SOUTHERNSTAR Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 9 hours ago, RBOP said: OP says pregnant 10 days and son only knows her for 3 weeks. I'd say the OP is being scammed/ extorted. Or we are being trolled ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 8 hours ago, NanLaew said: Oh look!... the first Thai culture denier of the weekend! NO not a denier ! the first real man of the weekend ! the whole set up is a scam for sucker who feel they have to pay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mikosan Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 This is an interesting article. Don't know if it's legally accurate, but given the subject matter, worth a read. https://www.stickmanbangkok.com/weekly-column/2006/05/the-age-of-consent-in-thailand/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KBsinter Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 ๅI agree, ............... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gracas Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 10 hours ago, gwynt said: I had a similar problem but with B in L family of girl he was sleeping with him both young. Wanted money so my wife said that makes your daughter a prostitute and if my husband has to pay does that mean he can sleep with your daughter also? They soon went away. I like the way your wife thinks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snowgard Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 Maybe this help you a little to understand something about the pregnant test. I personally would say if she done a test, then she already was missing her period and this say me she is if pregnant than from someone before:https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/five-signs-to-take-pregnancy-test#when-to-test2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putu94 Posted October 7, 2017 Author Share Posted October 7, 2017 sorry for late reply , I was whole day on the road I read all post and see also I made a mistake Son is 18 and Gf 17 but I see to Thai law girl must be older the 16, so it will be no different. Family changed the amount they ask now 60.000 and want 2 baht of gold .... my wife wanted to follow Thai culture to safe money, safe time, and keep problem not to long. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bogozy Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 21 hours ago, Jing Joe said: I heard the age of consent for a Thai girl is 19. I have seen a lot of pregnant girls of age 16-18 ! :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theguyfromanotherforum Posted October 7, 2017 Share Posted October 7, 2017 17 hours ago, steven100 said: agree .... really makes me laugh when I hear farang who claim they never paid sin sod, never built a house, no car, gave nothing to anyone .... zilch !! yeah sure !! and she fell over backwards wanting to have you ... Yes...all of that and more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wake Up Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 22 hours ago, RichardColeman said: Yeah right let's call her a slapper and a whore and its nothing to do with your GF's idiotic and irresponsible son ! I suppose you were there when this girl was sleeping around and witnessed it all - I had plenty of GF when young, I did not sleep with them - maybe you should pay her now for defamation on insinuating she is an easy lay ?. Anyhow, unless it's your biological son, tell them to contact the blood father of your GF, who'll probably just pat his son on the back and say like father like son. Come on man. Teenagers make mistakes. You can warn them and teach them but they make mistakes. We all do. I am 57 and try to minimize my mistakes but I still make them and always will. No need to pile on the two kids or their parents. Peace Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BEVUP Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 So who are they asking for money ? It should be between the son & girls family The greedy b7@ds always turn to the parents (especially if there's a Farang ) They dropped their price pretty quick as I think it's a scam Wouldn't pay them 1 bht till proof others it's like admitting liability Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Colabamumbai Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 " I'm pregnant, its yours, easily said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cranky Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 Odds on she was up the spout before they met and she was looking for a patsy and shagged the first candidate... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aditi Sharma Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 Nobody's heard of abortion? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaeJoMTB Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 On 10/7/2017 at 8:22 AM, ehs818 said: What is the age of both the girl and your son. If both are 18 or older, there's no reason to panic. Agree simply to pay for pregnancy related expenses. Pretty sure Thai law does not make impregnating a girl above the age of majority if the father is right there to be a stand up guy. These a**holes are relying on your unfamiliarity with Thai law, and trying to scare money out of you. I'd call that blackmail. Consult a lawyer! And then report their attempt to coerce money out of you to the police. If you do go to the point where a DNA test is conducted, make sure you choose the lab and offer to pay. Do not allow the parents to bribe those ppl. This is a country where you should NEVER let your guard down. I wish you luck on this. I hate to see farangs getting abused. Age of consent is 15, Thai hospital is free of charge to citizens (no expenses to pay). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaeJoMTB Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 14 hours ago, Putu94 said: sorry for late reply , I was whole day on the road I read all post and see also I made a mistake Son is 18 and Gf 17 but I see to Thai law girl must be older the 16, so it will be no different. Family changed the amount they ask now 60.000 and want 2 baht of gold .... my wife wanted to follow Thai culture to safe money, safe time, and keep problem not to long. Let your wife pay whatever she wants to pay. Keep your money in your pocket. Often this is a scam involving foreigners wife + girls parents. But with a girl aged 17 .......... nothing to worry about. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RBOP Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 14 hours ago, Putu94 said: sorry for late reply , I was whole day on the road I read all post and see also I made a mistake Son is 18 and Gf 17 but I see to Thai law girl must be older the 16, so it will be no different. Family changed the amount they ask now 60.000 and want 2 baht of gold .... my wife wanted to follow Thai culture to safe money, safe time, and keep problem not to long. Your wife is wise. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cranky Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 1 hour ago, RBOP said: Your wife is wise. Is she related to the tart? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Putu94 Posted October 8, 2017 Author Share Posted October 8, 2017 Thank you all for all advice, we will follow the most wise way. greetings Putu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chrissables Posted October 8, 2017 Share Posted October 8, 2017 On 10/7/2017 at 1:03 PM, steven100 said: agree .... really makes me laugh when I hear farang who claim they never paid sin sod, never built a house, no car, gave nothing to anyone .... zilch !! yeah sure !! and she fell over backwards wanting to have you ... I can assure you i did not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soalbundy Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 On 10/7/2017 at 8:03 AM, dotpoom said: Seems nobody knows if it's Thai law or not. Hope it all works out for your family. depends on her age Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BEVUP Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 20 hours ago, Aditi Sharma said: Just pay and make your peace with the girl. Why pay nothing proven Maybe I should send my 6 daughters around 555 (maybe I could stay a little longer here if I had any daughters) or maybe retire early as this is just one young lad to go after Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aditi Sharma Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 5 hours ago, BEVUP said: Why pay nothing proven Maybe I should send my 6 daughters around 555 (maybe I could stay a little longer here if I had any daughters) or maybe retire early as this is just one young lad to go after It it not his fault nor hers either that she conceived. It is what he is not doing right now which is inconceivable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted October 9, 2017 Share Posted October 9, 2017 A post using ALL CAPS has been removed, again. Please turn off your Caps Lock button when posting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pauleddy Posted October 11, 2017 Share Posted October 11, 2017 If they dropped the price, it's a cert that they are trying something dodgy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sead Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 (edited) So lets make this more understandable. No tests nor a doctor can tell if someone is pregnant after 10 days. Period Tell them to come and talk again after 3 months. And if decided to pay any money. It should be paid After a dna test is made. Meaning 8 months more. Edited October 12, 2017 by sead Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aditi Sharma Posted October 12, 2017 Share Posted October 12, 2017 This topic has insulted womanhood worse than anything else only to, paradoxically enough, make the guy look more and more terrible by the day. But I am not for pulling it down, bring it on! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sead Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 Any update about what happened and how it evolved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
balo Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 Sounds like a scam to me , they know you're a farang and can afford it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oxo1947 Posted October 14, 2017 Share Posted October 14, 2017 On 10/12/2017 at 5:12 PM, sead said: So lets make this more understandable. No tests nor a doctor can tell if someone is pregnant after 10 days. Period Tell them to come and talk again after 3 months. And if decided to pay any money. It should be paid After a dna test is made. Meaning 8 months more. You can call a pregnancy after 5 days--or 10 days if they have ovulated -- The tests (kits) they have now are a lot more sensitive then in years past , (not that I am saying the parents used one of these-- ) I think if it's certain she is pregnant, then you should consider some kind of help--- medical bills the correct food for her etc, we are not talking big money here, & it just might turn out to be you grandchild. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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