Ah, the fragile Thai male ego ????

15 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

Nope! It´s called mental instability. Your description does not exist.

And yet there it is.

 

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fragile male ego syndrome

 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/moral-landscapes/201809/why-are-some-males-egos-so-fragile

 

Now quit trolling...

Edited September 6, 20223 yr by Bluespunk

9 hours ago, Boomer6969 said:

Thainess again. And I hope everyone can see the deep underlying racism. 

Thaivisaness again. 

 

Why would you hope that racism can be seen in the story?  That appeals to you? 

There's no indication of the husband displaying racism, neither deep, nor underlying.    I suspect, though, that there may be some, not so latent, racism in your mind.

Dirty farangs always making trouble. 

12 hours ago, webfact said:

A furious argument developed with his ex wife Suthanee, 36. The couple split four months ago.

To behis ex-wife they would have to divorce not just split up.

13 hours ago, Emdog said:

He would never consider that perhaps his behavior may be the reason she wants to look for farang hubby?

No, such things do not enter the minds of such people

10 hours ago, ThailandRyan said:

So he was completely in his right mind (sane), and was not influenced by jealousy to go after his ex-wife....So in your view it was just the alcohol........amazing

Ryan , methinks he was being sarcastic lol.

7 hours ago, Charlie Halliday said:

Quite sad really as their problems were no doubt caused by poverty. It sucks being poor as most of us have been at one stage in our early adulthood. There are way too many messed up relationships in Thailand which stem from poverty. We should all be more compassionate and help where we can. 

Oh but a lot of farangs do , that seems to be the root of the guys anguish.

3 hours ago, PETERTHEEATER said:

16 hours ago, webfact said:

A furious argument developed with his ex wife Suthanee, 36. The couple split four months ago.

To behis ex-wife they would have to divorce not just split up.

Maybe they were never legally married in the first place...  Are you going to get hung up on irrelevant semantics ???

50 minutes ago, joecoolfrog said:

Oh but a lot of farangs do , that seems to be the root of the guys anguish.

Or the root of his anguish is that he's an aggressive alcoholic.....

Obtaining a farang husband is more complicated than this lady has bargained for.  First thing she'll have to learn is how to get them to buy lady drinks..

 

 

19 hours ago, webfact said:

He spent every waking hour thinking about that before drinking himself into a stupor to embolden himself and going to see his wife armed with a knife. 

 

He said he didn't mean to hurt anyone, he was trying to reconcile.

Where do they teach a Man-child that reconciling with a knife is a good thing?

 

17 hours ago, Emdog said:

He would never consider that perhaps his behavior may be the reason she wants to look for farang hubby?

Self reflection doesn't appear to be a Thai trait in these types of men.

Wifey : I’m going to Pattaya to work as a bar girl!

Hubby : Ok Teerak.

 

Wifey : I’m off to the Golden Triangle to smuggle drugs across the border from Myanmar!

Hubby : Ok Teerak.

 

Wifey : I’m going to find a Farang husband!

Hubby : Maaaiiii Cchhaaaiiiii!!!

9 hours ago, Bluespunk said:

And yet there it is.

 

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fragile male ego syndrome

 

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/moral-landscapes/201809/why-are-some-males-egos-so-fragile

 

Now quit trolling...

Yes, urbandictionary, is a very trustworthy source, as you clearly can read on the description. ???? The other one you post above, does only have an explanation of another combination of the words you used. As do all other sources online. 

Try using other sources like at least Wikipedia (However, very lose as all can contribute). There, the closest you will find is Fragile X Syndrome.

After that, try Britannica, Cambridge Lexicon and such sources.

I remember stories of American serviceman in WW2 and the intense dislike of them by many Australian men. The americans had more money and fraternised heavily with Australian women when on R&R who were attracted by their big spending that Australian soldiers just could not compete with. It led to violence on many occasions.  Is it any wonder that Thai men see many farang as a threat that they cannot compete with in regard to what they can offer local women, especially financially and this causes jealousy and anger. I have met many expats who have little to no interaction with Thais and are seen as unfriendly and act as if superior by the local community. Fortunately not all but In the end we are all guests here and should at least extend some effort to be a little more sensitive and interactive with the local population.

A few years back a Thai cabinet minister urged Thai women to seek a farang husband because they would be treated better by farangs than Thai men.

11 hours ago, GreenPhoenixNRG said:

Ah, the fragile Thai male ego ????

The below article (which makes for interesting reading) may help shed light on why some forum members seem to be obsessed with Thai manhood and masculinity, and serve as a reminder that we all have insecurities and issues:

 

https://www.vice.com/en/article/594yxd/interracial-cuckold-porn-white-male-insecurity-race

 

An excerpt:

In 2017, per Pornhub’s 2017 Year in Review, "cuckold,” as a genre/category (with varying racial compositions), increased in views by 72 percent. That might be unsurprising, considering the recent rise of the alt-right, who brought the 13th-century word "cuck”—used originally to describe how cuckoo birds deceptively lay their eggs in other birds’ nests—back into mainstream usage by hurling it at conservatives (or “cuckservatives”) and other white men they perceive as being “emasculated” or “selling out.” The alt-right’s usage of the term also sheds light on the more psychic reasoning behind the genre’s recent popularity surge: the perceived increasing disempowerment and marginalization of white manhood and masculinity.

 

Mods: above link does not contain pornographic content.

Edited September 7, 20223 yr by Gecko123

13 hours ago, peter zwart said:

It seems that we are not realy populair

Not with a selection of the male equation, anyways.. ????

2 hours ago, Hugh Cow said:

I remember stories of American serviceman in WW2 and the intense dislike of them by many Australian men. The americans had more money and fraternised heavily with Australian women when on R&R who were attracted by their big spending that Australian soldiers just could not compete with. It led to violence on many occasions.  Is it any wonder that Thai men see many farang as a threat that they cannot compete with in regard to what they can offer local women, especially financially and this causes jealousy and anger. I have met many expats who have little to no interaction with Thais and are seen as unfriendly and act as if superior by the local community. Fortunately not all but In the end we are all guests here and should at least extend some effort to be a little more sensitive and interactive with the local population.

This rings a bell with me too.

 

My Dad was a GI in England during WW2 and told me stories of various bar brawls with the local men over women.

 

They had more money access to stuff local women hadn't seen for years and it just drove the local guys off a cliff.

 

Same stories, different countries, different times. Male testosterone stupidity never evolves it appears!

Edited September 7, 20223 yr by GinBoy2

2 hours ago, Gottfrid said:

Yes, urbandictionary, is a very trustworthy source, as you clearly can read on the description. ???? The other one you post above, does only have an explanation of another combination of the words you used. As do all other sources online. 

Try using other sources like at least Wikipedia (However, very lose as all can contribute). There, the closest you will find is Fragile X Syndrome.

After that, try Britannica, Cambridge Lexicon and such sources.

Wikipedia…that’s your source of trusted information  

 

No…I won’t do as you say as I don’t need advice from you and because I’ve already shown you that you were wrong. 
 

Now get back on topic before someone reports this off topic nonsense you started. 

Edited September 7, 20223 yr by Bluespunk

That’s good enough reason not to hook up with a Thai Lady you don’t know there past , use a bar girl or massage parlour and go home happy and content 

Falang ''Why did you leave your Ex ?''    ''Him jealous me, and stab my mum and attacked me''  ''Yeh ok well I have to run along now Bye.'' 

56 minutes ago, Bluespunk said:

Wikipedia…that’s your source of trusted information  

 

No…I won’t do as you say as I don’t need advice from you and because I’ve already shown you that you were wrong. 
 

Now get back on topic before someone reports this off topic nonsense you started. 

This is on topic as it has to do about you wording of a state of emotion and health. Something that we are discussion, regarding the behaviour of the culprit in this piece of news.

As you clearly could read in my post, I did not call Wikipedia a trustworthy source of information. Please go back and read: "lose as all can contribute". I only used that as an example on the closest this you could come to the untrustworthy source "urbandictionary" that you gave.

 

The real definition for the persons condition in this news thread range from mental instability to mental illness.

20 hours ago, Joseph98765 said:

Yes, and this is the beginning... more women are quiting from Thais and looking for foreigners, because of this kind of things (drunk-aggresive thai husband)

So expect in the nearly future more aggressive behaviors  to us...5555

Oh Joseph, please be careful, they are turning into callous husband beaters! Take care!

Any volunteers out their to take on this poor lady.....

On 9/6/2022 at 11:12 AM, Boomer6969 said:

Thainess again. And I hope everyone can see the deep underlying racism. ????

I don't think it is racism - that is a hate word with undertones of intention to insult.

 

It is more likely stereotyping which is basically over generalising.

 

 

5 hours ago, Gottfrid said:

This is on topic as it has to do about you wording of a state of emotion and health. Something that we are discussion, regarding the behaviour of the culprit in this piece of news.

As you clearly could read in my post, I did not call Wikipedia a trustworthy source of information. Please go back and read: "lose as all can contribute". I only used that as an example on the closest this you could come to the untrustworthy source "urbandictionary" that you gave.

 

The real definition for the persons condition in this news thread range from mental instability to mental illness.

Already posted links proving you wrong. Move on. 

22 hours ago, EvetsKram said:

You haven't seen my 50 year old girl friend!

You know the rules, pics or it doesn't count.

21 hours ago, BonMot said:

I thought the same. 36 and she thought she had a shot at marriage and with two kids. I bet she's spent. Internet must be a field of dreams.

 

Truth to tell I married my wife at 36 but she looked quite young. So much so we got kicked out of three east coast liquor stores (38yo) bc she was carded and didn't bring her passport with her. Ironically, she doesn't even drink ...the morons.

I'm 64 and I get carded at stores, it doesn't really mean anything.