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Aren't you embarrassed to live in Pattaya

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2 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Because you are creating this dynamic by posting incessantly and insulting people.

They you play victim.

You are essentially using this forum as a free "therapy office".

You attack, insult, belittle others. They insult you back, then you proceed to aggrandize yourself, presumably to heal your damaged ego / low self-esteem.

But how long and under how many usernames have you been doing this now? Over 1 year? Clearly, using AN as "a psychologist" isn't working out. You're like a hamster on a wheel.

Why not go see a real psychologist?

I have him on ignore. I talked about hotels and girlfriend. Then he insults me lol

You guys sure have a twisted versiob of events!

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23 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

I'm 188cm tall.

So what does that prove?

You are taller than the average person on AN?

Taller than the average Jew?

Who are you competing with?

Why are you competing incessantly?

You're not taller than the average giraffe, by the way.

Incessant competition and comparing yourself to everyone else = mental illness

4 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

You attack, insult, belittle others. They insult you back, then you proceed to aggrandize yourself, presumably to heal your damaged ego / low self-esteem.

I have high self esteem. I like Thailand.

Why don't you go enrol in a Thai language course?

It is not like you have a job to go to. What else do you do in Pattaya?

Just now, save the frogs said:

So what does that prove?

You are taller than the average person on AN?

Taller than the average Jew?

Who are you competing with?

Why are you competing incessantly?

You're not taller than the average giraffe, by the way.

Incessant competition and comparing yourself to everyone else = mental illness

Woman like tall strong men. I'm a tall strong man. That short guy can't find a girlfriend and is jealous. My girlfriend is hot.

Why would a Thai woman date an angry white guy who can't speak Thai and does not follow buddhism?

Think about it!

2 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Woman like tall strong men. I'm a tall strong man. That short guy can't find a girlfriend and is jealous. My girlfriend is hot.

SOME women like tall men. We don't know you so can't judge otherwise. Short guys get women every day, as height means little to most women, as long as they're as tall or taller, most are just fine. It's how a man treats others, along with her that matters. How do you know he can't find a girlfriend if you never met him?

This is exactly how things go sideways here. the assumptions and the insults, of people you don't know. Try sticking to the topic of why you're embarrassed to live in Pattaya, something I can't really relate to as I've no reason to go there. This is for those who live there to answer.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

SOME women like tall men. We don't know you so can't judge otherwise. Short guys get women every day, as height means little to most women, as long as they're as tall or taller, most are just fine. It's how a man treats others, along with her that matters. How do you know he can't find a girlfriend if you never met him?

This is exactly how things go sideways here. the assumptions and the insults, of people you don't know. Try sticking to the topic of why you're embarrassed to live in Pattaya, something I can't really relate to as I've no reason to go there. This is for those who live there to answer.

He claimed I did not have one lol

Said I never went to Thailand lol

That guy is weird.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

How do you know he can't find a girlfriend if you never met him?

Easy. His jealousy. Words say a lot.

2 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Why would a Thai woman date an angry white guy who can't speak Thai and does not follow buddhism?

Think about it!

Ask yourself why so many thousands do. Most Thai women don't care if you're not a Buddhist if they want a foreigner. If you're a Thai man, yes. Then they'll want a stable, faithful man they can relate to, who wants a family and not there to use. All men get angry, as it's a normal emotion. Going overboard isn't needed by any man or woman. Not speaking Thai obviously doesn't matter to many, as they still marry men of all nationalities. Money has them accepting most anything.

Just now, fredwiggy said:

Ask yourself why so many thousands do. Most Thai women don't care if you're not a Buddhist if they want a foreigner. If you're a Thai man, yes. Then they'll want a stable, faithful man they can relate to, who wants a family and not there to use. All men get angry, as it's a normal emotion. Going overboard isn't needed by any man or woman. Not speaking Thai obviously doesn't matter to many, as they still marry men of all nationalities. Money has them accepting most anything.

Most farangs pay them 10,000 to 30,000. Walking atm. I don't pay anything.

1 minute ago, Rockyroad said:

Easy. His jealousy. Words say a lot.

Show us where he's shown jealousy, and then you can ask him why.

1 minute ago, fredwiggy said:

Show us where he's shown jealousy, and then you can ask him why.

Read his last 15 posts.

Just now, Rockyroad said:

Most farangs pay them 10,000 to 30,000. Walking atm. I don't pay anything.

That's also an assumption, as I myself don't know what any of my friends give their wives or girlfriends. I only know what I give to my girlfriend to help her when I se she might need it. Of course some buy their women, and that's a different story. providing isn't an ATM. If a man doesn't help out his women if needed, she can find one that will, as that's being cheap. Especially here.

Buddhism

Speaking Thai

Being fit

Being friendly

Being fun to be around

That's how you find a nice Thai lady no monthly allowance.

Just now, Rockyroad said:

Read his last 15 posts.

I've never seen real jealousy by anyone here, although some say things that might mean jealousy, like saying you're a liar when you haven't lied.

Just now, Rockyroad said:

Buddhism

Speaking Thai

Being fit

Being friendly

Being fun to be around

That's how you find a nice Thai lady no monthly allowance.

Which means she will have those qualities also, meaning independence. Independence here usually means they'll be with an independent Thai man, as that's the circles they'll be in. Those qualities work in the west a lot more than here, as more are independent there, so attraction works more.

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

That's also an assumption, as I myself don't know what any of my friends give their wives or girlfriends.

Farangs have talked about it for decades. The average Thai lady makes 10,000 to 20,000 from work. If she dates a man 20 to 30 years older who can't speak Thai, isn't a buddhist why bother unless he pays? She uses him as a job replacement.

On 5/9/2026 at 1:33 AM, beautifulthailand99 said:

Are you for real because if you are I want to know you !

I am def for real

I lived in NYC 73 to 95 and probably saw 1000 shows.

If bad luck brings you to Bangkok, shoot me a message

Troll and baiting posts removed.

Be civil and stop the personal attacks- anymore and the thread can close and your ability to post can be removed.

 

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Which means she will have those qualities also, meaning independence. Independence here usually means they'll be with an independent Thai man, as that's the circles they'll be in. Those qualities work in the west a lot more than here, as more are independent there, so attraction works more.

Thai men are often heavy drinkers or smokers. A fit farang non drinker non smoker who speaks Thai and respects buddha has endless dating options.

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4 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Thai men are often heavy drinkers or smokers. A fit farang non drinker non smoker who speaks Thai and respects buddha has endless dating options.

JHC stop it. You know diddly squat about Thailand yet go on and on. You deserve double the negative emojis you hate so much. On and on you go and 99% is pure babble. Go get yourself a roo or emu burger.

9 minutes ago, marin said:

JHC stop it. You know diddly squat about Thailand yet go on and on. You deserve double the negative emojis you hate so much. On and on you go and 99% is pure babble. Go get yourself a roo or emu burger.

How much a month do you fork out?

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On 5/8/2026 at 4:24 AM, Rockyroad said:

Ai says AN is full of old bitter guys. Needs more 30yos to brighten up the day.

But you said you were 55.

And retardidly are somehow always playing the youth card.

55 = senior citizen. Google it.

To a bunch of old men whose butts you sniff frantically for attention.

All day.

Every day of the year.

Why, Bogan, why?

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46 minutes ago, save the frogs said:

Because you are creating this dynamic by posting incessantly and insulting people.

Then you play victim.

You are essentially using this forum as a free "therapy office".

You attack, insult, belittle others. They insult you back, then you proceed to aggrandize yourself, presumably to heal your damaged ego / low self-esteem.

But how long and under how many usernames have you been doing this now? Over 1 year? Clearly, using AN as "a psychologist" isn't working out. You're like a hamster on a wheel.

Why not go see a real psychologist?

It's pointless engaging with him, a total waste of time, he's not well

10 minutes ago, marin said:

You know diddly squat about Thailand yet go on and on

How come I have a hot gf and don't pay any allowance? How come I speak better Thai than you?

My gf is a fox.

8 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Farangs have talked about it for decades. The average Thai lady makes 10,000 to 20,000 from work. If she dates a man 20 to 30 years older who can't speak Thai, isn't a buddhist why bother unless he pays? She uses him as a job replacement.

Plenty of like minded gals that just want to have sex. Aside from one night stands / what was your name again ? 🙄

Depends how, and why you meet up with someone. Dated a few in between wives, lasted months. None wanting money, just like minded fun. Met one at club, loan shark, and spent months of weekends getting our freak on. Only ended because she yelled at my kid, for "expressing her opinion", or, "talking back to me", in the bitch's mind, so she was gone.

Another, we started chit chatting at mall, and got along fine, till she left her email open one day, and I saw she was stringing a bunch of farangs along online, out of TH.

Then there was the Mitsubishi service dept. rep, yea, I had a beater for short while, as kid wanted power windows, that the VIOS didn't have. We got along fine, till she started talking marriage .... no thanks.

Easy to meet people in everyday life or one night stands when out on the prowl. Everyone needs to get their freak on every now & then. Wee bit of Thai helps, but not really needed. They all speak enough English, when they want to.

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1 minute ago, KhunLA said:

Plenty of like minded gals that just want to have sex. Aside from one night stands / what was your name again ? 🙄

Depends how, and why you meet up with someone. Dated a few in between wives, lasted months. None wanting money, just like minded fun. Met one at club, loan shark, and spent months of weekends getting our freak on. Only ended because she yelled at my kid, for "expressing her opinion", or, "talking back to me", in the bitch's mind, so she was gone.

Another, we started chit chatting at mall, and got along fine, till she left her email open one day, and I saw she was stringing a bunch of farangs along online, out of TH.

Then there was the Mitsubishi service dept. rep, yea, I had a beater for short while, as kid wanted power windows, that the VIOS didn't have. We got along fine, till she started talking marriage .... no thanks.

Easy to meet people in everyday life or one night stands when out on the prowl. Everyone needs to get the freak on every now & then. Wee bit of Thai helps, but not really needed. They all speak enough English, when they want to.

What city did you meet them in?

Just now, Rockyroad said:

What city did you meet them in?

That was while living at Udon.

3 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

How come I have a hot gf and don't pay any allowance? How come I speak better Thai than you?

My gf is a fox.

Shop mannequins do not count.

4 minutes ago, scubascuba3 said:

It's pointless engaging with him, a total waste of time, he's not well

I'm very well. I enjoy life. I hope you find the help you need.

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