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FritsSikkink Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 11 minutes ago, Goodintentions said: Read my prior responses on the thread sex is 3 months NOT 13. 3 times in a new relation when you really like each other is next to nothing Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mstevens Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 1 hour ago, Goodintentions said: I simply want the truth, to effect closure and will regrettably, but wisely move on. Closure is always nice, but at the end of the day this relationship was only 2 months and with all due respect, it didn't sound like it was intense or one to get too upset over. Of course it is sad and disappointing when things don't work out but walking away is the right thing to do for yourself. For what it's worth, I've found that ending relationships gets easier as you get older and the "pain" doesn't last like it did when you were young. So walk away and find someone worthy of your time and attention. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 2 hours ago, Hummin said: At least she doesnt <deleted> around to much, at least with him your right there 2 times in 13 months wasn't it. 555 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
leither69 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 Personally I think you a weirdo!! Stalking!! Get a life pal. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Days Off Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 Seven pages of dribble and nobody has managed to ask for a picture of said lady...y'all should be ashamed of yourselves. Dude, she doesn't like you. It's that easy. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 (edited) Bargirls may get the bad rap, but they elegant, educated, good job, blah blah can be the worst. Remember this about Thai ladies and this place: Things are not always as they seem...... As far as the stalking I actually get it. Hard to move on you want to know what she is doing and the lies. Try to move on from it and figure it out the last thing you want is the cops involved. Edited May 3, 2018 by bkk6060 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny1990 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 Soon she will be fingerpointing u at the police station! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 (edited) 8 minutes ago, leither69 said: Personally I think you a weirdo!! Stalking!! Get a life pal. also if the OP was ! any thing like a decent catch she would be the one stalking him. get a life and while your at it a new g.f who will want to to shag her. Edited May 3, 2018 by catman20 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canerandagio Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 (edited) Hello OP... I am with you in a lot of this and I also side with those who say... it's over, and I think you know it too. I think that when there is no trust there is no relationship, but if I understand correctly your drive here is curiosity... it's trying to understand things, rather than fixing them. In this I am with you, and it's very entertaining to catch someone who is playing dishonest. Since you are well versed, you know well that if you catch her with her pants down (literally or figuratively, it doesn't matter), she will say UP TO YOU, and leave you mouth open without anything to say, which is the thing I hate the most of Thai girls. So, I think you are entitled to understand what is going on and if this means following her so be it, obviously this is on the assumption that she has been playing with your feelings, with your time or with your interests. If on the other hand you are just casual friends (which would justify the oddity of rare sex) then it's not really your business and I am sure you know it well. I don't think you are a psyco, as someone said, from the way you write you seem curious and quite balanced to me, but everyone is entitled to an opinion. Edited May 3, 2018 by canerandagio 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
catman20 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 7 minutes ago, Destiny1990 said: Soon she will be fingerpointing u at the police station! STALKER!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goodintentions Posted May 3, 2018 Author Share Posted May 3, 2018 20 minutes ago, mstevens said: That's an appalling thing to say. Thanks for your mature responses mate...greatly appreciated. Like all forums ...it certainly has its individuals seeking a response :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post cornishcarlos Posted May 3, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 3, 2018 I reckon half the people giving the Op a hard time, are wishing they had done a bit of detective work themselves... Now they are stuck with lying, cheating whores and all their money is gone !! Get in there Op, dark glasses on and just hang back about 70m, you'll be good... 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canerandagio Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 2 minutes ago, cornishcarlos said: I reckon half the people giving the Op a hard time, are wishing they had done a bit of detective work themselves... Now they are stuck with lying, cheating whores and all their money is gone !! Get in there Op, dark glasses on and just hang back about 70m, you'll be good... OP, I can do detective work for free for you. Serious... :) It'll be fun. If someone is cheating then it's fair game, so detective is acceptable. Can go and shag another afterwards, it's just fun to investigate a la Sherlock :) IM me if you want me to help :) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goodintentions Posted May 3, 2018 Author Share Posted May 3, 2018 6 minutes ago, canerandagio said: Hello OP... I am with you in a lot of this and I also side with those who say... it's over, and I think you know it too. I think that when there is no trust there is no relationship, but if I understand correctly your drive here is curiosity... it's trying to understand things, rather than fixing them. In this I am with you, and it's very entertaining to catch someone who is playing dishonest. Since you are well versed, you know well that if you catch her with her pants down (literally or figuratively, it doesn't matter), she will say UP TO YOU, and leave you mouth open without anything to say, which is the thing I hate the most of Thai girls. So, I think you are entitled to understand what is going on and if this means following her so be it, obviously this is on the assumption that she has been playing with your feelings, with your time or with your interests. If on the other hand you are just casual friends (which would justify the oddity of rare sex) then it's not really your business and I am sure you know it well. I don't think you are a psyco, as someone said, from the way you write you seem curious and quite balanced to me, but everyone is entitled to an opinion. Thanks for taking the time to read my post , responses and make your own judgement. You are correct. I simply would like to know the truth for closure. Yes I do know it is over, but it does not mean I despise her. I would just like to know what her intentions were with me as I was entirely honest with her and faithful. Yes I feel like a fool, upset, hurt, angry and taken advantage of. But I also realize that she will have her own reasons and I would like to hear them, although highly unlikely and only she will know if they are true or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goodintentions Posted May 3, 2018 Author Share Posted May 3, 2018 4 minutes ago, canerandagio said: OP, I can do detective work for free for you. Serious... :) It'll be fun. If someone is cheating then it's fair game, so detective is acceptable. Can go and shag another afterwards, it's just fun to investigate a la Sherlock :) IM me if you want me to help :) Hahaha...duly noted mate..thank you Kindly :) 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lanng khao Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 D M me the deets my mate and I'll follow the bint for a fortnight and report back, free of charge, love all that palava..Sent from my SM-G955F using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goodintentions Posted May 3, 2018 Author Share Posted May 3, 2018 Just now, lanng khao said: D M me the deets my mate and I'll follow the bint for a fortnight and report back, free of charge, love all that palava.. Sent from my SM-G955F using Tapatalk Thank you as well. The reality is ...it would simply take 2-3 hours on an evening between 18:30 and likely 21:00 and a BTS trip. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canerandagio Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 6 minutes ago, Goodintentions said: Hahaha...duly noted mate..thank you Kindly :) Messaged you privately :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenny2017 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 1 hour ago, maddox41 said: Hmmmmmmmm I concur with Lemon jelly she's married or in another relationship?? Thais hate drama in real life but love watching it on TV Thais will lie if it gets them of the hook and doesn't create even more drama. I haven't heard of a farang stalking a Thai before but I been stalked by thai women. That's normal for them too . If they don't do it themselves they get a friend to check you out! Also if she is attractive speaks perfect English and has some money she is as popular as a farang would be to a Thai lady She I'm sure she has many options too. Move on dude hit the reset button and start new. She just isn't into you as you are into to her?? Im sure deep down you already know this Good luck mate Also if she is attractive speaks perfect English and has some money she is as popular as a farang would be to a Thai lady What makes a Farang so popular to a Thai lady? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colinneil Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 1 hour ago, Acemaker said: Sounds to me like she might be a Lesbian, and your thinking of Marriage, jeez the number of Falangs on here who do not have a clue about Women especially these Thai Snakes, never ceases to amaze me, she lives with her Friend, ER HELLO ! And you have only slept with her twice! she is 41 never been Married, buy her a pair of Doc Martens that should do the Trick. What is wrong with her being 41and never married? My wife was 42 when we married, never had a boyfriend, and before you or anyone else starts with smart comments,my wife has 1 sister 54, 1 sister 43 they have never had boyfriends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sprigger Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 You definitely come across as a weirdo, she’s got a Thai geeza tucked away most of them have. ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Megasin1 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 OMG dude, you stalked her....LOL...crazy stuff I think the 2 x sex in a long period is sign enough, she is most definitely not into you, i would have died of boredom big up for admitting to stalking in here, you certainly put it all out there...LOL but seriously, fairly handsome, fit, non-smoker, what on earth are you playing at ? add her into your little black book as an occasional when it suits you and get out there and have some fun at least 3 times a week 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamini Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 Seems a very strange naïve guy to me. Sleeps with his girlfriend only twice in nine weeks and then expects her to be faithful. Most women want sex every night and many in the morning as well . If he is not engaged to her, then she had every right to do what she wants until they get married. He is implying that has only had sex twice in nine weeks, living in Thailand. I think that is also quite strange. Many many years ago I met very high-class young lady in Bangkok and arranged a dinner date at a first class hotel. When I later suggested I take her back home to her parents, she got angry and accused me of being gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
metisdead Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 Some posts containing offensive language have been removed as well as the replies. Inflammatory posts and the replies have been removed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skippy121 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 if they have only been dating seriously for a short amount of time , under 4 months then this is not uncommon if you have met a girl that does not make money from her pussy. This is way to success find a girl from a well of backround , she will probably not want sex before marriage, while waiting for the big day, shag what ever you want behind her back but be discreet. This is the Thai way, when in Rome... This way , you get married to a nice girl that is not a walking sperm bank , you get to have some fun while waiting much better than trying to marry a girl that puts it about bottom line is marry a nice girl but shag a bad one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorecard Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 3 hours ago, jenny2017 said: Do you sweat it out, or what? You were planning, but she's acting. Let loose her leash. Is the OP enjoying playing a childish game with this lady? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jenny2017 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 1 minute ago, scorecard said: Is the OP enjoying playing a childish game with this lady? It seems that the "lady" is playing a very childish game with him. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
observer90210 Posted May 3, 2018 Share Posted May 3, 2018 You are out for trouble if you did it only 2 times in almost a year ?!!!.... Not sure where or with who she is sleeping her nights ? Humble advice....run...find another one...your attachment with apparently the wrong person, will cost you your future and your ca$h !! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Goodintentions Posted May 3, 2018 Author Share Posted May 3, 2018 1 hour ago, skippy121 said: if they have only been dating seriously for a short amount of time , under 4 months then this is not uncommon if you have met a girl that does not make money from her pussy. This is way to success find a girl from a well of backround , she will probably not want sex before marriage, while waiting for the big day, shag what ever you want behind her back but be discreet. This is the Thai way, when in Rome... This way , you get married to a nice girl that is not a walking sperm bank , you get to have some fun while waiting much better than trying to marry a girl that puts it about bottom line is marry a nice girl but shag a bad one Skippy...I am presuming you are Thai. Thanks for your response. The reality is, I do NOT want to sleep around. I had more than my share of South East Asian and Japanese women in my lifetime. More than enough. I now simply wish to find the right lady, who has her own professional career and is looking for a long-term relationship that could end up in marriage if we are compatible. That is what I am looking for and have clearly stated to her. "this is not uncommon if you have met a girl that does not make money from her pussy." .....What is not uncommon, not having sex ? Yes that is my belief from what I have researched and spoken to Thai career women and professional men. apparently here, many of the so called experts who have lived in Thailand for extended periods of time are unaware of this and classify all women as bargirls/prostitutes,etc. This is why I am SO curious as to where she is staying and keeping it secret from me. please feel free to message me privately thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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