Age gap relationships might seem wrong, but they work. Trust me

[Social Media 4159]

 would seem that the phrase “you’re never too old to ...” comes with an expiration date. Al Pacino is said to be expecting his fourth child with girlfriend Noor Alfallah – he is 83, to her 29. The shockwaves in reaction to the news are palpable: and mostly centre around the couple’s age gap relationship.

We also had the recent news that Robert De Niro has become a father for the seventh time, at the age of 79. Both men are famous, both actors, both presumably well-off – but criticism of their life choices makes me uncomfortable.

[Eloquent pilgrim 3180]

Indeed, but she better stock up on Pampers, she's gonna need enough for both of them; and a bib for Al, to stop him dribbling into his Ovaltine while he's watching Bargain Hunt ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[steven100 32663]

ridiculous  ....  DeNiro 79 years old .... when the kid is 10 ... he'll be 89 ... and ready for the nursing home.  Oh sorry son'   we can't go fishing today my diapers need changing today. 

 

 

 

Edited May 31 by steven100

[amexpat 2356]

The age gap doesn't bother me. That's their business but having four and seven children, respectively, is a crime against the planet. 

[OneMoreFarang 53665]

23 minutes ago, Social Media said:

Both men are famous, both actors, both presumably well-off – but criticism of their life choices makes me uncomfortable.

Who criticizes them?

a) Old women

b) Guys who can't afford young women.

 

Guys who can afford young women mostly agree that that is the best option.

[fusion58 2099]

The dynamic here isn't really all that different than that of Thai/Westerner relationships in which large age differences are a factor, i.e., she's mainly interested in the number of zeros in his account balance, and he's willing to pay the price for some young tail. A story as old as time.

Edited May 31 by fusion58

[sqwakvfr 3270]

Al Pacino can have as many kids aS he wants because he is Al Pacino.  But what about Al Smith living on Social Security in a basement apartment in the BronX?  Age is not relevant when fame and money are plentiful.  J. William Marshall was 89 when married Anna Nicole Smith.  Marshall was only worth 2 Billion when died at 90.  

[mrwebb8825 1375]

So, next we'll be rehashing Jerry Lee Louis and Woody Allen? Nobody cared about Hugh Hefner and his plethora of young hotties. BUUNNNIIIEEESSSS 🤤

[JimTripper 1439]

16 minutes ago, sqwakvfr said:

Al Pacino can have as many kids aS he wants because he is Al Pacino.  But what about Al Smith living on Social Security in a basement apartment in the BronX?  Age is not relevant when fame and money are plentiful.  J. William Marshall was 89 when married Anna Nicole Smith.  Marshall was only worth 2 Billion when died at 90.  

Actually, it looks weird. When your with someone that looks like your daughter it looks weird in public. There’s no way of avoiding it. You need to overcome the feeling of people staring and gossiping.

[473geo 6014]

5 minutes ago, JimTripper said:

Actually, it looks weird. When your with someone that looks like your daughter it looks weird in public. There’s no way of avoiding it. You need to overcome the feeling of people staring and gossiping.

Mind is on other things than staring and gossiping, thats for those with nothing better to do 😀

[steven100 32663]

well I've seen similar in Pattaya where an old farang who is 80+ is perched up on a bar stool and has a young 20yr old tucked under his wing. 

[bkk6060 20311]

It is mostly judgemental western females, religious right cult and jealous males who make negative comments.  Last I checked, there is nothing in the Bible dictating the age of your partner or to be a parent.

Good for Pacino and Deniro hope they enjoy it.

Edited May 31 by bkk6060

[Hanaguma 5593]

1 hour ago, amexpat said:

The age gap doesn't bother me. That's their business but having four and seven children, respectively, is a crime against the planet. 

Really? How do you figure? They are rich enough to buy enough carbon offsets and other forms of indulgence for hundreds of offspring, not a mere handful. 

[SuperSaiyan 322]

53 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Who criticizes them?

a) Old women

b) Guys who can't afford young women.

 

Guys who can afford young women mostly agree that that is the best option.

 

c) Feminine men who white knighting to hope that some day they will get laid.

[Neeranam 19222]

1 hour ago, Social Media said:

makes me uncomfortable.

who is 'me'?

[Neeranam 19222]

25 minutes ago, steven100 said:

well I've seen similar in Pattaya where an old farang who is 80+ is perched up on a bar stool and has a young 20yr old tucked under his wing. 

Bit different, Pacino doesn't hang out in brothels in a sex tourist town, that's sad.

[jayboy 7770]

1 hour ago, fusion58 said:

The dynamic here isn't really all that different than that of Thai/Westerner relationships in which large age differences are a factor, i.e., she's mainly interested in the number of zeros in his account balance, and he's willing to pay the price for some young tail. A story as old as time.

It's a bit different surely? Pacino and De Niro are charismatic and hugely talented multi millionaires.That's not the description one would give to the (usually) large gentlemen not necessarily of much class (judging by manners and accents) tottering around Pattaya with their reformed (sometimes) bar girls.

Edited May 31 by jayboy

[Isaan sailor 6664]

Many age gap marriages and relationships here in Thailand.  Nothing unusual.

[Dmaxdan 17444]

5 minutes ago, Isaan sailor said:

Many age gap marriages and relationships here in Thailand.  Nothing unusual.

Yes. My wife is 3 years older than me and you've no idea the amount of ridicule she has to put up with...

[SuperSaiyan 322]

53 minutes ago, Neeranam said:

Bit different, Pacino doesn't hang out in brothels in a sex tourist town, that's sad.

Instagram is basically the same.

[bignok 7638]

2 hours ago, steven100 said:

ridiculous  ....  DeNiro 79 years old .... when the kid is 10 ... he'll be 89 ... and ready for the nursing home.  Oh sorry son'   we can't go fishing today my diapers need changing today. 

 

 

 

Here son I left you $50m in my will. Cool dad!

[bignok 7638]

2 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Who criticizes them?

a) Old women

b) Guys who can't afford young women.

 

Guys who can afford young women mostly agree that that is the best option.

Only jealous people criticize others. Hate comes from below not above.

[richard_smith237 54002]

While waiting for the lift at a building in Bangkok, I was next to an old fella the other day, he looked about 80 years old.... struggling to walk with a cane... his misses looked about 40-50 yrs old. 

 

It looked like she was nagging the life-force out of him...   he just took it... my interpretation was that he was simply too exhausted with life to tell her to go forth....  However, ear-wigging a little more, her nagging was was ‘caring’....  “I told you, I could have come to do this, you didn’t need to come”..... “Stand here, you’re blocking the entrance there” etc etc...    all in the kind of grating English that some of a certain demographic and specific geographic region of Thailand come from having ‘picked up their English skills along the way’...... 

 

 

.... But, I judged.... I found myself guilty of what everyone does (although some will argue), judge others around us...  At the same time I ‘self checked’ and thought, good on the old fella, if thats what makes him happy.... Good on her too, if thats what makes her happy....  

 

It was a scene to be hold... But let's face it.....  Most ‘mixed relationships’ with a wide age range and clear juxtaposition of socio-educational-economic status are often quite a scene to behold...  

 

But who cares...  we all look, we all judge, but just don't hold any judgement...   both were probably lovely people. 

 

 

 

But large age gaps...   They’re for the single, newly looking, or someone soon to be looking... or even someone willing to pull the wool over their own eyes...  works for some, not others, such is the colour of life. 

 

 

 

[bignok 7638]

2 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

While waiting for the lift at a building in Bangkok, I was next to an old fella the other day, he looked about 80 years old.... struggling to walk with a cane... his misses looked about 40-50 yrs old. 

 

It looked like she was nagging the life-force out of him...   he just took it... my interpretation was that he was simply too exhausted with life to tell her to go forth....  However, ear-wigging a little more, her nagging was was ‘caring’....  “I told you, I could have come to do this, you didn’t need to come”..... “Stand here, you’re blocking the entrance there” etc etc...    all in the kind of grating English that some of a certain demographic and specific geographic region of Thailand come from having ‘picked up their English skills along the way’...... 

 

 

.... But, I judged.... I found myself guilty of what everyone does (although some will argue), judge others around us...  At the same time I ‘self checked’ and thought, good on the old fella, if thats what makes him happy.... Good on her too, if thats what makes her happy....  

 

It was a scene to be hold... But let's face it.....  Most ‘mixed relationships’ with a wide age range and clear juxtaposition of socio-educational-economic status are often quite a scene to behold...  

 

But who cares...  we all look, we all judge, but just don't hold any judgement...   both were probably lovely people. 

 

 

 

But large age gaps...   They’re for the single, newly looking, or someone soon to be looking... or even someone willing to pull the wool over their own eyes...  works for some, not others, such is the colour of life. 

 

 

 

It might be a caring thing rather than love. But his business.

[richard_smith237 54002]

32 minutes ago, Isaan sailor said:

Many age gap marriages and relationships here in Thailand.  Nothing unusual.

Perhaps not unusual.... but the usual assumption is that such relationships are born of a need for ‘security’ on the part of the female to settle for someone she may otherwise avoid if she were financially independent. 

 

Thats not a popular comment within these fora....  but neither is it inaccurate. 

 

If both parties are happy, good luck to them... There is a lot to be said for finding security and it is of course also born of instinct going back millennia... 

Edited May 31 by richard_smith237

[OneMoreFarang 53665]

56 minutes ago, bignok said:

Only jealous people criticize others. Hate comes from below not above.

Don't forget the moral superiors, with or without religious background. 

[JimTripper 1439]

57 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

While waiting for the lift at a building in Bangkok, I was next to an old fella the other day, he looked about 80 years old.... struggling to walk with a cane... his misses looked about 40-50 yrs old. 

 

It looked like she was nagging the life-force out of him...   he just took it... my interpretation was that he was simply too exhausted with life to tell her to go forth....  However, ear-wigging a little more, her nagging was was ‘caring’....  “I told you, I could have come to do this, you didn’t need to come”..... “Stand here, you’re blocking the entrance there” etc etc...    all in the kind of grating English that some of a certain demographic and specific geographic region of Thailand come from having ‘picked up their English skills along the way’...... 

 

 

.... But, I judged.... I found myself guilty of what everyone does (although some will argue), judge others around us...  At the same time I ‘self checked’ and thought, good on the old fella, if thats what makes him happy.... Good on her too, if thats what makes her happy....  

 

It was a scene to be hold... But let's face it.....  Most ‘mixed relationships’ with a wide age range and clear juxtaposition of socio-educational-economic status are often quite a scene to behold...  

 

But who cares...  we all look, we all judge, but just don't hold any judgement...   both were probably lovely people. 

 

 

 

But large age gaps...   They’re for the single, newly looking, or someone soon to be looking... or even someone willing to pull the wool over their own eyes...  works for some, not others, such is the colour of life. 

 

 

 

Not quite sure what you blabbing on about, but when you are dating your daughter it looks weird. There’s no avoiding it. It looks strange.

[BangkokHank 1246]

2 hours ago, steven100 said:

well I've seen similar in Pattaya where an old farang who is 80+ is perched up on a bar stool and has a young 20yr old tucked under his wing. 

What I would find more amazing about that than the age difference would be seeing a farang with wings.

[klauskunkel 26346]

Al Pacino and Robert De Niro... I assume an offer was made that could not be refused.

[bbbbooboo 1476]

11 hours ago, steven100 said:

well I've seen similar in Pattaya where an old farang who is 80+ is perched up on a bar stool and has a young 20yr old tucked under his wing. 

Hmmm…ive seen the same. It looks undignified and pathetic. Rather than feel envious i feel sad for him