6 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

This is an escape route for those who are antisocial in person. They feel safe here so can exaggerate all they want, and no one will know. They'll put down people they never would in person. Comes from a damaged home life, where abuse and or neglect, or spoiling took place, and the hate generated from that is put on others.

Billly has never been married Fred. He is damaged goods. Ask him about his dating life.

21 minutes ago, ericthai said:

I think the problem is your definition of "pay."

If I buy my wife dinner, I'm not paying her!

If she buys me dinner, is she paying me? If I buy my parents a birthday gift, am I paying them?

If I take a friend out for lunch, am I paying for his friendship? Of course not.

There's a big difference between spending money on someone you care about and paying someone as if the relationship is a transaction.

Some relationships are transactional. Others are partnerships. Saying "every man pays for a woman" ignores the millions of couples who both work, both contribute and both do nice things for each other simply because they love each other not because someone is owed a return on their investment.

A couple here, one in this topic, can't understand this simple logic. Thinking everyone pays but him. Just strange and plain BS. Some think all women are transactions because they can't find one that isn't.

6 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

Do you have a gf? Where do you live? How much do you spend on p4p?

How old are you?

how much will that new house cost you?

Do you plan on a swimming pool?

4 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Billly has never been married Fred. He is damaged goods. Ask him about his dating life.

I didn't know you met him and were good friends, as that''s the only way you would know information about anyone that's personal, unless they said it themselves. Right? I mean, saying anything about anyone you haven't met and has only given you a modicum of information of themselves would be, what's that word.........Assuming.

i haven't seen him say he's gay, but if he did, what would that mean? I have gays in my family and i accept the, It isn't my way but damned if I'll trash their lifestyle, especially if they're family or friends.

13 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

is an escape route for those who are antisocial in person. They feel safe here so can exaggerate all they want, and no one will know.

You exaggerate more than anyone. You are very anti social. You don't drink beer and live far from people. Social farangs would never live there. You would not even go to a city for a party.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

I didn't know you met him and were good friends, as that''s the only way you would know information about anyone that's personal, unless they said it themselves. Right? I mean, saying anything about anyone you haven't met and has only given you a modicum of information of themselves would be, what's that word.........Assuming.

i haven't seen him say he's gay, but if he did, what would that mean? I have gays in my family and i accept the, It isn't my way but damned if I'll trash their lifestyle, especially if they're family or friends.

Ask him why he dodges questions about women. The guy is creepy.

2 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

You exaggerate more than anyone. You are very anti social. You don't drink beer and live far from people. Social farangs would never live there. You would not even go to a city for a party.

Okay, I'll ask you again. Seeing you've never met me in person, nor know anything about me besides what I've said here, how would you know if I'm exaggerating or lying? I have friends all over all my life. How does that make me antisocial?

I do drink beer and live in a village, and have foreign friends 17 miles and less away. Social people can live anywhere , as here are things called cars and motorbikes.

Why would i go to a party with people I've never met, some of whom have acted very strange here. i wouldn't want to hospitalize anyone from a party if they went wacko. Your notes need to be be updated as you forget quite a lot here, or do you engage people here after getting stoned?

6 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

Ask him why he dodges questions about women. The guy is creepy.

Maybe he's pulling your chain?

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Okay, I'll ask you again. Seeing you've never met me in person, nor know anything about me besides what I've said here, how would you know if I'm exaggerating or lying? I have friends all over all my life. How does that make me antisocial?

I do drink beer and live in a village, and have foreign friends 17 miles and less away. Social people can live anywhere , as here are things called cars and motorbikes.

Why would i go to a party with people I've never met, some of whom have acted very strange here. i wouldn't want to hospitalize anyone from a party if they went wacko. Your notes need to be be updated as you forget quite a lot here, or do you engage people here after getting stoned?

3 months ago you said you didnt drink. Your stories keep changing.

2 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

3 months ago you said you didnt drink. Your stories keep changing.

You need to be more involved like GG. His notes are far more accurate, as he sends them to universities. I never said I didn't drink. I'm a wine, tequila and beer drinker, and have had some extremely expensive and world class wines, beer and tequila. I haven't drank much wine here but do when I'm back home. I never change my stories as I've always told the truth, and that's easy to keep straight. Your memory is leaking.

2 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

You need to be more involved like GG. His notes are far more accurate, as he sends them to universities. I never said I didn't drink. I'm a wine, tequila and beer drinker, and have had some extremely expensive and world class wines, beer and tequila. I haven't drank much wine here but do when I'm back home. I never change my stories as I've always told the truth, and that's easy to keep straight. Your memory is leaking.

You told me before you didnt drink. O don't believe anything you say anymore. Too many lies.

22 minutes ago, geisha said:

That’s roughly 300 Baht a day. If it’s only for food shopping and household stuff ok. What if she needs new shoes, or needs dental work, would you pay, gladly ? Or say no.?

Get a job.

2 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

You told me before you didnt drink. O don't believe anything you say anymore. Too many lies.

That's on you, as I never lied here and never told anyone I didn't drink. Why would I if I do drink? I don't drink much.

3 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

That's on you, as I never lied here and never told anyone I didn't drink. Why would I if I do drink? I don't drink much.

You lie all the time. I don't believe anything you say. Very manipulative.

2 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

You lie all the time. I don't believe anything you say. Very manipulative.

Show me where I've lied or can it. It doesn't matter to me what you believe as you're insignificant. Like i said earlier, you can go down the drain with your buddy, or redeem yourself and apologize to everyone you've offended before here and admit you're wrong and only trolling out of boredom. It might take awhile but you could get that negative 3281 score up in a few years if you stayed acting civil. Izzy will never change, as that's a disorder with no cure.

5 minutes ago, fredwiggy said:

Show me where I've lied or can it. It doesn't matter to me what you believe as you're insignificant. Like i said earlier, you can go down the drain with your buddy, or redeem yourself and apologize to everyone you've offended before here and admit you're wrong and only trolling out of boredom. It might take awhile but you could get that negative 3281 score up in a few years if you stayed acting civil. Izzy will never change, as that's a disorder with no cure.

90 failed relationships. Too many lies ended them.

7 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

but I spoil her to death

How do you do this?

6 minutes ago, Rockyroad said:

90 failed relationships. Too many lies ended them.

Here, let me help you a little. Again, seeing you keep missing my point.

Ending relationships doesn't mean they failed. A failed relationship is one where you didn't do what you should have, or she didn't. Or both didn't.

When you end a relationship because you have different future plans, it's a success, as that leaves you open for something better for the both of you.

Out of those about 90 or so, probably 30 were one or a few night stands, mutual from attraction, so it also wasn't a failure as it achieved mutual success.

Three marriages , of which two had children, ended from my divorcing, as they weren't acting according to how a marriage partner, or mother should act, but seeing children were created, they also were part successes.

The main point here, is that you weren't around, so know nothing about them. This means you cannot comment or judge. You have never caught me in a lie, so saying I "Lie all the time", is a misnomer.

If you really knew about women, you might understand that many aren't good women, and many men pick these not so good women, and end up divorcing them. And it can happen two, three or more times because there are a lot of those women on earth, just as there are a lot of bad men who good women have to divorce.

Edited yesterday at 02:55 PM1 day by fredwiggy

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

Exactly what MalcolmB used to do, right up until that Christmas party. Then he disappeared. i though he acted the same way in person and someone trashed him. I've been reading up on this type of behavior for 30 years, so it's old news.

A familiar name there, didn't realise he'd gone missing.

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

This is an escape route for those who are antisocial in person. They feel safe here so can exaggerate all they want, and no one will know. They'll put down people they never would in person. Comes from a damaged home life, where abuse and or neglect, or spoiling took place, and the hate generated from that is put on others.

I think you nailed it. Here’s more to add to your list of psychological observations.

His diction and sentence structure are very childish. According to AI, his writing is around a 3rd or 4th grade reading level. The same applies to his thought patterns. His insults rely on childish slurs that match the grammar school intellect, and he repeats the same simplistic attacks over and over. Since he really knows nothing about the people he’s attacking, he falls back on projecting the things he appears to dislike about himself: being lonely, having no friends, lacking money, struggling with his sexual identity, and having no meaningful hobbies, interests, or life experiences.

He’s also obsessed with Thailand. He almost seems to stalk the country, mainly because it’s inexpensive and because the locals will often smile politely rather than engage with him directly. They’re also generally very good at tolerating fragile egos that lead to defensive behavior. He interprets that as admiration, so he praises the locals while resenting foreigners who recognize the anger and misery behind his behavior.

He’s not unique, though. I’ve met many people like that in Thailand over the years. They’re reclusive, have no sense of humor, and carry a lot of unresolved issues. They can blend in, and with a bit of money, they can dull their anger and pain for a while. Most of them don’t spend their time online, however. That’s what makes him somewhat of an anomaly. The underlying cause of it all often stems from an enduring psychological condition, possibly compounded by rejection from his parents.

3 hours ago, Keeenok Powell said:

I wed a fat un,not very pretty too so she doesn’t expect much.

If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife.

1 hour ago, fredwiggy said:

This is an escape route for those who are antisocial in person. They feel safe here so can exaggerate all they want, and no one will know. They'll put down people they never would in person. Comes from a damaged home life, where abuse and or neglect, or spoiling took place, and the hate generated from that is put on others.

It might be a codependency issue. Clingy insecure internet relationships, as many here have.

2 hours ago, IsmeUno said:

You got that from @Hummin and his ChatGPT account a while back.😊

I'm not the one ranting, raving and making up scenarios about other people here, am I? I deal with reality and you are the one 'losing it'.

Here we are again, and it is a simple question: who is the most toxic in this thread?

You cannot hide from this one, can you?

Edited yesterday at 03:41 PM1 day by Hummin

8 hours ago, SAFETY FIRST said:

I remember one month around 100k baht, it was her birthday

Ill put on some lipstick for 100k a month.

8 hours ago, Rockyroad said:

Western women usually steal as much as possible. Hookers are cheaper.

No looking at your threads and comments, you are as cheap as they come.

3 hours ago, atpeace said:

We've had our moments :) No we are getting along now but I'm careful with my words because I don't want to go down that road. Freddy is a nice guy IMO. You could argue he makes terrible decisions but in the end he is still a nice guy. Maybe a different approach on your part might get him to listen. At this point the both of you just rant. Hummin seems OK to me too and has a solid life from what I gather.

Rant: Speak or shout at length in a wild, impassioned way.

I take umbrage at you describing me in the same way as someone whom is actually ranting. If you are unable to discern the difference in between a rant and relatively concise descriptions, perhaps your perspective cannot be relied upon.

3 hours ago, fredwiggy said:

See how he can't reply without yet another assumption. The only thing he knows about me is what I've mentioned here, and being a very disturbed individual, he can't accept that as the truth, but being a person suffering from NPD, can't enter a conversation without acting superior, along with trying to enlist his flying monkeys here with the constant deflections and projections, to detour his faults away from him and onto others. All the symptoms of the disorder and the only defense he has is to turn that against others. No one here believes anything he says besides those like him.

It's funny how you hang on to anyone who gives you even the slightest amount of attention 😊 You really need that emotional support, don't you, boy?

59 minutes ago, Hummin said:

Here we are again, and it is a simple question: who is the most toxic in this thread?

You cannot hide from this one, can you?

Mate, anyone with half a brain can look at that and see straight away where the problem lies. It’s not exactly rocket science. Get rid of the virus and the infection clears up on its own. I’ve been watching it all for a while now, and I can’t for the life of me work out why nothing’s being done at the top level. Get rid of the pair who are making life miserable for everyone else, and the atmosphere sorts itself out.

6 minutes ago, Gary The Git said:

Mate, anyone with half a brain can look at that and see straight away where the problem lies. It’s not exactly rocket science. Get rid of the virus and the infection clears up on its own. I’ve been watching it all for a while now, and I can’t for the life of me work out why nothing’s being done at the top level. Get rid of the pair who are making life miserable for everyone else, and the atmosphere sorts itself out.

And then it restarts under new nicks. Both of them are running multiple nicks at the moment, but their Achilles’ heel is that they cannot reinvent themselves. Same style, same tricks, same pattern.

3 hours ago, atpeace said:

We are saying the same thing but you are set on hurting him. What does that say about yourself. Hey, I do it on occasion so I get it but I get no pleasure doing it incessantly.

'Hurt' is your perception of the situation. Perhaps because of his somewhat hysterical behaviour?

Sometimes you need to be cruel to be kind. Have you ever heard of that saying? Better to do it in a sandbox, where you have more space and time to learn.