Why are Thai men so submissive

[Yamu]

Hello flogwallahs,

 

I have now been in Thailand for 3 weeks so i am practically a local now. One thing that has struck me is why the local men (and even the vast majority of the localised farang) are so submissive.

 

I dont mean to be offensive however between half the men dressing as lady boys for sex and the remainder sitting by and just watching as westerners come in and steal all the prime grade women and they do nothing but smile and cower.

 

Occassionally an uppity mong will try and do something sleezly like scam an unsuspecting foreigner but as a culture they are extremely submissive.

 

Reminds me a bit of red headed south australia doctors who let their wives wear the pants and sleep with the tradies while the husband is on night shift

[Mekmong MICK]

2 minutes ago, Yamu said:

Hello flogwallahs,

 

I have now been in Thailand for 3 weeks so i am practically a local now. One thing that has struck me is why the local men (and even the vast majority of the localised farang) are so submissive.

 

I dont mean to be offensive however between half the men dressing as lady boys for sex and the remainder sitting by and just watching as westerners come in and steal all the prime grade women and they do nothing but smile and cower.

 

Occassionally an uppity mong will try and do something sleezly like scam an unsuspecting foreigner but as a culture they are extremely submissive.

 

Reminds me a bit of red headed south australia doctors who let their wives wear the pants and sleep with the tradies while the husband is on night shift

Insightful OP. In my 2 weeks in Hua Hin I've also noticed a certain level of submissive behaviour.

 

They're more than happy to rip off Westerners (they tried to charge me $30AUD for a Nike shirt but I managed to get them down to a great price - $23AUD) but they turn to jelly when the missus starts barking orders. 

 

In my part of the world, we call it small willy syndrome but I'm not sure if it's respectful to say this in Thailand 

[Yellow Fever]

When in Thailand I train at the local Thai kick boxing gym and wallop the locals there.. I see the girls they bring in from time to time and they can’t take they’re eyes off me.. I did get approached on the street to become a model one day after all

 

the women over they love my white skin, I laugh to myself when I kick there husband hard in the stomach and his lady is pining for me the whole time 

 

I am planning on moving to Thailand next year, I consider myself a local now as having been there to visit a few times and have a pretty good grasp of the language 

 

the Banh mi in Thailand is excellent, it’s the national dish from

ive been told, a good fix me up for lunch 

[EVENKEEL]

1 minute ago, Yellow Fever said:

When in Thailand I train at the local Thai kick boxing gym and wallop the locals there.. I see the girls they bring in from time to time and they can’t take they’re eyes off me.. I did get approached on the street to become a model one day after all

 

the women over they love my white skin, I laugh to myself when I kick there husband hard in the stomach and his lady is pining for me the whole time 

 

I am planning on moving to Thailand next year, I consider myself a local now as having been there to visit a few times and have a pretty good grasp of the language 

 

the Banh mi in Thailand is excellent, it’s the national dish from

ive been told, a good fix me up for lunch 

Hello Bob.

[2baht]

36 minutes ago, Yamu said:

I have now been in Thailand for 3 weeks so i am practically a local now.

When can we expect the book???🤔

[Mekmong MICK]

15 minutes ago, Yellow Fever said:

When in Thailand I train at the local Thai kick boxing gym and wallop the locals there.. I see the girls they bring in from time to time and they can’t take they’re eyes off me.. I did get approached on the street to become a model one day after all

 

the women over they love my white skin, I laugh to myself when I kick there husband hard in the stomach and his lady is pining for me the whole time 

 

I am planning on moving to Thailand next year, I consider myself a local now as having been there to visit a few times and have a pretty good grasp of the language 

 

the Banh mi in Thailand is excellent, it’s the national dish from

ive been told, a good fix me up for lunch 

It surprises me how little time in takes to be a local in Thailand, I've been here 2 weeks now and feel like I'm well acquainted. All the hotel know my first name and I speak to them in language when I greet them (swadeeka)

 

I noticed the Thai fellas at kickboxing weren't particularly fit or strong, the women's class I went to watch was a lot more entertaining and aggressive 

[2baht]

17 minutes ago, Yellow Fever said:

I am planning on moving to Thailand next year, I consider myself a local now as having been there to visit a few times and have a pretty good grasp of the language 

A pretty good grasp of the language, you'll be a star when you move here YF.......hang on....you're a star already! 

[Yamu]

4 minutes ago, 2baht said:

When can we expect the book???🤔

 

Just finalising the last few chapters

[2baht]

2 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

It surprises me how little time in takes to be a local in Thailand

🤣Funny! After 30+ years in Thailand, I feel no more local than the first day I was here but have long come to the conclusion that we are just farang, spend your money and go!

[Mekmong MICK]

Just now, 2baht said:

🤣Funny! After 30+ years in Thailand, I feel no more local than the first day I was here but have long come to the conclusion that we are just farang, spend your money and go!

Fair enough friend and I am sorry it's taken you so long to assimilate and fit in. Try doing more local stuff like go to the local water markets or night markets or eat phó and you'll be surprised how quick it takes

[2baht]

6 minutes ago, Mekmong MICK said:

All the hotel know my first name and I speak to them in language when I greet them (swadeeka)

Girls say sawadee Ka, Men say sawadee khup!, work on it Mick!

[Mekmong MICK]

1 minute ago, 2baht said:

Girls say sawadee Ka, Men say sawadee khup!, work on it Mick!

Thanks friend!! 🙂

[2baht]

Just now, Mekmong MICK said:

Fair enough friend and I am sorry it's taken you so long to assimilate and fit in. Try doing more local stuff like go to the local water markets or night markets or eat phó and you'll be surprised how quick it takes

I'm really not looking for advice! I have done very well in Thailand, have many acquantainces but would rather the company of farang! I ate the best Pho in Vietnam!

[Yellow Fever]

2 minutes ago, 2baht said:

🤣Funny! After 30+ years in Thailand, I feel no more local than the first day I was here but have long come to the conclusion that we are just farang, spend your money and go!

Maybe you should join up at the local Thai kickboxing gym.. it really is a good way to feel like a local, I fit right in when I’m there tbh

 

they treat me like a local and have picked up the language within a couple of weeks , I am starting to even write sentences in Thai 

 

you just must be hanging out with the wrong crowd of you are a farang after 30 years.. sheesh, I feel like a local after 1 month of training 

 

steve not so much as he doesn’t train and just chases women.. the dirtier the better for him, no wonder he catches sti’s 

[OneMoreFarang]

It seems you like submissive guys. 😉

 

It's not so difficult to find the no to submissive guys. Try!

 

 

[bob smith]

30 minutes ago, EVENKEEL said:

Hello Bob.

...it ain't me man!!

 

seems AN is being trolled relentlessly at the moment.

 

bob.

[2baht]

1 minute ago, Yellow Fever said:

you just must be hanging out with the wrong crowd of you are a farang after 30 years

Utter rubbish! Stick around a while YF, you may get it eventually!

[bob smith]

29 minutes ago, 2baht said:

I'm really not looking for advice! I have done very well in Thailand, have many acquantainces but would rather the company of farang!

Similar story to me mate.

 

I have plenty thai guys I could call up for a drink right now if I wanted to.

I just know that doing so would be more trouble than it's worth.

 

Much prefer the company of my fellow farangs, though I also know a few farang loonballs..

gotta be careful who you talk to on that proverbial bar stool these days!

 

bob.

Edited Friday at 12:02 AM by bob smith

[2baht]

22 minutes ago, bob smith said:

...it ain't me man!!

 

seems AN is being trolled relentlessly at the moment.

 

bob.

AN has deteriorated since you limited your posts, I miss them Bob! Have you got a subject for today?

 

[HappyExpat57]

AN - the new Penthouse Forum.

[bob smith]

4 minutes ago, 2baht said:

AN has deteriorated since you limited your posts, I miss them Bob! Have you got a subject for today?

 

my posts/replies keep getting removed.

 

It takes time and effort to write them up and for what?

so they can be taken down 5 minutes later??

 

I have many more experiences that I would love to share with the expat community,

i'm just not sure it's worth it anymore.

 

much to the joy of many of the rose tinted glasses clique I'm sure!

 

bob.

Edited Friday at 12:09 AM by bob smith

[Mekmong MICK]

5 minutes ago, bob smith said:

Similar story to me mate.

 

I have plenty thai guys I could call up for a drink right now if I wanted to.

I just know that doing so would be more trouble than it's worth.

 

Much prefer the company of my fellow farangs, though I also know a few farang loonballs..

gotta be careful who you talk to on that proverbial bar stool these days!

 

bob.

Good for you Bob preferring the company of gentlemen. It's good Thailand is so accommodating of alternative lifestyles and it's great you don't discriminate between Thai boys and farang's

[fondue zoo]

some are.. until the shooting, stabbing or bludgeoning begins when an argument boils over.

 

 

9 minutes ago, HappyExpat57 said:

AN - the new Penthouse Forum.

 

I only read it for the informative and well written articles..         

 

 

[fondue zoo]

12 minutes ago, bob smith said:

my posts/replies keep getting removed.

 

It takes time and effort to write them up and for what?

so they can be taken down 5 minutes later??

 

I have many more experiences that I would love to share with the expat community,

i'm just not sure it's worth it anymore.

 

much to the joy of many of the rose tinted glasses clique I'm sure!

 

bob.

 

You need to write a memoir!   a kind of historical record for future generations.

 

 

Now for the title, hmmm

Sex, Somtam, and Spiritual Enlightenment: My Debauched Path to Self-Discovery in Thailand.

Flip-Flop Nirvana: Memoirs of a Bangkok Bender

 

 

_teehee

[bob smith]

1 minute ago, fondue zoo said:

 

You need to write a memoir!   a kind of historical record for future generations.

 

 

Now for the title, hmmm

Sex, Somtam, and Spiritual Enlightenment: My Debauched Path to Self-Discovery in Thailand.

Flip-Flop Nirvana: Memoirs of a Bangkok Bender

 

 

_teehee

....are you being sarcastic, fondue?

 

bob.

[stoner]

this thread has one guy replying to himself with 31 different profiles. strange. 

[RSD1]

2 hours ago, Yellow Fever said:

the women over they love my white skin, I laugh to myself when I kick there husband hard in the stomach and his lady is pining for me the whole time 

fantastic how the lust for your wallet can be vastly misinterpreted as something totally different. is it an elephant foreskin wallet?

[RSD1]

17 minutes ago, stoner said:

this thread has one guy replying to himself with 31 different profiles. strange. 

boredom will do it. 

[MalcolmB]

1 hour ago, bob smith said:

...it ain't me man!!

 

seems AN is being trolled relentlessly at the moment.

 

bob.

They don’t have enough local news.

 

So much going on in Thailand but not reported here only trash talking and arguing about Trump, Gaza, the UK etc. 

 

if they don’t improve it I will leave despite being awarded my silver membership yesterday 

[MalcolmB]

26 minutes ago, stoner said:

this thread has one guy replying to himself with 31 different profiles. strange. 

Split personality