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9 minutes ago, JK-Trilly said:

Been seeing this girl for a little while now. Met her online a couple months back, not through a dating app, but through one of those language exchange sites. She works at a small shop in a mall somewhere around the Siam area. We usually hang out at my place three or four times a week.

 

The other night, we went out for dinner, me, her, a friend of mine, and his girlfriend. He’s been with his girl a few years, but he still plays the field now and then. Anyway, after dinner, he calls me up and tells me he’s seen my girlfriend standing on the street in Soi Nana at night a few times, talking to guys. I asked how sure he was, and he said he actually spoke to her briefly once and recognised her voice when we were all out together. She clearly didn’t remember him though, because she acted totally normal the whole night.

 

Now I don’t know what to do. Do I confront her? Or just quietly end things? The situation is actually pretty good. She doesn’t ask for much. I pay for meals here and there, and occasionally help with a small bill or something she needs. But I’m not really up for dating someone who might be working part-time in that scene.

 

Just trying to figure out the best move here.


obviously you guys do not have a deal being bf gf, so use condom, and until you guys finds out what next step is, you guys are free to do what you want. 
 

I couldn’t, I’m rather in a relationship or not, and if in relationships we are transparent to each other

Posted
8 minutes ago, Hummin said:

obviously you guys do not have a deal being bf gf, so use condom, and until you guys finds out what next step is, you guys are free to do what you want. 
 

I couldn’t, I’m rather in a relationship or not, and if in relationships we are transparent to each other

You're transparent to him/her ..................

Posted
15 minutes ago, JK-Trilly said:

But I’m not really up for dating someone who might be working part-time in that scene.


How can you even be sure she isn't working in that scene full time? Have you ever visited her at the shop she works to confirm she has a real day job? 

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Amazing how quick people jump to conclusions, she could've been on that soi for any number of reasons but you jump straight to that conclusion.

If your happy with her, it's not serious, why would you expect exclusivity. As has been said, what she does is not really your business, Any more than just like your "friend" played away occasionally., no difference. 

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Posted
35 minutes ago, JK-Trilly said:

not through a dating app, but through one of those language exchange sites.

 

Those are dating apps.

 

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Posted

Until you put a ring on her finger you have no say how she makes a living. If this kind of job bothers you, then maybe you're not cut out to live in Thailand.

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I always marvel at guys who think it's OK to bang everything in sight, then demand a GF be dedicated to them only. It's a double standard.

 

IMO the OP should just use condoms, and enjoy. She actually sounds like a keeper if she does not ask for much.

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Posted
41 minutes ago, Hummin said:


obviously you guys do not have a deal being bf gf, so use condom, and until you guys finds out what next step is, you guys are free to do what you want. 
 

I couldn’t, I’m rather in a relationship or not, and if in relationships we are transparent to each other

"we are transparent to each other"

 

As far as you know.

 

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Posted
34 minutes ago, CharlieH said:

Amazing how quick people jump to conclusions, she could've been on that soi for any number of reasons but you jump straight to that conclusion.

If your happy with her, it's not serious, why would you expect exclusivity. As has been said, what she does is not really your business, Any more than just like your "friend" played away occasionally., no difference. 

Until she gets pregnant.

Posted
16 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

I always marvel at guys who think it's OK to bang everything in sight, then demand a GF be dedicated to them only. It's a double standard.

Not really. 
men don’t get pregnant.

if a woman gets pregnant she knows 100% it is hers.

 

I recommend dumping her. Plenty of other decent women in Bangkok.

 

Posted
10 minutes ago, cdemundo said:

"we are transparent to each other"

 

As far as you know.

 

If I didn’t believe we were, I wouldn’t be with her, simple as that. If she is tricking me, she does a hell of a job making my life comfortable without worries. 
 

 

Posted
1 hour ago, JK-Trilly said:

But I’m not really up for dating someone who might be working part-time in that scene.

doesn't that answer your question?? -

 

You might want to ask if she has a twin sister first.

Posted
12 hours ago, JK-Trilly said:

Just trying to figure out the best move here.

 

I suggest you take BritMan's advice from the STD thread.

Bang a lot of chicks without condoms. 

YOLO, mate. 

 

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I think its obvious by now with so many similar threads that the OP is not real.

 

That said, if he is, he is a complete loser with all the cliched questions he asks, and I'm surprised he actually made it on a plane alone and got all the way to Thailand, unless his mum accompanied him of course..

Posted
5 hours ago, Trippy said:

Until you put a ring on her finger you have no say how she makes a living. If this kind of job bothers you, then maybe you're not cut out to live in Thailand.

Or he could find another woman that isn't a street walker, as there are millions in Thailand. To the OP, if this bothers you, you know the answer. if you don't mind dating a part timer, then that's your answer.

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