Dating 22-Year-Old Thai Bubble Tea Girl - She Just Asked for 30K/Month – Am I Being Played?

[Celsius]

8 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

My current girl is an 11, and I have provided photographic proof to some posters on here,

 

Who? Bob?

 

It doesn't matter if "your" girl is 11 or 111. You are paying for her services until she moves on to a better paying gig 😆 

[Cameroni]

1 minute ago, Celsius said:

 

You are confused. It is exactly because I am not a celebrity is the reason I don't pay. I don't want to waste money on that chit that has been shared with thousands of Arabs and Indians.... as I mentioned this point many times before.

 

Never paid any maintenance fees on a girl in Thailand even when I was dating 20 year olds besides the usual dating expenses which were not much.

 

I mean even you mentioned that most girls in Thailand are just happy with a meal. It seems like you changed your story since you started paying.

 

So you're not a celebrity. Okay. Are you better looking than Elvis or Depp? I'm just curious, if your attractive girlfriend is with you, what is she getting out of it, for herself? Why would she be in a relationship where the man is not paying 1 Baht for her?

 

Oh you say you paid for normal dating expenses. Okay. So you paid more than 1 Baht for sure, unless you know some very special restaurants.

 

Indeed, Thai girls are happy with much less, this is quite true. However, as the OP and many, many have found out, most girls will still make demands, because they have mothers, sisters, brothers, fathers, who are in need. 

 

But even if that is not the case with your girl, I'm curious, why would she be in a relationship with you, if you don't pay her 1 Baht, don't look like Elvis etc, why would she be with you long term?

[Ralf001]

6 hours ago, Thingamabob said:

Thirty thousand baht is a brazen and ridiculous amount to ask for. If this is a genuine posting I'd run a mile if I was you.

Its $30  a day, hardly brazen.

 

Likely other punters are pay her that per hour.

[Cameroni]

2 minutes ago, Celsius said:

 

Who? Bob?

 

It doesn't matter if "your" girl is 11 or 111. You are paying for her services until she moves on to a better paying gig 😆 

 

I just want to be clear, I did not give you a thumbs down. My girl is 25, and she's an 11. Another poster on here, could easily verify that they have seen her photo, and she is stunning.

 

Now, do I have to help pay her rent and other things, yes, of course I do. Even with my pretty face, women enter into relationships with men for a reason, they want something from the man. 

 

So, Celsius, what does y our woman want from you? Since you don't pay her 1 Baht?

[Celsius]

5 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

So you're not a celebrity. Okay. Are you better looking than Elvis or Depp? I'm just curious, if your attractive girlfriend is with you, what is she getting out of it, for herself? Why would she be in a relationship where the man is not paying 1 Baht for her?

 

Oh you say you paid for normal dating expenses. Okay. So you paid more than 1 Baht for sure, unless you know some very special restaurants.

 

Indeed, Thai girls are happy with much less, this is quite true. However, as the OP and many, many have found out, most girls will still make demands, because they have mothers, sisters, brothers, fathers, who are in need. 

 

But even if that is not the case with your girl, I'm curious, why would she be in a relationship with you, if you don't pay her 1 Baht, don't look like Elvis etc, why would she be with you long term?

 

For the same reason I'm with her. Trust and mutual respect. Yes that still exists. 

 

And i am  sure that if you too met a woman in thailand that isnt a scumbag you would change your attitude..

[Cameroni]

Just now, Celsius said:

For the same reason I'm with her. Trust and mutual respect. Yes that still exists. 

 

I am sure it still exists, but she is not demanding a lot then, is she? 

 

I wonder why.

[Dan747]

"OMG"-YES you are being "SCAMED"-RUN

 

[still kicking]

1 hour ago, ThreeCardMonte said:

Maybe because there’s none to ask for.

Typically, she makes 42 $ per hour she is a nurse 

[1FinickyOne]

57 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Provided the girl is in the desirable age, good looking, not mentally ill,

not mentally ill - - is that a thing? 

[still kicking]

And then you get 6 thumbs down from losers who lost everything,

[norsurin]

1 hour ago, kiwikeith said:

Beware of BF in the background 

Be careful happened to me years ago, a good lesson, I was new and green then. 

Many thaigirls have thai BF that they support with money.I lived in surin before and i speak thai well so i saw and listen what's going on.

[Cameroni]

33 minutes ago, 1FinickyOne said:

not mentally ill - - is that a thing? 

 

Oh it's huge. 

 

Women 40% more likely than men to develop mental illness, study finds

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2013/may/22/women-men-mental-illness-study

 

Narcissim, BPD, sociopathy, depression, anxiety...I had one Filipina who, after I left her alone in my apt in Grand Cayman told me demons were sitting on her chest, sleep paralysis. And that was the funny part of one of her many mental disorders. 

 

 

[faraday]

9 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Oh it's huge. 

 

Women 40% more likely than men to develop mental illness, study finds

 

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2013/may/22/women-men-mental-illness-study

 

Narcissim, BPD, sociopathy, depression, anxiety...I had one Filipina who, after I left her alone in my apt in Grand Cayman told me demons were sitting on her chest, sleep paralysis. And that was the funny part of one of her many mental disorders. 

 

 

From The Guardian...😁

 

Women are more likely to report MH.

 

Men are more likely to commit suicide.

 

But yes, they are generally thought of as being nuts...🤣🤣🤣

 

Allegedly.....

[Cameroni]

5 minutes ago, faraday said:

From The Guardian...😁

 

Women are more likely to report MH.

 

Men are more likely to commit suicide.

 

But yes, they are generally thought of as being nuts...🤣🤣🤣

 

Allegedly.....

 

Yes indeed. When people say men and women are equal, a quick glance at their very different mental illness propensities would provide a first clue it isn't so.

 

Of course if we men have to deal with all these crazy females, is it any wonder that male suicide rates are sky high?

 

Just think of the poor Bob Geldorf, whose clearly mentally ill wife, Paula Yates, cheated on him, once, twice, then three times and took the kids with her. He's not recovered to this day, and it's a miracle he didn't kill himself.

[3NUMBAS]

I had this insurance sales woman date in bkkk she was happy with a litre of oil for her car per date ,not a bad deal 

[Jim Blue]

Do keep us informed ....

[3NUMBAS]

11 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

Yes indeed. When people say men and women are equal, a quick glance at their very different mental illness propensities would provide a first clue it isn't so.

 

Of course if we men have to deal with all these crazy females, is it any wonder that male suicide rates are sky high?

 

Just think of the poor Bob Geldorf, whose clearly mentally ill wife, Paula Yates, cheated on him, once, twice, then three times and took the kids with her. He's not recovered to this day, and it's a miracle he didn't kill himself.

She committed suicide you will recall

[Geoff914]

I was on a dating site a year ago and contacted quite a few Thai women and so many scammers. I usually just blocked them but one I played along. Talking about much she would want in a relationship and she demanded 140,000 baht a month. I never even met her and she even said as we were now friends could I sent her 33,000 baht a month until we met when it would go up to 140,000.

[Cameroni]

6 minutes ago, 3NUMBAS said:

She committed suicide you will recall

 

No. Actually she didn't. She went on a heroin trip and foolishly made a mistake and died of an overdose.

 

It was not a suicide. It was stupidity.

[Cameroni]

6 minutes ago, Geoff914 said:

I was on a dating site a year ago and contacted quite a few Thai women and so many scammers. I usually just blocked them but one I played along. Talking about much she would want in a relationship and she demanded 140,000 baht a month. I never even met her and she even said as we were now friends could I sent her 33,000 baht a month until we met when it would go up to 140,000.

 

Wow. 

 

I had a Filipina once, who asked for 64000 baht, though admittedly her father died and her sister was in hospital due to a motorcycle accident. I thought that was bad.

[RSD1]

11 minutes ago, Geoff914 said:

I was on a dating site a year ago and contacted quite a few Thai women and so many scammers. I usually just blocked them but one I played along. Talking about much she would want in a relationship and she demanded 140,000 baht a month. I never even met her and she even said as we were now friends could I sent her 33,000 baht a month until we met when it would go up to 140,000.

The majority of the profiles on those dating sites are now fake. They are mostly male scammers posing as Thai women and using photos stolen from real social media profiles. Ask them to do a video call with you over the LINE app. The majority will refuse for the reason that they aren't the real Thai women seen in the photos.

[Cameroni]

5 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

The majority of the profiles on those dating sites are now fake. They are mostly male scammers posing as Thai women and using photos stolen from real social media profiles. Ask them to do a video call with you over the LINE app. The majority will refuse for the reason that they aren't the real Thai women seen in the photos.

 

Not my experience, most girls will do a video call. Very few refuse.

 

There are fake profiles, but I'd say it's less than 30%.

[Geoff914]

27 minutes ago, RSD1 said:

The majority of the profiles on those dating sites are now fake. They are mostly male scammers posing as Thai women and using photos stolen from real social media profiles. Ask them to do a video call with you over the LINE app. The majority will refuse for the reason that they aren't the real Thai women seen in the photos.

Yes I get that. I was always suspicious of the ones that immediately wanted an email address. I assume before the site closed down the profile. And exchange photos so they can build up their library. And the ones who wanted your skype account, who uses skype to chat now days?

[JakeC]

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Lol, spare me your bs about "game". You are clueless. Game is only  to get into a relationship. If you just know "game" you are just incapable of retaining any girl long term. "Game" is only the entry ticket, once you are in, you are paying. Whether you like it or not,. Unless you date only ugly women, women over a certain age or who have mental issues, ie women with very low SMV, those may pay half their share, or even all of yours. But for the vast majority and normal relationships, where good looking women are involved, the guy will pay, one way or the other. It has always been this way, for thousands of years. But of  course you're special and you don't pay  for girls. Lol;.

 

Pull the other one. Even if she likes you, that just means you get in. For a long term relationship, you will pay. Stop lying. You don't pay, lol. Sure you do. Like everyone else. You pay.

 

A lot of words, but you are still paying where I am not. You are just ranting. Nothing to do with 'everyone else'. Speak for yourself. You pay. I speak for myself... I don't.

Maybe you are trying to feel better about yourself by imagining that everyone pays. They don't. Girls don't like you, so they make you pay. When they like you and even love you, they don't want your money,

But guys like you, they see it as easy as taking candy from a sugar daddy.

You know I'm not lying, but your ego cannot cope. Girls will suss you out in a minute. You are just a sugar daddy to them. Yours aren't real relationships. 100%. You are too desperate and take short cuts utilising money.

Where is your long term girl, after all your paying out? You don't have one, do you? Your girls are available to the highest bidder or just someone with whom they have a better connection. There today and gone tomorrow. Am I lying?

 

[JakeC]

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If your girl is an 11 out of 20, mine is a 20. Want to put it to the test?

 

It's just weird that you are bringing up dead celebrities, as if it means anything at all. Being a celebrity doesn't automatically make you a good partner. What is wrong with you? Do you actually believe the nonsense you are posting?

Women stay close to me because of something other than money. It's clearly something about which you have no clue, other you wouldn't keep posting that utter claptrap.

It's obvious that even with money, you are not enough for these girls. Seems that you are just a flash in the pan.

I've noticed that your posts often reference cheating, even when you were writing about Russia and Ukraine. Writing about Ukraine opening it's legs and some such. So your women are cheating on you. Even though you are paying and imagining it's your girlfriend.

I can guarantee that you have trust issues and that you are the type to want to check your girl's phone.

That's not a relationship. That's a father keeping tabs on his daughter. If you don't have implicit trust, you have nothing. Like Joni sang; Loving without trusting is like frostbite and sunstroke. You don't have love. You don't have trust. You have a salaried friend. 

I asked a friend to take care of a 3000 baht bill for me, as I didn't have my credentials handy. Done, without question. Would your friend do that for you?

Your relationships have no depth. You are just trying to pay for exclusivity. If you love somebody, set them free. 

 

 

 

 

[norsurin]

Some here say that their wife pay it all.Well..i heard that before.What actually happening is that the guy have give the wife his ATM cards and after says she pay it all.In practice she do it..in reality the man pays it all .It's the same man i meet who say their gf/wife never worked in a bar and when i ask their lady in thai the answer is opposite.

I was in my embassy in Bangkok and a foreigner came inside with a young gf and a newborn.He wanted his gf and his kid go to my country.He was told to come back another day with birth certificate for the kid but that he refused.

His gf sat down in the embassy and told all thais in the ventingroom that the kids father was a thai man

I left after i did my business there so i don't know the outcome of his case 

[watchcat]

Yes!!

[kiwikeith]

9 hours ago, norsurin said:

Many thaigirls have thai BF that they support with money.I lived in surin before and i speak thai well so i saw and listen what's going on.

Mangdas

[leonard beaven]

On 5/22/2025 at 10:21 PM, 123Stodg said:

Been on here a while now and never thought I’d be making this kind of post, but life has a way of surprising you I guess.

 

So here’s the story. I’ve been in Bangkok for a while, had a few girlfriends in the past, working for an overseas company now, just keeping my head down. I’m not one of those bar scene guys, never really got much into all that.

 

A few months ago I met this amazing girl who works at one of those little bubble tea kiosks in a Skytrain station. She’s in her early 20s, very sweet, doesn’t speak much English and my Thai isn’t great either, but somehow we click.
 

I used to stop by and buy tea from her a few times a week, then eventually we started chatting more and I asked for her LINE. Things moved slowly at first, but now we’ve been officially dating for a few months. And honestly, I’ve been having the time of my life. No drama, no stress, she’s affectionate, fun, and makes me feel 20 years younger. We go out, we laugh, we do things together, and she never nags or causes problems.

 

I’ve read all the horror stories, but this feels a bit special and different in some way. The intimacy is amazing too, which I didn’t expect with the language and age gap, but it just works.

 

Now here’s where I’m looking for a bit of perspective. She recently brought up the idea of me helping her send money to her family. She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out. I know that’s about double what she earns, but she didn’t demand it or push hard, just brought it up gently. She’s still working full time at the kiosk and hasn’t asked me for anything else.

 

I’ve never been in this kind of situation before. I always used to read posts on here and think “nah, I’d never be that guy”, but now here I am. And I’m honestly not sure how to feel about it. The truth is, I can afford it, I don’t really care about the money, and I am genuinely enjoying my time with her. She’s made my life feel lighter, happier. I don’t get any sense that I’m really being used, but I also know how brutally honest some of you can be, so I figured I’d throw it out there for some feedback.

 

If both of us are happy and it’s working, is there actually anything wrong with it? As I said, I don’t mind giving her the money. She makes me happy. So I’m thinking, why not. 

H.L.S.  run Forrest run.

[philipsharpe]

On 5/22/2025 at 10:21 PM, 123Stodg said:

Been on here a while now and never thought I’d be making this kind of post, but life has a way of surprising you I guess.

 

So here’s the story. I’ve been in Bangkok for a while, had a few girlfriends in the past, working for an overseas company now, just keeping my head down. I’m not one of those bar scene guys, never really got much into all that.

 

A few months ago I met this amazing girl who works at one of those little bubble tea kiosks in a Skytrain station. She’s in her early 20s, very sweet, doesn’t speak much English and my Thai isn’t great either, but somehow we click.
 

I used to stop by and buy tea from her a few times a week, then eventually we started chatting more and I asked for her LINE. Things moved slowly at first, but now we’ve been officially dating for a few months. And honestly, I’ve been having the time of my life. No drama, no stress, she’s affectionate, fun, and makes me feel 20 years younger. We go out, we laugh, we do things together, and she never nags or causes problems.

 

I’ve read all the horror stories, but this feels a bit special and different in some way. The intimacy is amazing too, which I didn’t expect with the language and age gap, but it just works.

 

Now here’s where I’m looking for a bit of perspective. She recently brought up the idea of me helping her send money to her family. She mentioned around 30,000 baht a month would really help them out. I know that’s about double what she earns, but she didn’t demand it or push hard, just brought it up gently. She’s still working full time at the kiosk and hasn’t asked me for anything else.

 

I’ve never been in this kind of situation before. I always used to read posts on here and think “nah, I’d never be that guy”, but now here I am. And I’m honestly not sure how to feel about it. The truth is, I can afford it, I don’t really care about the money, and I am genuinely enjoying my time with her. She’s made my life feel lighter, happier. I don’t get any sense that I’m really being used, but I also know how brutally honest some of you can be, so I figured I’d throw it out there for some feedback.

 

If both of us are happy and it’s working, is there actually anything wrong with it? As I said, I don’t mind giving her the money. She makes me happy. So I’m thinking, why not. 

New nickname...Stradivarius!