I Got Home

[Jockstar]

I got home ;last night from work. My missus was like. Why you keep film with your ex?

So lets put it straight. My pics of my ex are in the uk. We have bern together for a year , So because she decided to clear up. I'm a bad bastard for haveing these Negative of my ex. What the ######? Has anyone else had this problem? I have done nothing wrong. I dont want to be with my ex. But my mrs has neverv done this before

[meom]

Don't worrie mate, she'll get over it. As long as you don't have your ex's name tattood on your butt you'll be allright.

[siamruby]

Yes I know someone who has this problem, my partner! We have been living together for 4 yrs but he still has pics of some of his ex from Los. Why he keeps those pics? apparently, he said it was just a memory. But I can tell you that it is hurtful and annoying. Why he wants to keep pics of his ex, especially one of them was a bg who was conning him money. I don't mind so much about the other one who he said she was nice as long as the pics being kept well out of my sight. ( The bin might be a good place to keep them! )

I wonder if your wife keeps any pics of her ex? I bet she doesn't, nor am I. But why men keep them?

[meom]

Yes I know someone who has this problem, my partner!   We have been living together for 4 yrs but he still has pics of some of his ex from Los. Why he keeps those pics? apparently, he said it was just a memory. But I can tell you that it is hurtful and annoying. Why he wants to keep pics of his ex, especially one of them was a bg who was conning him money. I don't mind so much about the other one who he said she was nice as long as the pics being kept well out of my sight. ( The bin might be a good place to keep them! )

 

I wonder if your wife keeps any pics of her ex? I bet she doesn't, nor am I. But why men keep them?

Us men can be like dogs. It's like marking the pissing ground. I ain't no psychologist but for sure it's a territorial thing.

[siamruby]

Hey, Meom you have just given me a logical answer too. To us girls that is it,it s a territorial thing. It goes like this ,it is my house ,it s my bedroom and the most important thing this is my man. So no other girl allowed here not even their pics!!

[meom]

Hey, Meom you have just given me a logical answer too. To us girls that is it,it s a territorial thing. It goes like this ,it is my house ,it s my bedroom and the most important thing this is my man. So no other girl allowed here not even their pics!!

Your right. He'll understand.

[medicinebox]

It's just a jealousy thing. She's jealous.

Try to picture her with other men, doing the do.

Then think on this.

She has thousands of her own xxx rated pics in her head. Real memories of things that she really did. She can recall them at any given time. Even as she sleeps with you she may be looking at her xxx rated photo album in her memory. She may even get them out when you're not there and use them for her own pleasure.

So it's just the same really, only your pics are material, and hers are stored.

That's not to say you don't have your own memory xxx gallery too.

Hope you're feeling better now.

[BoomBoom]

U shouldnt keep pic of anyone or anything imo, live for the moment, its what lifes about?

[sua yai]

Had this issue with the current g/f of one year.

We moved house 5 months ago and she was jarred off because there were loads of photos of the ex Thai g/f. (9 years).

Compromise reached - these photos are filed in a drawer and never, ever looked at. She brought photos of her ex farang b/f round so I could see them and they're now consigned to her sister's house, never, ever to be looked at again.

It's all part of her life and mine. The offending photos, from both of us, cause no offence any more. SIMPLE.

[Jockstar]

Basically the negatives are here because i took the pics back to the Uk . I split up with ex when i was back in the Uk. So i left the pics behind. The negatives were left here because ther was no need to take them back. Anyway its not only pics of the ex that are there. Theres many friends and things from school. Just so happened the ones she looked at had the ex in. I have no desire to be with the ex. I'm happy with gf now. This just really got my back up. These pics/negatives are memories. Its my life in these pics. i never through away photos.

[sua yai]

Well said Jockstar.

I never throw photos away either.

A lot depends on the new person you're with. If they can accept that you've had a past, as they have, then there should be no problem.

It's nevertheless very rude to bring the photos/memories up to your new partner, especially in company.

Let sleeping dogs lie.

Jealously is a big thing. I had a set of photos of my brother's wedding in the UK. Before I came over, I carefully selected the ones I wanted to bring, without any images of a girl I was with for 5 years.

I missed one. The Thai g/f was really upset. Tore the photos to ######. It was easy to spot the old g/f. She was Jamacian.

[siamruby]

I missed one. The Thai g/f was really upset. Tore the photos to ######. It was easy to spot the old g/f. She was Jamacian.

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I will never touched his personal belonging especially pics, so I didn't tear the pics to#### .But I had a way of (calmly) talking about them so much so that he felt so guilty and burnt the pics in the garden, unfortunately...in my favorite planter which was not fireproof so it broke into bits ..He said sorry about the planter but I am not convinced

[sua yai]

why on earth should he feel guilty about having had a girlfriend/wife before? To make someone so down as to burn their memories seems a tad harsh.

[siamruby]

why on earth should he feel guilty about having had a girlfriend/wife before? To make someone so down as to burn their memories seems a tad harsh.

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Well, I didn't really make him do so, he did it out of guilt. There were the pics of the bg girl who conned his money when he was in LOS. He always said that he hated her so much, yes hate her enough to dump her on the morning of their wedding day in LOS!! It was a long story between him and her but what he told me about her made me hate her too so why keep the pics of someone you hate who threated you so bad and we both hate so much?? and well another pics may be was another bg he slept with when he went to LOS alone after we were planning to get married!!! so no need to keep them as a memory of him being unfaithful!!

Oh by the way calling the word harsh don't really apply to me. After all, how many time your partner let you go off on your own to Pattaya alone for a whole week with your best mate? Everyone thought I was nut! As I did that twice now and I just told him to take condoms which he bloody obey everytime I caught him being unfaithful in Uk too and he lives in my house..(yes my farang partner rely on me this Thai woman!!).. What did I do to him? nothing, swore at him a few time and afterward asked him if he wanted a cup coffee darling! Why didn't I throw him out? love and forgiveness and being too soft..that is according to his own word.

[Superfly]

My wife went apeshit when she found photo albums that contained pictures of ex-girlfriends. They weren't prominately displayed, but she sought them out and found them.

I refuse to throw them away because they are memories or the last 10 years of my life. Who I am today has been shaped by everybody I have known and by former girlfriends to an even greater extent. I am grateful to those girls who have shared so much with me and there is no way somebody who comes after them who had nothing to do with us at the time is going to dictate to me that I should destroy or thow away these memories.

By being a couple in the first place, it means that there is somethhing about that person that you liked and respected. Just because you aren't having sex with that person anymore doesn't mean that that person doesn't have those qualities anymore.

As long as the photos are not paraded around or placed in a prominent place, I don't think anyone has the right to have them destroyed. Good luck getting that sentiment through to a Thai woman though.

[Jockstar]

My wife went apeshit when she found photo albums that contained pictures of ex-girlfriends. They weren't prominately displayed, but she sought them out and found them.

I refuse to throw them away because they are memories or the last 10 years of my life. Who I am today has been shaped by everybody I have known and by former girlfriends to an even greater extent. I am grateful to those girls who have shared so much with me and there is no way somebody who comes after them who had nothing to do with us at the time is going to dictate to me that I should destroy or thow away these memories.

By being a couple in the first place, it means that there is somethhing about that person that you liked and respected. Just because you aren't having sex with that person anymore doesn't mean that that person doesn't have those qualities anymore.

As long as the photos are not paraded around or placed in a prominent place, I don't think anyone has the right to have them destroyed.  Good luck getting that sentiment through to a Thai woman though. 

Well said.

[marquess]

I had a slight problem with my wife of four years when she saw a picture of my ex in my wallet. I explained that I had seen the girl in a dream before I met her and could never throw away the photo. I do have picture of the wife in my wallet too. Took her a long time for her to understand, as I was constantly being accused of wanting to get back with the ex.

[Jockstar]

Women are strange creatures.

[Boh Bpen Yang]

I tend to agree with medicinebox on this. It only takes a spark to start a forest fire in the imagination. People tend to assume that others think similar to their own thoughts.

So the spark is...what are you thinking because I know what I'm thinking. One big hairy, sweaty body and one small, sweaty body meshed together in a burlesque of sexual heat.

Yep, a hard thought to be comfortable with.

[Monsterman]

Women are strange creatures.

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JING JING

[Abandon]

If his ex is 6 feet 4 and called dave then she has a point.

[Jockstar]

She was being stupid. As i have said she had never done anything like this before. This was only days before i bought her an engagement ring. Anyway i've told her that i wont throw away these negs. I also found out she had taken some pills for her upset stomach and had also had 2 beers. So looking back. I tjink she was more pissed than pissed off.

As i said before. Woman are strange creatures. They look cute but are wired wrong.