25 minutes ago, tifino said:

gotta be carweful - in that you're 'smack' etc is what they are building up and training you to eventually do to them

 - and then becomes their avenue for claiming your brutality

which makes their final hurdle of getting Citizenship, oh so much easier as a 'terrified' bashed ex-wife, feigning it to the max in a Refuge

And it isn,t a problem unique to thailand,many western women will provoke a man into lamping them so they can call the police and get him removed and prosecuted by the police,domestic abuse isn,t the one way street as portrayed by the media.

31 minutes ago, bluesofa said:

You mean they all tend to run amok?

No, not all.

 

It's a psychological disturbance that is culturally more prolific in SE Asia. It's also found elsewhere. But SE Asians are more susceptible to it.

 

Studies have also found that Asian college students are more susceptible to sleep paralysis.

 

I had no idea sleep paralysis even existed. Until I left a Filipina and she swore she had sleep paralysis. I looked into it and it's a real thing. Especially in Philippines.

 

 

 From experience with Thai , Taiwanese and Japanese ladies  over 30 years , I think the Thais and Taiwanese are more likely to lose it completely and get violent very quickly .In the  Thai's case , they often  forgive and forget quickly . Japanese will usually tolerate a lot more before getting angry and it takes much longer before things get back to normal .

I am in awe of the  generalized  sense of superiority ! Not!

1 minute ago, Logosone said:

No, not all.

 

It's a psychological disturbance that is culturally more prolific in SE Asia. It's also found elsewhere. But SE Asians are more susceptible to it.

 

Studies have also found that Asian college students are more susceptible to sleep paralysis.

 

I had no idea sleep paralysis even existed. Until I left a Filipina and she swore she had sleep paralysis. I looked into it and it's a real thing. Especially in Philippines.

 

 

I think I knew her,was her name snow white?

1 minute ago, kingdong said:

I think I knew her,was her name snow white?

No, but she suffered due to the wicked witch of the east.

1 hour ago, AtlasAus said:

Have you ever watched the soaps here ? Bashing, slapping, shooting

And zooming into their angry faces as the music builds up with DUN DUN DUN ????

Never had one argument with my wife in over 12 years.

 

Pick the right one is the answer.

7 minutes ago, Number 6 said:

It's not you it's your money. The nation is absolutely desperate.

 

So you have this weird thing. Poor Filipino women get in comfy with the farang get laxy6real fast. At the same time the want maximum loyalty and payout for essentially nothing.

 

Middle class Filipino women are ok. A bit of education. Stay away from the poors.

Specifically, this didn't apply in my case....

But, the generalization is good if you've ever spent a lot of time there with freedom to explore....It is, indeed, a country of desperate people....

To avoid any of this carry on always treat women as you would your garden,give them a good dig every now and then.

Reads to me a large percentage have failed relationships in their home countries and in Thailand, that is not a good track record for pointing the finger at anything other than yourselves guys

 

I fully accept my behaviour drove my first marriage onto the rocks

 

I learnt, my current wife is a kind hard working lovely person, and I take far better care of her well being than I did the last one, but then this time around I was ready for marriage, a partnership, and yes happy on occasion to identify her needs and put them before mine.

 

4 minutes ago, bwpage3 said:

Never had one argument with my wife in over 12 years.

 

Pick the right one is the answer.

Yes, I'm fortunate in that regard too.....

If and very seldom my wife wants an argument with me I just say "up to you" and that will pull her up. She is OK but and I do say but, sometimes she would love to carry it on. Sometimes I even listen.

 

2 hours ago, owl sees all said:

You are absolutely correct spidermike007.

 

I've had a cleaver thrown at me. And a cat. She threw rocks at me while I was in a pond.

 

Confronted me over a hair she found in the bathroom. Accused me of having sex in a sugar field with a Lao lady. Scratched my face then tried to stop me walking around the village to show everyone. 

 

Right now she is planned to give me a heart attack.

 

I'm gonna take spidermike007's advice.

Best to pick up and leave, and make a new life elsewhere. She sounds utterly insane, with very little emotional development. That is why I always counsel my friends who ask for advice, to really take your time getting to know them. Figure out what you have, and what you are dealing with, before you get in too deep. I also advise trying to find the eldest amongst the siblings. I found that, and she is very mature and very together. The eldest is usually given responsibilities from a young age, and that can make quite a difference here. 

6 minutes ago, 473geo said:

Reads to me a large percentage have failed relationships in their home countries and in Thailand, that is not a good track record for pointing the finger at anything other than yourselves guys

 

I fully accept my behaviour drove my first marriage onto the rocks

 

I learnt, my current wife is a kind hard working lovely person, and I take far better care of her well being than I did the last one, but then this time around I was ready for marriage, a partnership, and yes happy on occasion to identify her needs and put them before mine.

 

Good for you mate and that is how life should be, so long as your partner has the same agenda all should be as it is meant to be.

3 hours ago, Zagor said:

I don’t think Western girls are as jealous and dangerous as Asian girls. Jealous maybe yes, but dangerous no.

Have you ever met a murderous Thai lady?

 

How many murders or genital mutilations happen in Thailand compared to

other countries? It would be cool to see a comprehensive breakdown of your

studies rather than some kind of half azzed guesstimation.

4 minutes ago, shy coconut said:

Have you ever met a murderous Thai lady?

 

How many murders or genital mutilations happen in Thailand compared to

other countries? It would be cool to see a comprehensive breakdown of your

studies rather than some kind of half azzed guesstimation.

You brought it up coconut. I for one, could not be bothered. Tell us all about it.

Dont be shy.

7 minutes ago, sherwood said:

You brought it up coconut. I for one, could not be bothered. Tell us all about it.

Dont be shy.

I have no idea what the comparative figures are, which is why I asked the OP.

 

My personal experience differs, I am still alive and my bits are intact. 

I am sure there are some crazies here, maybe more than other countries, but

my personal experience of having 4 sisters, e daughters and an ex wife from

Mauritius, is that ALL the women I have known can be explosive at times.

5 hours ago, Yankeesvsredsox said:

 

 

"Why is Thailand in the first place of murder according to severed male genitalia"?

 

Its crazy ! Some ladies relax the monogamy stigma and look the other way , out of site out of mind,as long as they are taken care of!  They are ok with their husband having a  mare noi  and or gik!

While other ladies are jealous ,resulting in hostility,anger and fits of rage!

quack, quack!

It's not about love jealousy, but about where the money is going. They need to protect their nest egg and that is all they are really fighting for... not jealous that you may love someone else, but that you are spending money elsewhere.

Only talking anger here not trying to give you grief mate and yes I have never been bashed or cut by a Thai lady, to big I would think but I do put the agression down to the Soaps they love so much seems to be accepeted. Dog only knows

11 minutes ago, sherwood said:

Only talking anger here not trying to give you grief mate and yes I have never been bashed or cut by a Thai lady, to big I would think but I do put the agression down to the Soaps they love so much seems to be accepeted. Dog only knows

Yes..the Thai love a good-albeit exaggerated form of drama-"All the world's a stage and we are but players..."

15 minutes ago, Odysseus123 said:

Yes..the Thai love a good-albeit exaggerated form of drama-"All the world's a stage and we are but players..."

It comes as a bit of a shock when Thais see a map of the world for the first time. How big some countries are. Others are so small.

1 minute ago, owl sees all said:

It comes as a bit of a shock when Thais see a map of the world for the first time. How big some countries are. Others are so small.

Indeed..but as "their world" is so well encapsulated it can be about as big as they want it to be.

 

They don't really share Thailand with "farang" or our ideas you know as we are but strolling players..passing through.

2 hours ago, OnTheGround said:

You haven't been to Philippines, and many more countries I recon. Its just how they take revenge that differ.

 

 

I wish we were talking about good girls and this topic, not bar girls.

I have heard that both Korean and Chinese girls can be dangerous. Filipinos too, but I think they may be in 3-4 places.

2 hours ago, kingdong said:

And to all those out there who think  it's a mortal sin to hit a woman,perhaps you  should try getting out and about a bit more.

the only problem with getting out and about more....... is that I might run into you.

 

If you need to hit anyone,  except in self defense,  you should try the art of avoidance. 

If something ain't right,  be a real man and just walk away.

Otherwise someone with a bigger dong than you will one day be king

 

If you think you need to hit a woman to get respect.... you got the wrong woman.  And you

are the wrong man.   

"Why is Thailand in the first place of murder according to severed male genitalia? When did that start happening? Are they old events or recent ones?"

 

Astounding assertion, without citing a single source placing Thailand (or Thai women) in first place for murder or for severed male genitalia.

 

And then followed by 6 pages of additional anecdotes, generalizations and blatant misogyny.

 

Relaxing "self isolation" rules can't happen a moment too soon ????

 

 

This is what happens when you really never know the person you are marrying and they be getting married for your money only.

 

 

 

 

Many of these girls from poorer backgrounds have had to literally fight for their lives on occasions, or at least endured serious physical abuse from men, often from family members. Relatively few girls from more civilised western societies have suffered this kind of emotional damage. That might be a factor?

7 hours ago, nikmar said:

my ex girlfriend in the UK shoved a wine glass in my face. 

Red or white?  Sorry.

 

I think they're all nuts (women), but likely the op is basing his expert analogy on working ladies. Not a given that you'll get a mentally balanced, passive one, but try finding an educated mid-class gf.

It is my opinion that Asian girls function completely differently than Western girls. They are more emotional, more difficult to control emotions and have a hidden child in them. I think it's about emotional instability and fear of losing a loved one. I say this for the good girls. Bar girls are afraid of losing money.