Best in your life?

[ChakaKhan]

On 5/25/2020 at 6:37 AM, BritManToo said:

The past 12 years in SE Asia have been the best sex in my life.

With an assortment of the best looking women.

Life began at 52!

Ok I'll be 52 this year, how about a list as you have travelled around SE a bit

 

Best to worst---The Girls in each Country and why-- the best qualities?

 

Curious....I have a soft spot for the cute chinese gals I would see around CM...could just be the outfits

 

Were they all pay to play?

 

Ok maybe wasnt a "soft" spot 555

[Logosone]

25 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You love the one you fell in love with. Men deteriorate also, most getting fat, gray and sometimes bald. If you knew what women think of aging men, you might change your opinion. Most do not take care of themselves, now or if at all, and if you grow old with a woman, she's just as pretty then as she was before, IF her heart hasn't turned black with bitterness, maybe from the man. If you treat a woman right, and she started off as a nice one, you can't blame her for turning bitter if she lived with you all those years. Men here are luckier than in the US, because a lot of beautiful Thai women will go with an aging, bald, grey man as long as he has money. True, that happens everywhere, but more here than in America by far. Some are attracted to their husbands also, and thats always a plus, because buying things gets old for anyone, and if there's no physical attraction, the woman will be bored eventually.

Yes, but for how long? Will you still love her once her great looks are gone, she refuses to do the things sexually that turn you on, and focuses 80% of her time on children rather than you, when she becomes short-tempered and unpleasant to listen to?

 

Because this is what happens with women, inevitably. They lose their looks, and as they get older they no longer try to please their man in the ways she used to try. It becomes more about her, as women get older, same with men of course.

 

And yes, indeed love does not last, you can still have affection and appreciation for a woman after 20 years, but that unconditional and passionate love will be long gone by then, as you realise she is no longer as attractive, much less pleasant to be with and focused on children now anyway.

 

Buying things, btw, never gets old for women. Over 20 years I never saw this woman be unhappy when you buy her something.

[fredwiggy]

Just now, Logosone said:

Yes, but for how long? Will you still love her once her great looks are gone, she refuses to do the things sexually that turn you on, and focuses 80% of her time on children rather than you, when she becomes short-tempered and unpleasant to listen to?

 

Because this is what happens with women, inevitably. They lose their looks, and as they get older they no longer try to please their man in the ways she used to try. It becomes more about her, as women get older, same with men of course.

 

And yes, indeed love does not last, you can still have affection and appreciation for a woman after 20 years, but that unconditional and passionate love will be long gone by then, as you realise she is no longer as attractive, much less pleasant to be with and focused on children now anyway.

 

Buying things, btw, never gets old for women. Over 20 years I never saw this woman be unhappy when you buy her something.

Well, shes already short tempered, has her times when I just leave her alone, isn't really "motherly" but does what she has to, the sex has always been great and I'm sure will continue as long as I'm able, and if it goes less a bit, that's ok. Buying things is a quick fix, but if there's depression, it always gets old. I meant that comment that money isn't all that keeps a woman interested.

[BritManToo]

27 minutes ago, ChakaKhan said:

Best to worst---The Girls in each Country and why-- the best qualities?

Thai girls were the best at convincing you they really cared about you.

Filipino girls were the prettiest, smallest (cheapest) and very easy to talk with.

Viet girls were the coldest and hardest.

Cambodian girls were the most desperate.

 

I did go to China but it was a rural area without any foreign tourists and it was impossible to communicate with anyone.

Edited May 29, 2020 by BritManToo

[MJKT2014]

On 5/24/2020 at 8:04 PM, 2 is 1 said:

I have had best time in Jamaica 1995.

If I hadn't had a better time since 25 years ago until now I'd call it quits I think. My massive dump this morning was pretty spectacular. Every day brings wonders and I never look back.

[BritManToo]

57 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You love the one you fell in love with.

Men deteriorate also, most getting fat, gray and sometimes bald. If you knew what women think of aging men, you might change your opinion. Most do not take care of themselves, now or if at all, and if you grow old with a woman, she's just as pretty then as she was before, IF her heart hasn't turned black with bitterness, maybe from the man. If you treat a woman right, and she started off as a nice one, you can't blame her for turning bitter if she lived with you all those years. Men here are luckier than in the US, because a lot of beautiful Thai women will go with an aging, bald, grey man as long as he has money. True, that happens everywhere, but more here than in America by far. Some are attracted to their husbands also, and thats always a plus, because buying things gets old for anyone, and if there's no physical attraction, the woman will be bored eventually.

1) True, I only ever loved my Brit wife, and she was a really nasty bit of work.

2) Not true, I went through my 'fat Elvis' period at age 40, and now at 65 I'm all muscly, probably the hardest I've ever been, cycling 20Km every day works wonders. Hair is the same as when I was 18, just a bit faded at the sides, more wrinkles on my face. If I were a woman I'd prefer me at 65 than me at 35. 

 

I'm not convinced women ever really care about anyone except themselves, not their parents, not their lover, not their children. It's us men that seem to do all the caring (and paying).

Edited May 29, 2020 by BritManToo

[scubascuba3]

1998 when i went backpacking round the world for a year, did everything i wanted to do, everyday a Saturday

[ChakaKhan]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Thai girls were the best at convincing you they really cared about you.

Filipino girls were the prettiest, smallest (cheapest) and very easy to talk with.

Viet girls were the coldest and hardest.

Cambodian girls were the most desperate.

 

I did go to China but it was a rural area without any foreign tourists and it was impossible to communicate with anyone.

Thanks..   Makes sense, was most curious about the Chinese as they have my attention..hubba hubba

[PaulieAUS]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

Thai girls were the best at convincing you they really cared about you.

Filipino girls were the prettiest, smallest (cheapest) and very easy to talk with.

Viet girls were the coldest and hardest.

Cambodian girls were the most desperate.

 

I did go to China but it was a rural area without any foreign tourists and it was impossible to communicate with anyone.

And if I just want no strings attached fun, who is the best?

 

I don't want to spend too much time or money getting them under the sheets.

 

 

 

[fredwiggy]

4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

1) True, I only ever loved my Brit wife, and she was a really nasty bit of work.

2) Not true, I went through my 'fat Elvis' period at age 40, and now at 65 I'm all muscly, probably the hardest I've ever been, cycling 20Km every day works wonders. Hair is the same as when I was 18, just a bit faded at the sides, more wrinkles on my face. If I were a woman I'd prefer me at 65 than me at 35. 

 

I'm not convinced women ever really care about anyone except themselves, not their parents, not their lover, not their children. It's us men that seem to do all the caring (and paying).

That's you, and I am also the exception,bodybuilding from age 17 until now. I looked like Rambo at 50,without the steroid use, and although there isn't a proper gym here that I can do my weights at, I still use what I have here and am still looking body wise like a 35 yr old fit man. But the joints hurt from too much weight training over those years.

[lensta]

Indonesia 1999-2005. Met some great people both Indonesian and expats. many I am still in contact with to this day, even though we don't get to see each other that often. Great times.

[CorpusChristie]

On 5/26/2020 at 10:19 AM, patongphil said:

For me it has to be Sabang Beach, Puerto Galera in 90/91. Lots of girls, lots of diving, BBQ fish on the beaches and dirt cheap beer. Great times indeed!!

I did some dive courses there at that time , seem to recall it was diving with Asiadivers or something 

[fredwiggy]

Just now, CorpusChristie said:

I did some dive courses there at that time , seem to recall it was diving with Asiadivers or something 

From Corpus Christi? I moved here from San Antonio. Fished there many times.

[allanos]

Happiest times of my life?  Hard to pin down, because I've had so many. Probably the best was my youthful abandon, living in Zambia for 3 years aged 22-25.  My own company apartment, a sports car, pretty girlfriends, a wonderful job and great, positive income stream.  Let me not forget the fantastic weather all year round, and the scenic beauty of the Zambezi River, and the Victoria Falls, just 5 kilometres from where I stayed in Livingstone.  To add to my joy, frequent visits to Chobe Game Reserve in Botswana, a short drive away, herds of elephant like you've never seen, or a drive across the Falls to the "Rhodesian" (now Zimbabwe) town of Victoria Falls, the Hotel and the casino.  My life was idyllic, a Paradise, never to be forgotten.

[patongphil]

1 hour ago, CorpusChristie said:

I did some dive courses there at that time , seem to recall it was diving with Asiadivers or something 

You remember the Umbrella Bar?

[CorpusChristie]

28 minutes ago, patongphil said:

You remember the Umbrella Bar?

I don't recall the names of any of the bars , I do recall that San Miguel was 5 Pesos a bottle though

[Silencer]

First, Barcelona 1973-77. Teenager, but lived a life like an adult thanks to a very liberal mother. An American fish out of water. (Euro and Spanish girls, drinking, some drugs, endless parties, travel throughout Europe, and yeah, even school was ok). Geez, the stories from that time....

 

Then, Thailand. 15 years of visits and now one year living here. However, recently thinking it might be time to find the next, and likely last, "best time" adventure.

[malibukid]

University early 70's London

Edited May 29, 2020 by malibukid

[Paiman]

3 hours ago, lensta said:

Indonesia 1999-2005. Met some great people both Indonesian and expats. many I am still in contact with to this day, even though we don't get to see each other that often. Great times.

My best most crazy time was Indonesia as well. Worked there from 93 - 98. South East Asian Crises made the company withdraw all their expats. Had some good times in the Tanamur / Jakarta. 

[xylophone]

On 5/24/2020 at 8:04 PM, 2 is 1 said:

Where you have had best time in your life?

Had a fantastic four years in Sussex from the mid-60s onwards, where I had an apprenticeship and I was learning lots of new things and new skills, as well as having a bunch of good friends and exploring the pubs.

 

At around the same time I was selected to play football for my home team in the Isthmian league, and that was my dream, and I did play against Crystal Palace and Wimbledon and a few other classy senior amateur teams, and in addition I was selected for a Sussex representative side.

 

They were the best few years of my life until........... 

 

I moved to New Zealand in 1984 and started as Director of Sales and Establishment Marketing for American Express, and that was just a dream job – – lots of travel, entertaining at top class restaurants, overseas sales conferences in Hawaii, Singapore, Hamilton Island, New Caledonia and Manila and I even managed to take the helm of the NZ Americas Cup Challenger, offshore Auckland.

 

Two periods of approximately five years each and I thoroughly enjoyed every minute of them.

[Speedhump]

Earning an absolute mint and living the high life in Dubai for 12 years. Retired now and living off my savings, comfortable and quiet, but it's just not the same. 

[flinc2020]

Berlin 1984 - 86 whilst the wall was still up. A great city in the west side and really great nights out in the east of the city thanks to a currency scam we hjad running that gave us an unholy exchange rate. In the west it was all incredible night life (many are the times I went out as the sun set and came home as it rose next day.) Work occassionally got in the way but other than that it was great. Got to see a few celebrities whilst I was there too. Sa Quenn perform live at the amphitheatre and even got to see Rudolph Hess a couple of times.

[bodga]

I'm  still waiting for it, maybe its death????

[Pilotman]

Moray area in Scotland in the mid 80s.  Fantastic place, work was great, location perfect and the best whiskey shop in Scotland just down the road in Elgin. Pint or four of 'heavy' on Friday evening in the local pub, followed by a fish supper. Pure bliss.  

Edited May 29, 2020 by Pilotman

[Aliflair]

I've lived and worked in many countries around the world, always enjoyed them but it's hard to pick a stand out period for the best time of my life. One things for certain though, the best nights of my life have been in Bangers and Patts ????

[Tom89]

The best / most interesting part of my life was Ulan Bator Mongolia around 1993. It was absolutely wild. An English guy I was lucky enough to meet on the flight there from Beijing said it was like Oklahoma circa 1880. I thought it was an accurate description. Probably the wildest 10 days of my life.

[khunPer]

I had several "best time in my life", different times, different eras, which cannot be remade or redone, as times has changed.

 

To mention the important "best times of my life"...

• As kid when in summer holiday travelling with a small circus
• The happy hippie era as rock musician, and not to forget all the chicks that comes with such kind of profession...????
• My time in flight operation – including route checks and stops – in a major airline of that time
• My time in the professional audio and music business
• And not to forget amazing Land-of-Smiles, which even at some pints is just like a time machine, jumping back to the impossible: like reliving some of the good old time...????????

[JWRC]

I was born in the UK, moved to Australia and later Thailand. I have had approx 1/3 of my life in each place, But during that time I went to Scotland for a short holiday and stayed 11 months, It's the only place I have ever been to where I felt like I had come home, forget the freezing cold weather, the people are just the best, the stunning scenery is magnificent and the quaint customs bring a smile to anyone's face. Just talking about it floods me with happiness.

[Gillyflower]

London!!  Just shipped in from Sydney, which I had thought at the time was a great swinging place.  Learnt my error when I hit London.  It was really opening up - the Shrimp, Radio Caroline,  Quant with skirts up to your bottom..........mine from Oz almost to the ankles.  Was I the country cousin come to town!!  I was very young but did I lap it up in London.  Before that I was on a copra/cocoa plantation on an island in the Pacific.

 

Everything happened in London, The Russian Yuri Gagarin visited and I was 2 feet away and all sorts of famous people. (Never saw them in Oz or on the plantation.  The music was the best in the world too.  And all those plays with wellknown Brit actors.  And everywhere you walked.......if you went to Selfridges,  you were quite close to Holmes.  I went to Paris after, nowhere near as exciting.  I look back with such nostalgie.  I'm starting to let a couple of tears drop, so have to stop.

 

 

[ianwheldale]

University! Old enough not to have student debt as it was all grants, no stress, freedom, cool.