Are Latino males especially adept at worming their way into white-women's hearts? How?

[GammaGlobulin]

Dear Folks,

 

Just wondering if white women become illogically overly-smitten after being mesmerized by the average seemingly-virile Mexican male.

 

The reason I ask this question is because I have checked out the stats on divorce rates, as you can see here:

 

 

Anecdotally, as has been sometimes reported in the news, and is most-likely due to some cultural divide, ....

Pairings between these two groups often ends badly.

 

BUT....WHY is this?

 

No, of course, this circumstance cannot be due to skin color.

 

There must be some other reason, and it must be CULTURAL, through and through.

 

So then, what do you imagine might be the cultural differences that cause:

 

a.  Sudden and immediate attraction between Mexican males and white women

b.  Higher divorce rates between Mexican males and white women, compared to American males and American white women?

 

Is it this MACHISMO that many Mexican males seem to have, and which most white women love.....INITIALLY....but....

NOT for long, after the ring goes on?

 

I need to know.

 

I am confused.

 

This topic is dear to my heart.

 

Best regards,

Gamma

 

Note:  If you really want to know, my belief is that like cultures should stick with like cultures...

 

Note2.  I identify with the Chinese culture, completely.

 

Note3.  I am not from Mexico.....And....better believe it, Baby!

 

Note4.  Is it possible to take the Mexican out of Mexico, but not take the Mexican culture out of the Mexican?  I think....yes.  Not unless you wait about 300 years.  What do you think?

 

 

 

 

 

 

[flyingtlger]

I knew a person from latino decent. He claimed that latino lovers were the best lovers in the world.

The guy was hung like a horse but I would always tell him, "It's not the size of the ship but the motion of the ocean".....

[Lacessit]

3 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

Note:  If you really want to know, my belief is that like cultures should stick with like cultures...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Different cultures IME can coexist with each quite comfortably.

 

The problems come when one culture starts thinking it is superior to the other one.

 

If I stuck with my home culture, I would probably be shunted off to an aged care facility, to eat dog food for the rest of my life.

 

In the Thai culture, my GF and her relatives will take care of me. Period.

[impulse]

Worm their way into their whats?

 

[fredwiggy]

Latino males, like Thais, Blacks , Muslims and other Asians, are more likely to cheat on their partners. There are stats on this, and I will link one, but it's really up to how they were raised. Long before I moved here, I heard this about the Thai men. I also heard this from many women, especially Latinas, while living 32 years near San Antonio, that their men always cheat. I know it's a little exaggerated because I personally knew a few Latino men who are very faithful as far as I knew. I also talked to a few white women who said the same thing. They were attracted to the Latino men but they always cheated.

 

Culture comes into the picture, but there are cheaters in every nationality and creed. A lot of this is the nonsense that they are better lovers, which also brings in the alpha male bulls**t, where women look to the bad boy, thinking somehow he's a better choice, when he's the worst choice they can make. It's the beta males that are the good providers and caretakers of the females and children. The boys see their dads cheating on their moms, or absent altogether, and they think it's normal behavior. Muslims can have more wives, polygyny,  and yes, this does mean they are cheating on their first wife. It's their culture and it's wrong but that's their deal and the women have to deal with it if they are to stay in that faith. In Western cultures, it's easier to be granted a divorce than, for instance, here, so many stay in marriages while being cheated on.

 

To your question, again, it's the women who fall for the bulls**t that cheaters and players use, using their looks and lines to bed women they aren't going to stay with long. The machismo, or alpha behavior is attractive to some women, who then learn the hard way that the beta males are the better choices in the long run. .........This chart shows some of it.............https://www.statista.com/chart/6841/the-most-unfaithful-nationalities/

[GammaGlobulin]

10 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

In the Thai culture, my GF and her relatives will take care of me. Period.

 

This is something which is yet to be determined.

 

As a scientist, you must realize that future events are unpredictable.

 

Period.

 

[Lacessit]

10 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

This is something which is yet to be determined.

 

As a scientist, you must realize that future events are unpredictable.

 

Period.

 

It is in their interest to keep me alive and content for as long as possible.

[GammaGlobulin]

14 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

It is in their interest to keep me alive and content for as long as possible.

 

Don't forget to find an unbiased entity, one which will play the watchdog in order to mind your caretakers.

 

Just in case.

 

There is always the slight possibility that,.....

if one becomes demented...and then....

If you keep on keeping on....

For more years than they expected....then....

 

Who knows what might happen.

 

There is always a pillow, 

In every bedroom.

 

 

[OneMoreFarang]

Maybe they don't listen to those crazy feminists. 

And the feminists, who don't know what they want, like that.

[Lacessit]

8 minutes ago, GammaGlobulin said:

 

Don't forget to find an unbiased entity, one which will play the watchdog in order to mind your caretakers.

 

Just in case.

 

There is always the slight possibility that,.....

if one becomes demented...and then....

If you keep on keeping on....

For more years than they expected....then....

 

Who knows what might happen.

 

There is always a pillow, 

In every bedroom.

 

 

My father and mother had all their marbles when they died, genetics are on my side. Physical flaws are much more likely to do me in.

 

If things go pear-shaped, and I doubt they will, there are at least two women who would want to care for me on the same terms.

 

A pillow might be a blessing, eventually.

[Gecko123]

White boys alway' be thinkin' it dey bitness who other people be getting busy wit. Min' yer own damn bitness, white boy. Ain't non' your bitness, no how. An' get some shrink care while you at it, sorry a** you you.

[fredwiggy]

11 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Maybe they don't listen to those crazy feminists. 

And the feminists, who don't know what they want, like that.

What makes a feminist crazy? They support equality among the genders. Isn't this a correct attitude or do you feel you are somehow superior to them and must dominate over them? That they aren't capable of doing a job men can or should only do things a misogynist thinks they should do?

[OneMoreFarang]

10 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

What makes a feminist crazy? They support equality among the genders. Isn't this a correct attitude or do you feel you are somehow superior to them and must dominate over them? That they aren't capable of doing a job men can or should only do things a misogynist thinks they should do?

Between men and women no one is better than the others. But they are different in many ways.

It seems many feminists pretend they want equal rights, but in reality, they want all the rights from men and keep all privileges from women.

In theory men and women can do both many jobs. But in reality both prefer different kind of jobs, because they are different. I.e. men like engineering more than women. And women like jobs like nurse and child care more than men. That is a fact, but somehow some feminists don't accept those fact.

 

And about the subject of this thread: Ask women what they want, and they will talk about some nice guy who is soft and nice and all that. And then, who do these women try to date? Successful men, with some macho attitudes, who make a lot of money and take care of them.

[fredwiggy]

4 minutes ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Between men and women no one is better than the others. But they are different in many ways.

It seems many feminists pretend they want equal rights, but in reality, they want all the rights from men and keep all privileges from women.

In theory men and women can do both many jobs. But in reality both prefer different kind of jobs, because they are different. I.e. men like engineering more than women. And women like jobs like nurse and child care more than men. That is a fact, but somehow some feminists don't accept those fact.

 

And about the subject of this thread: Ask women what they want, and they will talk about some nice guy who is soft and nice and all that. And then, who do these women try to date? Successful men, with some macho attitudes, who make a lot of money and take care of them.

Yes, women say they want a successful man that will take care of them, but many end up with narcissist cheaters who only look at them as a conquest. They'll even marry these women, which is a good choice for them because then they have a house to live in, a sex partner and can also date other women while the wife is home taking care of the family. A lot of men who make a lot of money don't have time to stay home with the family and even prefer that. This is a reason a smart woman will look for the beta male who is a lot more likely to be a real man and not shirk his responsibilities. Very rare will a woman find an alpha male that will do what he needs to as far as his wife and children are concerned. As far as the former question, I'm talking about men who are feminists and not the women. Men who look at women as equals and not objects.

[GammaGlobulin]

50 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

My father and mother had all their marbles when they died, genetics are on my side. Physical flaws are much more likely to do me in.

 

If things go pear-shaped, and I doubt they will, there are at least two women who would want to care for me on the same terms.

 

A pillow might be a blessing, eventually.

 

Eventually.

 

And as Jimi said.....quite poignantly......

 

Sand Castles...mELT Into the Sea......EVENTUALLY.....

 

 

[mdr224]

2 hours ago, Gecko123 said:

White boys alway' be thinkin' it dey bitness who other people be getting busy wit. Min' yer own damn bitness, white boy. Ain't non' your bitness, no how. An' get some shrink care while you at it, sorry a** you you.

Yup, this is a kamala harris supporter

[Yagoda]

Dont need to worm if you have a knife and a gun, homes.

[GinBoy2]

Wow wow wow, this is ridiculous.

 

I am latino, and I along with most other latino men don't or ever have, thought of myself as some sort of sex God from a Mexican telenovela.

 

Yes I was married to a Anglo, but our marriage didn't break down because of cheating, but more a case of drifting apart because of me being away from home 80% of the time due to work.

 

When I met my Thai wife at work in Singapore, don't think she saw me any different to the other westerners in the office.

 

Maybe it is just the attraction opposites. My Thai/American latino son has ended up a quite a handsome young man, and he ended up with a white American woman. now married and with my second grandchild, they look like any other happily married couple.

 

People love to justify stereotypes with mangled statistics to prove their point.

 

Now back to my current telenovela, basically a Thai lakorn but the women have huge breasts, just proving the 'fact' that all latina's are well endowed in the breast department!

[spidermike007]

I tried women from my native culture and it was never truly fulfilling, and always burdensome. Thankfully I broke your rule and tried Asian women and I will never go back. In my opinion it does not get any better than the "crème de la creme" here in Thailand. 

[G_Money]

17 minutes ago, spidermike007 said:

I tried women from my native culture and it was never truly fulfilling, and always burdensome. Thankfully I broke your rule and tried Asian women and I will never go back. In my opinion it does not get any better than the "crème de la creme" here in Thailand. 

How are Thai women less burdensome and less fulfilling than your native culture?

 

In another thread you were complaining you couldn’t find a Thai man to have a relationship with.

 

You seem to flip flop as much as Harris does.

[spidermike007]

1 hour ago, G_Money said:

How are Thai women less burdensome and less fulfilling than your native culture?

 

In another thread you were complaining you couldn’t find a Thai man to have a relationship with.

 

You seem to flip flop as much as Harris does.

I'm not quite sure I understand your logic, there is quite a gap between the ability to find a Thai male friend who wants to hang out, and a good Thai woman to be with. I wouldn't even know where to start to make the distinction between Thai and American women, but I would start by saying that Thai women have the ability to manifest the dignity within femininity, and a very significant comfort level with their femininity which makes them infinitely more attractive than American women. They also possess an unbearable lightness of being, both qualities of which I have never seen in an American woman, in my entire lifetime.

 

I could go on and on the list is endless. In my opinion and obviously in the opinion of many expats that live here American women are a pale shadow, and a poor substitute for Thai women. 

[Njoku]

21 hours ago, GammaGlobulin said:

Dear Folks,

 

Just wondering if white women become illogically overly-smitten after being mesmerized by the average seemingly-virile Mexican male.

 

The reason I ask this question is because I have checked out the stats on divorce rates, as you can see here:

 

 

Anecdotally, as has been sometimes reported in the news, and is most-likely due to some cultural divide, ....

Pairings between these two groups often ends badly.

 

BUT....WHY is this?

 

No, of course, this circumstance cannot be due to skin color.

 

There must be some other reason, and it must be CULTURAL, through and through.

 

So then, what do you imagine might be the cultural differences that cause:

 

a.  Sudden and immediate attraction between Mexican males and white women

b.  Higher divorce rates between Mexican males and white women, compared to American males and American white women?

 

Is it this MACHISMO that many Mexican males seem to have, and which most white women love.....INITIALLY....but....

NOT for long, after the ring goes on?

 

I need to know.

 

I am confused.

 

This topic is dear to my heart.

 

Best regards,

Gamma

 

Note:  If you really want to know, my belief is that like cultures should stick with like cultures...

 

Note2.  I identify with the Chinese culture, completely.

 

Note3.  I am not from Mexico.....And....better believe it, Baby!

 

Note4.  Is it possible to take the Mexican out of Mexico, but not take the Mexican culture out of the Mexican?  I think....yes.  Not unless you wait about 300 years.  What do you think?

 

 

 

 

 

 

hahaha well I was a devotee of salsa dancing back home and in AU we have a lot of latinos mainly from Sth America, the reputation you guys have is pretty poor, the touching, all over you, the love bombing all over in a day or two what can I say? 

 

Maybe get to know the culture off where your staying to start with, certainly here in Thailand the love bombing works Thai women are fools, well lack experience, you guys are party boys, know of one Thai woman who was screwed over big time by a Latino, she acknowledged it but paid a heavy price for it, put it simply once known never taken seriously 

[Njoku]

16 hours ago, OneMoreFarang said:

Between men and women no one is better than the others. But they are different in many ways.

It seems many feminists pretend they want equal rights, but in reality, they want all the rights from men and keep all privileges from women.

In theory men and women can do both many jobs. But in reality both prefer different kind of jobs, because they are different. I.e. men like engineering more than women. And women like jobs like nurse and child care more than men. That is a fact, but somehow some feminists don't accept those fact.

 

And about the subject of this thread: Ask women what they want, and they will talk about some nice guy who is soft and nice and all that. And then, who do these women try to date? Successful men, with some macho attitudes, who make a lot of money and take care of them.

Yep here in Thailand at least you are right, at the same time if you have a soul to to soul connection with your partner why muddy the waters? I have lots of my time on my hands so could easily, but im committed to my partner, why f.u.c.t it up? if it was over fine, I know it could be over in a second, maybe its why I make an effort....at the same time if she wasnt I know I have options,,,,