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Be honest,was it the traditional values that drew you to a Thai woman

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13 hours ago, khunPer said:

I takes care of her now, and in return she takes care of me when I once get old....👍😉

You hope!

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    Hot frequent sex with much younger women at minimal cost was what kept me here.

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    Met my Thai wife in 1983 when I rented a minibus from her in Bangkok. She looked terrific and spoke pretty good English. As time went by I became aware of her great sense of humour, her honesty, and

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58 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

That was quite the rant my man. I didn't see anything 'man-hating' in the post to which you replied.

In fact, she concluded the post with:

I feel that she is showing respect to men here. Just not males such as yourself. Surely you can see why.

You treat women as an alien species, rather than a different version of yourself.

It seem it's you with all the hate. Take a deep breath and look back at your post. Seems as if you are raging. Is her post as 'hateful' as yours?

Sort yourself out.

Thank you for pointing this out.

I do not hate men and never have. I have all the respect for people (many of them men) who have come to Thailand for whatever reason and have made Thailand their home. Many have loving relationships with their Thai partners (married or not) and some also have raised beautiful families. I know and am friends with many foreign men who fit into that category. What I object to and have called out is some people on this forum who speak disparagingly of women and speak of them in a less than respectful manner. This seems to be especially true when these men speak about "western women." I understand that some people may have had bad experiences in a relationship with a women from their home countries (who hasn't had a bad relationship in the past.) But, I would certainly never put down put all "western men" because of a single bad experience and I would hope that others would do the same. Thank you.

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2 hours ago, Issan girl said:

Thank you for pointing this out.

I do not hate men and never have. I have all the respect for people (many of them men) who have come to Thailand for whatever reason and have made Thailand their home. Many have loving relationships with their Thai partners (married or not) and some also have raised beautiful families. I know and am friends with many foreign men who fit into that category. What I object to and have called out is some people on this forum who speak disparagingly of women and speak of them in a less than respectful manner. This seems to be especially true when these men speak about "western women." I understand that some people may have had bad experiences in a relationship with a women from their home countries (who hasn't had a bad relationship in the past.) But, I would certainly never put down put all "western men" because of a single bad experience and I would hope that others would do the same. Thank you.

I told you social media was ruining things. Now even Isaan girls are lecturing us on "respectful manner".

Soon you'll be arrested for looking at women in Thailand too. Not far off.

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5 hours ago, IsmeUno said:

Can you afford a few therapy sessions?

@CharlieH's signature used to state something along the lines of; "I can explain it to you, but I cannot understand it for you".

Even your reply to me is filled with rage and hatred. That is within you, it has nothing to do with any woman here.

She's a person, just like you. Why do you hate her?

You appear to be getting "confused" I have not asked for nor do I require any explanation. what I have asked for is some evidence to back up your statement

IE.

" You treat women as an alien species"

So produce some evidence or retract the stupid statement and apologise ,

"rage and hatred " you really have no idea do you ? You are hardly worthy of either,

6 hours ago, Madgee said:

You hope!

hope doesn't come into it when one has chosen wisely.

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1 hour ago, Bday Prang said:

You appear to be getting "confused" I have not asked for nor do I require any explanation. what I have asked for is some evidence to back up your statement

IE.

" You treat women as an alien species"

So produce some evidence or retract the stupid statement and apologise ,

"rage and hatred " you really have no idea do you ? You are hardly worthy of either,

It's true that I may be hardly worthy of it, but that didn't appear to curb your behaviour.

You need evidence? Look at the emoji responses to the posts concerned. Would you prefer to convince yourself that it was only women who responded? Surely the collective 'we' of men, to whom you alluded in your post, would have backed you up in your statement. Where are they?

Is that not evidence enough for you, that most people do not agree with your statements nor the way you responded to the woman?

Believe me, there are some people on this board who would happily apply a negative emoji to my posts given the opportunity, but few people would disagree that your rant towards her was quite over the top.

Furthermore, I view your behaviour as quite hypocritical. You use the term 'woke' as a weapon, but at the same time appear to want to stifle free speech. The woman has her own perspective and is entitled to express it...or would you prefer that she kept quiet and cowered in fear of you?

This is not about 'woke' nor 'anti-woke', but what appears to be a man somewhat limited in the way he can express himself, taking his frustrations out on a woman. That's weak sauce, in my humble opinion.

Why not explain to her with love and intelligence why you think she is wrong?

That's your problem isn't it? You just aren't capable, so no one can really love and respect you, for you.

You have to be worthy of respect, rather than to try to demand it. People may just despise you. Openly or hidden. Up to you.

20 hours ago, Madgee said:

You hope!

Exactly, only time will show...thumbsup

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On 3/26/2026 at 9:58 AM, Issan girl said:

Well, well another man threatened by the presence of a strong, opinionated woman having a voice. Don't you know that a "real" man is one who is self-confident and self-assured enough to not be intimidated by a woman who is thier equal. A true man doesn't need a woman to be inferior in order to feel masculine. I am so glad that the world is full of many men that are not as threatened as you. :)

Almost nobody on this planet is my equal.

Man or woman, no intimidation here, and no lack of confidence.

As for a true man,

That's any guy that doesnt have sex with other men, even if the other men pretend they are women.

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18 hours ago, Cameroni said:

I told you social media was ruining things. Now even Isaan girls are lecturing us on "respectful manner".

Soon you'll be arrested for looking at women in Thailand too. Not far off.

No women on this forum,

The occaisonal man (usually Australian) pretending to be a woman though.

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1 minute ago, BritManToo said:

No women on this forum,

I copped a mouthful from a western woman member on this forum recently.

She was bitching about my woke and lefty comments.

Bloody nagging western women, they won't stop pestering me 😂

Women have sole access to their women only safe spaces, they should be required to remain there, OR, men should have access to men only areas, we used to enjoy such privileges until they were removed in the interests of "fairness" and "equality"

14 hours ago, IsmeUno said:

You have to be worthy of respect, rather than to try to demand it. People may just despise you. Openly or hidden. Up to you.

Openly or hidden I could not give a flying one

2 hours ago, Bday Prang said:

Openly or hidden I could not give a flying one

You seem to have a most pleasant character. That must be the reason behind your rip roaring success with your own kind. Your mother, your sisters...all western?

2 hours ago, Bday Prang said:

Women have sole access to their women only safe spaces, they should be required to remain there, OR, men should have access to men only areas, we used to enjoy such privileges until they were removed in the interests of "fairness" and "equality"

Is this your safe space?

Perhaps you can ask Admin to create one for you and your friend.

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3 hours ago, BritManToo said:

Almost nobody on this planet is my equal.

Man or woman, no intimidation here, and no lack of confidence.

As for a true man,

That's any guy that doesnt have sex with other men, even if the other men pretend they are women.

I think what she is saying, is that if you aren't sub human, you can maintain a relationship with a human being/woman without the need for financial inducements.

The ones that simply don't care, are likely pervy sexpats.

1 hour ago, IsmeUno said:

I think what she is saying, is that if you aren't sub human, you can maintain a relationship with a human being/woman without the need for financial inducements.

Yet buying gifts , including gold and jewelry, even giving cash for ones partner to spend on themselves, is a perfectly natural manifestation of affection in a "normal" relationship, something neither you or your bunny boiler, man hating, bff would know little about

1 hour ago, IsmeUno said:

The ones that simply don't care, are likely pervy sexpats.

The ones that repeatedly mention "pervy sexpats" are normally the most perverted of the lot , that applies to males and females whatever they "identify" as

3 hours ago, Bday Prang said:

Yet buying gifts , including gold and jewelry, even giving cash for ones partner to spend on themselves, is a perfectly natural manifestation of affection in a "normal" relationship, something neither you or your bunny boiler, man hating, bff would know little about

No, it isn't. That's learned behaviour. Those who follow the crowd. I didn't learn that. My dad didn't buy my mum nor did she accept goods in return for her affection.

People who give freely can create and maintain loving relationships by nature. Those who view life as transactional...

Your path seems to have left you angry and embittered. So which of us took the right path?

3 hours ago, Bday Prang said:

The ones that repeatedly mention "pervy sexpats" are normally the most perverted of the lot , that applies to males and females whatever they "identify" as

In which branch of psychology did you learn that? Making things up to try to make yourself feel better doesn't work does it?

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On 3/26/2026 at 4:19 AM, Issan girl said:

Thank you for pointing this out.

I do not hate men and never have. I have all the respect for people (many of them men) who have come to Thailand for whatever reason and have made Thailand their home. Many have loving relationships with their Thai partners (married or not) and some also have raised beautiful families. I know and am friends with many foreign men who fit into that category. What I object to and have called out is some people on this forum who speak disparagingly of women and speak of them in a less than respectful manner. This seems to be especially true when these men speak about "western women." I understand that some people may have had bad experiences in a relationship with a women from their home countries (who hasn't had a bad relationship in the past.) But, I would certainly never put down put all "western men" because of a single bad experience and I would hope that others would do the same. Thank you.

You were kind not to mention the reality that their own children despise them. They failed in life, especially as fathers. As a result, they blame others, especially women for their own failures.

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12 hours ago, IsmeUno said:

No, it isn't. That's learned behaviour. Those who follow the crowd. I didn't learn that. My dad didn't buy my mum nor did she accept goods in return for her affection.

People who give freely can create and maintain loving relationships by nature. Those who view life as transactional...

Your path seems to have left you angry and embittered. So which of us took the right path?

So your father never gave your mother any gifts ??, except for you of course, did she even know him for longer than that took him ?

12 hours ago, IsmeUno said:

In which branch of psychology did you learn that? Making things up to try to make yourself feel better doesn't work does it?

If you want an example just look at the activities of the clergy, they spend their days accusing others of being sinners whilst indulging themselves in their disgusting kiddie fiddling activities

I don't need to make anything up in order to feel "better" pal, calling out a man hating , rug munching, bunny boiler and her,pathetic woke "simp" is enough for today

3 minutes ago, Bday Prang said:

So your father never gave your mother any gifts ??, except for you of course, did she even know him?

They were married. In a normal relationship it's normal to provide for and to treat each other. Somewhat different from buying yourself a woman and her laughing(except when she is with you perhaps) all the way to the bank.

Some here will have genuine relationships, whilst others are simply not capable. From reading your posts illuminating your horrible attitude towards women, your own folk even, I would presume that you are of the latter persuasion.

2 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

They were married. In a normal relationship it's normal to provide for and to treat each other. Somewhat different from buying yourself a woman and her laughing(except when she is with you perhaps) all the way to the bank.

Some here will have genuine relationships, whilst others are simply not capable. From reading your posts illuminating your horrible attitude towards women, your own folk even, I would presume that you are of the latter persuasion.

Just now, IsmeUno said:

What has the clergy to do with your disgusting behaviour towards women? Deflect much?

The clergy has nothing to do with my attitude to women , but plenty to do with yours, they are a fine example of "holier than thou types" just like you , calling others sinners ,whilst sinning themselves, you and the bunny boiler are the ones calling others pervy sex pats

Now about my disgusting behaviour to women ? please feel free, when you have calmed down, to quote anything I have posted on this thread or anywhere else for that matter that demonstrates this, Same goes for your accusation that I treat women as an "alien species"

Nothing in any of my posts backs up you ridiculous allegations

You are just repeating the same rubbish , straight out of the feminists hand book , over and over again , non of which is based on fact , Its a common lefty tactic. So come up with some proof to back up your very predictable allegations or stop wasting my time

you are beginning to make a fool of yourself

1 minute ago, Bday Prang said:

The clergy has nothing to do with my attitude to women , but plenty to do with yours, they are a fine example of "holier than thou types" just like you , calling others sinners ,whilst sinning themselves, you and the bunny boiler are the ones calling others pervy sex pats

Now about my disgusting behaviour to women ? please feel free, when you have calmed down, to quote anything I have posted on this thread or anywhere else for that matter that demonstrates this, Same goes for your accusation that I treat women as an "alien species"

Nothing in any of my posts backs up you ridiculous allegations

You are just repeating the same rubbish , straight out of the feminists hand book , over and over again , non of which is based on fact , Its a common lefty tactic. So come up with some proof to back up your very predictable allegations or stop wasting my time

you are beginning to make a fool of yourself

Do you imagine that you are the norm and somehow the married woman that you insulted and myself in a normal relationship with a woman I don't need to pay are the outliers?

Take a good look at yourself. Your hateful rants. You are providing all the evidence that anyone needs. Pitiful, but not so much that they'll give you a freebie. Pay up!

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10 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

Do you imagine that you are the norm and somehow the married woman that you insulted and myself in a normal relationship with a woman I don't need to pay are the outliers?

Take a good look at yourself. Your hateful rants. You are providing all the evidence that anyone needs. Pitiful, but not so much that they'll give you a freebie. Pay up!

When you were posting as NowNow (2 years back) you didn't have a woman/wife.

2 minutes ago, BritManToo said:

When you were posting as NowNow (2 years back) you didn't have a woman/wife.

I've always had a woman. Show me any post that indicates that I did not.

1 minute ago, IsmeUno said:

Do you imagine that you are the norm and somehow the married woman that you insulted and myself in a normal relationship with a woman I don't need to pay are the outliers?

Take a good look at yourself. Your hateful rants. You are providing all the evidence that anyone needs. Pitiful, but not so much that they'll give you a freebie. Pay up!

I am not the one imagining things I leave that to you,

17 hours ago, IsmeUno said:

I think what she is saying,

29 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

I'm guessing that

31 minutes ago, IsmeUno said:

I would presume

12 hours ago, IsmeUno said:

Your path seems to have

18 hours ago, IsmeUno said:

You seem to have

my posts are clearly not targeted at women in general a few were initially in response to one woman in particular who I called out for making the usual manhating "pervy sexpat" remarks, The rest of them are addressed to the silly old fool who attempted to play the white knight and protect his damsel in distress . whilst looking a bit ridiculous in the process,

I have wasted enough of my time on you, I didn't even need to make you look stupid, you have done a better job of that yourself than I never could, ,

you are on ignore in 3,2,1 so why waste your your own time

1 minute ago, Bday Prang said:

I am not the one imagining things I leave that to you,

my posts are clearly not targeted at women in general a few were initially in response to one woman in particular who I called out for making the usual manhating "pervy sexpat" remarks, The rest of them are addressed to the silly old fool who attempted to play the white knight and protect his damsel in distress . whilst looking a bit ridiculous in the process,

I have wasted enough of my time on you, I didn't even need to make you look stupid, you have done a better job of that yourself than I never could, ,

you are on ignore in 3,2,1 so why waste your your own time

Have you stuck your finger in your ears, crying LA LA LALA ? 😊 It might have escaped your attention that during your out of control ranting, you continued to try to insult the woman.

30 minutes ago, Bday Prang said:

you and the bunny boiler are the ones calling others pervy sex pats

50 minutes ago, Bday Prang said:

calling out a man hating , rug munching, bunny boiler

16 hours ago, Bday Prang said:

something neither you or your bunny boiler, man hating, bff would know little about

I stand by everything that I have asserted here. You can stand by what you have written 😊

One of us loves and protects our womenfolk. The other... Let's just hope that you have some redeeming features about which we don't know.

The real irony here is that I doubt @BritManToo gives a Flying Fish about it. It's you who was triggered and we all know why.

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