10 minutes ago, jvs said:

In some countries it is totally not a problem for kids to see their parents naked and vice versa.

Kids who grow up seeing their parents naked will not even notice any more.

So far so good if it is in your culture.

When you leave your own country and you marry a foreign woman and expose yourself to her teenage-under age- daughter you are asking for trouble,and rightly so.

Op is totally in the wrong and why mention your size?

Op,are you totally insane?

You are entering dangerous territory.

He didnt mention his size he stated he had a six pack (which is equally irrelavent), you brought the size thing into it yourself.

 

And I agree the op is out of line, I just think the puritainism in the some of the comments is unduly shrill.

2 minutes ago, n00dle said:

 

Get over yourself mate, I agree the op is clueless and should be more careful especially in that situation where he is not in his own home.

 

In the context of my own child, if she were to barge into my bedroom or bathroom while I was showering or changing imwould certainly expect an apology for the breach of privacy, and i would offer the same apology if I had inadvertantly breached hers.

 

I see nowhere I indicated any of this was happening in public.

 

As for your bargirl anecdote, and your apparent inability to purchase appropriate swimwear, I can neither see the relevance of that story here, or why you would even feel the need share it.

 

I understand the etiquette, and I follow it, but I am not embarrassed by nudity, nor do I seek to expose myself others in my household or in public.

Yes, you are talking about your own child who may be more or less used to see you naked.

Depending on culture but the op is taking about a 13 year old step daughter and from a totally different culture.Not the same at all imo.

OK 2 is 1,     I've opened a beer put me feet up......................tells us more about your adventures with the natives.............

 

1 minute ago, jvs said:

Yes, you are talking about your own child who may be more or less used to see you naked.

Depending on culture but the op is taking about a 13 year old step daughter and from a totally different culture.Not the same at all imo.

I'm fairly certain a large number of Thai step-daughters get to see their Thai step-dads naked.

3 minutes ago, n00dle said:

He didnt mention his size he stated he had a six pack, you brought the size thing into it yourself.

 

Read the original op again,he did mention size,it was not me who brought that up.

3 minutes ago, jvs said:

Yes, you are talking about your own child who may be more or less used to see you naked.

Depending on culture but the op is taking about a 13 year old step daughter and from a totally different culture.Not the same at all imo.

Nobody is disputing that. Im talking about the dude who hides behind locked doors in his own home in fear of his own daughters catching an accidental peek, and the puritain who managed to slip a bargirl into the story while intimating I was as ignorant as the op.

 

People get nude, accidents happen. Who cares?

I think the OP has the message and members have given their thoughts on the issue.

 

No need for this to be protracted further.

 

 

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