food drinks for monks for the king?

 

Hope I'm not infringing on any rules I just want to know what type of plans others have in paying their respects?

 

 

[djayz]

Why don't you ask you Thai family? I'm sure they'll know much better  than the most of us.