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Tipping Culture

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I'm having a hard time believing this sign is real. Why would a restaurant owner display the fact that he/she pays such a low wage that it is up to you the customer to make up the difference? Pretty sure most people in the U.S. would move along to a different restaurant.

That being said many of the card processing machines all now have a screen that says tip, i.e. using my debit card to get a cup of coffee. The staff turned, poured coffee into a cup, handed it to me. Tip? Not when that big coffee cost me $3.50US, not going to happen.

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  • BangkokHank
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    It is the responsibility of the establishment to pay its staff. That's part of the cost of running a business, and it should be included in the price of the meal. What's next: The restaurant adding re

  • HolmesEquivelant
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    Nothing irritates a Cheap Charlie more than tipping.

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    20 baht. This isn't the US.

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On 8/24/2026 at 6:16 PM, BangkokHank said:

The restaurant adding rent and electricity to the bill?

FYI! It is already included in the bill.

8 hours ago, Yellowtail said:

Or Psychology

Had no idea pyschologist got paid so little. I would find that hard to believe.

But i know teachers getting around 10k a month

10 hours ago, Ralf001 said:

How did you get to 275 a day ?

11,000 x 12 months = 132,000

11,000 ÷ 52 weeks = 2,538

2,538 ÷ 6** days = 423

** labour law is 48hr week, 8 hr a day = 6 days a week.

Yes--- I did mess up the math, and you are right. Her major is in economics, and the job was at a private hospital.

36 minutes ago, Gottfrid said:

FYI! It is already included in the bill.

That's my point. It's already included in the bill, as it should be - and as the staff wages should also be. You wouldn't expect to get a separate bill for electricity and rent - on top of the price of the meal. Just as you shouldn't need to pay separately for "service".

4 hours ago, Priorexpat said:

I'm having a hard time believing this sign is real. Why would a restaurant owner display the fact that he/she pays such a low wage that it is up to you the customer to make up the difference? Pretty sure most people in the U.S. would move along to a different restaurant.

That being said many of the card processing machines all now have a screen that says tip, i.e. using my debit card to get a cup of coffee. The staff turned, poured coffee into a cup, handed it to me. Tip? Not when that big coffee cost me $3.50US, not going to happen.

Correct you are, and just more AI crap, posted by bored people ...

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5 hours ago, DonniePeverley said:

It's clear. But wrong.

You now have some small establishments who bring a VAT out to tourists, but won't touch locals. Just add on some fees even if they don't pay the vat.

That has not been my experience.

5 hours ago, Priorexpat said:

I'm having a hard time believing this sign is real. Why would a restaurant owner display the fact that he/she pays such a low wage that it is up to you the customer to make up the difference? Pretty sure most people in the U.S. would move along to a different restaurant.

That being said many of the card processing machines all now have a screen that says tip, i.e. using my debit card to get a cup of coffee. The staff turned, poured coffee into a cup, handed it to me. Tip? Not when that big coffee cost me $3.50US, not going to happen.

I'm having a hard time believing that video of the cat driving the car is real.

I certainly would not go in that restaurant with that sign out front. If I did not see the sign until I was paying, would tip zero.

A lot of the fast-food places are dropping the tip-screens.

55 minutes ago, NewGuy87 said:

Had no idea pyschologist got paid so little. I would find that hard to believe.

But i know teachers getting around 10k a month

What percentage of psychology majors do you think work as psychologists?

42 minutes ago, BangkokHank said:

That's my point. It's already included in the bill, as it should be - and as the staff wages should also be. You wouldn't expect to get a separate bill for electricity and rent - on top of the price of the meal. Just as you shouldn't need to pay separately for "service".

Do you believe that if tipping stopped that service would stay the same?

Tipping is meritocratic. That's why so many cultures are against it.

It is being made non-meritocratic in the US now, that's why many Americans are turning against it.

17 minutes ago, Yellowtail said:

What percentage of psychology majors do you think work as psychologists?

I dunno. What else would they do that pays "11,000" a month? Waitresses get more than that.

What percentage of medical students work as doctors?

It’s common in Thailand for tips to be split across all the staff, kitchen included sometimes the owner too.

That makes it difficult to tip an individual for good service, sometimes I will ask for the servers promptpay and send them a tip directly.

It’s also common for the server to be charged for a meal if the customer doesn’t accept it. If a server brings the wrong meal to someone in my party, if they want to send it back then I take it and have it put on my bill.

7 minutes ago, NewGuy87 said:

I dunno. What else would they do that pays "11,000" a month? Waitresses get more than that.

Any number of things, school counselors, social workers, human resources, teachers, hairdressers, massage therapists...

7 minutes ago, NewGuy87 said:

What percentage of medical students work as doctors?

Very few I would imagine, as it would be illegal for medical students to work as doctors.

2 hours ago, BangkokHank said:

That's my point. It's already included in the bill, as it should be - and as the staff wages should also be. You wouldn't expect to get a separate bill for electricity and rent - on top of the price of the meal. Just as you shouldn't need to pay separately for "service".

I don´t have a clue why people like you have to take this more far than it is. The sign with excessive tip is just derailing the real thing. You are not paying anything extra, and you are not paying for the staffs salary. Tip is like it´s always been. It´s a standard way of showing your appreciation of the food, drinks and service combined.

Today, a lot of losers, just feel the need to complain about everything possible on this planet! Just get a grip! All this complaining is ridiculous, and belongs in diaper stage of human evolution.

I know many people who chose to work a job (i.e. restaurant workers, school teachers) that didn't pay enough to cover their expenses. Rather than whine about low tips, they went out and got a second job. Hopefully only temporarily, as they work towards establishing a dependable career. Serving tables or flipping burgers at McDonalds is not a career.

...Another ' Mandela Effect ' Or What... (?)

...Anyone Remember Being Told " In Thailand We Don't Tip" ... Or... "The Tip Is Included In The Price"... (?)

Service charges are not tips, then you are a thief.

On 8/24/2026 at 11:04 PM, PhilipHabib said:

I would stop @ 12% - handing me plates of food is not something I called skilled labor anywhere in the world.

Sign is obviously from USA

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Better be some damn fine service for a 25% tip! I probably wouldn't eat there if I saw the sign first.

On 8/24/2026 at 11:04 PM, PhilipHabib said:

Sign is obviously from USA

What's obvious is that you are biased and dead wrong. The sign is AI.

On 8/24/2026 at 11:04 PM, PhilipHabib said:

I would stop @ 12% - handing me plates of food is not something I called skilled labor anywhere in the world.

Sign is obviously from USA

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Obviously, an AI created poster. Simple search will tell average waiter/waitress wage is $15-18/hr. and thanks to Trump there is no tax on tips.

8 hours ago, Yellowtail said:

That has not been my experience.

I've seen it a few times. Few smaller independent shops around tourist zones. Two bills came out ... one for locals had no VAT when we got up to check. Tourist one had a VAT charge added. Yes there was signage tucked away in the corner.

When we asked for a VAT reciept none could be provided. So whilst it's a small charge it does leave a sour taste.

Furthermore the obligatory 10% service charge is wrong. What is this for ? If i get a buffet why should i continue to pay for a service charge.

Are the staff keeping this service charge? Or going straight to owner. I would like for any tip to go to hard working low paid front line staff.

JUST ADD THE FEES INTO THE MENU. It's the Americanisation of misleading a slightly cheaper menu.

I usually tip something in Thailand, whether it's for restaurant food or my Bolt taxi ride. I don't tip anything at the grocery store or at the convenience store. And yes, the tips often go into a pool to be divided among all the staff.

I guess it's just a matter of habit for me, as I'm from the US.

The whole touch screen thing has gotten out of control in the US. For example, you walk up to the counter in a fast food place to order some take out food. A sandwich, let's say. A place where you'd never usually tip, as they aren't doing anything other tan taking your order. They flip a screen around for you to pay, which includes several choices for tips, starting at 20%. And you're almost afraid not to tip, lest they sabotage your food. Although one place I used to go, Firehouse Subs, used to allow you to "round up" the payment to the nearest dollar, for a contribution to charity. I thought that was OK. A few extra cents for a good cause.

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1 hour ago, jas007 said:

used to allow you to "round up" the payment to the nearest dollar, for a contribution to charity. I thought that was OK. A few extra cents for a good cause.

How do u know it was for a good cause ?

3 minutes ago, PhilipHabib said:

How do u know it was for a good cause ?

I think they had the name of the charity posted, but at this time, I just don't remember. Anyway, they weren't making much, if it was a scam.

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2 hours ago, jas007 said:

I think they had the name of the charity posted, but at this time, I just don't remember. Anyway, they weren't making much, if it was a scam.

I've seen exactly the same thing many times where they spin the iPad touch screen your way and in bold text it asks for a tip or to round up to the nearest dollar.

Homie don't play that.

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16 minutes ago, PhilipHabib said:

I've seen exactly the same thing many times where they spin the iPad touch screen your way and in bold text it asks for a tip or to round up to the nearest dollar.

Homie don't play that.

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Are finances really that though Phillip?

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Just now, CallumWK said:

Are finances really that though Phillip?

It's more about principal , I was raised to work for my money

11 hours ago, Gottfrid said:

Today, a lot of losers, just feel the need to complain about everything possible on this planet! Just get a grip! All this complaining is ridiculous, and belongs in diaper stage of human evolution.

So are you saying that we shouldn't complain about ANYTHING? Or maybe that we should only complain about things that YOU don't like? After all, you are complaining about people complaining about something that is objectively unfair. What gives you the right to complain about other people complaining?

10 minutes ago, BangkokHank said:

So are you saying that we shouldn't complain about ANYTHING? Or maybe that we should only complain about things that YOU don't like? After all, you are complaining about people complaining about something that is objectively unfair. What gives you the right to complain about other people complaining?

Ok, then my answer must be, what gives you the right complain about people who complains about other people? 😂

12 hours ago, Screaming said:

People with the dreaded "Syndrome" seem to somehow bring up President Trump even concerning the subject of tipping. It really is a debilitating disease these people are inflicted with.

It's Americas love of forever wars that affect airport security, terrorist retaliation, ease of banking and world wide oil price increases (inflation on everything) that I was pointing to.

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