My Problem

[BEENTHEREDONETHAT]

Quit screwing around, get over here get the arrangements made to take her back to England with you. Being with her will make it easier to forget the past and learn to appreciate what you have now and the future you can have together.

[Globeliner]

i know, it's me in myhead thats the problem but w've been together for a year now and been married for 5 months but it's very clear to me that i will never be able to forget, so i know it's gunna be hard but i think i'm going to have to finish it because theres no point in staying in a relationship where were both not happy.

i wish the situation was different but as much as i love her and i know she does me, i'll always just see her as a prostitute, and thats no basis for a relationship.

22 years old, known each other for 'a year' married for '5 months'. Wow, You are way too young laddie for starters, how old is she by the way? If you've known her for a year, was that a year non-stop or were you in the UK the majority of the time? Just how long have you stayed together without you having to nip off back to Blighty?

[AlexLah]

Would you mind posting a few pictures, I find it a bit hard to believe the story, sorry.

Together for a year and married for 5 months so that makes 7 months that you know eachother and talked on the phone a few times in between you have been together.

If true please do not worrie, future will show if all OK or not.

Do not listen to all those that say would you ever marry a working girl in your own country, it cannot be compared.

If you are happy and she is happy just go and give it all you got.

Just do not take any BS like the buffalo, sister, brother, father, neighbour is sick, car broke down and stories like that.

Peace!

[britmaveric]

Past is the past - did she ask you how many women you have slept with??? Seriously need to grow up with your thinking mate. If she is with you and is good to you. You love her, and she loves you. There is no problem. Simple choice, get over it quickly or fk off.

[mikethevigoman]

i know, it's me in myhead thats the problem but w've been together for a year now and been married for 5 months but it's very clear to me that i will never be able to forget, so i know it's gunna be hard but i think i'm going to have to finish it because theres no point in staying in a relationship where were both not happy.

i wish the situation was different but as much as i love her and i know she does me, i'll always just see her as a prostitute, and thats no basis for a relationship.

I can hear it now " me no like young man "

[mikethevigoman]

cheers for the advice everyone,

i having been thinking alot about it, and i know i'm bieng a complete <deleted>, i've spoke to her aswell, and told her i'm going to try and put it out my mind, as she keeps telling me as many of you have said, the chances of actually finding a thai bargirl that is a good wife ie. doesn't fuc_k around, and ask for a shit load of money. are pretty fuc_kin slim, so i should be grateful.

other people don't help trying to fuc_k my head up saying things like you wouldn't marry a english prostitute so why marry a thai one?

but i appreciate all the comments, to the question about what is she doing to support her family now, basically due to her not working now, her fathers gone to work in bangkok and her mother started to sell fruit, while she takes care of her son at home. plus i left her 5000 baht before i came back to england last month and i'll probably send her 300 more soon but i'll be going back in about a month because she wants to do the whole buddhist ceremony thing.

any before everyone tell me about sin sot, we've already agreed the amount (£0)

cheers everyone

i actualy agree, it cant be easy now the dust has setled on the relationship and perhaps the novelty has worn off and he realises that he had married a bg and hes seen what type of men she has ( possibly ) been with before ,you need to be a special sort of person to marry and not worry about a bgs past, i wouldnt be for most,.to me they are for a bit of fun and put em back !.. involvement ? not likely

[old blighty]

i know, it's me in myhead thats the problem but w've been together for a year now and been married for 5 months but it's very clear to me that i will never be able to forget, so i know it's gunna be hard but i think i'm going to have to finish it because theres no point in staying in a relationship where were both not happy.

i wish the situation was different but as much as i love her and i know she does me, i'll always just see her as a prostitute, and thats no basis for a relationship.

22 years old, known each other for 'a year' married for '5 months'. Wow, You are way too young laddie for starters, how old is she by the way? If you've known her for a year, was that a year non-stop or were you in the UK the majority of the time? Just how long have you stayed together without you having to nip off back to Blighty?

Well known as she is, dear, for her tutelage of the young, Mrs. Blighty, does not deal in young laddies for starters, nor indeed plat principal. Services for the highest young noblemen are considered a duty, my dear, a duty. After all, their Grandfathers and Fathers have sworn allegiance to Mrs. Blighty’s House for so many years, dear, so many years.

Mrs. Blighty deals in discreet appointments only, dear, exceedingly discreet and one cannot “nip off” to her, in any sense whatsoever.

One thinks this Cookie has crumbled. Really, my dear, Baht 5000, Baht 3000!

The Burirum Ingénue, however, sounds more interesting, more approachable, and altogether more compassionate. Were she beauteous, my dear, were she beauteous, Mrs. Blighty would find the patience, dear, the patience and understanding to accommodate her. If only as an entrée……..

[lannarebirth]

Is it possible that you do not presently have the means to support a family and that frustration is leaking over into how you regard your wife? Putting a positive spin on things; had she not been doing what she previously did, you would never have met her.

[gampaan]

Well, grow up and accept responsibility for your own life. You married her. You married a whore, then give her shiite about being a whore ??? You knew what she did. Why not ask her before you get married how big a whore she is...?? What difference does it make now...?? The past is the past. Are you A Saintly Angel, clean and pure as the wind driven snow...? I doubt it...So grow a set and get over it.....sheeeeeesh....

[dr_Pat_Pong]

He has to be a troll. Or else he is a six pack short of a picnic.

[lazeeboy]

whats in the past is not your problem

[iegova]

but it's very clear to me that i will never be able to forget

You will be able to forget it completely. You are young and passionate, give it a few years - you won't rememeber a bit of it. Things change, you change too. You will be very different in 5 years time. And at 30 you won't be current "you" anymore. Trust me - such unimportant stuff won't mean anything to you in just few years time. Just don't think too much about it. Use your mind cycles on something else.