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Jai Dee · February 24, 2005

note the word once.....
and it hasnt happened in 2 years

I'm not saying that I condone violence DD, but maybe you served out the right type of medicine to treat the symptoms.

devildog683 · February 24, 2005

note the word once.....
and it hasnt happened in 2 years

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I'm not saying that I condone violence DD, but maybe you served out the right type of medicine to treat the symptoms.

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you gotta be able to do that, thats for sure. I just keep telling her i love her and how much i care and she cant reallly get negative after that

lampard10 · February 24, 2005

[.. my teeruk doesn't have a violent bone in her body.

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What chance do I have? Even our two Rottweilers are sh1t scared of my better half.

Doctor John · February 24, 2005

You should talk to your wife, if you are serious about this.. Tell her again you are sorry, you realize what you did is wrong, and you'll never do it again (Again, if this is the situation you find yourself in.. oh, and you don't have to approach this as groveling.. just be a man about it). Then tell her, you won't put up with being hit again either. Ever. However long that takes to come to that understanding, you then agree to never bring this up again... it's over. Then start working on building trust and respect.

cheers

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And if that don't work, slap some sense into her!!

Torphun · February 24, 2005

Doc.... you now know who my wife is..... you have probably heard the village gossip about these events...... God knows how bad that must be....... it's gone from bad to worse and now involves black magic, white magic and now I know what the term pussywipped into insanity means.

I should have followed your advice..... but at least I only got my fingers burnt and learn't a valuable lesson before it went too far.

Boon Mee · February 24, 2005

detached penis.

Drifting over Thailand attached to a helium filled balloon

Or more likely fed to the duck...

Jai Dee · February 24, 2005

...now I know what the term pussywipped into insanity means.

Classic!!!

And that's a great avatar Torphun.

Doctor John · February 24, 2005

Doc.... you now know who my wife is..... you have probably heard the village gossip about these events...... God knows how bad that must be....... it's gone from bad to worse and now involves black magic, white magic and now I know what the term pussywipped into insanity means.
I should have followed your advice..... but at least I only got my fingers burnt and learn't a valuable lesson before it went too far.

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Hmmm, not sure about the Gossip part, I will make enquiries tonight.

Don't worry about it too much mate, when I come back we will go out to the Lake and have a few to wet the babies head. If you are allowed to leave the premises that is.

Torphun · February 24, 2005

...now I know what the term pussywipped into insanity means.

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Classic!!!

And that's a great avatar Torphun.

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yeah I wonder how long I will be allowed to use it....

Torphun · February 24, 2005

Doc.... you now know who my wife is..... you have probably heard the village gossip about these events...... God knows how bad that must be....... it's gone from bad to worse and now involves black magic, white magic and now I know what the term pussywipped into insanity means.
I should have followed your advice..... but at least I only got my fingers burnt and learn't a valuable lesson before it went too far.

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Hmmm, not sure about the Gossip part, I will make enquiries tonight.

Don't worry about it too much mate, when I come back we will go out to the Lake and have a few to wet the babies head. If you are allowed to leave the premises that is.

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thanks... I'm going to need a few....... you see the family have thought I have not been myself lately...what ever that means and mum went to see the village witch doctor and he went into a trance and had a good laugh and then said that the girl in question had used black magic on me and half my body was already taken by her...... so now they have insisted I go and get some white magic done to counter the black magic........ beam me up Scotty ......... this could be a good excuse for infidelity if you wanted....... "she put a spell on me dear"...... puts new meaning on "the devil made me do it"

dr_Pat_Pong · February 24, 2005

...now I know what the term pussywipped into insanity means.

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Classic!!!

And that's a great avatar Torphun.

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yeah I wonder how long I will be allowed to use it....

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About 30 mins more. You have already been asked to change it.

bodypaul · February 24, 2005

Two things that blokes do that puts us in the described situation:

1. Get caught.

2. Confess.

The second being the most stupid self inflicted situation to get in.

NarrLing · February 24, 2005

Torphun, the more I read your replies and learn of your situation, the more my bad memories keep coming back. You’re going through a nearly identical step by step scenario to the one I suffered and mentioned earlier.

Violence, village gossip, the local witch doctor, restrictions of movement. That’s just the start. It will just continue and worsen. Your little indiscretion was just an excuse for her to exert more control over you. It's more than jealousy.

Take the advice of someone who suffered years of this, cut your losses and run.

Life’s too short to put up with the mind games she’s playing on you.

NL

2 satang · February 24, 2005

My song saitang

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He! thats close to my boardname !

Anyway, shouting, fighting and walking out.......

Anybody been treated to the famous Thai womens' "silent treatment" ?????

Thats even worse, cos sometimes you just dont even know why.....

just my 2 satang

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They are sharp PM me for loans.....

Just my 2 satang

Torphun · February 24, 2005

...now I know what the term pussywipped into insanity means.

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Classic!!!

And that's a great avatar Torphun.

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yeah I wonder how long I will be allowed to use it....

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About 30 mins more. You have already been asked to change it.

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ok Doc how about this one??..... at least it's just as tasty as the last one

toastwars · February 24, 2005

Remember watching some sort of "sexy" show at Forte with my ex-g/f. While it was on I touched her arse.
She said "you think about other girl?" then slapped me, in public.

I walked out the club, she came running after me apologising. Told her if you ever slap me again, pack up your stuff and leave.

She tried her best, but she's well gone now

good on yer laa! If it's not ok for us to hit girls then it's not ok for them to hit us.

Phil Conners · February 24, 2005

My wife mentions there is a Thai proverb: "fighting couples have many children".

Figure it out

Torphun · February 24, 2005

My wife mentions there is a Thai proverb: "fighting couples have many children".
Figure it out

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oh sh*t!!!

we already have one and there is talk of more.

might go and get a snip and keep it quiet

toastwars · February 24, 2005

My wife mentions there is a Thai proverb: "fighting couples have many children".
Figure it out

oh sh*t!!!

we already have one and there is talk of more.

might go and get a snip and keep it quiet

Then you will have to put up with all her mothers and aunts making you drink foul potions and rubbing strange lotions and unguants into your old fella in an attempt to sort out your "problem"

Torphun · February 24, 2005

Torphun, the more I read your replies and learn of your situation, the more my bad memories keep coming back. You’re going through a nearly identical step by step scenario to the one I suffered and mentioned earlier.
Violence, village gossip, the local witch doctor, restrictions of movement. That’s just the start. It will just continue and worsen. Your little indiscretion was just an excuse for her to exert more control over you. It's more than jealousy.

Take the advice of someone who suffered years of this, cut your losses and run.

Life’s too short to put up with the mind games she’s playing on you.

NL

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Thanks for taking the time to give me your advice.

My wife and I have been together for 2 years and this is the first time she has shown this sort of behaviour.

She is so very sorry for what she had done.... we both are..... she knows she went way to far.

We have a little 2 month old baby........ this did put a strain on our relationship.

It did take me quite awhile to settle into the role of being a dad again, which was not helped by the cutural differences like the 9 day Yu Fi ceremony when the baby and mother came home.

Now there is no way that I could be apart from our little baby girl and my wife and I are determind to have a successful realtionship and to put this all behind us.

We have both learnt a lot from this and I am sure that we will have a happy life together.

Thanks again

lampard10 · February 24, 2005

...now I know what the term pussywipped into insanity means.

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Classic!!!

And that's a great avatar Torphun.

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yeah I wonder how long I will be allowed to use it....

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About 30 mins more. You have already been asked to change it.

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What is it?

maikee · February 24, 2005

Torphun, the more I read your replies and learn of your situation, the more my bad memories keep coming back. You’re going through a nearly identical step by step scenario to the one I suffered and mentioned earlier.
Violence, village gossip, the local witch doctor, restrictions of movement. That’s just the start. It will just continue and worsen. Your little indiscretion was just an excuse for her to exert more control over you. It's more than jealousy.

Take the advice of someone who suffered years of this, cut your losses and run.

Life’s too short to put up with the mind games she’s playing on you.

NL

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Thanks for taking the time to give me your advice.

My wife and I have been together for 2 years and this is the first time she has shown this sort of behaviour.

She is so very sorry for what she had done.... we both are..... she knows she went way to far.

We have a little 2 month old baby........ this did put a strain on our relationship.

It did take me quite awhile to settle into the role of being a dad again, which was not helped by the cutural differences like the 9 day Yu Fi ceremony when the baby and mother came home.

Now there is no way that I could be apart from our little baby girl and my wife and I are determind to have a successful realtionship and to put this all behind us.

We have both learnt a lot from this and I am sure that we will have a happy life together.

Thanks again

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Torphunl.... hey mate.... are you sure you are thanking the right person.... I am advocating you staying together (if you love your wife... which it seems you do.and your 2 month old baby... congrats .

Mr. Narrling wants you to cut your losses and get the ###### out of dodge (read the reply).

Good luck on ya mate.

Take care

Torphun · February 24, 2005

Torphun, the more I read your replies and learn of your situation, the more my bad memories keep coming back. You’re going through a nearly identical step by step scenario to the one I suffered and mentioned earlier.
Violence, village gossip, the local witch doctor, restrictions of movement. That’s just the start. It will just continue and worsen. Your little indiscretion was just an excuse for her to exert more control over you. It's more than jealousy.

Take the advice of someone who suffered years of this, cut your losses and run.

Life’s too short to put up with the mind games she’s playing on you.

NL

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Thanks for taking the time to give me your advice.

My wife and I have been together for 2 years and this is the first time she has shown this sort of behaviour.

She is so very sorry for what she had done.... we both are..... she knows she went way to far.

We have a little 2 month old baby........ this did put a strain on our relationship.

It did take me quite awhile to settle into the role of being a dad again, which was not helped by the cutural differences like the 9 day Yu Fi ceremony when the baby and mother came home.

Now there is no way that I could be apart from our little baby girl and my wife and I are determind to have a successful realtionship and to put this all behind us.

We have both learnt a lot from this and I am sure that we will have a happy life together.

Thanks again

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Torphunl.... hey mate.... are you sure you are thanking the right person.... I am advocating you staying together (if you love your wife... which it seems you do.and your 2 month old baby... congrats .

Mr. Narrling wants you to cut your losses and get the ###### out of dodge (read the reply).

Good luck on ya mate.

Take care

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thanks mate........ just being polite in my earlier reply and thanking him for writing even though I will not do what he suggested.

Torphun · February 24, 2005

...now I know what the term pussywipped into insanity means.

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Classic!!!

And that's a great avatar Torphun.

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yeah I wonder how long I will be allowed to use it....

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About 30 mins more. You have already been asked to change it.

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What is it?

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you can see it here....

http://www.lyrics.co.nz/av-12737.gif

she looks like one of the Corrs........

NarrLing · February 24, 2005

Torphun, all the best mate.

On reflection, all situations are different. It looks like you and your wife are prepared to make a go of it. That’s great. I wish you all the best.

Cheers

NL

dr_Pat_Pong · February 24, 2005

...now I know what the term pussywipped into insanity means.

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Classic!!!

And that's a great avatar Torphun.

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yeah I wonder how long I will be allowed to use it....

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About 30 mins more. You have already been asked to change it.

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Thank you.

batman4you · March 13, 2005

I'm not sure if we can talk about this here but I'll give it a go......
Many of us have experienced the violent behaviour that some TG's have..... i.e. from trashing apartments to us getting punched, slapped or even worse.......

I have never been unfaithful to my wife but a few days ago I did something I should not have..... to cut a long story short.... I kissed a girl. I did not go as far as sleeping with her but it would have eventually happened.

My wife found out about it and the sh*t really hit the fan.

We had an all day long argument during which I apologized profusely but it ended with her lossing control after which I was sporting some bruises from being slapped, punched, kicked and bitten..... the only thing I could do was just try and hold her arms to stop her.

She eventually calmed down a little and I went into our bedroom to give her some space.

A few minutes later she followed me in and I thought .... oh no here we go again she wants another round! but to my surprise she "jumped my bones" and we had the best all night sex that both of us had ever ever had in our lives..... I'll spare you the details....

When we talked about it the next day, my wife said she could not explain why she became so "incredibly horny"......... I can't help think that the violence she dished out must have been like foreplay for her.

Have any of you guys had experiences like this with your G/F?

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batman4you · March 13, 2005

I'm not sure if we can talk about this here but I'll give it a go......
Many of us have experienced the violent behaviour that some TG's have..... i.e. from trashing apartments to us getting punched, slapped or even worse.......

I have never been unfaithful to my wife but a few days ago I did something I should not have..... to cut a long story short.... I kissed a girl. I did not go as far as sleeping with her but it would have eventually happened.

My wife found out about it and the sh*t really hit the fan.

We had an all day long argument during which I apologized profusely but it ended with her lossing control after which I was sporting some bruises from being slapped, punched, kicked and bitten..... the only thing I could do was just try and hold her arms to stop her.

She eventually calmed down a little and I went into our bedroom to give her some space.

A few minutes later she followed me in and I thought .... oh no here we go again she wants another round! but to my surprise she "jumped my bones" and we had the best all night sex that both of us had ever ever had in our lives..... I'll spare you the details....

When we talked about it the next day, my wife said she could not explain why she became so "incredibly horny"......... I can't help think that the violence she dished out must have been like foreplay for her.

Have any of you guys had experiences like this with your G/F?

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toastwars · March 13, 2005

I think Batman4you is having a little trouble, you are kind of meant to actually make a comment on the post you quote, we have read it before so not a lot of point just reposting it without adding anything

Kerryd · March 13, 2005

I think Batman4you is having a little trouble, you are kind of meant to actually make a comment on the post you quote, we have read it before so not a lot of point just reposting it without adding anything

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I've seen this happen in a couple of different threads (not by the same person). Even if you don't add anything to the thread, it increases your "Total Posts".

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