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Thai girl was totally shameless

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1 minute ago, IsmeUno said:

Okay...but i don't want to stray too far away from the point that I was making.

Let's pretend that I am not referring to you at all and we were sitting together as friends, talking about someone who isn't able to see when they are wrong in any discussion.

How it would feel to live in a household like that. Forget about the suggestion that you were that person. Imagine you had to live with such a person. How would you feel? Would you feel that person wasn't listening, even though they claim to be a great listener?

If you had the ability to recall, you would know everything I've said about my living with her, how much I've read to be a better listener, long before I ever moved to Thailand, and the fact I started out respecting women, you would know I put in the man's share of what a man is supposed to do in a relationship.

Of course, after reading a thousand books, articles and listening to podcasts, they all teach much the same things. First you look at yourself and do what you can in a relationship. No cheating, abuse, neglect and becoming an active listener. These along with romance, providing, and doing your share is one side.

The other side, which you also learned, is totally on her, as she comes from a totally different household, is a woman who doesn't think like a man, and has likely some baggage from her childhood, although most of it could be loving and caring.

If both partners have the same future plans, and share some mutual likes, aren't abusive, neglective and can be trusted, the relationship can last, especially seeing you were already attracted to each other.

You cannot judge anyone how they treat those close to them in an online forum. If they tell you they don't put their woman first, are okay with talking to other women and flirting, think raising children, cleaning and cooking are all a woman's work, then you can see he's a misogynist that will eventually piss most any woman off, and neither will be happy.

If you do more than your share of the household chores, share in the child rearing, give her respect, love, care, romance, your trust, honesty and help her family if you can, and she takes that and damages the relationship by hitting, cheating, neglecting, giving the silent treatment, using the children as pawns and other hurtful things, and you gave her no reasons to act this way, it's totally on her and how she was raised as a child.

Everyone argues with all of their relationships. Learning how to argue is a must. You don't call names, hit, give the silent treatment, walk away when the other side is trying to help the argument along, bring other topics into the argument, recall the past problems or enlist others into your argument.

Basically, I've told things just as they happened. Whether you or others believe it or not is besides the point. The point being, why would I bring up what I went through besides wanting to relate to other expats here who might have gone through much of the same?

In the years I've lived here, I've heard many horror stories about how some Thai women treated their foreign partners. Yes, they might have treated their women bad, and the women were hostile because of this, but for every case like that, there is another where the man did what he was supposed to do, and the woman was a nutcase.

That I was with 3 that were nutcases might sound a little strange, but it happens. I have a few friends who also picked lunatics many times, marriages and girlfriends, and I knew them as men good to their women, hearing how it was from both sides. That my ex's mom told my girlfriend her daughter was the problem speaks volumes, as she knew her better than anyone. That she was the reason my ex is the way she is is over her head, as all her children have issues. All of them. I don't lie, nor exaggerate. I've learned over three marriages and many relationships how to treat my women, for the simple fact that I want the same treatment back. That I rarely got that isn't on me but them. My girlfriend now treats me good, and she gets that in spades in return.

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3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

If you had the ability to recall, you would know everything I've said about my living with her, how much I've read to be a better listener, long before I ever moved to Thailand, and the fact I started out respecting women, you would know I put in the man's share of what a man is supposed to do in a relationship.

Of course, after reading a thousand books, articles and listening to podcasts, they all teach much the same things. First you look at yourself and do what you can in a relationship. No cheating, abuse, neglect and becoming an active listener. These along with romance, providing, and doing your share is one side.

The other side, which you also learned, is totally on her, as she comes from a totally different household, is a woman who doesn't think like a man, and has likely some baggage from her childhood, although most of it could be loving and caring.

If both partners have the same future plans, and share some mutual likes, aren't abusive, neglective and can be trusted, the relationship can last, especially seeing you were already attracted to each other.

You cannot judge anyone how they treat those close to them in an online forum. If they tell you they don't put their woman first, are okay with talking to other women and flirting, think raising children, cleaning and cooking are all a woman's work, then you can see he's a misogynist that will eventually piss most any woman off, and neither will be happy.

If you do more than your share of the household chores, share in the child rearing, giver her respect, love, care, romance your trust, honesty and help her family if you can, and she takes that and damages the relationship by hitting, cheating, neglecting, giving the silent treatment, using the children as pawns and other hurtful things, and you gave her no reasons to act this way, it's totally on her and how she was raised as a child.

Everyone argues with all of their relationships. Learning how to argue is a must. You don't call names, hit, give the silent treatment, walk away when the other side is trying to help the argument along, bring other topics into the argument, recall the past problems or enlist others into your argument.

Basically, I've told things just as they happened. Whether you or others believe it or not is besides the point. The point being, why would I bring up what I went through besides wanting to relate to other expats here who might have gone through much of the same?

In the years I've lived here, I've heard many horror stories about how some Thai women treated their foreign partners. Yes, they might have treated their women bad, and the women were hostile because of this, but for every case like that, there is another where the man did what he was supposed to do, and the woman was a nutcase.

That I was with 3 that were nutcases might sound a little strange, but it happens. I have a few friends who also picked lunatics many times, marriages and girlfriends, and I knew them as men good to their women, hearing how it was from both sides. That my ex's mom told my girlfriend her daughter was the problem speaks volumes, as she knew her better than anyone. That she was the reason my ex is the way she is is over her head, as all her children have issues. All of them. I don't lie, nor exaggerate. I've learned over three marriages and many relationships how to treat my women, for the simple fact that I want the same treatment back. That I rarely got that isn't on me but them. My girlfriend now treats me good, and she gets that in spades in return.

I don't want you to get mad, so I'm telling you in advance, it's not an attack. It's trying to get you to see life from another perspective without the need to become defensive about it.

I hate to say it, but...you didn't answer my question.

How would you feel, as a wife, daughter, mother, brother, sister... if you had to live your life with someone like that? Who gets insulted by a perspective other than their own? The 'defensive behaviour' didn't just manifest itself when you met me. It's something within you. Can you say that it never happened in any part of your relationships? With your children, with your peers, with your partners?

This is the point that I'm making. If you behave here as if you are not ever wrong and that you win every argument, that is the impression that you are giving people of yourself. So when you SAY something that seems opposite to the way that you behave...

I'm saying that perhaps you see yourself in a way that others don't see. You might think you are doing one thing, but the other person might see it in a completely different way. Just like our discussions here. But you think me a narcissist and a troll. Whereas I think that I'm merely pointing out the difference between how you behave and what you say.

For example: "Empathy" and "I want to win this argument at all costs" don't belong in the same house together.

If you react defensively and rudely to a sensitive subject, that's going to have an effect on your relationships. You don't need a book to understand that. I don't get to see any of the wonderful fred you describe. I see the one who claims that he has won every argument. But if I tell you what I see, you get mad.

I don't get mad if you call me a troll, because I understand that is how you see it. But it doesn't mean that I am. That's why you cannot state that you see things as they are. That would make you the Supreme Being, wouldn't it?

I know what I'm doing. Not trolling at all. Just moving the conversation on to another level.

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4 hours ago, Gottfrid said:

But Freddy and Isme?! Time to apologize and make up. You two are sounding like a married couple after 10 years of bitterness.

This pair are going at it more than Cameroni and his Takoyaki-faced strumpet...

9 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

This pair are going at it more than Cameroni and his Takoyaki-faced strumpet...

That's not what happening 😊

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1 hour ago, mangkut70 said:

Actually it is quite annoying how you highjack the thread now already for pages with your personal and unrelated bickering.

100% agree...

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3 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

I don't want you to get mad, so I'm telling you in advance, it's not an attack. It's trying to get you to see life from another perspective without the need to become defensive about it.

I hate to say it, but...you didn't answer my question.

How would you feel, as a wife, daughter, mother, brother, sister... if you had to live your life with someone like that? Who gets insulted by a perspective other than their own? The 'defensive behaviour' didn't just manifest itself when you met me. It's something within you. Can you say that it never happened in any part of your relationships? With your children, with your peers, with your partners?

This is the point that I'm making. If you behave here as if you are not ever wrong and that you win every argument, that is the impression that you are giving people of yourself. So when you SAY something that seems opposite to the way that you behave...

I'm saying that perhaps you see yourself in a way that others don't see. You might think you are doing one thing, but the other person might see it in a completely different way. Just like our discussions here. But you think me a narcissist and a troll. Whereas I think that I'm merely pointing out the difference between how you behave and what you say.

For example: "Empathy" and "I want to win this argument at all costs" don't belong in the same house together.

If you react defensively and rudely to a sensitive subject, that's going to have an effect on your relationships. You don't need a book to understand that. I don't get to see any of the wonderful fred you describe. I see the one who claims that he has won every argument. But if I tell you what I see, you get mad.

I don't get mad if you call me a troll, because I understand that is how you see it. But it doesn't mean that I am. That's why you cannot state that you see things as they are. That would make you the Supreme Being, wouldn't it?

I know what I'm doing. Not trolling at all. Just moving the conversation on to another level.

No, the defensive behavior I exhibit here is 100% because of people like you assuming they know how my life is, and refusing to believe what I've said. of course I'm being defensive, as I'm the only one who knows what went on. Guessing from others isn't going to work, so all anyone else can have is what? Assumptions. Pretty simple logic. You cannot assume because you don't know. yes, people lie and say they're the best in anything, but there are also people, like me, who have no reason whatsoever to lie in an online forum, as I have no reason to impress anyone.

You have to take what I've said and think, maybe he IS telling the whole truth. maybe his couple of women are completely nuts, ass anyone over the age of 20 knows full well they exist, and in huge numbers. There are names for women like this. karens, bitches, devil, satan, gold diggers, whores, sluts and more. men also have their names, but not all men are bad.

Many have learned over the years no matter how bad a woman treats you, you be yourself, leave if she goes haywire, and find another more suitable.

You keep missing the main point I'm making. Men don't usually read books on relationships. It's usually the women who do, and the men who write most of the books, as they've had their own share of mistakes and learned from them. Most psychologists, psychiatrists and counselors have been divorced at least once. That's where the learning comes from.

I've never in my life said I'm never wrong. Choosing the wrong women for my being was wrong, even if it was a couple of times.

Like I mentioned before, you learn how to argue, where both win. That's how I think but isn't how they thought.

Covert narcissists like the last one never think it's them, and never will. It does take two, but usually it's one that's more wrong than the other.

There are women who take advantage and take a man for whatever he has.

I've had dozens of girlfriends that were very nice to me, and vice-versa, but it ended because the future plans weren't the same. I left a few I maybe should have stayed with, but you never know until you're married how a person acts full time.

Empathy has nothing to do with arguments. Empathy is actually putting yourself in another's shoes, feeling how they might feel, and not sympathy, just feeling bad for them. I'm not controlling towards women whatsoever. In fact, I let them make a lot of decisions as I know it makes them feel loved and important. Remember I did say I read thousands of books and articles, along with podcasts. One doesn't do this and not learn , or retain, what was written or spoke.

Remember the most important point. You weren't there, so can only go by what I said, and what grandma said to my girlfriend. It doesn't matter what you think or perceive. I don't lie or exaggerate , especially here. What would be the point? I could brag about what I've lifted, done, seen, but it doesn't matter because most of that's in the past, and everyone doesn't retain their best forever. Everyone gets humbled, and i surely have been.

You're old enough to know there are crazy women out there, and said you left one behind. I could say it was you and not her, but that would be assuming, and I don't assume as I wasn't there.

If you think you're not trolling, but act like a person who trolls, that's what we go by here. I supplied the definition. Trolls antagonize, assume and twist things around to cause havoc. Adults with sense take what a person says and either believes or not, but doesn't make their own mind up what was fact or fiction, as again, you have no evidence, then call the person a liar because they don't believe them.

People don't act the same in person as they do online. In person there are a lot more emotions involved, and facial expressions and body language. Some here who think I'm arrogant might be just like me in person and we might get along great. I'm 69, and never have this trouble in person besides with a very few, who I walked away from. Most of the people I've encountered in life are fine with me, even if we disagree. My best friend argued with me all the time, but we would do anything for each other and had a thousands great times together.

Apologies for this going off from Cameroni's thread. Just don't take crap from anyone and won't be called a liar. Assumptions and turning around of the truth is a pet peeve, but again, it shouldn't have gone this far. Just trying to make a point, as I did, and it's finished now. Now we can all get back to wondering how Cam and Phuket are getting along.

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1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

No, the defensive behavior I exhibit here is [ DELETED ]

Give it up it up already... no one else is interested in your off-topic lovers tiff... three of you are killing a thread - you are becoming worse than harriscokhead.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

No, the defensive behavior I exhibit here is 100% because of people like you assuming they know how my life is, and refusing to believe what I've said. of course I'm being defensive, as I'm the only one who knows what went on. Guessing from others isn't going to work, so all anyone else can have is what? Assumptions. Pretty simple logic. You cannot assume because you don't know. yes, people lie and say they're the best in anything, but there are also people, like me, who have no reason whatsoever to lie in an online forum, as I have no reason to impress anyone.

You have to take what I've said and think, maybe he IS telling the whole truth. maybe his couple of women are completely nuts, ass anyone over the age of 20 knows full well they exist, and in huge numbers. There are names for women like this. karens, bitches, devil, satan, gold diggers, whores, sluts and more. men also have their names, but not all men are bad.

Many have learned over the years no matter how bad a woman treats you, you be yourself, leave if she goes haywire, and find another more suitable.

You keep missing the main point I'm making. Men don't usually read books on relationships. It's usually the women who do, and the men who write most of the books, as they've had their own share of mistakes and learned from them. Most psychologists, psychiatrists and counselors have been divorced at least once. That's where the learning comes from.

I've never in my life said I'm never wrong. Choosing the wrong women for my being was wrong, even if it was a couple of times.

Like I mentioned before, you learn how to argue, where both win. That's how I think but isn't how they thought.

Covert narcissists like the last one never think it's them, and never will. It does take two, but usually it's one that's more wrong than the other.

There are women who take advantage and take a man for whatever he has.

I've had dozens of girlfriends that were very nice to me, and vice-versa, but it ended because the future plans weren't the same. I left a few I maybe should have stayed with, but you never know until you're married how a person acts full time.

Empathy has nothing to do with arguments. Empathy is actually putting yourself in another's shoes, feeling how they might feel, and not sympathy, just feeling bad for them. I'm not controlling towards women whatsoever. In fact, I let them make a lot of decisions as I know it makes them feel loved and important. Remember I did say I read thousands of books and articles, along with podcasts. One doesn't do this and not learn , or retain, what was written or spoke.

Remember the most important point. You weren't there, so can only go by what I said, and what grandma said to my girlfriend. It doesn't matter what you think or perceive. I don't lie or exaggerate , especially here. What would be the point? I could brag about what I've lifted, done, seen, but it doesn't matter because most of that's in the past, and everyone doesn't retain their best forever. Everyone gets humbled, and i surely have been.

You're old enough to know there are crazy women out there, and said you left one behind. I could say it was you and not her, but that would be assuming, and I don't assume as I wasn't there.

If you think you're not trolling, but act like a person who trolls, that's what we go by here. I supplied the definition. Trolls antagonize, assume and twist things around to cause havoc. Adults with sense take what a person says and either believes or not, but doesn't make their own mind up what was fact or fiction, as again, you have no evidence, then call the person a liar because they don't believe them.

People don't act the same in person as they do online. In person there are a lot more emotions involved, and facial expressions and body language. Some here who think I'm arrogant might be just like me in person and we might get along great. I'm 69, and never have this trouble in person besides with a very few, who I walked away from. Most of the people I've encountered in life are fine with me, even if we disagree. My best friend argued with me all the time, but we would do anything for each other and had a thousands great times together.

So..taking into account that we are online, why do you bother to become abusive and angry, if you know that online is unfiltered and likely to focus on your life online? Surely you understand that is all people really know about you. What you tell us is what you want us to know about you. You expect people to accept that as the whole story and accept that you were quite perfect, but your women completely terrible.

When I present another possible scenario, you become outraged. That's your natural reaction. You might temper it in person, but the Internet is you, unfiltered. It's really you. Just like this is really me. But it's not the me that you imagine. It's the me from your perspective.

If that behaviour was not normal nor comfortable for you, you wouldn't do it.

All I'm saying is that you should not attribute everything negative you experience, to someone else. You are also creating a certain atmosphere and people have to live within that.

3 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Give it up it up already... no one else is interested in your off-topic lovers tiff... three of you are killing a thread - you are becoming worse than harriscokhead.

I wasn't the only one being targeted, in this and other threads. I have seen how you respond to them also, the only difference being they aren't assuming things about you or turning what you say around. Yes, ignore is a better option, so I'll admit it could have stopped much earlier.

4 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Give it up it up already... no one else is interested in your off-topic lovers tiff... three of you are killing a thread - you are becoming worse than harriscokhead.

Thread is fine. Your temper is not. I thought you found the perfect solution by using the Ignore function. So why are you getting mad?

Is Sunday a 'get crazy' day?

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:
6 minutes ago, richard_smith237 said:

Give it up it up already... no one else is interested in your off-topic lovers tiff... three of you are killing a thread - you are becoming worse than harriscokhead.

I wasn't the only one being targeted, in this and other threads. I have seen how you respond to them also, the only difference being they aren't assuming things about you or turning what you say around. Yes, ignore is a better option, so I'll admit it could have stopped much earlier.

Just don't feed the trolls - then its easier...

... just like I'm going to ignore the next response from a troll... it just removes their oxygen and we don't get 5 pages of inane idiocy.

1 minute ago, richard_smith237 said:

Just don't feed the trolls - then its easier...

... just like I'm going to ignore the next response from a troll... it just removes their oxygen and we don't get 5 pages of inane idiocy.

Arthur Schopenhauer told me all about you.


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Wow a moderator is going to have it's work cut out removing all the off topic nonsense that has been posted by these two.

And the sooner the better.

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9 hours ago, Celsius said:

I completely agree.

Which begs the question. What magical superpower did crippled Austrian Pigman have that you somehow missed?

She didn’t just tolerate his ass for years, she literally ran back to him the second chit got real. That’s a fetish we haven’t identified yet.❤️

That's pretty obvious. He lived in Phuket, near the best beach. He had a huge house, a very affluent lifestyle. Basically his money and his location was his superpower.

Sure, he was older, experienced and smart. He preyed on Phuket Girl with his "I need help, my hands are broken, nobody is helping me" Spiel. Sure he was kind, drove her to the beach to let her play volleyball with guys who would ask her for her Whatsapp.

But in essence, it was his location in Phuket, and his lifestyle that was his draw. Though she went back for pity as well, it was the Phuket card.

His looks are truly horrific, 170 short, obese, ugly.

Two full days, doubt any wives kids or girlfriends saw their partner or parent all weekend. Two keyboard warriors going the full "15" rounds in a rather boring fight.

7 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

His looks are truly horrific, 170 short, obese, ugly.

That's very common in Thailand.

So it was mostly a Friends With Benefits arrangement.

I would be hesitant date a girl with that dating history.

Then again, there are guys who have successful marriages with bargirls.

So it might work.

All the best.

8 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

That's pretty obvious. He lived in Phuket, near the best beach. He had a huge house, a very affluent lifestyle. Basically his money and his location was his superpower.

Sure, he was older, experienced and smart. He preyed on Phuket Girl with his "I need help, my hands are broken, nobody is helping me" Spiel. Sure he was kind, drove her to the beach to let her play volleyball with guys who would ask her for her Whatsapp.

But in essence, it was his location in Phuket, and his lifestyle that was his draw. Though she went back for pity as well, it was the Phuket card.

His looks are truly horrific, 170 short, obese, ugly.

How many foreigners are in Phuket that have an equal amount of available cash? It's not Phuket or his lifestyle, as there are likely thousands in that area with the same. Given that's the truth, it must have been how he treats her. He might be short, fat and ugly to you, but in her eyes he's more than that. If she was dating all men like him, you would know the reasons, as some like men that aren't that attractive and won't be readily straying. If she's dating a variety of looks, then it's the treatment she's receiving. Many women gravitate towards men who remind them of dad, especially if he's been loving and caring.

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16 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

He preyed on Phuket Girl with his "I need help, my hands are broken, nobody is helping me"

Utter hogwash and you know it. Yes he needed help but “ preying” on her oh come on. You have absolutely zero compassion for anyone but yourself.

19 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

His looks are truly horrific, 170 short, obese, ugly.

More personal character assassination on someone you don’t know. I doubt you’re the Adonis you make out you are. Some of your personal traits are absolutely vile. What a mug, you destroy him and get pleasure from it. You’re sick and unbelievably foolish believing everything that comes out of her mouth. Denial,denial, denial. You really are a piece of work but I guess it’s hard coming to terms with the fact you’re now stirring his porridge. I really hope your fall comes hard and you get a taste of your own medicine.

1 minute ago, Utalk2mutt said:

Utter hogwash and you know it. Yes he needed help but “ preying” on her oh come on. You have absolutely zero compassion for anyone but yourself.

More personal character assassination on someone you don’t know. I doubt you’re the Adonis you make out you are. Some of your personal traits are absolutely vile. What a mug, you destroy him and get pleasure from it. You’re sick and unbelievably foolish believing everything that comes out of her mouth. Denial,denial, denial. You really are a piece of work but I guess it’s hard coming to terms with the fact you’re now stirring his porridge. I really hope your fall comes hard and you get a taste of your own medicine.

Give this feud with Freddy a miss for all our sakes.

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

Give this feud with Freddy a miss for all our sakes.

What are you on about? I have zero issues with Fred my quotes are to Cameroni.

1 minute ago, Utalk2mutt said:

What are you on about? I have zero issues with Fred my quotes are to Cameroni.

My apologies. I was typing my response and inadvertently quoted you instead of isume.

1 minute ago, emptypockets said:

My apologies. I was typing my response and inadvertently quoted you instead of isume.

Apology fully accepted. Thank you.

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2 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

Now we can all get back to wondering how Cam and Phuket are getting along.

Heavenly at the moment. We spent 2 hours at a Japanese second hand clothes store and she bought a tonne of clothes, for me too. Then proceeded to do a fashion show for me. Everything looks fantastic on her great body.

She is very happy. So I am very happy.

Yesterday a delightful dinner and cocktails with Prubangboy and his lovely lawyer lady friend. A true gentleman.

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1 hour ago, save the frogs said:

That's very common in Thailand.

So it was mostly a Friends With Benefits arrangement.

I would be hesitant date a girl with that dating history.

Then again, there are guys who have successful marriages with bargirls.

So it might work.

All the best.

It seems for her it was a friends with benefits arrangement, though he declared his undying love for her repeatedly. I saw his Whatsapp convo "You are breaking my heart" etc etc...

Not sure how that makes her a "bargirl", but okay.

Thanks buddy.

4 minutes ago, Cameroni said:

Heavenly at the moment.

Yeah, but a snapshot of one date is pointless.

Relationships take time to unfold ... for better or for worse.

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59 minutes ago, Utalk2mutt said:

Yes he needed help but “ preying” on her oh come on.

He is 63 years old. He is short and fat. He looks like a pig. A monstrosity like him has no business being with a 25 year old baddie like Phuket Girl.

What I did not yet reveal he secretly took a video of him and Phuket Girl having sex, without her knowledge. She aske me about my advice on what to do, as she is terrified he will put it online. I told her to contact Thai police, let us see what she decides.

1 minute ago, Cameroni said:

It seems for her it was a friends with benefits arrangement, though he declared his undying love for her repeatedly. I saw his Whatsapp convo "You are breaking my heart" etc etc...

Not sure how that makes her a "bargirl", but okay.

Thanks buddy.

It doesn't make her a bargirl, but she is couple of notches away.

It does make her someone with questionable ethics.

It could be though that she has changed now that she is with you.

So maybe it won't be an issue.

So the guy is sobbing now. Women can do that to a man.

… @Cameroni … perhaps, you should try to talk to PG, and find a compromise on location and lifestyle for your future.

The location is one thing, the lifestyle is another.

I thought to have her agreeing to start a « normal » part-time job (3 or 4 days a week?) could be reasonable, and helpful to orient and focus her mindset on standard stuff. She wouldn’t earn much money but the effort would be meaningful. It would provide some breathing space for both, and help you focus on your job. She could spend half the money on herself and half on helping her mother (you could complement with a small allowance, around 9000 to 11000 bahts). Working part-time would help her acquire a sense a purpose, plus legit and useful experience.

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