7 hours ago, FritsSikkink said:

You already talked to her, do it again and ask her out. Surprised a alpha male needs this sort of advice.

Evidently he is a Beta male, definitely not an Alpha

11 minutes ago, gaff said:

Show your bank book ❤️

 

 

And put some socks in your jeans! 

13 minutes ago, jenny2017 said:

Ask her if she does oral on the first date? What a romantic view of Thai girls. Sorry, but not all girls/ women are up for that, especially not when it's an older foreigner on Viagra. 

Take it easy jenny; ever hear of satire? If so, look at the last part (#4) of the post to which I responded.  Read my post #35, it may give you a better idea my thoughts.

I'm just interested, does the OP mean the girl works at 7-11 or just that he sometimes sees her there? His post mentioned that she works in a leasing office.
It could be a little creepy staking out the place to see another customer but if he's got her routine down, then maybe the encounters seem spontaneous. 

8 minutes ago, smotherb said:

Take it easy jenny; ever hear of satire? If so, look at the last part (#4) of the post to which I responded.  Read my post #35, it may give you a better idea my thoughts.

Sorry, when I somehow offended you, wasn't my intention. I'm just in a bad mood after a kid at my school committed suicide. My apologies. 

34 minutes ago, rasg said:

Classy.

If you don't ask, you don't get. Ask her out for food. It's not difficult!

 

Why waste time and money?

24 minutes ago, upu2 said:

Evidently he is a Beta male, definitely not an Alpha

He might be an omega male, who knows? 

Just now, BritManToo said:

Why waste time and money?

To find out if it's really a girl? 

1 hour ago, jenny2017 said:

That would only show his poor Thai skills. 

My Thai language skills have always gotten me some nice bed time so thank you for your weird complement. And the women have always enjoyed being called suay mak thiisuit so maybe you should check your thai language skills as you don’t seem to understand the English written version of these Thai words. 

2 hours ago, duanebigsby said:

You've always assumed young Thai women who talk to you are whores?

Sad.

No, I've always assumed that young Thai women that start conversations with me are 'looking for lunch'.

If you actually knew anything about Thailand you would know respectable women aren't allowed to talk to men socially. (outside of business, the family and/or without a family member present)

Edited August 11, 20188 yr by BritManToo

6 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

6 hours ago, transam said:

Rubbish....

Keep it real, too many delusional people around

There are young girls who prefer older men and there are girls who prefer their own age! Come on people, this small planet is bigger than what knowledge some seem to possess! My wife's Thai, shes 45 I'm 62 and we're great together! We're actually in love! Stop picking the wrong girls! Take the time to get to know someone before marrying just because the sex is good.

5 minutes ago, jenny2017 said:

To find out if it's really a girl? 

You can't tell?

9 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

You can't tell?

Perhaps, I'd accidentally fall and make the test grip. No, I know the difference and how to make sure that I'm not confronted with something I already have. 

Edited August 11, 20188 yr by jenny2017

41 minutes ago, upu2 said:

Evidently he is a Beta male, definitely not an Alpha

Surprisingly, Taylor & Francis studies have found the Beta male does well with the inexperienced girls.

Edited August 11, 20188 yr by smotherb
tried to clean it up

Within 8 hours five pages of tips and comments how to talk to a girl after you talked already with her. Amazing Thailand!

My personal tip: Why don't you just continue your conversation and ask her whatever you want to ask her?

6 hours ago, transam said:

Oh yes it is...?

Was in my local bar a while back and a group of Malasian contractors took all the girls. Owner made a couple of calls and within 30 minutes 4 really young girls turned up. All of them worked in 7/11s during the day.

23 minutes ago, jenny2017 said:

Sorry, when I somehow offended you, wasn't my intention. I'm just in a bad mood after a kid at my school committed suicide. My apologies. 

Didn't offend me; just wanted to set you straight. I usually wait until the second date.

16 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

No, I've always assumed that young Thai women that start conversations with me are 'looking for lunch'.

If you actually knew anything about Thailand you would know respectable women aren't allowed to talk to men socially. (outside of business, the family and/or without a family member present)

I've been here long enough to realize that any young woman who talks to me isn't automatically up for a shag and 1,000 baht left on the dresser.

 

The scenario quoted has the male starting the conversation and the Thai lady responding, hardly she starting the conversation with you.

 

I doubt you've ever met a respectable Thai lady as you view them all as shaggable or unshaggable.

14 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Within 8 hours five pages of tips and comments how to talk to a girl after you talked already with her. Amazing Thailand!

My personal tip: Why don't you just continue your conversation and ask her whatever you want to ask her?

I just ask them, "Can you ride tandem?".

 

Works for me.

Edited August 11, 20188 yr by Spidey

3 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

3 hours ago, transam said:

In a country like LOS where there is no social security or unemployment benefits then looking for a film star looking guy with nufink is really not high on a birds agenda is it...

They're similar to every other girl really, looking for a guy similar age, job, money, attraction, obviously when that fails they consider older men and money. You just need to keep it real otherwise you'll be surprised when your gf runs off with a younger thai guy

Similar to every other girl where? An older guy is definitely a plus in this market. The older the better.

 

They don't usually run off with younger Thai guys. They keep them as permanent fixtures on the side.

Edited August 11, 20188 yr by tropo

8 hours ago, worgeordie said:

Just go and ask her,she can only say,yes OK, or NO,your kidding,go out with you !

regards Worgeordie

or have somebody coming after you and brake you knees...

 

39 minutes ago, duanebigsby said:

I doubt you've ever met a respectable Thai lady as you view them all as shaggable or unshaggable.

 

What else are they for?

7 hours ago, transam said:

OP, go for it...If she actually spoke to you then I reckon you maybe half way there...Just keep your eyes wide open and not dive into the deep end if you are not a good swimmer....

Absolutely agree and if you go swimming always wear a life jacket.  Lots of nice friendly Thai girls out there.  I am late 60's and even I have been approached.  Sometimes they just want a friend to practice their English with. Or she could have designs on molesting you.   However, assume nothing and don't try too much on a first date because if she is a "good girl" (and they exist) there won't be  a second date.  Play it cool and go for it or tell me which 7/11 to haunt.   555.

Edited August 11, 20188 yr by The Deerhunter

20 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

What else are they for?

Mr Misogyny, I rest my case.

good girls work at 711; bad girls work in real estate....some have been in "the game," a lot longer than real es tate.

9 hours ago, chopin2 said:

I remember taking a girl to a simple, but decent restaurant on a first date.  "Are we really gonna eat in this place, she said??????" She obviously expected something more fancy,  never saw her again of course.

Don't spend beyond your means.

 

 

 

 

There's no need to try to be somebody your not. I have money but they don't know that and even my wife is limited. They come from.very humble places. Any girl with that attitude is a bad seed

You should just walk up to her announce you are English and then say " Fancy a shag pet? D'  ya reckon y'er could take all of it"

Actually you could take her to Lumpini park and make 100K

Edited August 11, 20188 yr by Formaleins

15 hours ago, wolf81 said:

You're a generous man.

No,You are a CHEAP CHARLIE.

16 hours ago, smotherb said:

 I have known many May-December relationships between Southeast Asian (Thai, Viet, Pina) ladies and Westerner men which have lasted and are not based on money.

 

Yes, and then, there is the other 99%...

15 hours ago, PerkinsCuthbert said:

I'm sixty-nine, my last girlfriend was eighteen. Mind you, I had to pay her two thousand Baht to stay the night

 

I don't think that exactly qualifies as "girlfriend"....