Popular Post toto69toto Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 I met a girl online and we have been texting and video calling on messenger for about 4 weeks now.All signals clearly show me we both fell for each other. Only thing that bothers me is, she never texts me first, always waits for me to text.When I do , she's very kind and nice and responds almost right away. When I asked her about that ,she said, I don't want to disturb you. When I say ,that I don't want to disturb her either , she always repeats; you never disturb me baby...any ideas how to read this.She knows I like her a lot and that I have bought a ticket to fly there and have booked a hotel-showed her both bookings. Now I haven't texted or called for 2 days and haven't heard from her either...Curious to see how far this would go... 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Hummin Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 If she do not contact you, she is to busy, or not so interested, and that is how we work to. It is not science, and if she really was interested in you, she would be all over you every day, and every hour and every minute. 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post tgw Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 either troll or stealth advertiser... 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
toto69toto Posted August 23, 2019 Author Share Posted August 23, 2019 2 minutes ago, Hummin said: If she do not contact you, she is to busy, or not so interested, and that is how we work to. It is not science, and if she really was interested in you, she would be all over you every day, and every hour and every minute. It has crossed my mind, to be honest, that's why I do this "withdrawal test" , to make sure. But what puzzled me is that every time I write and talk to her, she states how she misses me and is waiting for me and not talking to anybody but me...hence the question ;is it a "thai" thing to not be able to say straight - sorry , I don't like you anymore -...after all she could just block me or unfriend me etc. or just find some excuse reason for me to not write her anymore. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post toto69toto Posted August 23, 2019 Author Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 1 minute ago, tgw said: either troll or stealth advertiser... ...says " Platinum Member" though 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post brokenbone Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 the most likely is she is a hooker picking up punters online 4 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post tgw Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 26 minutes ago, toto69toto said: ...says " Platinum Member" though troll it is then... 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post ratcatcher Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 29 minutes ago, toto69toto said: ;is it a "thai" thing to not be able to say straight - sorry , I don't like you anymore -...after all she could just block me or unfriend me etc. or just find some excuse reason for me to not write her anymore. What you are seeing here is good customer relations on her part. You will have to make the first move. She knows you will be arriving soon bearing gifts. Enjoy yourself 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post madmen Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 46 minutes ago, toto69toto said: All signals clearly show me we both fell for each other. Boy are you in for a shock 4 1 14 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post AlexRich Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 She's busy with her other sponsors ... go with your gut feel. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Tayaout Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 Too busy texting many other. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1FinickyOne Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 57 minutes ago, toto69toto said: we both fell for each other. first misconception... sorry, flattery and making you feel good is a big part of initial phases here... maybe it is a first step and if you want love, I hope it works out for you, but it is a much longer road... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SteveK Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 (edited) 55 minutes ago, brokenbone said: the most likely is she is a hooker picking up punters online Boom. 99% chance that this is the case. I would bet my left ball on it. Edited August 23, 2019 by SteveK 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post grumbleweed Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 thai girl friend ( in making ) never texts first...is it a "thai" thing More likely a "string the sucker along" thing 1 hour ago, toto69toto said: Curious to see how far this would go... Depends how far your overdraft will allow it. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post toto69toto Posted August 23, 2019 Author Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 2 minutes ago, grumbleweed said: thai girl friend ( in making ) never texts first...is it a "thai" thing More likely a "string the sucker along" thing Depends how far your overdraft will allow it. I mean how far it would go for her to not write to me, because she knows for sure I’m coming ( ticket not refundable plus hotel etc. ) Could some one so innocent looking insist to my face ( video chat) that she’s only talking to me and counting the days etc...she might thought I’m sure fish in the net...don’t know. It was looking all so...sincere 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amykat Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 1 hour ago, toto69toto said: hence the question ;is it a "thai" thing to not be able to say straight - sorry , I don't like you anymore -...after all she could just block me or unfriend me etc. or just find some excuse reason for me to not write her anymore. Yes, it is a Thai thing to not say that. And why would she? You are potential money, and they never will cut that tie. You never know when you might need it and costs nothing at this point to keep you. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruce Aussie Chiang Mai Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 You got the ticket and room suggest a back up plan or 2 just incase. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post dimitriv Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 >> Now I haven't texted or called for 2 days and haven't heard from her either... You act like a little child. Do you feel so insecure that you have to do things like this? >> we both fell for each other You never met and it sounds like you already have plans to marry her. If you learned about her on a dating website she is probably writing with 10 others also. And you cannot blame her. A lot of weird people online who promise a lot. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post bwpage3 Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 1 hour ago, toto69toto said: It has crossed my mind, to be honest, that's why I do this "withdrawal test" , to make sure. But what puzzled me is that every time I write and talk to her, she states how she misses me and is waiting for me and not talking to anybody but me...hence the question ;is it a "thai" thing to not be able to say straight - sorry , I don't like you anymore -...after all she could just block me or unfriend me etc. or just find some excuse reason for me to not write her anymore. You are a fish in a barrel with probably a few others. Right now she doesn't know which fish will be the best deal for her or which one can deliver more? She might be with someone and play you until the time she can see you in person and see what you have to offer. I agree with the other poster, if she was into you, she would be messaging you every 5 seconds. Thai's are not thoughtful enough to say they don't want to bother you. That is a learned lined from somewhere If she was into you, she would bother you every second and not let you get away. Be careful. When you think with your heart it is very easy to get played. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bwpage3 Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 11 minutes ago, toto69toto said: I mean how far it would go for her to not write to me, because she knows for sure I’m coming ( ticket not refundable plus hotel etc. ) Could some one so innocent looking insist to my face ( video chat) that she’s only talking to me and counting the days etc...she might thought I’m sure fish in the net...don’t know. It was looking all so...sincere Bro you really don't understand the game do you? All Thai women are innocent looking and the best liars in the world. You are coming and if she is a less that moral women she will put out and take you for everything she can during the time you are here. That's not love, that is just plain being silly. DO NOT TRY TO TALK YOURSELF INTO THIS! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
timendres Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 11 minutes ago, toto69toto said: I mean how far it would go for her to not write to me, because she knows for sure I’m coming ( ticket not refundable plus hotel etc. ) Could some one so innocent looking insist to my face ( video chat) that she’s only talking to me and counting the days etc...she might thought I’m sure fish in the net...don’t know. It was looking all so...sincere Wow. It never ceases to amaze me. Innocent looking? You do realize that those people in that new fangled thing called "moving pictures" are paid actors, right? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post AverageBloke Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 6 minutes ago, toto69toto said: I mean how far it would go for her to not write to me, because she knows for sure I’m coming ( ticket not refundable plus hotel etc. ) Could some one so innocent looking insist to my face ( video chat) that she’s only talking to me and counting the days etc...she might thought I’m sure fish in the net...don’t know. It was looking all so...sincere From my experience if she really has the hots for you she would be texting you multiple times per day. You'll probably go any way because you have a non refundable ticket, just keep your wits about you and don't lock yourself into one option. Good luck 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Traubert Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 It's quite simple really. It's very difficult to compose a text message when you're on all fours with some big, drunk, hairy, fat farang smashing the granny out of you. HTH. 1 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post richard_smith237 Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 Its pretty obvious isn't it... She's just not that into you as you've not yet convinced her you are a gullible enough mark.... She's too busy playing those who will deposit more ! Don't be the sucker... 5 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post BestB Posted August 23, 2019 Popular Post Share Posted August 23, 2019 You should be getting a text in about 7 days, rent is due on the 1st of the month The only reason why she was not able to text is because her phone and bag and wallet were stolen, so for her to continue to be able to speak with you, you may also need to get her a new phone to use. Unfortunately she can only use latest Iphone or Samsung, all other phones do not work in Thailand 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JAS21 Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 46 minutes ago, toto69toto said: I mean how far it would go for her to not write to me, because she knows for sure I’m coming ( ticket not refundable plus hotel etc. ) Could some one so innocent looking insist to my face ( video chat) that she’s only talking to me and counting the days etc...she might thought I’m sure fish in the net...don’t know. It was looking all so...sincere She sounds a keeper ... marry her before someone else does .... 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trd Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 You haven't got to know someone in the same physical space. You've got to know a video image and words on a screen. Is that getting to know someone? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NCC1701A Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 3 hours ago, toto69toto said: Only thing that bothers me is, she never texts me first, always waits for me to text. 2 hours ago, toto69toto said: I met a girl online and we have been texting and video calling on messenger for about 4 weeks now.All signals clearly show me we both fell for each other. has she told you she loves you yet? i don't mean with a funny LINE sticker blowing kisses. 2 hours ago, toto69toto said: Only thing that bothers me is, she never texts me first, always waits for me to text.When I do , she's very kind and nice and responds almost right away. how do you communicate? LINE or? is she on line all the time? Has she sent you naked photos yet without you asking? the girl that just left my house i know very well, she got two texts while we were fornicating and i said without breaking stride, "She text you later, she busy." and she burst out laughing. then we got right back into rhythm. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Issannative Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 Haha trol who would come here for real advice 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BestB Posted August 23, 2019 Share Posted August 23, 2019 5 minutes ago, NCC1701A said: has she told you she loves you yet? i don't mean with a funny LINE sticker blowing kisses. how do you communicate? LINE or? is she on line all the time? Has she sent you naked photos yet without you asking? the girl that just left my house i know very well, she got two texts while we were fornicating and i said without breaking stride, "She text you later, she busy." and she burst out laughing. then we got right back into rhythm. what is wrong with LINE blowing kisses stickers? only wish LINE had developed more explicit stickers;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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