What do you wish you had known before you moved to Thailand

[GreasyFingers]

15 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

44bht for a beer is a little rich for me .......

I'm drinking 28bht Full Moon wine coolers, 300ml and 7.5% alc. ...... way better value than Chang.

 

A simple calculation ......

2 large Changs @ 55bht = 110bht.

4 Full moon wine coolers (Dark) @ 28bht = 112bht.

 

But the Chang is 5%, and the Full Moon is 7.5%

So the Full moon has 50% more alcohol for the same money!

Be careful of your diabetes with that much suger.

[Kadilo]

2 minutes ago, GreasyFingers said:

Be careful of your diabetes with that much suger.

He don’t strike me as a guy that worries too much. 

 

[khunPer]

16 hours ago, IvGeg said:

Now a simmilar questiong from a young and naive man who is considering to move to SE Asia. From that I've read on TV: Don't buy, just rent. Don't put here more than you can afford to lose.

Both good advises, but a whole book can be written about "What you wish to know before moving to Thailand"...????

 

Sometimes it more easy just to move; however, a bit of homework and preparation for sure helps. I managed, and thinking back there is really nothing I wished that I knew before, but I did also did read a bit, and had a few trips to prepare myself about the culture and the possibilities, so everything worked well enough for my above statement.

 

Listen to what people say – especially warnings – and pick what you think is right for you. We all have little different life-style, financial background, preferences and expectations...????

[Saraburi121]

Probably the biggest thing was how visa laws/regulations were interpreted from province to province. Thought everyone read from the same book with minor interpretation differences, not so.  Same with getting my first bank account and buying a car, each branch/dealer had different rules.  Lessons learned and rolling with it. 

[Yinn]

2 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

You know Yinn, I accept your opinion, but do not respect it.

 

Not all sex workers are bad people as you are making them out to be

Not say they “bad”

 

2 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

 

I see sex as just sex, a release, however it appears to me that you may have an issue with sex and sex workers, as if sex and sex workers are some kind of disease, why I have dined dozens of girls and taken them to bed, me having paid for their dinner and drinks, does that make them any less than a sex worker

 

Yes. 

They have a job that is not sex worker right.

Is different, sure. There monthly income is from sex work. 

 

You say before your wife is sex worker. If not sex worker you will not say that right? You will say “bank worker” or what the job. 

 

 

2 minutes ago, 4MyEgo said:

 

because, I think not, it's nothing to frown upon, like I said sex is sex regardless how it is received by way of cash or a meal and drinks.

 

People come in all shapes and sizes, color, race and of course would have had different professions in their lifetime, your fear of sex/sex workers and the industry tells

Don't worry too much about sex workers or their farang boyfriends or husbands, they are happy doing what they are doing, that's all that counts, even though they don't fit into the box, squares you are trying to fit them into.

I not worry. But is popular topic TVF. 

The OP want advice. Other guy talk about sex worker, I say IMO is not good idea. 

 

 

Is not comfortable situation.

eg in Australia you social with sex worker. You take sex worker your new year work party, with your boss?

To your mother and dad house?

Go your freinds wedding? 

What they think? 

 

If OP want make thai freinds better not have. Social isolation.

 

They think same Yinn, sure. Thankyou be honest your speaking, I be honest same. 

 

Most people “look down” on sex worker. I am polite, so not say the bad thing.

 

Sex worker word is most polite. Thai men say very rude way about sex workers.  English same. Maybe every language.

 

Is true. I think you know same. I think every country most think same way. 

Can not change that. You know. 

Not good 4YourEgo. 

 

Good luck to OP. Remember what I say. 

Good luck 4MyEgo return Australia November. Forget what I say.

 

Yinn 

POTY

 

ps. Welcome TVF. 

We very stranger people. Everyone crazy a little bit.

[Yinn]

1 hour ago, bkk6060 said:

Actually Yinn, just about every guy I know has married a sex worker.

Most are still together after several years.

Ok. That interesting. Really. 

 

How many? (guys you know) 

You in Bangkok? (bkk)

[Kadilo]

In Yinns defence it must be difficult iF you’re a hotel receptionist and you’re seeing ladies coming and going earning more in a couple of night for banging customers than you’re earning in month.

 

It’s only natural you may be a tad peeved and look down at them. You’re not gonna be inclined to invite them round for dinner are you. 

 

The price pf morality i guess. Some have it some want the money. 

 

 

Edited July 20, 2020 by Kadilo

[ballpoint]

1 hour ago, Kadilo said:

Another thread turned into “i’m considerably richer than you”

 

Most people who have money don’t need to come to an anonymous forum and shoot off about it. 

 

 

Some are just presenting another side of living here.  I can't remember how many times I've read something along the lines of "anyone with money wouldn't choose Thailand as a place to live".  For example, just a few days ago someone said that no one with over a million pounds would live here.  I beg to differ.  If you have money then Thailand is a great place to live, not least of all for its tax laws on money earned outside the country.  There are also still many very nice beach and hill resorts, and, on the whole, you are free to do what you like as long as it doesn't affect anyone else.  The other thing with money is that you can always hop on a plane (though not recently) and go somewhere else for a while.  There are many places in other countries that I love to visit, but no way would I live there full time.  Then there is also the case of those who came here when young, settled down and then made their money, which is the category I fall into. 

 

As I said in an earlier post, I chose to live here based on frequent work visits.  My first years were spent in rented accommodation paid for by the company.  I could have left at any time, but chose to remain, and, after I met a girl through work and got married, used my housing allowance to buy a condo.  I had little money when I first came, being just 23, but once I did accumulate some, (alright, a lot), saw no reason to move elsewhere, and plenty of reasons not to.

[Yinn]

16 minutes ago, Kadilo said:

In Yinns defence it must be difficult iF you’re a hotel receptionist and you’re seeing ladies coming and going earning more in a couple of night for banging customers than you’re earning in month.

 

It’s only natural you may be a tad peeved and look down at them. You’re not gonna be inclined to invite them round for dinner are you. 

 

The price pf morality i guess. Some have it some want the money. 

 

 

The hotel I work part time, uni holidays + new year high season before is not sex tourist hotel. Is family hotel. Couples. 

 

But we see sex worker a lot in the town. 

We not invite them for dinner because peeved the money. It because

 

1) the customer so old, ugly, fat, etc. It look weird. Not nature.

 

Some old, ugly, fat Thai man use the sex worker same. Up to him/you.

Discreet ok. Never see.

But farang In the plaza, street, tourist kids, Thai kids, etc. pity.

 

I think if you see young, handsome 20 year old guy act same that with Grandma Fatty in the plaza. What you think? Not nature.

 

2) the behavior of the worker is not good. They know there behavior is not polite. They not care.

 

*Nobody think sex worker is rich, peeved the money. If they rich, they will not be sex worker, sure. Most is Issan.

 

To the OP, IMO 2 things good idea make your life happy in Thailand.

1) have real girlfreind

2) learn speak thai. (I want to say before, but some members this also sensitive issue) 

 

Make it easy for you make freinds, like that. 

If you choose another country, I think my 1 and 2) same

 

Freinds will help you in thailand. 

Good luck.

[Yinn]

11 hours ago, IvGeg said:

So when you crash with someone usually they ask you to pay no matter who was right. It is just their customs and police will back this side. Is it true?

 

10 hours ago, 4MyEgo said:

Correct.

BS!!!

 

When you crash in Thailand you phone your insurance company. 

They come, take photo. White spray the road. 

Not neccessary police come. Only insurance company. 

Better if police not come. Police want money. Just call insurance company. 

 

If the other person is wrong your insurance company will say. Sure.

 

3) get car insurance.

Edited July 20, 2020 by Yinn

[bodga]

How  lazy and selfish they were with a childlike mentality.

[Eindhoven]

11 hours ago, 2 is 1 said:

Remember thai's have 6 smile. Even you don't want see many of them often , learn them!

Thai's cossip really much! If you live in small village all know your "secret" in next day.

Like OneMoreFarang said service is good (to me anyway) but what i think about that is:

i give much more value to them coz they get more profit . I use more money. 

Here is same than any other place in world, can't have relationship whitout money. Even i never had use prostitutes, man always pay way or other.

 

Oft repeated and still not true. Like Yinn states, if you lay with dogs you are more likely to get fleas.

 

Not even one of my girlfriends expected me to pay for everything  and with some, even anything.

I pity the people who continually restate that women are all takers and they only want your money, along with other forms of nonsense.

 

If you start the relationship on a financial basis, you have already made a rod for your own back.

For me, it's about the connection. Money doesn't come into it for me.

I just don't fraternise with that kind of woman. You can detect it quite early and get rid.

 

Paying for company is anathema to me. My self esteem couldn't cope with such a thing. I think what I have to offer is most valuable, so paying to give it away would be perverse.

 

So, no. You do women an injustice by attempting to align them with gold diggers and the lowest of the low.

Aim a bit higher.....or a lot higher. But don't scrape the barrel and then complain about it afterwards.

 

For instance, I would never go to a public house or a bar to meet a girl in my country. So I won't do it in Thailand either.

 

Some guys strike it lucky and find an understanding with their partners. Long may it last.

I'm not one to judge, as we cannot all travel on the same road or fight over the same girl.

 

BritManToo has his perspective. It's not mine, but his experiences have shaped his beliefs. Who am I to dismiss his experiences as if they were nothing?

 

So I can disagree, but I won't try to put him down for what he believes. Only try to show that there are perspectives other than his own.

 

[Ron jeremy]

10 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Are we sure she's either

1) female or

2) Thai?

She seems to have forgotten her 'Tinglish" today.

Couldn't agree with you more britman! Never did fall for her BS! 

[Eindhoven]

24 minutes ago, Yinn said:

The hotel I work part time, uni holidays + new year high season before is not sex tourist hotel. Is family hotel. Couples. 

 

But we see sex worker a lot in the town. 

We not invite them for dinner because peeved the money. It because

 

1) the customer so old, ugly, fat, etc. It look weird. Not nature.

 

Some old, ugly, fat Thai man use the sex worker same. Up to him/you.

Discreet ok. Never see.

But farang In the plaza, street, tourist kids, Thai kids, etc. pity.

 

I think if you see young, handsome 20 year old guy act same that with Grandma Fatty in the plaza. What you think? Not nature.

 

2) the behavior of the worker is not good. They know there behavior is not polite. They not care.

 

*Nobody think sex worker is rich, peeved the money. If they rich, they will not be sex worker, sure. Most is Issan.

 

To the OP, IMO 2 things good idea make your life happy in Thailand.

1) have real girlfreind

2) learn speak thai. (I want to say before, but some members this also sensitive issue) 

 

Make it easy for you make freinds, like that. 

If you choose another country, I think my 1 and 2) same

 

Freinds will help you in thailand. 

Good luck.

 

I don't speak Thai and I still made Thai friends('i' comes before the 'e'). It's really comes down to who you are.

I can make friends anywhere. 

Of course there are many here who came to meet a local woman, but didn't take or didn't have the time to nurture a real relationship.

 

For me, I really returned for the beaches, food etc Local women never came into it and still don't. 

 

But on the other hand, I understand many guys here have had bad experiences in their country and really just wanted someone who cared about them. Sadly many of these guys leapt from the frying pan and into the fire.

 

So again. I am not so quick to judge. It's not just good or bad, black or white.

 

I also see your side. Maybe that's why it's so easy for me to make friends. I am friendly. ????

 

 

[Eindhoven]

1 hour ago, Kadilo said:

In Yinns defence it must be difficult iF you’re a hotel receptionist and you’re seeing ladies coming and going earning more in a couple of night for banging customers than you’re earning in month.

 

It’s only natural you may be a tad peeved and look down at them. You’re not gonna be inclined to invite them round for dinner are you. 

 

The price pf morality i guess. Some have it some want the money. 

 

 

 

I'm sure Yinn is not poor and even if she is, so what? She still isn't choosing to sell herself.

It's not just about morality. Sex work affects more than just your morality. 

 

I may have more money than the sex workers and I wouldn't invite them for dinner with my family either. What would we talk about? The weather?

Uncomfortable and embarrassing. Awkward silence or lies when asked about their occupation. 

[hugocnx]

14 hours ago, rumak said:

not my definition.     mine is more like    work together with a common purpose:   help each

                                                            other,  and respect each other    

                                                            

Agree, but it still needs two to tango. Who says you or the other half will keep up?

[hugocnx]

14 hours ago, Yinn said:

Hi IvGeg, 

Only loosers pay for love. 

Try dating, same normal people. 

Have relationship with sex worker will be trouble.

 

In Thailand sex workers are very low class. 99% Thai people will think you idiot if do that.

You will not have friends in normal society if do that. Her friends and family will want money same.

Life will be terrible. You will hate thailand if do that. You will only be friends with other sex tourist. Sad.

 

Good luck Sir.

Losers pay for sex, not for love. They know that.

The real losers are the ones (like me) that fall in love to easily and pay for the consequences afterwards. So my take as well is 'rent not buy'.

For the rest of your post, I salute you.

[Eindhoven]

10 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I generally avoid Muslims as well, they ain't that friendly.

I'm not friends with hotel receptionists either, that's a step down from 7-11 staff (who are required to have attended school until age 15).

 

What are you talking about? I visited Malaysia before I visited Thailand and found the people super friendly. I had families inviting me back to their houses for dinner and I was only chatting to them at a train station, as an example.

Your erroneous beliefs appear ingrained. Women takers. Muslims unfriendly. No.

 

Even Malaysian Immigration. All smiles and welcome. Thai, no.

I used to work behind the reception desk with my Thai friends just for fun. 

Obviously you are a bit annoyed with Yinn, but she is voicing her opinion. No need to involve ordinary hard working people in your spat.

[hugocnx]

13 hours ago, Curt1591 said:

1) I find some amazing architecture around Bangkok

2) Food's great, although most western offerings suck

3) Hot and muggy, although not life changing - lived in southern Arizona for many years. showering helps and there's always air.

4) Welcome to the world. But I find it less so here than in the States.

5) Been happily married to a Thai woman for 20 years

6) I avoid farangs

7) Ride whenever possible. Traffic sucks

6) It's hard not to say it, but what's you doin here on tvf

[mr336]

26 minutes ago, Eindhoven said:

 

What are you talking about? I visited Malaysia before I visited Thailand and found the people super friendly. I had families inviting me back to their houses for dinner and I was only chatting to them at a train station, as an example.

Your erroneous beliefs appear ingrained. Women takers. Muslims unfriendly. No.

 

Even Malaysian Immigration. All smiles and welcome. Thai, no.

I used to work behind the reception desk with my Thai friends just for fun. 

Obviously you are a bit annoyed with Yinn, but she is voicing her opinion. No need to involve ordinary hard working people in your spat.

I think he's putting the knife in and twisting it. Just a dig I think.

[Kadilo]

56 minutes ago, Eindhoven said:

 

I'm sure Yinn is not poor and even if she is, so what? She still isn't choosing to sell herself.

It's not just about morality. Sex work affects more than just your morality. 

 

I may have more money than the sex workers and I wouldn't invite them for dinner with my family either. What would we talk about? The weather?

Uncomfortable and embarrassing. Awkward silence or lies when asked about their occupation. 

Let’s face it, a lot of Thai women have lying to a fine art. Some can’t even be honest about what sex they are. Who the f.uck are they to judge anyone? 

With the greatest of respect, it’s ok you being derogatory with some of your cliches (re dogs and fleas.....pretty disgusting things to say imo considering there are guys on here married to ex sex workers) but your missus could quite easily have been a previous sex worker. You would never know. If you think you would, you’re delusional. Of course you will say never. Smarter guys than you have found out a  lot worse cos they had they head shoved too far up their own a.rse. 
 

My take is, I treat everyone the same. Whatever their background, previous history, good or bad and judge them as a person for myself. You, or I have absolutely no idea what their previous life was like and what may have taken them down a certain path. It’s called the past for a reason. If you have not got one it’s cos you have not lived. 
 

I have more respect for someone who is honest and admits they have done things they may regret, or if they don’t regret they don't need to explain to me or anyone else their reasons. Truth is they are probably far more interesting to talk to and have more life experience than many. Of course you would find it uncomfortable and embarrassing because you think you are above these type of people. Others might find your missus a total bore. Each to their own. 
 

My family would welcome anyone I chose because they would respect my choice irrespective of their history. If anyone chose to disrespect me or my choice then i am quite happy to stay away from them whether they be friends or family. 
 

 

Edited July 20, 2020 by Kadilo

[Gene1960]

5 hours ago, tartampion said:

A good link to read from top to bottom :

The true face of Thailand today

https://www.neeeeext.com/index.php?topic=260.0

Quote :”Love is Sex and Sex is Love. Period.
Love and sex are constrained within the principles of Buddha : celibacy is better than family life, and sex is very limited by the teachings of Buddha : you can have sex only with a single and adult honest woman. Thais are really not concerned by the pleasures of sex, even prostitutes who just simulatesexual pleasure. Just for the show”

The author does not sound like a happy and lucky person.

 

[IvGeg]

6 hours ago, Burma Bill said:

What do you wish you had known before you moved to Thailand

 

That within 12 years I would have to endure all the bureaucratic paperwork and strict financial requirements to get a non-O retirement visa!. But now I am a "happy bunny" as I live happily relaxed in stress free and visa friendly Cambodia.

And still chatting with guys on TVF? Probably you have strong connection to the country. Or in Cambodia is not big expat community to communicate. Did you consider Laos? 

[bwpage3]

17 hours ago, Yinn said:

Hi IvGeg, 

Only loosers pay for love. 

Try dating, same normal people. 

Have relationship with sex worker will be trouble.

 

In Thailand sex workers are very low class. 99% Thai people will think you idiot if do that.

You will not have friends in normal society if do that. Her friends and family will want money same.

Life will be terrible. You will hate thailand if do that. You will only be friends with other sex tourist. Sad.

 

Good luck Sir.

You are certainly not an expert in this. Why act like your are?

Sex workers are not any more low class that any of us.

Some are so poor, they don't have much of a choice.

Who wants friends that judge people on how much they think they are worth? Not me? At least sex workers don't hide it.

I won't hate Thailand because of sex workers, I will hate Thailand because people think they are better than anyone else.

Thailand has had sex workers long before you were even born. It is part of Thailand. 

Not sad at all, they are human's just like you and me.

 

 

17 hours ago, Yinn said:

Hi IvGeg, 

Only loosers pay for love. 

Try dating, same normal people. 

Have relationship with sex worker will be trouble.

 

In Thailand sex workers are very low class. 99% Thai people will think you idiot if do that.

You will not have friends in normal society if do that. Her friends and family will want money same.

Life will be terrible. You will hate thailand if do that. You will only be friends with other sex tourist. Sad.

 

Good luck Sir.

 

[Eindhoven]

4 hours ago, Kadilo said:

Let’s face it, a lot of Thai women have lying to a fine art. Some can’t even be honest about what sex they are. Who the f.uck are they to judge anyone? 

With the greatest of respect, it’s ok you being derogatory with some of your cliches (re dogs and fleas.....pretty disgusting things to say imo considering there are guys on here married to ex sex workers) but your missus could quite easily have been a previous sex worker. You would never know. If you think you would, you’re delusional. Of course you will say never. Smarter guys than you have found out a  lot worse cos they had they head shoved too far up their own a.rse. 
 

My take is, I treat everyone the same. Whatever their background, previous history, good or bad and judge them as a person for myself. You, or I have absolutely no idea what their previous life was like and what may have taken them down a certain path. It’s called the past for a reason. If you have not got one it’s cos you have not lived. 
 

I have more respect for someone who is honest and admits they have done things they may regret, or if they don’t regret they don't need to explain to me or anyone else their reasons. Truth is they are probably far more interesting to talk to and have more life experience than many. Of course you would find it uncomfortable and embarrassing because you think you are above these type of people. Others might find your missus a total bore. Each to their own. 
 

My family would welcome anyone I chose because they would respect my choice irrespective of their history. If anyone chose to disrespect me or my choice then i am quite happy to stay away from them whether they be friends or family. 
 

 

 

It appears that you misunderstood the analogy.

It meant that if you jump into a pool of sharks hoping to find a friendly dolphin, don't be surprised to fmeet a hungry shark.

Going to Pattaya to find an honest woman is a big risk.

Another meaning concerns the association. People judge you because of your association.

 

So the rest of your post is moot. In fact I lived with a sex worker as a teenager. So you have grabbed the wrong end of the stick if you think that I'm judging. Especially when I already wrote that I don't and also have sympathy for those with the best of intentions.

 

My 'missus' is not Asian.

 

 

Edited July 20, 2020 by Eindhoven

[luckyluke]

5 hours ago, Eindhoven said:

 

 

5 hours ago, Eindhoven said:

 

 

Obviously you are a bit annoyed with Yinn, but she is voicing her opinion.

 

The problem is that Yinn is constantly pretending her opinions are shared by a great majority of Thais, with never any proof to back up this statement. 

 

In her latest post :

 

"99% Thai people will think you idiot if do that."

 

Of course, no proof of this presented. 

 

Her opinions are welcome, and interesting, like from anyone else here.

 

Pretending she is the voice of the Thai people may has for effect to been considered as an arrogant/unreliable young lady.

 

[Gene1960]

20 hours ago, Yinn said:

 

 

In Thailand sex workers are very low class. 99% Thai people will think you idiot if do that.

You will not have friends in normal society if do that. Her friends and family will want money same.

 

Hi Yinn,

 

there is one thing that irritate me a lot in Thailand. It’s the hypocrisy of the wealthy people.  
You are right, the majority of Thais look down on sex workers and on those farangs who are associated with them. At the same time,  Thai men use the services of sex workers all the time. Once I was invited to a funeral in a town in Phang Nga and stayed at a resort not far from Kapong and witnessed the work of Thai prostitutes there, and I was the only farang at the hotel, and most probably in whole town. It was fun to watch and quite educating. 
Another thing that annoys me it’s the attitude of Thai upper middle class to Mia Noi’s. They are there, but never discussed or talked about, their children sometimes are casted out. I am friends with a woman who is a Mia Noi of a wealthy man and my daughter is friends with her sons, under the pressure from the society they had to send the boys to an international school, and even there Thai children bully them. 
You know, Yinn, the hypocrisy of Thai people is something that is difficult to accept. 

 

 

Quote

 

[Curt1591]

6 hours ago, hugocnx said:

6) It's hard not to say it, but what's you doin here on tvf

Mostly the news. But, I do get snared into other topics from time to time. 

[IvGeg]

What about Thai people as friends guys or girls? Are they honest with you from the beginning or see you as a person they can get some benefits with? If I need a help would they help just because of we are mates? For example if I have a problem with my car I can ask here me mate, shout him a beer and fix it together on a weekend, have a drink and chat. Next time he might ask me to help him move to another house and I'll do it as mutual respect thing. Or just pop up for a tea and chat when you have free time?

[bwpage3]

9 hours ago, Yinn said:

Not say they “bad”

 

Yes. 

They have a job that is not sex worker right.

Is different, sure. There monthly income is from sex work. 

 

You say before your wife is sex worker. If not sex worker you will not say that right? You will say “bank worker” or what the job. 

 

 

I not worry. But is popular topic TVF. 

The OP want advice. Other guy talk about sex worker, I say IMO is not good idea. 

 

 

Is not comfortable situation.

eg in Australia you social with sex worker. You take sex worker your new year work party, with your boss?

To your mother and dad house?

Go your freinds wedding? 

What they think? 

 

If OP want make thai freinds better not have. Social isolation.

 

They think same Yinn, sure. Thankyou be honest your speaking, I be honest same. 

 

Most people “look down” on sex worker. I am polite, so not say the bad thing.

 

Sex worker word is most polite. Thai men say very rude way about sex workers.  English same. Maybe every language.

 

Is true. I think you know same. I think every country most think same way. 

Can not change that. You know. 

Not good 4YourEgo. 

 

Good luck to OP. Remember what I say. 

Good luck 4MyEgo return Australia November. Forget what I say.

 

Yinn 

POTY

 

ps. Welcome TVF. 

We very stranger people. Everyone crazy a little bit.

Yinn do you understand how marriage works?

 

The husband earns all the money and pays for everything for the wife. Buys a house, land, cars, clothes, jewelry, etc.

 

What does the wife give the husband? Cooking and sex.

 

In the end the results are all the same.

 

Men end up paying their entire lives.

 

You, least of all people, should judge other people regardless of what they do for work.

 

Many sex workers married farangs and have much much more than you and me. Does that upset you?

 

Maybe they are smarter than you think. Getting fistful's of dollars probably more than a married housewife gets from her husband.

 

Why in Thailand do men have Mia Noi's and Gik's? Isn't that all about more sex? Isn't that inbred in Thai culture?

 

Do you look down on all those men and women?

 

Trying to judge people, just because you aren't them, sorry, I don't want to know people that think they are better than everyone else.

 

As long as people are happy with their own choices, who is to say they are bad people?

 

Most people that work in the sex industry are pretty down to earth, and cool to hang around.

 

Same as ladyboys and lesbians. 

 

When farangs get married to rural gals, the family hides all the ladyboy's and lesbian's in the family till after the wedding.

 

Then surprise! They all show up for the party. Guess what? They are all just as cool as everyone else.

 

Thai people that think they are above anyone?

 

They are just kidding themselves because there are not.

 

The most desperate Thai woman is not a sex worker who knows exactly where she stands, it is the Mia Noi's and Gik's wanting to be with someone else's man.

 

 

 

 

Edited July 20, 2020 by bwpage3