BestB Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 Just now, bermannor said: Deeds should follow normally words. Says who? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britishjohn Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 17 minutes ago, bermannor said: Even at MBK ?? Well maybe 500m in that instance ? But since you can get a few cards knocked up for 100baht, they're not gonna believe anything you write. A link to a business website however could be a bit more convincing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChakaKhan Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 LOL Well this has certainly been a good thread as I've spent time on TF...my answer to the ladies is I'd rather EARN love than PAY for it, might explain why I'm still single here, but have scored a few freebies, I like the China dolls ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bermannor Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 52 minutes ago, britishjohn said: Well maybe 500m in that instance ? But since you can get a few cards knocked up for 100baht, they're not gonna believe anything you write. A link to a business website however could be a bit more convincing. In English or Thai? A lot of effort for a date ?. A full wallet is easier or a golden credit card. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberfarang Posted July 29, 2018 Share Posted July 29, 2018 1 hour ago, goegoe said: Sorry but do you know any woman in this world who is physically attracted by super old men ?! Sadly, goegoe, for me that is, I am a realist and know that as a guy now in my early 60s, I am inviable to younger women when out and about and unless super rich, have slim chances of pulling young women on dating sites or from anywhere else. Unless willing to pay thousands of bahts to escort agencies for an encounter with a desirable young woman, then my options are extremely limited. But there are old guys who really believe that desirable young women will find them attractive and can woo them just by their charismatic charm. These are the guys that prefer to follow a dream rather than face the reality and end up getting stung. Unfortunately there are women out there that will play these guys games and string them along. To put it bluntly, this is why I would not waste my time joining dating sites looking for women young enough to be my daughter believing Im going to find a true love on there. The pay as you go option is much more practical for me and other guys of similar age groups. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britishjohn Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 7 hours ago, cyberfarang said: Sadly, goegoe, for me that is, I am a realist and know that as a guy now in my early 60s, I am inviable to younger women when out and about and unless super rich, have slim chances of pulling young women on dating sites or from anywhere else. Unless willing to pay thousands of bahts to escort agencies for an encounter with a desirable young woman, then my options are extremely limited. But there are old guys who really believe that desirable young women will find them attractive and can woo them just by their charismatic charm. These are the guys that prefer to follow a dream rather than face the reality and end up getting stung. Unfortunately there are women out there that will play these guys games and string them along. To put it bluntly, this is why I would not waste my time joining dating sites looking for women young enough to be my daughter believing Im going to find a true love on there. The pay as you go option is much more practical for me and other guys of similar age groups. I agree with a lot of what you say. Pay as you go makes a lot of sense however there's one thing about hookers I personally find a real turn off. The fact they are faking it. It just bores me and even Viagra often won't come to the rescue. But I had a brief relationship with a youngish woman who was most certainly not faking it, that was 100 times better than any professional and no Viagra needed.. It's very psychological... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BestB Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 1 minute ago, britishjohn said: I agree with a lot of what you say. Pay as you go makes a lot of sense however there's one thing about hookers I personally find a real turn off. The fact they are faking it. It just bores me and even Viagra often won't come to the rescue. But I had a brief relationship with a youngish woman who was most certainly not faking it, that was 100 times better than any professional and no Viagra needed.. It's very psychological... Get them drunk first, they forget how to fake ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britishjohn Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 Just now, BestB said: Get them drunk first, they forget how to fake ? That would make it even worse ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
faraday Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 Just now, BestB said: Get them drunk first, they forget how to fake ? Bet they all fall asleep on you; drunk or not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BestB Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 1 minute ago, faraday said: Bet they all fall asleep on you; drunk or not. Is that speaking from personal experience ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
faraday Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 4 minutes ago, BestB said: Is that speaking from personal experience ? Yup, long time ago, it did actually happen. ? She missed out on the best 2 minutes of her life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spidey Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 On 7/28/2018 at 1:57 AM, BritManToo said: Young guy in his 30s, he said it was better than the dating scene in NZ. How can that be true? Not many sheep in Thailand and none on TF. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spidey Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 10 hours ago, goegoe said: Sorry but do you know any woman in this world who is physically attracted by super old men ?! Why? Are you looking for one? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andre47 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 8 hours ago, cyberfarang said: To put it bluntly, this is why I would not waste my time joining dating sites looking for women young enough to be my daughter believing Im going to find a true love on there. The pay as you go option is much more practical for me and other guys of similar age groups. Thaifriendly is not a place to find real love. There are only hookers and scammers. (and fakes :)) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spidey Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 Just now, andre47 said: Thaifriendly is not a place to find real love. There are only hookers and scammers. (and fakes :)) Yep, more than a sprinkling of ladyboys on TF. Caveat emptor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neeray Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 6 minutes ago, andre47 said: Thaifriendly is not a place to find real love. There are only hookers and scammers. (and fakes :)) Can't agree with you on that statement. I met one on TF in my early Thai days. It was she who approached me. We spent 3 on-and-off-again years together and remain close friends to this day. I know it is rare but this gal would not overspend a baht of my money. Wouldn't let me buy her a lobster dinner on our first extended date (said later it was too expensive). I could tell many similar stories like this about her. Definitely not a hooker, scammer or fake. But we met on TF. Maybe I just got lucky. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
colinneil Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 17 minutes ago, andre47 said: Thaifriendly is not a place to find real love. There are only hookers and scammers. (and fakes :)) Nonsense post you made why? Many good honest Thai ladies on dating sites, i know i met and married one, no better wife can any man find anywhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cyberfarang Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 On 7/30/2018 at 8:56 AM, britishjohn said: I agree with a lot of what you say. Pay as you go makes a lot of sense however there's one thing about hookers I personally find a real turn off. The fact they are faking it. It just bores me and even Viagra often won't come to the rescue. But I had a brief relationship with a youngish woman who was most certainly not faking it, that was 100 times better than any professional and no Viagra needed.. It's very psychological... Going back to my teen years, I would meet up with girls and each one was like my first love, a true girlfriend experience. The first time I ever experienced sex was at age 15. Back in those days unlike modern times, we were naive, there was no internet, porn movies were a rarity, no sex education and most parents considered discussing the birds and the bees with their children as a taboo subject. The first time for me was a voyage of discovery, had to feel my way around (excuse the pun). Later on in life while holidaying in Thailand, my mates and I indulged with bargirls, but to us it was mostly just for laughs, a meal, get half drunk and take out a bargirl afterwards. Once the deed was finished, my mates and I would compare our bargirls performance levels, it was only fun, we did not consider any of the girls we met as relationship material. But we were quite a bit younger in those days and meeting women, whether the naughty kind or nice girls was not a difficult task, there was no need to search through dating sites. Now in my early 60s, times for me have dramatically changed in the girl department. I could never recreate the first love experiences of my youth, I am not going to be any woman`s ideal of a dream date and I won`t be any part of a woman`s sexual fantasy, although I still look reasonably good and fit for my age (so I`ve been told). I became bored with the hello hansum man, where you come from, do you want me, long ago. Physically I`m still fit and up to the job, but like you, I need mental stimulation as well as physical stimulation, otherwise it`s just boring and a non-event. I have known of many older guys that have come to Thailand seeking the love of their lives, believing they can rekindle their youth again or in other words, your as young as the women you feel. But as I said, if they believe this then they`re living in cloud cuckoo land and unless they have cash coming out of their backsides, their options are very limited. And that`s the reality. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
britishjohn Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 I've seen my libido diminish somewhat, particularly in the last 10 years after divorce and many of the sexual encounters I've had have been disappointing. However when I first came here 2 year ago on holiday I met this 28 year old on Tinder who invited herself back to my hotel. I was literally blown away, I never thought I was capable of experiencing arousal like that again. There was just something about her personality and her highly provocative behaviour in the bedroom that just did it for me. And whenever I met her subsequently it wasn't far short of that either. Sadly she won't bang me anymore... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andre47 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 28 minutes ago, neeray said: Definitely not a hooker, scammer or fake. But we met on TF. Maybe I just got lucky. Sometimes people win the lottery ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
andre47 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 30 minutes ago, colinneil said: Nonsense post you made why? Many good honest Thai ladies on dating sites, i know i met and married one, no better wife can any man find anywhere. On Thaifriendly? Really? Hard to believe.... Some people find their real love in a Pattaya beer bar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neeray Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 7 minutes ago, britishjohn said: I've seen my libido diminish somewhat, particularly in the last 10 years after divorce and many of the sexual encounters I've had have been disappointing. However when I first came here 2 year ago on holiday I met this 28 year old on Tinder who invited herself back to my hotel. I was literally blown away, I never thought I was capable of experiencing arousal like that again. There was just something about her personality and her highly provocative behaviour in the bedroom that just did it for me. And whenever I met her subsequently it wasn't far short of that either. Sadly she won't bang me anymore... Oh well, at least you have some mighty fine memories. ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BritManToo Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 37 minutes ago, britishjohn said: I've seen my libido diminish somewhat, particularly in the last 10 years after divorce and many of the sexual encounters I've had have been disappointing. However when I first came here 2 year ago on holiday I met this 28 year old on Tinder who invited herself back to my hotel. I was literally blown away, I never thought I was capable of experiencing arousal like that again. There was just something about her personality and her highly provocative behaviour in the bedroom that just did it for me. And whenever I met her subsequently it wasn't far short of that either. Sadly she won't bang me anymore... I've had a couple like that, one was absolutely nothing to look at, I have no idea why my lower parts seem to think 'some women are different', but I wish they would let my upper parts in on the secret, so I could waste less time and money with the selection process. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elkski Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 32 minutes ago, BritManToo said: I've had a couple like that, one was absolutely nothing to look at, I have no idea why my lower parts seem to think 'some women are different', but I wish they would let my upper parts in on the secret, so I could waste less time and money with the selection process. Amen! I don't think we ever stop learning what we like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janner1 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 On 7/27/2018 at 5:51 PM, britishjohn said: It's a shame I'm not into the chubbier models as in my experience they are so starved of attention you can dispense with the handouts. In fact only this morning I got a line message out of the blue from a lady I had met once 6 months prior. Apparently she's lonely and asked if I wanted some no strings fun. Her parting message was "come and try a fatty you might like it"... Get used to the fatties guys because with the advent of fast and ready prepared junk food an awful lot of them are rapidly following in the footsteps of western women. It may be that it is acceptable to them to be fat especially as if they see a fat farang they think he is wealthy / rich, so the thinking could be a “ face “ thing, wherein if they get fat they get face ??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bkk6060 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 13 minutes ago, Janner1 said: Get used to the fatties guys because with the advent of fast and ready prepared junk food an awful lot of them are rapidly following in the footsteps of western women. It may be that it is acceptable to them to be fat especially as if they see a fat farang they think he is wealthy / rich, so the thinking could be a “ face “ thing, wherein if they get fat they get face ??? Add to this the fact Thai girls are generally shorter/smaller boned then western women so the fat can pile on quickly. This country is way too over carbohydrated with rice and noodles and sugar. The other thing is all the addiction to these sweet coffee drinks especially by females. I cannot believe how many girls love to walk around with one of those 1000 calorie mostly sugar drinks in their face. Many getting 2 or 3 a day. Posting on Facebook holding one of those drinks....Stupid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Janner1 Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 5 hours ago, colinneil said: Nonsense post you made why? Many good honest Thai ladies on dating sites, i know i met and married one, no better wife can any man find anywhere. Good for you colinneil you are absolutely correct, Good ones are definitely in there I have met three complete fully intact virgins in TF and the one I am seeing now is 38 and never had a boyfriend. When she came to meet me she grabbed me by the throat looked me in the eye and said I am a virgin, so I told that if that was true ( and it was ) she had about another hour to enjoy it, and then it was my turn. we are still together after 8 months now and all she asks me to bring from the UK is M&Ms so I bring a 5 kilo pack, (thankfully she does not munch em when I am looking down her if you know what I mean) She has NEVER asked for money or anything else, and I have not the remotest worry about trusting her. So they are out there guys, just use a little psychology and ask the same questions in a different way and if the answer remains the same each time you know you are onto a potential good one who is not looking to be bankrolled every month. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elkski Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 "Janner1, ...,.. have met three complete fully intact virgins in TF and the one I am seeing now is 38 and never had a boyfriend. When she came to meet me she grabbed me by the throat looked me in the eye and said I am a virgin, so I told that if that was true ( and it was ) she had about another hour to enjoy it, and then it was my turn....." Hey Janner1, That was a great reply.... That would be to much responsibility for me to ever take from a woman especially if she said that during the heat of passion. But it was best the way she told you that on dry land and still wanted a ride in your boat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kuma Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 On 7/21/2018 at 9:48 PM, moontang said: most of the laughs will likely be at the male. Are you trying to be a moderator, or is English a barrier? This is BKK specific, too, as the online scene is different in the smaller areas. Speaking of that...anyone have insight into the online or real streets of the Far East - ie Chanthaburi / Trat? I see lots of potential but still new in this area as far as socializing goes...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DILLIGAD Posted July 30, 2018 Share Posted July 30, 2018 Very quiet and even more scared of Farangs!Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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