Toxic Lady

[theblether]

A few years ago I encountered a Thai lady aged around 40 who uttered the immortal words "stay away from me, I'm a bitch." I thought it was nice of her to give me advance notice. So, I stayed away as I'm not a lunatic. 

 

Hispanic ladies with a toxic trait are known as La Toxica. Apparently there's a corner of the Internet reserved for these particular ladies, where gentlemen rue the day they met said beauties. 

 

The best I can do in Thai is pu ying me pit, which translates to "lady has venom/poison" I reckon there must be a better colloquialism than that, does anyone known what it is? 

 

And do any of you wonderful gentlemen have any experience of dealing with toxic ladies? 

[G_Money]

Maybe she said that to keep a certain toxic male away from her.

[novacova]

I know a toxic Thai couple in a small village here in the north. She instigates mayhem, usually around midnight when the two are tanked up with their booze. They both are usually bruised up. Seen her staggering in the wee hours completely naked yelling who knows what at the top of her lungs 

[scubascuba3]

Interesting, i tend to avoid anyone toxic or even a lady that would drag you down with all the highs and lows.

 

If a lady is sucking the life out of you, end it. Wise words

[NowNow]

6 minutes ago, G_Money said:

Maybe she said that to keep a certain toxic male away from her.

 

If someone shows you who they are...believe them.

[novacova]

1 minute ago, NowNow said:

 

If someone shows you who they are...believe them.

I generally believe what I see, not what I hear.

[richard_smith237]

Just now, scubascuba3 said:

Interesting, i tend to avoid anyone toxic or even a lady that would drag you down with all the highs and lows

 

I'd say the same...  But in my younger days (20's) here I did get caught up in a relationship with a female who in hindsight was outrageously toxic - I think sometimes we need to experience this to identify it and avoid in future. 

 

It was incredible...  a good day out could turn into an absolute nightmare in the blinking of an eye.

 

 

[OneMoreFarang]

15 minutes ago, theblether said:

And do any of you wonderful gentlemen have any experience of dealing with toxic ladies? 

Sure, sometimes they ask me for a drink. And maybe I buy them a drink. And when they show that toxic vibe, then I won't spend any more time with them.

I think it is almost impossible to avoid them completely. But, at least at the beginning, it is easy to walk away from them.

Just don't get that stupid idea that they have really a good heart, and if you try only hard enough, then you will find that good heart and you will be happy ever after. It won't work! 

[theblether]

17 minutes ago, G_Money said:

Maybe she said that to keep a certain toxic male away from her.

 

Bitchy. I like it. 

[GarryP]

My first live-in girlfriend was a nightmare, and even to this day do not know why I hung around with her so long. She bottled me, knifed me (twice), plant potted me and ashtrayed me. I only did the runner when she was arrested and locked up (for theft). I was in my early 20's and very green.  

[nikmar]

27 minutes ago, theblether said:

The best I can do in Thai is pu ying me pit,

 

I only know enough Thai to say "pu ying mai dii loey" or "pu ying yuur mak loey". same same I guess.

 

As a younger man, I got engaged to lovely lady and moved into her house only to witness her turn into a massive b*tch as soon as I had committed to the move. She went from angel to devil in a day. nightmarish!!

 

[theblether]

10 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

 

I'd say the same...  But in my younger days (20's) here I did get caught up in a relationship with a female who in hindsight was outrageously toxic - I think sometimes we need to experience this to identify it and avoid in future. 

 

It was incredible...  a good day out could turn into an absolute nightmare in the blinking of an eye.

 

 

 

I read that 1% of people are psychopaths, another 1% are sociopaths. And an amazing 5% are narcissists. I regard Facebook and Instagram in particular as narcissist playgrounds. The number of selfies that some women take is an utter disgrace, like demented parrots pecking at a mirror. 

 

I dated a narcissist and when I said she was narcissistic she did 14 online tests until she learned how to beat the system - as the first thirteen said she was a narcissist. She wasn't happy when I pointed out that only a narcissist would sit for hours trying to prove they weren't. 

 

Anyway, if 7% of the population are psychopathic/sociopathic/narcissistic - and that's before you start dealing with the sub-84 IQ, the mentally ill, the gamblers, alcoholics and junkies, it's no wonder the dating game is a minefield. 

[theblether]

7 minutes ago, nikmar said:

 

I only know enough Thai to say "pu ying mai dii loey" or "pu ying yuur mak loey". same same I guess.

 

As a younger man, I got engaged to lovely lady and moved into her house only to witness her turn into a massive b*tch as soon as I had committed to the move. She went from angel to devil in a day. nightmarish!!

 

 

Aye, you wonder how that happens, and how it's so instantaneous and bitter. 

 

On the other hand, I suppose a lot of men are control freaks behind closed doors. It's not a one way street. 

[theblether]

28 minutes ago, novacova said:

I generally believe what I see, not what I hear.

 

I heard a good line yesterday. 

 

"women believe what they hear and men believe what they see. 

 

that's why men will always lie and women will always wear makeup." 

 

Profound stuff. 

[bob smith]

does she have ID Line?

 

bob.

[theblether]

14 minutes ago, bob smith said:

does she have ID Line?

 

bob.

 

Have you ever heard of cruel and unusual punishment? 

 

She might be a bitch but, my gawd, she doesn't deserve you. 

[bob smith]

5 minutes ago, theblether said:

She might be a bitch but, my gawd, she doesn't deserve you. 

...i'll give her the best 30 seconds of her life.

 

the old pump n dump.

 

no more than she deserves by the sound of it!

 

bob.

[theblether]

47 minutes ago, bob smith said:

...i'll give her the best 30 seconds of her life.

 

the old pump n dump.

 

no more than she deserves by the sound of it!

 

bob.

 

You misspelled Flump. 

 

 

[bob smith]

13 minutes ago, theblether said:

 

You misspelled Flump. 

 

 

...that your hand?

 

rather effeminate! 

 

bob.

[Celsius]

Just before i met my wife I was in a toxic relationship with a Thai lady. She worked for a big US company that starts with a number and gave me the best sex ever.... often while on a zoom call with other employees. On a first date she said f me imma bad girl. On the second date she gave it to me while watching the Lion King (in the cinema) On a 3rd she demanded to to explore her other cavities. I could not keep up and had to carry Sidegra as she was unpredictable. If she didn't get it I would hear about it. She would always keep my phone in her bag out of jealousy, but I could never check her phone. Man I loved that crazy btchz. I wish I could say I dumped her, but I would be lying. 

[bob smith]

1 hour ago, Celsius said:

Just before i met my wife I was in a toxic relationship with a Thai lady. She worked for a big US company that starts with a number and gave me the best sex ever.... often while on a zoom call with other employees. On a first date she said f me imma bad girl. On the second date she gave it to me while watching the Lion King (in the cinema) On a 3rd she demanded to to explore her other cavities. I could not keep up and had to carry Sidegra as she was unpredictable. If she didn't get it I would hear about it. She would always keep my phone in her bag out of jealousy, but I could never check her phone. Man I loved that crazy btchz. I wish I could say I dumped her, but I would be lying. 

she soundz familiar..

 

did she have black hair?

 

bob.

[bbbbooboo]

I think these women have personality disorders and can be extremely destructive. Most of us have met one in our life and learn to stay well away from them

[1FinickyOne]

yah pit = poison

 

nang itcha = bzitch

 

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[2baht]

14 hours ago, theblether said:

And do any of you wonderful gentlemen have any experience of dealing with toxic ladies? 

Just Say No!!! 

[Dazinoz]

Certainly have had experience. 

 

Christmas last was sitting at a bar in Chiang Mai with some friends from Oz. This cute little lady turns up and starts talking to them as they knew each other a few years back. We were sitting outside the bar and, as it was cool we moved inside. My fiends and I sat one table and this girl another. I signalled to her did she want a drink. When she got her drink she came to me and said let's go outside which I did. We seemed to hit it off really well and we had a good night. 

 

To cut a long story short I did get involved with her and we were together a few months She did send up some red flags and I should have gotten out then, but stupid me stayed on. In the end she demanded a high monthly salary and when I denied she just left in an instant.

 

Don't know what triggered me to look but I realised she was an extreme narcissist. She loved bombed me from the first night and carried it on. I discovered later some of those red flags were her being "busy" with at least one other guy. I really did care for her (great at her love bombing) and I hurt for quite awhile. After reading and watching videos about narcissists I still felt bad but did understand more on why she did what she did. Narcissist only care about themselves and can not really love or care others. She was very toxic.

 

So if anyone living in Chiang Mai comes across a short (140cm) and around 35 very cute lady in bar area and she "loves" you from the start, RUN.

[giddyup]

14 hours ago, nikmar said:

 

I only know enough Thai to say "pu ying mai dii loey" or "pu ying yuur mak loey". same same I guess.

 

As a younger man, I got engaged to lovely lady and moved into her house only to witness her turn into a massive b*tch as soon as I had committed to the move. She went from angel to devil in a day. nightmarish!!

 

I had a similar experience, I moved out next day, didn't even unpack my suitcase.

[Grumpy one]

15 hours ago, novacova said:

I know a toxic Thai couple in a small village here in the north. She instigates mayhem, usually around midnight when the two are tanked up with their booze. They both are usually bruised up. Seen her staggering in the wee hours completely naked yelling who knows what at the top of her lungs 

The upside of living there is the free entertainment  

[Thingamabob]

1 hour ago, bbbbooboo said:

I think these women have personality disorders and can be extremely destructive. Most of us have met one in our life and learn to stay well away from them

Agreed. Experience is the key to avoiding toxic women. Once bitten, twice shy. 

[Robert Paulson]

All of them are toxic

[ignore it]

Toxic Thai adies? 

 

I'm sure none of the curmudgeons here have ever had any contact with such women.