Making A Bargirl Into A Girlfriend/ Wife…

[rod_kalashnikov]

I just find your comments worthless, your opinion without value and your observations laughable and based on no personal experience.

Maybe thats just me? 

Believe me Wolfie... it's NOT just you....

Add me to the list!

[Harry Palmer]

I'll ask you again shitlips...

...by all accounts you're the one with the 'shitlips'... had to run away to the los to indulge in your perversions, did ya!

[Harry Palmer]

FTH- spot on - ENVY is the word that comes to mind. 

…envy, not at all. i find it quite sad & amusing that so many of you have found it necessary to shack up with bg's... but of course that is your prerogative, don’t flame me though because i don’t agree with the status-quo…

…one can only but come to the conclusion that many of you lack the social skills, presentation & personal hygiene required to find a partner in your home countries…

…don't try to make bg’s into something they are not. they are merely professional pleasers, and they will please your needs just so long as it suits them. most of them won't help you & when the time comes, after they've sucked you dry, they will just spit you out, often dramatically ... more often than not…

btw.. contrary to what the rumour may be, i am currently living & working in chang mai (that’s northern thailand to those of you who have never ventured outside of bkk)… i would be most happy to meet up for a drink the next time i’m in town… any takers?

[Totster]

don't try to make bg’s into something they are not. they are merely professional pleasers, and they will please your needs just so long as it suits them. most of them won't help you & when the time comes, after they've sucked you dry, they will just spit you out, often dramatically ... more often than not…

Ahhh.... the reassuring voice of experience....

Regarding this subject - when you know what you are talking about people may take you seriously...

Until then why don't you stay in the teaching forum where you supposedly do know what you are talking about.

totster

[mango]

I still find it totaly obserd that people take on a bar girl first as a "girlfriend" and then as a WIFE i mean who would honestly tell me they would marry a prostitute in there own country? thats what they are prostitutes. still seems it doesnt concern alot of people, you will never get any respect from socialy well standing Thai people for as long as you have your ex-prostitute wife on the end of your arm. hahah makes me laugh though, come to think of it i feel sick.

The first thing a prostitute does when she finds a man willing to look after her is to give up the sex goddess role and probably the charm too. Invariably, she makes the mistake of assuming the customer wanted to marry the real her, not the fantasy, despite the fact that he is only familiar with the fantasy. Then there is a dramatic change in appearance. Many of the girls use hormones to enhance their breasts, but doctors warn them not to continue for more than a year, because of the risk of cancer. Also there's not a whore in Bangkok who doesn't walk around in six-inch platform shoes. The return to reality can come as quite a shock: from tall, bosomy porn star to flat chested dwarf. No prostitutes do not make great wives as a rule.

from: John Burdett BANGKOK 8

[mango]

Posted: Tue 2004-09-28, 20:57:35

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Being a bg is just a job for most. Some ppl just has to do what they have to do. Especially in the this economy nowadays, u really cant be picky.

Sandy, can these girls not get jobs in coffee shops, 7 eleven, family mart, car wash, restaraunt, shop etc etc, YES they could but they are lazy and give the good Thai ladies a bad reputation amongst iggnorant farang who come here and asume that every thai femail is for sale, well they are not and that is why i feel strongly about it.

[britmaveric]

Dejavu again- sounds like erco reborn!

What fascinates me most is why those that protest so much care whether a lad takes a bg as a gf or wife?

[mango]

Because these give the GOOD Thai ladies a bad rep.

[britmaveric]

Mango I disagree- unlike you I don't lump all Thai ladies the same way, I judge them as individuals on a case by case basis. I know some very lovely thai ladies that happen to be bg(s). It's a profession- get off your high moral horse. If one wants to do this sort of work of free will then what right does anyone have to question their decision? I don't turn my nose up at what your profession might be nor should you at these ladies. Remember these ladies are people too.

[mango]

Brit i dont want to get in to a handbag fight but if you think that there is nothing strange with meeting someone to become your wife this way. would you tell your family friends, work colleages etc your wife used to be on the game?

[britmaveric]

Mango- infact yes if I loved a BG I would surely tell my reles/mates. I could give <deleted> all what anybody thinks. If you want to be trapped by other people perceptions surely you won't go far in this world.

[Totster]

would you tell your family friends, work colleages etc your wife used to be on the game?

I would have no problems telling friends / family.... but then I would hope they don't think like you... (narrow minded and willing to believe stereotypes)

I'm sure, unlike you, they would judge her character as is... not based on what she has done for a living in the past or on what they have heard.... of course some maybe a little cynical but hey ... up to them

And Mango.. remember this.. there are plenty of Thai women who have come from "good" backgrounds who have not worked as BG's that have scammed farangs out of every single penny... and are liars, lazy, want to sit in front of the TV all day....

totster

[mango]

Good for you and if you could honestly do that then thats great, as for me if i turned around and said to the Thai people at work that i had found my gf/wife in a bar, she used to be a hooker, i dont think i would do so well in the office. In general the good Thai people dislike bar girls as they dirty the rep of the people and their great country.

[mango]

as do the sex tourists politicans etc

[britmaveric]

Mango the funny thing is those good thai people in your office are probably at the Lady Bars picking up said BG(s). They just don't want to admit it!

BS- "most" thai people....dunno who you've been chatting with, but to be honest they could care less one way or the other. The old - "Up To You" phrase comes to mind.

[mango]

Mango the funny thing is those good thai people in your office are probably at the Lady Bars picking up said BG(s). They just don't want to admit it! 

sure they go to the spa and have a dirty massage but the dont get married to the whore

[Totster]

Mango the funny thing is those good thai people in your office are probably at the Lady Bars picking up said BG(s). They just don't want to admit it!

Or even part time BG's.....

totster

[britmaveric]

Maybe so Mango- but remember some of these Thai husbands are sending their wives out to work at the bar, so infact yes they did marry them! As you can see this isn't black/white - its solid grey. I know some lads married to former BG and they've been happily married for years without any problems. So for every horror story one hears there is an equally happy outcome.

[mango]

Mango the funny thing is those good thai people in your office are probably at the Lady Bars picking up said BG(s). They just don't want to admit it! 

Or even part time BG's.....

totster

toster i know for a fact there is no need for the girls who work in my company to become part time bg's, they are on a ###### of a good wage , easily comparible to the west.

[Wolfie]

Mango, who are you? your not a new member, i think you might be just a troll.

Hairy Palm, now there is a troll, all the attributes that our dear old eroc possesed and coming from the same region as the above mentioned (so he claims, his IP address tells me a COMPLETELY different story...)

Both share the same, narrow minded, biggoted opinions worthy of some neaderthol club baring caveman.

(apologise in advance for any typos, spelling errors or over all gramatical mistakes, in my text, tis late here in thailand, im sure its only late afernoon in Halifax)

[mango]

Mango, who are you? your not a new member, i think you might be just a troll.

Both share the same, narrow minded, biggoted opinions worthy of some neaderthol club baring caveman.

You think im a troll because of the fact i dont think prostitutes make good wives? ok

I was under the perception that this was a forum, a place to discuss, i did not know you could not disagree with people, or that if you did, the admin would get personal with you.

[Wolfie]

No im working on more scientific investigations than that, people disagree with me all the time... tis not a problem, sire.

[mango]

OK we will leave it at that, i think this thread should have been dead along time ago.

[drunken monkey]

. would you tell your family friends, work colleages etc your wife used to be on the game?

I did And we are still happy together.

dont judge a book by its cover

[britmaveric]

Wolfie- do have my suspicions too on multiple nicks? Have to love ip lookups they speak volumes!

[Harry Palmer]

Both share the same, narrow minded, biggoted opinions worthy of some neaderthol club baring caveman.

i suspect you say the same of everyone who disagrees with your opinions...

[mango]

I dont know who people think i am but i know i am just a little mango in the big mango

[britmaveric]

Paranoid Harry?

[Harry Palmer]

Paranoid Harry?

why... should i be?

[Totster]

Paranoid Harry?