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An extremely sweet, kind and polite book dealer from Chiang Mai was attacked on all sides by a bunch of banshees on the Chiang Rai forum merely for giving a little constructructive critisism about a local bookshop. :o

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An extremely sweet, kind and polite book dealer from Chiang Mai was attacked on all sides by a bunch of banshees on the Chiang Rai forum merely for giving a little constructructive critisism about a local bookshop. :o

Actually I was the only one who gave you any stick General, the rest of the weasels slunk away when you appeared on the scene.

Now that was a strange thread.

Hey, just PM'd you about coming to CM Monday, hope to catch up.

Your buddy Joel accused me of libel, but I refused to rise to the bait and tell him that if something is true, it is not libel! :o

I hope to see you Monday.

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Oooh, I'm bored. I'm off to the Chiang Rai forum... D'you know, I never thought I'd see those words & my avatar in the same place! :o:D

Oooh, I'm bored. I'm off to the Chiang Rai forum... D'you know, I never thought I'd see those words & my avatar in the same place! :o:D

I'm getting that a lot lately NR, any advice on how to improve my posts is welcome. :D

An extremely sweet, kind and polite book dealer from Chiang Mai was attacked on all sides by a bunch of banshees on the Chiang Rai forum merely for giving a little constructructive critisism about a local bookshop. :o

May I be pedantic about your stammer?

If Limbo was still there..... yeah.

He was a GREAT moderator! :o

I may get in the shit for this but here's part of a reply he made to me after I flamed him in a PM once.

I think, being moderator it is my first task to animate the forum, not being the policeman of it. Mostly the posters correct each other and that is the way it should be. It is an exchange of thoughts, information and opinions. I don't like the use of violence (deleting, banning and these kind of technical possibilities), I try to demonstrate the middle way and put oil on the waves if there are any. I want to keep it nice. I am too soft sometimes, I know, but I refuse to see the posters as children. They aren't.

That it is a little group polishing their ego's is not true. But that many people see it that way IS true.

I honestly don't know how to change that image. If you have any idea's please help me to do so.

If you look at my postings you see that I try to make it a useful forum with information about events and activities. Others do as well. Inbetween there is something like a chat of people who know each other. It is a community forum, but open to 'the rest of the world'. I think the formula works, we are close to 5000 postings of which I would say at least 80 percent is on topic the one way or the other.

I started it 18 months ago and had to put a lot of energy in it to get it going. I believe that it has a valuable function, but I don't 'own' it and it is a thing with its own life. It's made by a collectivity, of which you also are part.

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Oooh, I'm bored. I'm off to the Chiang Rai forum... D'you know, I never thought I'd see those words & my avatar in the same place! :D :D

I'm getting that a lot lately NR, any advice on how to improve my posts is welcome. :D

Aaah, scea, luv,

I didn't mean I was bored of you or the thread, but there ain't a lot going on on TV tonight. Bedlam was the last stop on my whistle-stop tour, so I was looking for somewhere to go & lurk, rather than watching "So you think you can dance" :o on telly. I don't go to the regional forums, but maybe I should. Seems like they are where the action (flaming!) is :D

You did give me a bunch of cr*p.

I'm glad that - for once - I took the high road and didn't jump all over you in my usual manner.

What set me off is that I was pretty sure that the OP was really Peter fishing for compliments for advertising and due to certain things that happened when he was in Chiang Mai, I decided to thwart his evil scheme. :o

If Limbo was still there..... yeah.

He was a GREAT moderator! :o

I may get in the shit for this but here's part of a reply he made to me after I flamed him in a PM once.

I think, being moderator it is my first task to animate the forum, not being the policeman of it. Mostly the posters correct each other and that is the way it should be. It is an exchange of thoughts, information and opinions. I don't like the use of violence (deleting, banning and these kind of technical possibilities), I try to demonstrate the middle way and put oil on the waves if there are any. I want to keep it nice. I am too soft sometimes, I know, but I refuse to see the posters as children. They aren't.

That it is a little group polishing their ego's is not true. But that many people see it that way IS true.

I honestly don't know how to change that image. If you have any idea's please help me to do so.

If you look at my postings you see that I try to make it a useful forum with information about events and activities. Others do as well. Inbetween there is something like a chat of people who know each other. It is a community forum, but open to 'the rest of the world'. I think the formula works, we are close to 5000 postings of which I would say at least 80 percent is on topic the one way or the other.

I started it 18 months ago and had to put a lot of energy in it to get it going. I believe that it has a valuable function, but I don't 'own' it and it is a thing with its own life. It's made by a collectivity, of which you also are part.

Thanks for sharing this and I hope that there are no repercusions as there certainly shouldn't be. :D

Thanks for sharing this and I hope that there are no repercusions as there certainly shouldn't be. :o

This is thaivisa. There are repercussions for everthing these days. No wonder November Rain is so bored - postings are down, regulars are shipping out in droves, and trolls are moving in.

Even I can't be bothered raising a snarl now. A grimace now and again, but rarely anything more.

Sad. Very sad. And sadder that we can't even discuss the reasons for it.

Thanks for sharing this and I hope that there are no repercusions as there certainly shouldn't be. :o

This is thaivisa. There are repercussions for everthing these days. No wonder November Rain is so bored - postings are down, regulars are shipping out in droves, and trolls are moving in.

Even I can't be bothered raising a snarl now. A grimace now and again, but rarely anything more.

Sad. Very sad. And sadder that we can't even discuss the reasons for it.

There's something wrong - this is the second time I've agreed with you in a week.

I'm bored with the whole thing - so that's it for this month - open up again in September (maybe).

If Limbo was still there..... yeah.

He was a GREAT moderator! :o

I may get in the shit for this but here's part of a reply he made to me after I flamed him in a PM once.

I think, being moderator it is my first task to animate the forum, not being the policeman of it. Mostly the posters correct each other and that is the way it should be. It is an exchange of thoughts, information and opinions. I don't like the use of violence (deleting, banning and these kind of technical possibilities), I try to demonstrate the middle way and put oil on the waves if there are any. I want to keep it nice. I am too soft sometimes, I know, but I refuse to see the posters as children. They aren't.

That it is a little group polishing their ego's is not true. But that many people see it that way IS true.

I honestly don't know how to change that image. If you have any idea's please help me to do so.

If you look at my postings you see that I try to make it a useful forum with information about events and activities. Others do as well. Inbetween there is something like a chat of people who know each other. It is a community forum, but open to 'the rest of the world'. I think the formula works, we are close to 5000 postings of which I would say at least 80 percent is on topic the one way or the other.

I started it 18 months ago and had to put a lot of energy in it to get it going. I believe that it has a valuable function, but I don't 'own' it and it is a thing with its own life. It's made by a collectivity, of which you also are part.

After Limbo was kicked out as a moderator the Chiang Rai Forum has almost died.

:D:D:D

What an extremely strange thread, is it always like that in there?

Moss

P.S Here comes Tayto :D

Mossy, that was mild. They had a thread closed by a wandering moderator that started with a newbie asking what the prospects were for opening a little shop in CR that would sell English language magazines. I'm better out of it, I can tell you. Tayto nearly got a little touch of the pocket flame thrower but I decided to be polite. :D

Thanks for that and please come back to Chiang Rai forum, it's soooooooo boring.

Re my reply in the Chiang Rai forum to

1. The long long post by Joel.

Well it was very long and boring to me and I said so. Ok not everyone agreed but there was no ganging up on anyone.

2. The advice given to someone about opening a book shop was fair but it got sidetract when the local failed magazine owner started to give advise and offered to co-operate with the poster.

It was a bad idea and I said so.

I apologise, if I have in any way offended you.

Tayto in Chiang Rai

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I'm closing this thread (the second I've closed in as many days in Bedlam) for discussion of moderation issues, against forum rules.

If these types of threads continue, there may be a proliferation of warnings and suspensions issued, along with the possibility of permanent removal of Bedlam access for certain posters.

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