My wife wanted me to sign a document any money she gets is hers!

[rumak]

22 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

We are not married, but together 14 years. Paid for a house to be built (Bht 3M) and a pickup in 2012, but both in her name. Where do we stand on that? They are hers by gift I guess.

We have our current account as a Joint account, so when my clogs need popping, she can legally use the ATM card for what she needs. The only money which would go through Probate is the 400k in the bank for Immigration.

 

 

sounds reasonable ....

[transam]

1 hour ago, BritManToo said:

They sell, I buy ..... Where's the problem?

See what I mean, plus, you start a thread to slag off your own wife, to call her stupid...............😬

Well, at least it seems she knows what she is dealing with......🤗

[KhunLA]

15 minutes ago, KannikaP said:

We are not married, but together 14 years. Paid for a house to be built (Bht 3M) and a pickup in 2012, but both in her name. Where do we stand on that? They are hers by gift I guess.

We have our current account as a Joint account, so when my clogs need popping, she can legally use the ATM card for what she needs. The only money which would go through Probate is the 400k in the bank for Immigration.

Same with me, but married (2014), after living together for 8 yrs, and I finally decided, 2016, to stay in Thailand.  So moved from Udon to Prachuap, and new house & vehicles in her name. 

 

I move all SS funds in my account, to her account, every 3 or 4 months, or I need to file  FBAR (USA requirement if $10k in bank).   Would be the only thing needed at probate, anything not moved yet, if death cert. isn't accepted at bank.

 

Also, if I have a med oops, she has access to funds if needed.  If she has an oops, govt healthcare covers.  So I really don't need access to anything.  If the worse, she craps out, everything willed (registered) to daughter, so no issues there.

[Lacessit]

2 hours ago, rumak said:

 

 

 

Mine just loves me for my sharp sarcastic wit .     

 

 

 

Was that sarcasm?

[rumak]

1 hour ago, transam said:

Not surprised, I have read over many years your attitude towards females, and it ain't pretty..🤔

 

you're great with the one liners and emojis .    I wonder if you can write maybe a paragraph or two ,  sharing with us peons the story and success or failure of your relationship .   We have plenty of time... no need to make it brief 

[transam]

2 minutes ago, rumak said:

 

you're great with the one liners and emojis .    I wonder if you can write maybe a paragraph or two ,  sharing with us peons the story and success or failure of your relationship .   We have plenty of time... no need to make it brief 

Why would I do that, I am nothing like the OP, perhaps you are, eh.........     🤨 

[rumak]

1 minute ago, transam said:

Why would I do that, I am nothing like the OP, perhaps you are, eh.........     🤨 

 

true to form.    an empty shell if there ever was one on this forum.

 

nothing to share..... because nothing there.   Its ok.   we accept all types .   

[rumak]

10 minutes ago, Lacessit said:

Was that sarcasm?

 

a unique trait i have.   i can even make fun at my own expense !

[transam]

Just now, rumak said:

 

true to form.    an empty shell if there ever was one on this forum

Is that it, nothing else, go back and read what YOU wanted me to write about my life......?  🤒

 

Gawd 'elp us, it would seem you have a problem too......

 

Go on, join the OP, tell all..........😂

[worgeordie]

I think if she does get the 10 Million ,she and the kids will be out the door so fast,

but you could always find another one....

 

regards worgeordie

[rumak]

4 minutes ago, transam said:

Is that it, nothing else, go back and read what YOU wanted me to write about my life......?  🤒

 

Gawd 'elp us, it would seem you have a problem too......

 

Go on, join the OP, tell all..........😂

 

you are making a fool of yourself .   write something meaningful.  leave out the fake emojis.    just do it .   are you capable of expressing yourself at all ?

You can even do it to diss me .  Tell me how and why you feel about my content here over the last 10 years.  In detail, please .

Or ANY  subject .     is there anything in that shell at all ?

or stay on subject and give some opinion to the OP ... which almost everyone has done.     except you, of course

[transam]

2 minutes ago, rumak said:

 

you are making a fool of yourself .   write something meaningful.  leave out the fake emojis.    just do it 

Really, you are the one to have a pop at me, you are the one making a fool of yourself, you can't even write properly..........."meaningful"...........😁

[rumak]

1 minute ago, transam said:

Really, you are the one to have a pop at me, you are the one making a fool of yourself, you can't even write properly..........."meaningful"...........😁

 

i'm not having a pop.   thousands have tried before.   you are inpenetrable .  Like a rock.    hhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaa  we love you !

[falangUK]

6 hours ago, BritManToo said:

So my wife thinks she's coming into a few million Baht (almost no chance).

And wanted me to sign a document stating any money she gets is hers, and I have no claim on it.

I say, "sure, no problem", and she brings over a notepad for me to write out the agreement.

I write "any money you get and half belongs to me" she tells me to sign and date it to make it official.

She asks me to read out what I wrote, and I read out "any money you get belongs entirely to you"

She walks off happily clutching the document to keep somewhere safe .........

 

You can't fix stupid!

Are you sure it wasn’t the other way round? Like she was trying to make sure you got at least half, and wanted it written up all official like? Something along the lines of “you shall receive not less than fifty percent”  as the fine folks at Thai Immigration might phrase it 😏

[billd766]

4 hours ago, billd766 said:

I never have had that problem.

 

I explained to my wife many years ago (no paperwork was necessary) that any money she earns is hers, and my money is in reality our money. It supports us and sends our Thai son to university.

 

Lands, house, land rentals etc are all in her name, everything is paid for and she gets 50% of 2 pensions when I die.

 

Money, house, land etc is of no use to me when I die. I can't take it with me, so my wife benefits from when I am alive and also when I am dead.

 

And she deserves it all.

It is called trust, which is a 2 way thing.

[billd766]

3 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Did you miss the part about she doesn't want to share the money with her husband, but happy to take his money? What kind of woman and farang (you) think that's OK? 

My Thai wife and I.

[falangUK]

4 hours ago, scubascuba3 said:

Kinda normal isn't it that farang money is theirs and their money is theirs also, that's what it's all about

Blimey, that’s actually spot on. Might have to tattoo that on the inside of my eyelids, just to remind myself every time I blink. Never thought of it so clearly before 👏

[rattlesnake]

5 hours ago, Lacessit said:

What's in Thailand goes to my GF, what's in Australia goes to my son.

 

Sounds like the wife's gloss is wearing off, he used to boast about how hot his wife/GF is.

 

I have no problem with my GF having her own assets ( mainly gold ), what's the OP's problem?

 

IIRC he claimed to be rolling in income.

 

Perhaps she has realised he is really selfish.

 

 

 

I recall him saying stuff like "my wife has NO say over what I do with MY money"… Seems like she's just giving him a taste of his own medicine.

[Cameroni]

3 minutes ago, rattlesnake said:

 

I recall him saying stuff like "my wife has NO say over what I do with MY money"… Seems like she's just giving him a taste of his own medicine.

 

It's hardly the same, he's been paying her accomodation, food, presents, raising her children. Come on. How does she even have the nerve to take money off  the table?

[rattlesnake]

Just now, Cameroni said:

 

It's hardly the same, he's been paying her accomodation, food, presents, raising her children. Come on. How does she even have the nerve to take money off  the table?

 

Yeah, that's called being a husband and dad.

[Cameroni]

8 minutes ago, rattlesnake said:

 

Yeah, that's called being a husband and dad.

 

So being a husband his money is hers, but being a wife her money is hers?

[falangUK]

5 hours ago, KhunLA said:

Had everything to do with my reply, and the topic.   Along with much of the thinking of most expats ...

 

... if I didn't have money would she be with me, us

... if she gets money, would she leave

... if more valuable dead than alive, would you have 'accident'

... she has money & assets, and yet she stays

 

Don't think too hard, you might hurt yourself 

 

Remember, critiquing my reply, has nothing to do with the topic.  Says a wee bit more about you, than me.

 

Troll On ... or ... Feel free to add me to your ignore list....PLEASE

 

some sharp insights in there. I suppose I had the same thoughts buried somewhere, but like most of us, I probably left my critical thinking at Suvarnabhumi. In my case, it’s yes to all of the questions… except the last one 😅

[falangUK]

5 hours ago, BritManToo said:

I sent her to high school, then university.

Sorry if this sounds out of line, but it can’t have been a great feeling when she asked you to write and sign that, especially after all you’ve done for her, sending her to school and uni? 

[rattlesnake]

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

 

So being a husband his money is hers, but being a wife her money is hers?

 

BritMan regularly says his wife has no say regarding money. And he actually calls her stupid in the OP, even if the tone is somewhat humourous, it is telling.

 

It seems quite a few farangs behave this way with their Thai spouses, treating them as inferiors, giving them pocket money and scolding them like children if they aren't happy with what they do with it. So it's no surprise said spouses should retaliate when they feel they are in a position to.

[Lacessit]

19 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

 

It's hardly the same, he's been paying her accomodation, food, presents, raising her children. Come on. How does she even have the nerve to take money off  the table?

I suggest you bone up on Thai family law, what she is doing is perfectly reasonable.

 

You seem to forget she is giving him sex on demand and bearing his children.

[gargamon]

5 hours ago, KhunLA said:

My wife was self supporting before she met me, computer graphic design.  With excellent investment skills.  Along with, she could literally build a house herself with a crew.  She's that good, as her Greenhouse shows.  She re-plumbed this house, under the floor, as you wouldn't believe the crap job the builder did.   Luckily their only building failure.

 

 

So she took out the p-trap? Hope you don't get too much sewage smell...

[JakeC]

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I've always avoided having sex with my friends.

As for your definition of relationships, don't think I've ever seen one of those after the 1970s, things changed, but agree you may have not noticed those changes.

Also all women cheat, then lie about it if caught, not sure how that fact fits in you relationship deal either.

Mostly men fit into your definitions, and women don't.

 

 

You avoid sex with girlfriends and instead create an employer/employee relationship?

 

I don't have sex with people who don't care about me, but mainly the money that can be supplied to them. 

 

Does your wife even cook for you? In my relationship, we prepare treats for each other. Clean up after each other. You know, care for each other. Money doesn't come in into it. 

Of course it helps that you can sustain yourself, but not even one girl in my life has requested any kind of income from me, nor expected me to pay for her life. I prefer a more balanced existence, playing to our individual strengths.

Whereas some may choose a woman they think is below them, but looks good, with money being the emulsifier.

I prefer to not use artificial ingredients.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Lacessit]

14 minutes ago, falangUK said:

Sorry if this sounds out of line, but it can’t have been a great feeling when she asked you to write and sign that, especially after all you’ve done for her, sending her to school and uni? 

IIRC he is talking about his daughter, not the wife.

[JakeC]

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So being a husband his money is hers, but being a wife her money is hers?

 

Isn't that the movie that you are currently producing?

 

Paying for her life and expecting her loyalty in return....only to find out that your money is the only thing holding the relationship together.

[save the frogs]

13 hours ago, JakeC said:

Example: A met a girl in a cafe. A short time afterwards she was helping me to run my business. No money nor gifts exchanged.

So a girl helped you run your business without any expectations in return?

That's probably because you got "game / Mojo / je ne sais quoi"

Guys like BritMan don't got much "game / Mojo / je ne sais quoi", so they need to pay.