"Don't lend money to anyone" - man conned by pretty woman from dating app learns the hard way

[cyberfarang]

6 minutes ago, owl sees all said:

Rules of the game.

 

01. farang meets Isaan girl in Pattaya.
02. farang shags Issan girl.
03. farang marries Issan girl.
04. girl takes farang home.
05. farang meets her lovely family.
06. family borrow a little of good farang's money.
07. family pay money back as they said they would.
08. family suggests a business idea that can't fail.
09. wife turns nympho.
10. wife asks farang to help with new business.
11. farang lends family all he has for venture.
12. business goes kaput.
13. all money lost.
14. farang asks for loan to be repaid.
15. family get angry with bad farang.
16. wife and farang start to constantly argue.
17. wife asks why farang is now so poor.
18. wife turns celibate.
19. farang; suicide/unexplained death.
20. Issan girl seen back in Pattaya.

Brilliant, and sadly too true.

[OneMoreFarang]

3 minutes ago, owl sees all said:

Rules of the game.

 

01. farang meets Isaan girl in Pattaya.
02. farang shas Issan girl.
03. farang marries Issan girl.
04. girl takes farang home.
05. farang meets her lovely family.
06. family borrow a little of good farang's money.
07. family pay money back as they said they would.
08. family suggests a business idea that can't fail.
09. wife turns nympho.
10. wife asks farang to help with new business.
11. farang lends family all he has for venture.
12. business goes kaput.
13. all money lost.
14. farang asks for loan to be repaid.
15. family get angry with bad farang.
16. wife and farang start to constantly argue.
17. wife asks why farang is now so poor.
18. wife turns celibate.
19. farang; suicide/unexplained death.
20. Issan girl seen back in Pattaya.

Except there are lots of cases where the farang almost forces his money on them.

Like: You and your parents are poor. You should open a business to make money. Obviously I will help you to set it up.

 

It's like the drinks: smart girls don't demand drinks, they wait for the farang to asks if she wants one. And later she tells the farang it's up to him how much he wants to give her. Farang is happy that he can "support" his new darling so that she does not have to do that dirty work. Everybody is happy...

[OneMoreFarang]

6 minutes ago, cyberfarang said:

Another scam I`ve been reading about on facebook, is that guys have been dating Thai women from dating sites. Girls meet the guys, go to their rooms or hotels, spend the night with the guys. A couple of days later, girl contacts guy saying; if you don`t give me money I`ll go to the police and say you raped me.

 

It doesn`t mean all that has a pretty face, a cute smile and a sexy voice are good.

 

Beware you guys.

Does that scam actually work in Thailand?

[owl sees all]

5 minutes ago, cyberfarang said:

Another scam I`ve been reading about on facebook, is that guys have been dating Thai women from dating sites. Girls meet the guys, go to their rooms or hotels, spend the night with the guys. A couple of days later, girl contacts guy saying; if you don`t give me money I`ll go to the police and say you raped me.

 

It doesn`t mean all that has a pretty face, a cute smile and a sexy voice are good.

 

Beware you guys.

In days gone by the man would see a woman he fancied, whack her over the head and drag her, by the hair, into the nearest cave and shag her. All the while she would be squealing, like a stuffed pig, but secretly hoping he didn't spot a better looking or younger girl on the way to a cave.
 
After the deed was done and the seed was sown he would fall asleep, but she would get up, chase out any vermin and generally tidy up their new home. Also, make a bit of grub for her new luvver boy. He would awaken, look around and think 'this is a half-decent pad'. After food, he would see the lady bending over - her fur jacket riding up her back - cleaning and think 'I'll hang my hat here for a while'.
 
Of course, 9 months later, the little one popped out and that was that. Hooked!! Line and sinker. "Give me some coloured pebbles to get a fish in the market for dinner dear. I know you have some hidden away."
 
Some on TVForum, including me, would like to turn the clock back a little.

[seahorse]

Same, same but different . 

[dallen52]

11 minutes ago, owl sees all said:

Rules of the game.

 

01. farang meets Isaan girl in Pattaya.
02. farang shags Issan girl.
03. farang marries Issan girl.
04. girl takes farang home.
05. farang meets her lovely family.
06. family borrow a little of good farang's money.
07. family pay money back as they said they would.
08. family suggests a business idea that can't fail.
09. wife turns nympho.
10. wife asks farang to help with new business.
11. farang lends family all he has for venture.
12. business goes kaput.
13. all money lost.
14. farang asks for loan to be repaid.
15. family get angry with bad farang.
16. wife and farang start to constantly argue.
17. wife asks why farang is now so poor.
18. wife turns celibate.
19. farang; suicide/unexplained death.
20. Issan girl seen back in Pattaya.

My mate Dennis in bkk and 25 years here, says...

"Thanks for the contribution "

 

Seriously though. 

I'm six years into my life here.

Ups and downs. 

Remove her from the family. 

See what happens. 

But maybe too late for that.

I've had the farang ki nok treatment. 

Even after about 2 million baht has come and gone.

 

The village is ok for me.

It was she who couldn't settle down. 

Like Village of the Damned.

 

Hope you find solace elsewhere. 

 

I've shown this before,  but it's still so true.

[OneMoreFarang]

3 minutes ago, dallen52 said:

Seriously though. 

I'm six years into my life here.

Ups and downs. 

Remove her from the family. 

See what happens. 

But maybe too late for that.

I've had the farang ki nok treatment. 

Even after about 2 million baht has come and gone.

Are you real/serious?

 

[dallen52]

3 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

No, my one is different, she really spent all that money on the sick buffalo!

 

Mine and her friends are currently making buffalo merit.

They contribute to the saving of buffalo headed for the knackery.

And the monks take care of them. 

Basically another sort of money scam I would have a guess.

 

It doesn't have to be their buffalo. 

Can be anyone's. 

 

Send money.  Haha

[BEngBKK]

We all fall for the pu..y trap sooner or later and learn the true face of Thailand.

 

[OneMoreFarang]

1 minute ago, BEngBKK said:

We all fall for the pu..y trap sooner or later and learn the true face of Thailand.

And if we would be able to time travel most of us would do it again and again...

[BEngBKK]

Poor uneducated people always do what is needed  to climb up the social ladder...

[BEngBKK]

1 minute ago, OneMoreFarang said:

And if we would be able to time travel most of us would do it again and again...

sad but true

[Kerryd]

33 minutes ago, cyberfarang said:

Another scam I`ve been reading about on facebook, is that guys have been dating Thai women from dating sites. Girls meet the guys, go to their rooms or hotels, spend the night with the guys. A couple of days later, girl contacts guy saying; if you don`t give me money I`ll go to the police and say you raped me.

I say to them "Awesome - I'll just show them the video of us having sex and all the things you did for me - and to me - and see what they say."

(If she thinks you filmed the whole thing she'll probably back off real quick - especially if she thinks others - like the police or the media - might see the video.)

[sweatalot]

3 hours ago, evadgib said:

...and this might just be a bloke!

... from Nigeria

[cyberfarang]

Just now, Kerryd said:

I say to them "Awesome - I'll just show them the video of us having sex and all the things you did for me - and to me - and see what they say."

(If she thinks you filmed the whole thing she'll probably back off real quick - especially if she thinks others - like the police or the media - might see the video.)

And what if the guy is already in a relationship or married? Doubt he`d want to boast about a sexual encounter with another woman. I would bet for sure that many of those old guys on dating sites are married men looking for a bit on the side.

[marqus12]

1 hour ago, owl sees all said:

Rules of the game.

 

01. farang meets Isaan girl in Pattaya.
02. farang shags Issan girl.
03. farang marries Issan girl.
04. girl takes farang home.
05. farang meets her lovely family.
06. family borrow a little of good farang's money.
07. family pay money back as they said they would.
08. family suggests a business idea that can't fail.
09. wife turns nympho.
10. wife asks farang to help with new business.
11. farang lends family all he has for venture.
12. business goes kaput.
13. all money lost.
14. farang asks for loan to be repaid.
15. family get angry with bad farang.
16. wife and farang start to constantly argue.
17. wife asks why farang is now so poor.
18. wife turns celibate.
19. farang; suicide/unexplained death.
20. Issan girl seen back in Pattaya.

such stupidities in Thailand usually do native english speakers
so as a NES it will be easy for you to find job in neighboring countries
Vietnam is cheaper and cool ... do not let the bi*ch win

[simtemple]

Another timely warning: 

 

Don't leave an Asian Whore unattended in your condo. They may use it as an opportunity to steal. Don't, for example, take a shower while they are present. Asian women are congenitally light fingered.

[DrTuner]

4 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

No, my one is different, she really spent all that money on the sick buffalo!

 

All I see is keenok, no money spent.

[hotchilli]

So BJ goes after foreigners who scam Thai women but Thai on Thai is ok?

[spidermike007]

3 hours ago, cyberfarang said:

Another scam I`ve been reading about on facebook, is that guys have been dating Thai women from dating sites. Girls meet the guys, go to their rooms or hotels, spend the night with the guys. A couple of days later, girl contacts guy saying; if you don`t give me money I`ll go to the police and say you raped me.

 

It doesn`t mean all that has a pretty face, a cute smile and a sexy voice are good.

 

Beware you guys.

 

The best reply to that scam is that my family is very close friends with Police Colonel Samtip Wattanakrung. He works at the headquarters. You will be immediately arrested for libel, making false statements to a policeman, and will be tried, and possibly jailed for five years. My family is very wealthy and we will spend 10 million baht on attorneys, just for fun. Can you match that budget? Lastly, I have the entire encounter on videotape, just in case. So, got for it. Do your thing. Knock yourself out baby. 

[natway09]

You just cannot help "stupid"

[phil2407]

Why isn’t she being done for romance scam? (Think was Iranian guy earlier with Thai lady that vanished after sending money)  Or is it only foreign people they go after when scamming Thai females!!!!!!

[Brigand]

Yep...this story is a case of a fool and his money are easily separated. Interesting that, as has been mentioned, it is only foreigners who can be accused of defrauding Thai females of money. Also, alarm bells should have been ringing with this guy when such a hot woman is so quickly overly interested in someone like him. When it comes to money there are few lows that people won't now stoop to to get it in this shallow, vain and greedy world we now inhabit.

Edited November 22, 2018 by Brigand

[1337markus]

Introduce him to the concept of CATFISHING

[omegaman]

A fool and his money are soon separated, in any country.

 

I would say 90,000 THB is a cheap lesson.

 

The man was a moron.

[omegaman]

2 hours ago, marqus12 said:

such stupidities in Thailand usually do native english speakers
so as a NES it will be easy for you to find job in neighboring countries
Vietnam is cheaper and cool ... do not let the bi*ch win

An unfair biased and highly generalised stereotype.

 

A fool is a fool in any culture or country.

[racket]

He’s an idiot just like those low life white degenerate countless a-holes who go to Thailand and marries a f-kin prostitute. 

[salavan]

7 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

No, my one is different, she really spent all that money on the sick buffalo!

 

Nice buffalo

[direction BANGKOK]

I gotta say I was actually surprised the authorities did not do anything. They have the account info. I assume it was a thai on the receiving end? 

Edited November 22, 2018 by direction BANGKOK

[NoshowJones]

7 hours ago, mok199 said:

Suck it up....most of us ''have been their done that''.........

I haven't.????