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Best ideas for dates in Bangkok

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40 minutes ago, GypsyT said:

Thanks, Pro.

So far I only got yeast infection two times from same gal. Later found out she was married!

One cheap pill took care of that.

Yeast is nothing.... besides, w/o it no beer nor bread.

 

 

Yes, yeast is really nothing, that's another thing Miki had. I took her to a doctor, you can just get a pill that will take care of it, exactly right. No big deal.

 

I saw that Mon has unfollowed me on Instagram, so the chances of getting the second date with this wonderful girl are now slim to none.

 

Let that be a lesson, don't do what I did. Come on time and makes sure you have enough cash. I can't blame her really.

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21 hours ago, Cameroni said:

 

Of course most are. Women are highly selective. Then there is timing. With Miki for example I was lucky she'd just broken up. If they're still fighting to keep someone I would not have gotten a chance. 

 

Attraction is highly subjective. Some women won't date English people. An Argentinian girl for example. Or they don't like the haircut or the way you dress.

 

Some girls like surfer dudes. 

 

Given the subjective nature of attraction, the importance of timing (she has to be free) and the fact that women only have one chance to select the best possible mate (they can get pregnant one at a time whereas men can father offpsring in greater numbers simultaneously), there are a lot of factors at play that can work against you getting a chance.

 

This does not mean that I don't get multiple texting me at the same time, or pushing hard to spend time with me, because SOME women do find me attractive and are free and do consider me an acceptable mate. Quite a few.

 

But yes, obviously it's like with sales, you have to make countless approaches to get the number of customers. Most will say no. But given the factors at play it would be silly to take that personal.


Thanks for reply, but dude please tame that ego. I didn’t ask for or need a lesson on how to pick up women… was giving some validity to the thread in questioning that you were getting knock-backs. A simple ‘yes’ would have sufficed.


I could walk out my door right now, ‘bump’ into a nice lady, invite her for a coffee with no ulterior motive and likely have some fun, conducting the entire affair in Thai if need be.

 

Women are of course selective—one guy in a room full of women, he might get to F one of them; one woman in a room full of guys, she could F them all, etc. Having said that, they are on more of a time-clock here, being considered on the shelf if they’re still single in their 30s, so odds are better in that respect. They are also easier to get on with here than the West as men are still treated with respect. Try the stuff you are doing back home and you’d be vilified.

 

But men can be as selective as women. In my younger days, I’d be putting it about all over the shop, but, despite having regular offers (ooh, that ego, and no, not tarts), nowadays I can’t be doing with all that unless they are special. Find it too much of an energy drain and would rather sip gin and muse the universe than chase skirt and rate them. Each to their own of course and a fun thread. Beats most of the monger tat on here and ‘what did you have for breakfast?’ etc. 🙄

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On 2/3/2025 at 1:41 AM, daveAustin said:

I could walk out my door right now, ‘bump’ into a nice lady, invite her for a coffee with no ulterior motive and likely have some fun, conducting the entire affair in Thai if need be.

 

Funny you should mention this. That's exactly what I did yesterday.

 

I had a date lined up with this 25 year old girl who had beautiful pics on Insta. But first she made me wait for 1 hour, yes, she was 1 hour late, and then it turned out she was a single mother with a daughter. And she was jobless. And could not speak English.

 

A greater contrast to that wonderful date with Mon is hard to imagine.

 

Anyway, this time the pics were far better than the real one, she really put on too many pounds, though she was not fat she was too thick. We ate quickly and I immediately suggested she come to my place for coffee. She prevaricated but finally agreed.

 

I made coffee at home for us, and she refused to drink my delicious coffee! Just let it stand there! She probably thought I was a serial killer about to poison her. When I said lets look upstairs at the bedroom she came, but it was clear she was not down to do anything, so I just drove her back where she came from without getting any. A most disappointing and frustrating experience. But on to the next.

 

On 2/3/2025 at 1:41 AM, daveAustin said:

But men can be as selective as women

 

Men SHOULD be as selective as women, but of course we are not. That's because our mating strategy can be aiming at the greatest number of mates, because we don't get pregnant. So we are far less selective as a rule. But absolutely, we SHOULD be as selective as women. Unless you're just DTF, then of course it's not relevant, but if you're looking for a mate then yes.

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

I had a date lined up with this 25 year old girl who had beautiful pics on Insta. But first she made me wait for 1 hour, yes, she was 1 hour late, and then it turned out she was a single mother with a daughter. And she was jobless. And could not speak English.

Arrange to meet them where you can view the product before buying.

Shopping malls are good, sit at an outside table next to the place you are to meet.

Make sure you have something to do, book, music, etc.

If they aren't there within 10 minutes of appointment, move on.

If they aren't as advertised, walk away before they even know you are the potential customer.

 

This isn't rocket science!

On 2/3/2025 at 7:41 AM, daveAustin said:

I could walk out my door right now, ‘bump’ into a nice lady, invite her for a coffee with no ulterior motive and likely have some fun, conducting the entire affair in Thai if need be.

Chatting with women (as they try to manipulate you) isn't fun.

Fun requires parts of them rubbing against parts of me.

Why a guy would talk with a woman "with no ulterior motive" is quite beyond me.

I ain't buying random women no free coffee.

 

Now if they were going to buy me free food and drinks, that might be different!

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4 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Arrange to meet them where you can view the product before buying.

Shopping malls are good, sit at an outside table next to the place you are to meet.

Make sure you have something to do, book, music, etc.

If they aren't there within 10 minutes of appointment, move on.

If they aren't as advertised, walk away before they even know you are the potential customer.

 

This isn't rocket science!

 

I did agree to meet at a mall and gave precise directions where to meet, but she ignored them! She said "I'm here in front of X".

 

She was an annoyance all around but you're right, I certainly should not have waited for 1 hour, but I had to be there for other reasons as well, so I was easy. But yah, since she got the kid she got a bit thick, not fat, just more corpulent than a Thai girl should be. She's not unattractive, but her best days are clearly behind her and pics are old.

 

To my amazement she texted me today she has no money to eat. As a humanitarian I sent her 500 Baht. She then texted back complaining "I thought you were going to pay for my room 3300 baht". Something I never said I would do. I replied I thought you meant you needed money for food, I took you to my bedroom yesterday and you did nothing for me (so why would I pay 3300 baht).

 

She replied "You did not tell me what you want, I did not know"...yeah right. I took her to the bedroom to inspect the curtains I guess.

 

Anyway. I am starting to accept that higher socio economic class is a distinctly desirable trait.

20 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Why a guy would talk with a woman "with no ulterior motive" is quite beyond me.

Good point. That was a typo. 😋

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So thick girl contacted me yesterday night asking for 3300 baht and then "you can have yours" in the evening. Only in Thailand.

 

Obviously I told her no, she was so miserable and had such a poor attitude I doubt she would have given me a happy time.

On 2/4/2025 at 3:19 PM, Cameroni said:

She replied "You did not tell me what you want, I did not know"...yeah right. I took her to the bedroom to inspect the curtains I guess.

She may have been serious!

Most Thai women don't know how to make love. Sometimes I have to take a pulse to my own piece of mind in mid action.... One of those hospital surgery room machines would be handy. The one that says; piip-piip-piip as long as patient is alive.

No, they don't get horny like ANY Latina or Euro babe. Maybe I let them watch TikTok? That may do the trick?

Americans are similar, very little self creativity and seeking ultimate finish.

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50 minutes ago, GypsyT said:

She may have been serious!

Most Thai women don't know how to make love. Sometimes I have to take a pulse to my own piece of mind in mid action.... One of those hospital surgery room machines would be handy. The one that says; piip-piip-piip as long as patient is alive.

No, they don't get horny like ANY Latina or Euro babe. Maybe I let them watch TikTok? That may do the trick?

Americans are similar, very little self creativity and seeking ultimate finish.

 

I don't buy it, you take a girl to the bedroom I think she knows what's up. But I could tell she was not up for it. And I did not want to risk an unwanted offence. I always wait for the girl to show she is ready to start intimacy. This girl was not. So, next. Another date tonight, the promising make up artist.

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7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I don't buy it, you take a girl to the bedroom I think she knows what's up. But I could tell she was not up for it. And I did not want to risk an unwanted offence. I always wait for the girl to show she is ready to start intimacy. This girl was not. So, next. Another date tonight, the promising make up artist.

My policy was always to start pulling their tops off as they entered my property.

If they're gonna say NO, let's get it confirmed and them out asap, no need to waste more of my time!

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6 hours ago, BritManToo said:

My policy was always to start pulling their tops off as they entered my property.

If they're gonna say NO, let's get it confirmed and them out asap, no need to waste more of my time!

 

Very robust and old school. I'm sure that works most of the time, but in today's climate with feminism I don't want to risk the one potential offence taker. I try to read the room and generally when she is ready for it she shows it and I go in. This girl kept showing she was annoyed and was not in a happy, open frame of mind. Even it had proceeded it would not have been a good experience.

8 hours ago, GypsyT said:

She may have been serious!

Most Thai women don't know how to make love. Sometimes I have to take a pulse to my own piece of mind in mid action.... One of those hospital surgery room machines would be handy. The one that says; piip-piip-piip as long as patient is alive.

No, they don't get horny like ANY Latina or Euro babe. Maybe I let them watch TikTok? That may do the trick?

Americans are similar, very little self creativity and seeking ultimate finish.

 

yeah, you know that may just be a  you thing

5 hours ago, Cameroni said:

Very robust and old school.

That's not rude at all!

Thai men take women like roosters chicken in the yard... Thai women are used to man take charge. Give them choices they get confused... and they think man is weak. Not all, but most.

 

No other ethnic group say in so many situation, including love making; "Up to you!"

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7 hours ago, GypsyT said:

That's not rude at all!

Thai men take women like roosters chicken in the yard... Thai women are used to man take charge. Give them choices they get confused... and they think man is weak. Not all, but most.

 

No other ethnic group say in so many situation, including love making; "Up to you!"

 

That's a good point, maybe we need to learn from BritManToo and incorporate the cultural pecularities into the equation.

 

Just on time, tonight the make-up artist date is finally on. Maybe I'll tear her top off as soon as we enter Duke's...

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