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meeting a lady that doesn't need your money

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4 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Do you think most men do?

It's dog eat dog.

 

We really don't do we?

 

We'd do any man dirty, if the girl is attractive.

 

We are shameful bounders.

 

And we sacrifice the women just as easily. It's like Napoleon said, in war and love, all's fair.

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  • it is what it is
    it is what it is

    20 odd years here, never, ever had a thai woman who wanted money, same as when i dated back home. current gf has five cars, seven houses and condos and runs, at the last count - it's hard to keep up,

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    Harrisfan

    Sounds like bs

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    Get a bloody job and stop wasting time posting inane shizen on this forum Bob/Giovani/ Lewi who ever the fark you are, Just go away.

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11 hours ago, SMIAI said:

Agreed, the men get the women they deserve. When a lowlife steals someone else's woman on the promise of a better life, you have two people who deserve each other. 😊

 

Brings bad luck to your life. 

 

If you're not superstitious, it's time to start. 

 

You can already see it by the whining here by the self proclaimed 'real men', that people are talking about their woman in front of their face. They all seem to see the same thing, apart from him. They cannot make friends, so planning planning to run home back to his country. That is someone who claims to be a 'real man' who thinks he's above everyone else here.

Ridiculous.  Nobody says anything about my woman. Why would that be?

It's not for nothing that certain foreigners became known as buffalo. Seems some are proud of the moniker.

30 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

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You dirty dog, you have no consideration for your fellow man???

 

 

He is OK.

 

He didn't lose his girl, he just lost his turn.

1 minute ago, hotandsticky said:

 

 

He is OK.

 

He didn't lose his girl, he just lost his turn.

 

So true.

 

We never own them. We call them "our" girl, but they do what they want. It's scandalous. I blame feminism.

33 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

There's some shocking nonsense posted here as fact. Thais seeing sex as a bodily function, fidelity being overrated.

"Real men" who convince themselves they are the real thing because they pay for everything and call it a relationship. Yes, it a financial relationship. A transactional relationship. That doesn't make anyone a real man, it makes you a beast of burden. All depends on your perspective. So many deluded people out there, trying to convince themselves that they are the real deal.

Meanwhile, the women who don't sell themselves to the highest bidder are there for mutual relationships that the "real men" here won't ever see.

 

 

 

Biggest 'Load of Bo11ocks' award of the day

30 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Do you think most men do?

It's dog eat dog.

And there's probably an ego trip involved in men stealing women from other men and all that nonsense. 

 

 

 

In Sakhon Nakhon it's Thai eat dog........

39 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

I kind of have to take issue with you on that, old chap. Fidelity is the foundation of civilization, male female relationships without fidelity, trust and loyalty, are not worth the paper they're written on.

 

 

Fidelity is a modern concept, probably a result of the Victorian approach to such matters.

 

 

Thinking that fidelity is the cornerstone of anything is deluded and out of touch with the real world ,,,,,,certainly where Thailand is concerned.

 

(NB...not saying @Cameroni is deluded, just the concept)

5 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

So true.

 

We never own them. We call them "our" girl, but they do what they want. It's scandalous. I blame feminism.

 

 

😀

I say what I see. People paying for companionship and calling it a relationship.

2 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

I say what I see. People paying for companionship and calling it a relationship.

 

 

You have just described marriage

More interminable nonsense from the masters of transactional relationships. But if they know nothing else, how could they possibly understand what is meant?

The point of fidelity is to allow the building of a relationship. Without trust, you have NOTHING.

If your relationship is based on you being the current highest bidder....

Just now, SMIAI said:

Your marriage, perhaps.

 

Not married.

 

A pointless exercise. I fail to see why anyone needs a piece of paper to strengthen their bond!

 

Even the Thais do better than that with village weddings....most do not get registered at the local amphur.

So why are you writing about marriage if you haven't ever got to that point in a relationship?

3 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

So why are you writing about marriage if you haven't ever got to that point in a relationship?

 

So because I am not married I can't write about it.

 

Now you want to censor people!!

1 hour ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes, to be fair, we should probably also mention that Thai men are not faithful, so women leading the infidelity charts jives with how they are treated by local men. True.

 

I also think the sheer number of girls who are palmed off by mother to the grandmother, because mother has to work, who do not see a proper male/female dynamic ever, probably plays a role.

There is so many varieties of reasons when it comes to why Thai ladies is more unfaithful than others, but should it concern us that much, that we are not willing to try? 

 

I know Philippines girls who are exactly the same after living a couple months in a tourist infested area. Cant say I saw any difference. Meeting Sweedish, Uk, American woman an holidays, crazy as F after a tequila round or two. 

 

I do not dare to say whonis worst, since it is a sensitive matter for some few members here, so better leave out the most extreme western girls, and where they come from.

 

What Durex science says, might not be the total truth. Where was their information gathered? Pattaya, Phuket, Hua Hin? 

 

I doubt they would get the same results in Krabi for an example. 

The subject is 'meeting a lady who does not want your money'. I don't see 'fidelity' in there.

The fact is that you are paying for companionship and try to paint it as being a 'real man'. Perhaps others see it for what it is and you are deluding yourself.

It seems that many people see it the same way and tell you to your face.

1 hour ago, SMIAI said:

You can already see it by the whining here by the self proclaimed 'real men', that people are talking about their woman in front of their face. They all seem to see the same thing, apart from him. They cannot make friends, so planning planning to run home back to his country. That is someone who claims to be a 'real man' who thinks he's above everyone else here.

Ridiculous.  Nobody says anything about my woman. Why would that be?

Who you talking to?  who goes in the corner and talks to himself? 

 

🤣  😁

 

This made my day, thank you

44 minutes ago, hotandsticky said:

Fidelity is a modern concept, probably a result of the Victorian approach to such matters.

 

 

No, no, if you think about it monogamy depends on fidelity. And monogamy is the foundation of civilzation as it is the basis for the family unit.

 

We men invented monogamy because fighting it out to the death for sexual access was an inefficient and expensive method to gain sexual access. Soon men figured out that provision of resources can secure sexual access. But it was useless unless you could be sure the offpsring is yours, because if it wasn't you'd have wasted all your resources. So men came up with fidelity as a cornerstone of monogamy.

 

This predated the concept of loyalty which the knights developed by a long shot. So it significantly pre-dated the Victorian era.

 

To this day fidelity, trust and loyalty are the foundations of any  relationship, without trust there can be no true relationship.

 

 

1 hour ago, SMIAI said:

Agreed, the men get the women they deserve. When a lowlife steals someone else's woman on the promise of a better life, you have two people who deserve each other. 😊

So two people who are together, makes each other miserable, should stay together? Really? 
 

One thing we both share, and I value very much, we do not talk bad about other people, if we do not have to, and  I have never heard she speaks bad about any x she had, neither have she heard me say any negative about mine. We are both a product of our experiences. 
 

Im quite sure I have not said anything bad about x girl friends here either, and no need. 
 

However, I have said negative things about extreme politics oriented, sexpats and sextourists as well drug tourists. 

25 minutes ago, Hummin said:

There is so many varieties of reasons when it comes to why Thai ladies is more unfaithful than others, but should it concern us that much, that we are not willing to try? 

 

Of course not, it's not as if women of other nationalities are not prone to cheateing.

 

26 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I know Philippines girls who are exactly the same after living a couple months in a tourist infested area. Cant say I saw any difference. Meeting Sweedish, Uk, American woman an holidays, crazy as F after a tequila round or two. 

 

It's funny with the Filipinas, because all the guys think they are giving them a unique experience by taking them to 5 star resorts, but she's already done that with 4 guys before you. This Filipina I knew had been to more 5 star resorts, Disneyworlds, and world class restaurants than I had, and I was a funds lawyer who'd been all over. It's nothing special to them, they did it with many guys before you.

 

I do hope the Krabi girls are more faithful, would be nice. 

47 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

More interminable nonsense from the masters of transactional relationships. But if they know nothing else, how could they possibly understand what is meant?

The point of fidelity is to allow the building of a relationship. Without trust, you have NOTHING.

If your relationship is based on you being the current highest bidder....

There is a reason for why some men are angry and single. You got to figure out the game, even you do not want to, and stop blaming everyone else for your status Q

2 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Of course not, it's not as if women of other nationalities are not prone to cheateing.

 

 

It's funny with the Filipinas, because all the guys think they are giving them a unique experience by taking them to 5 star resorts, but she's already done that with 4 guys before you. This Filipina I knew had been to more 5 star resorts, Disneyworlds, and world class restaurants than I had, and I was a funds lawyer who'd been all over. It's nothing special to them, they did it with many guys before you.

 

I do hope the Krabi girls are more faithful, would be nice. 

I met the most wonderful lady who I befriended, and did not have any sexual relation with, and she managed to get around pretty well. But in the end she chooses a young Swedish beach bum, who she truly cared for and as well took care of until he had his business up and running. I do not think anyone of them regrets. Past is past, get over it. 
 

she saw a future in him, and contributed so he could succeed. 
 

Everywhere I have been, I have befriended some of the girls of service, and learned a lot without taken advantage of the situation. And I can say, there is many good girls out there most wouldn’t even think twice about being a good future partner or wife. 

2 minutes ago, SMIAI said:

without having to pay them a salary.

 

You're paying for her, no matter what you say.

 

Unless she's ugly as sin, inherited a fortune, became independently wealthy, and none of those are very likely.

 

It's funny how many guys claim they don't pay for their girl, and when you scratch the surface only a little, they actually do, like everyone else.

3 minutes ago, Hummin said:

I met the most wonderful lady who I befriended, and did not have any sexual relation with, and she managed to get around pretty well. But in the end she chooses a young Swedish beach bum, who she truly cared for and as well took care of until he had his business up and running. I do not think anyone of them regrets. Past is past, get over it. 
 

she saw a future in him, and contributed so he could succeed. 
 

Everywhere I have been, I have befriended some of the girls of service, and learned a lot without taken advantage of the situation. And I can say, there is many good girls out there most wouldn’t even think twice about being a good future partner or wife. 

 

Some girls do good things. I know some girls have done some nice things for me, and yet, they could still make a terrible wife or gf.

 

This friend of yours was clearly attracted to the guy she helped out financially. This does happen, particularly with older women who have money. But these women tend not to be very attractive.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

You're paying for her, no matter what you say.

 

Unless she's ugly as sin, inherited a fortune, became independently wealthy, and none of those are very likely.

 

It's funny how many guys claim they don't pay for their girl, and when you scratch the surface only a little, they actually do, like everyone else.

Nope, independently wealthy women tend not to have relationships with men.

Shakira, Oprah, etc.

6 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Some girls do good things. I know some girls have done some nice things for me, and yet, they could still make a terrible wife or gf.

 

This friend of yours was clearly attracted to the guy she helped out financially. This does happen, particularly with older women who have money. But these women tend not to be very attractive.

She was not older than him, it was just the fact her clients usually where oldercthan him. I think they where same age. She cut all her financial connections when she met him. 

Start dating women your own age. 

 

If you’re married, her family, is your family.

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