Insulting A Man Is A Crime?

[Millard]

I wouldn't set foot in that place again. I would instruct everyone of your crew to do the same.

It's not worth the hassle.

Going back to the restaurant is no longer an option. If the cook, owner or whomever the man is knows a patron is from the OP's company, the food will likely be tainted. Or the man may even get violent.

[sbk]

off topic posts deleted. flames deleted or edited out

keep it civil, cheers

[Roachiebkk]

The guy just went off his tree. When he came to the office with the wallopers I did try to convince him that this was just silly and to go back to his restaurant and let's all move on. He really was quite violent towards the girl considering she was just complaining because she only got half an egg on her kapow and they wanted 40 baht! Outrageous.

[Roachiebkk]

>I found out that one of the girls commented on the service of the restaurant, the guy reacted and she told him that 'his

>business will suffer if he continues like this'

@Disambiguated.........You are kidding right? I've been here long enough to know what goes on. not on a 15 day visa to sit around beer bars in Pattaya lol. The guy showed profound respect towards me and repeated that he had no problem with me and my staff that all he wanted was his apology. If he had settled it without the BiBs then we'd all happily go back but coming to our place of business and one of the largest employers in this area with police trying to drag out a girl who just voiced her dissatisfaction for the service rendered is a joke. If he'd made any violent move towards her I certainly would have given him the smack he deserved. I am quite well known by the BiBs for standing up to them but know how far to go. But thanks for your advice lol (apologise ha ha ha ha)

[Roachiebkk]

>I found out that one of the girls commented on the service of the restaurant, the guy reacted and she told him that 'his

>business will suffer if he continues like this'

In Asian cultures in general, oblique remarks such as this (assuming this is a literal translation of what she said) are invariably interpreted as threats - and since the instigator is Asian herself, I've no doubt at all that she meant it as such.

Yes, it's ridiculous by Western standards, but this isn't the West. It was incredibly unwise of you to jump to the conclusion that the Bright Young Thing on your staff was in the right; now the local police will have you in their sights due to the loss of face caused by the insincere apology and gratuitous expletive, not to mention the disrespect for an elder in front of a lot of witnesses inside their police station, causing further loss of face for the police due to their failure to control the situation and assure a favorable outcome.

The cook and his extended family/tribe/clan will also have you, your business associates, the girl, and her family in their sights, due to the (from their perspective) outrageous loss of face caused by her behavior and defiance.

And given the fact that the girl is native to the culture and understands all of the above full-well, my guess is that she's a typical lakorn-imitating, wannabe-hi-so arrogant little snob who thinks she's better than anyone else and that the magic farang will get her out of trouble no matter what she does, and that instead of politely and reasonably expressing her desire for a different preparation of her food, she was probably rude and disrespectful in the extreme to the cook, thus provoking him in the first place.

My very strong advice to you is to apologize to the cook and his family for your staff 'causing trouble'; fire the girl in question for her poor judgment and unnecessarily getting you into a difficult situation; apologize to the specific police officers who served the complaint; apologize to the local highest on-site police official; and in future, avoiding any and all internecine disputes of any nature amongst Thais.

This was not a work-related matter, and you have demonstrated extremely poor judgment and a basic lack of understanding of Asian culture by involving yourself in this situation, and by doing so have put your livelihood, the livelihoods of your business partners, and the employment security of your employees at risk. Given your apparently total lack of understanding of Asian culture in general and Thai culture in particular, you should probably reconsider whether it is wise for you to continue to work and live in this region.

Understand something - people get killed, building get burnt down, etc. over stuff like this every day in Thailand. And the enabling farang is going to be the primary designated hate object for all those people listed above who will believe that they have lost face as a result of your employee's irredentist behavior.

I agree with you. Perhaps there is more to this than the sweet young thing admits too. Now adays in Thailand there are getting to be more and more young women that are just plain trouble.The fact she told him to f#@ off and walked away is a sign to me she could perhaps be the problem,she wants the last word just to be the winner. In these times the young women arenot afraid to try tricks and manipulate.Who knows what led up to arguement in the restaurant. There could be a lot more to it than said. Maybe she was making demands of him or his restaurant and he wouldnot agree to her demands so she threatens him with loss of business. We only know the story from one veiw point and one side of the event. Who knows what happened prior and if many things were left out in the explanations to the boss.

Fire her and let the rest of the staff know that in the vicinity of the business give people respect or look for anotherjob.

Sorry....where did I ever say she told him to F%$$ off? She i actually a professional in her job not some bargirl touting for tips. She merely complained about the food without yelling and screaming, he started the yelling. And the guy who posted that we should all go and apologise to the man, his family and his staff....AND buy flowers, AND!!!! sack this highly trained and paid professional! Laugh. She wasn't trying to trick or manipulate anyone, she just wanted her lunch <deleted>! What a joke you surely must be trying to get a rise out of this.

[Roachiebkk]

so she told him to f*** off and left the building.

Sounds like a girl I might like to know.....is she cute ??

Same thing occurred to me as well.... ....OP please post picture of said culprit...:jap:

Absolutely but wouldn't want to p*** her off

[Roachiebkk]

It sounds as if that young girl in question really does require some lessons in respect and diplomacy, especially after telling the guy to F/off . Appears that she is a type upstart with attitude who believes she knows it all.

The fact that this girl was still using her phone indicates that she has a bad attitude problem.

It must have been quite serious if the owner felt that the police needed to be called, because with most Thai people involving the police in anyrhing is usually an absolute last resort.

The girl employee's heavy handed approach regarding the restaurant staff actually got her employer involved with the police which surely cannot be beneficial for the company.

What she should have done is paid her bill, walked out, then mentioned to the rest of the staff her opinions about that restaurant and began taking her lunch breaks elsewhere from then on.

If it had been one of my staff having involved my company with her attitude problem and arguments, she would have been sacked on the spot.

Actually she told him to f&^% off after the BiB forced her to apologise. They also made him and her to pay 100 baht fine. She was using her iphone as an act of defiance whilst apologising at the police station. I saw the whole thing and she neither instigated or inflamed the situation apart from complaining about her food and the service. I'm certainly not 'sacking' a highly respected professional over a plate of gristle and grass. Some of you guys show your own macho attitude towards 'uppity' women. How dare they speak up to a man, this is INSULTATION!

[Soutpeel]

Some of you guys show your own macho attitude towards 'uppity' women. How dare they speak up to a man, this is INSULTATION!

Dont believe its a case of being macho, but more of a case of trying to play the old colonist, and they are sh*t scared of "uppity women" and want a woman to bow down to them and grovel while they are playing the "Bwana"....

[Payboy]

considering she was just complaining because she only got half an egg on her kapow and they wanted 40 baht

Don't want to sound flippant, but that's the norm since they started selling those by the kilo.

[mario299]

Wow...all this over 40 baht and half an egg.....Highly trained and highly paid professionals, huh?

Chok dee

mario299

[lovelomsak]

It sounds as if that young girl in question really does require some lessons in respect and diplomacy, especially after telling the guy to F/off . Appears that she is a type upstart with attitude who believes she knows it all.

The fact that this girl was still using her phone indicates that she has a bad attitude problem.

It must have been quite serious if the owner felt that the police needed to be called, because with most Thai people involving the police in anyrhing is usually an absolute last resort.

The girl employee's heavy handed approach regarding the restaurant staff actually got her employer involved with the police which surely cannot be beneficial for the company.

What she should have done is paid her bill, walked out, then mentioned to the rest of the staff her opinions about that restaurant and began taking her lunch breaks elsewhere from then on.

If it had been one of my staff having involved my company with her attitude problem and arguments, she would have been sacked on the spot.

Actually she told him to f&^% off after the BiB forced her to apologise. They also made him and her to pay 100 baht fine. She was using her iphone as an act of defiance whilst apologising at the police station. I saw the whole thing and she neither instigated or inflamed the situation apart from complaining about her food and the service. I'm certainly not 'sacking' a highly respected professional over a plate of gristle and grass. Some of you guys show your own macho attitude towards 'uppity' women. How dare they speak up to a man, this is INSULTATION!

Face reality she is trouble with a capital T. Cooks stay in the kitchen unless called out. I donot beilieve this story it was over half an egg. Who would call out a cook and belittle him in his own business over half an egg. Also if she is a professional as you state she should know professional ethics.

You know it we know it she was the perpetrator and started the whole thing,but cannot stand to be corrected. And all that was required to settle the situation was a simple apology.

You contradict yourself in post 64. First you state"showed profound respect for me and my staff all he wanted was an apology". Further on you state"if he made any violent moves toward her I would have given him the smack he deserved" Why would you think a man giving profound respect would get violent? Perhaps you are prone to violence to settle things and was disappointed you couldnot do it this time. Or did you just want to be judge and jury.

Post 65 you state "sorry...where did I say she told him to f%^&off" Then in post 67 "she told him to f^&*off" A little contradictory yes. It was also stated in oringinal post 1.

Denial is a great thing and both you and her are denying the real probem.She is the problem not him.

If someone came in your business after doing business with you and said to your staff stop what you are doing I will tell you what to do and how to do from now on. Your boss is doing it wrong and soon none of you will have work because of it. Would you walk up to that person and say oh thank you so much I am so stupid I canot run my own business please let me bow to your superiority.

Edited May 17, 2011 by lovelomsak

[slapout]

Younger people tend to adopt a attitude similar to a popular T shirt which is being sold here, the printed message is "I am f..king special" This and the tendency of the young to try to shock the older folks (perceived establishment) can lead to outright conflict. The western countries have been experiencing rebellion, as it is called, for decades and many young Thai's are trying to adapt/copy what they hear and see in today's shrinking world of the internet, movies, etc, and this comes as a shock to some of the older generation.

It really sounds like all parties involved have over reacted to a relative minor incident. Without knowing what exactly was said, expressions, body language, etc, the only thing that is evident is that three people appear to be trying to gain support for their position (police, co workers, TV members), instead of working out their problems with those involved, one on one.

[Rhys]

Hmmm.. walk away.. find another place..watch your back...do you really feel.. this man's PRIDE has taken a hit..and he will not try to return to his former glory..

[Nawtier]

Offer to buy his restaurant and up the egg quota to 1 egg.

Oh and by the way...whoever said half an egg is the norm now..........never had that yet...even since the egg by weigh fiasco

[jimbeam1]

Well, the cook was probably claiming some sort of loss of business under slander/defamation laws, but.......

After an argument like that I wouldn't eat there again because you never know what might end up in the soup.

More likely loss of face.

Yep as simple as that.

jb1

[Tonto21]

No wonder the poor old Thais won’t say bugger all………on anyissue, the fear of being taken to book along with the whole face saving thing.It’s not surprise the murder rate is so high…….”Don’t get mad, get even”,forget hit-men, any village anywhere in Thailand, , some poor old boy having toeat shit from some local Muppet, and only able to smile back all week. But comeFriday, Saturday night with a belly full of Lawkhaw and a very sharp machete,the glove come off….so to speak.

‘Alcohol the great social lubricant’

[Tonto21]

sorry....dubben post.

Edited May 17, 2011 by Tonto21

[Millard]

Wow...all this over 40 baht and half an egg.....Highly trained and highly paid professionals, huh?

Chok dee

mario299

I believe this thread is about the principle of things, not baht or eggs.

[Roachiebkk]

It sounds as if that young girl in question really does require some lessons in respect and diplomacy, especially after telling the guy to F/off . Appears that she is a type upstart with attitude who believes she knows it all.

The fact that this girl was still using her phone indicates that she has a bad attitude problem.

It must have been quite serious if the owner felt that the police needed to be called, because with most Thai people involving the police in anyrhing is usually an absolute last resort.

The girl employee's heavy handed approach regarding the restaurant staff actually got her employer involved with the police which surely cannot be beneficial for the company.

What she should have done is paid her bill, walked out, then mentioned to the rest of the staff her opinions about that restaurant and began taking her lunch breaks elsewhere from then on.

If it had been one of my staff having involved my company with her attitude problem and arguments, she would have been sacked on the spot.

Actually she told him to f&^% off after the BiB forced her to apologise. They also made him and her to pay 100 baht fine. She was using her iphone as an act of defiance whilst apologising at the police station. I saw the whole thing and she neither instigated or inflamed the situation apart from complaining about her food and the service. I'm certainly not 'sacking' a highly respected professional over a plate of gristle and grass. Some of you guys show your own macho attitude towards 'uppity' women. How dare they speak up to a man, this is INSULTATION!

Face reality she is trouble with a capital T. Cooks stay in the kitchen unless called out. I donot beilieve this story it was over half an egg. Who would call out a cook and belittle him in his own business over half an egg. Also if she is a professional as you state she should know professional ethics.

You know it we know it she was the perpetrator and started the whole thing,but cannot stand to be corrected. And all that was required to settle the situation was a simple apology.

You contradict yourself in post 64. First you state"showed profound respect for me and my staff all he wanted was an apology". Further on you state"if he made any violent moves toward her I would have given him the smack he deserved" Why would you think a man giving profound respect would get violent? Perhaps you are prone to violence to settle things and was disappointed you couldnot do it this time. Or did you just want to be judge and jury.

Post 65 you state "sorry...where did I say she told him to f%^&off" Then in post 67 "she told him to f^&*off" A little contradictory yes. It was also stated in oringinal post 1.

Denial is a great thing and both you and her are denying the real probem.She is the problem not him.

If someone came in your business after doing business with you and said to your staff stop what you are doing I will tell you what to do and how to do from now on. Your boss is doing it wrong and soon none of you will have work because of it. Would you walk up to that person and say oh thank you so much I am so stupid I canot run my own business please let me bow to your superiority.

Well......

She complained

He yelled, screamed and became violent.

She told him to F*** off the next evening in the police station under her breath after being told to do so my the cops to apologise.

This post was originally made to show the humourous side of living in Thailand.

How would YOU know and WE know she was the perpertrator when YOU weren't even there? I was!

She needed not apologise to anyone, she simply complained about the food and got an earful and a violent poking of finger in face.

And yes, if a man, any man was towering over a defenseless woman shoving his finger in her face and screaming and yes if I even for a minute thought he was going to physically attack her or the other girls at the table I would be in there i a flash and indeed give him a clip across the ears..

She and they paid their bill and quietly returned to the office, thinking that eveything had been sorted.

Anyway thanks for the ANALisys of my post.

[Roachiebkk]

I wouldn't set foot in that place again. I would instruct everyone of your crew to do the same.

It's not worth the hassle.

Going back to the restaurant is no longer an option. If the cook, owner or whomever the man is knows a patron is from the OP's company, the food will likely be tainted. Or the man may even get violent.

It would certainly have been an option to return if he'd just settled down. The girls all paid their bills and returned to the office. If he hadn't brought the wallopers in on it then we would have gladly gone back there the next day. Escalation is the problem here, sure if the girl in question refused to go there would be her choice but at least we would have all gone back and happily laughed about it. Maybe even got better service!

[lovelomsak]

It sounds as if that young girl in question really does require some lessons in respect and diplomacy, especially after telling the guy to F/off . Appears that she is a type upstart with attitude who believes she knows it all.

The fact that this girl was still using her phone indicates that she has a bad attitude problem.

It must have been quite serious if the owner felt that the police needed to be called, because with most Thai people involving the police in anyrhing is usually an absolute last resort.

The girl employee's heavy handed approach regarding the restaurant staff actually got her employer involved with the police which surely cannot be beneficial for the company.

What she should have done is paid her bill, walked out, then mentioned to the rest of the staff her opinions about that restaurant and began taking her lunch breaks elsewhere from then on.

If it had been one of my staff having involved my company with her attitude problem and arguments, she would have been sacked on the spot.

Actually she told him to f&^% off after the BiB forced her to apologise. They also made him and her to pay 100 baht fine. She was using her iphone as an act of defiance whilst apologising at the police station. I saw the whole thing and she neither instigated or inflamed the situation apart from complaining about her food and the service. I'm certainly not 'sacking' a highly respected professional over a plate of gristle and grass. Some of you guys show your own macho attitude towards 'uppity' women. How dare they speak up to a man, this is INSULTATION!

Face reality she is trouble with a capital T. Cooks stay in the kitchen unless called out. I donot beilieve this story it was over half an egg. Who would call out a cook and belittle him in his own business over half an egg. Also if she is a professional as you state she should know professional ethics.

You know it we know it she was the perpetrator and started the whole thing,but cannot stand to be corrected. And all that was required to settle the situation was a simple apology.

You contradict yourself in post 64. First you state"showed profound respect for me and my staff all he wanted was an apology". Further on you state"if he made any violent moves toward her I would have given him the smack he deserved" Why would you think a man giving profound respect would get violent? Perhaps you are prone to violence to settle things and was disappointed you couldnot do it this time. Or did you just want to be judge and jury.

Post 65 you state "sorry...where did I say she told him to f%^&off" Then in post 67 "she told him to f^&*off" A little contradictory yes. It was also stated in oringinal post 1.

Denial is a great thing and both you and her are denying the real probem.She is the problem not him.

If someone came in your business after doing business with you and said to your staff stop what you are doing I will tell you what to do and how to do from now on. Your boss is doing it wrong and soon none of you will have work because of it. Would you walk up to that person and say oh thank you so much I am so stupid I canot run my own business please let me bow to your superiority.

Well......

She complained

He yelled, screamed and became violent.

She told him to F*** off the next evening in the police station under her breath after being told to do so my the cops to apologise.

This post was originally made to show the humourous side of living in Thailand.

How would YOU know and WE know she was the perpertrator when YOU weren't even there? I was!

She needed not apologise to anyone, she simply complained about the food and got an earful and a violent poking of finger in face.

And yes, if a man, any man was towering over a defenseless woman shoving his finger in her face and screaming and yes if I even for a minute thought he was going to physically attack her or the other girls at the table I would be in there i a flash and indeed give him a clip across the ears..

She and they paid their bill and quietly returned to the office, thinking that eveything had been sorted.

Anyway thanks for the ANALisys of my post.

Just to ad a little here. You arenot the only gallant man in the world any good man would come to the aid of a women in a violent situation. You said you were there you didnot need to defend her so I would say he wasnot violent right.So no need to talk tough about clipping his ear.You keep referring to how you would get violent maybe the girls in your office feed on this and are quite willing to creat scenarios to bring it forward. You know the type they make trouble and let big bf or boss take care of it.

I cannot for the life of me see why as a boss you didnot difuse this problem. He came to your office wanted an apology. First place it could have ended.None was given so down to the policestation to sort it out. At the police station you admit she finally gave an apology while playing farmville and you said she did this as a defiant move. So it was obvious she wasnot trying to even appear sincere. As an employer and leader why did you not step in and mention to her she wasnot helping the issue and just try and make it look sincere. But sounds like you were more interested in clipping his ears.You are all professionals ya right. She then takes it further by saying f^&* off and leaves.

Just because she thought is was over doesnot mean it was over. Does the world stop at her front door.This guy had an issue with what happened face it and deal with it appropriately. Sounds to me more like the big business on the soi bullying the little guy and trying to look selfrightous.

[Roachiebkk]

It sounds as if that young girl in question really does require some lessons in respect and diplomacy, especially after telling the guy to F/off . Appears that she is a type upstart with attitude who believes she knows it all.

The fact that this girl was still using her phone indicates that she has a bad attitude problem.

It must have been quite serious if the owner felt that the police needed to be called, because with most Thai people involving the police in anyrhing is usually an absolute last resort.

The girl employee's heavy handed approach regarding the restaurant staff actually got her employer involved with the police which surely cannot be beneficial for the company.

What she should have done is paid her bill, walked out, then mentioned to the rest of the staff her opinions about that restaurant and began taking her lunch breaks elsewhere from then on.

If it had been one of my staff having involved my company with her attitude problem and arguments, she would have been sacked on the spot.

Actually she told him to f&^% off after the BiB forced her to apologise. They also made him and her to pay 100 baht fine. She was using her iphone as an act of defiance whilst apologising at the police station. I saw the whole thing and she neither instigated or inflamed the situation apart from complaining about her food and the service. I'm certainly not 'sacking' a highly respected professional over a plate of gristle and grass. Some of you guys show your own macho attitude towards 'uppity' women. How dare they speak up to a man, this is INSULTATION!

Face reality she is trouble with a capital T. Cooks stay in the kitchen unless called out. I donot beilieve this story it was over half an egg. Who would call out a cook and belittle him in his own business over half an egg. Also if she is a professional as you state she should know professional ethics.

You know it we know it she was the perpetrator and started the whole thing,but cannot stand to be corrected. And all that was required to settle the situation was a simple apology.

You contradict yourself in post 64. First you state"showed profound respect for me and my staff all he wanted was an apology". Further on you state"if he made any violent moves toward her I would have given him the smack he deserved" Why would you think a man giving profound respect would get violent? Perhaps you are prone to violence to settle things and was disappointed you couldnot do it this time. Or did you just want to be judge and jury.

Post 65 you state "sorry...where did I say she told him to f%^&off" Then in post 67 "she told him to f^&*off" A little contradictory yes. It was also stated in oringinal post 1.

Denial is a great thing and both you and her are denying the real probem.She is the problem not him.

If someone came in your business after doing business with you and said to your staff stop what you are doing I will tell you what to do and how to do from now on. Your boss is doing it wrong and soon none of you will have work because of it. Would you walk up to that person and say oh thank you so much I am so stupid I canot run my own business please let me bow to your superiority.

Well......

She complained

He yelled, screamed and became violent.

She told him to F*** off the next evening in the police station under her breath after being told to do so my the cops to apologise.

This post was originally made to show the humourous side of living in Thailand.

How would YOU know and WE know she was the perpertrator when YOU weren't even there? I was!

She needed not apologise to anyone, she simply complained about the food and got an earful and a violent poking of finger in face.

And yes, if a man, any man was towering over a defenseless woman shoving his finger in her face and screaming and yes if I even for a minute thought he was going to physically attack her or the other girls at the table I would be in there i a flash and indeed give him a clip across the ears..

She and they paid their bill and quietly returned to the office, thinking that eveything had been sorted.

Anyway thanks for the ANALisys of my post.

Just to ad a little here. You arenot the only gallant man in the world any good man would come to the aid of a women in a violent situation. You said you were there you didnot need to defend her so I would say he wasnot violent right.So no need to talk tough about clipping his ear.You keep referring to how you would get violent maybe the girls in your office feed on this and are quite willing to creat scenarios to bring it forward. You know the type they make trouble and let big bf or boss take care of it.

I cannot for the life of me see why as a boss you didnot difuse this problem. He came to your office wanted an apology. First place it could have ended.None was given so down to the policestation to sort it out. At the police station you admit she finally gave an apology while playing farmville and you said she did this as a defiant move. So it was obvious she wasnot trying to even appear sincere. As an employer and leader why did you not step in and mention to her she wasnot helping the issue and just try and make it look sincere. But sounds like you were more interested in clipping his ears.You are all professionals ya right. She then takes it further by saying f^&* off and leaves.

Just because she thought is was over doesnot mean it was over. Does the world stop at her front door.This guy had an issue with what happened face it and deal with it appropriately. Sounds to me more like the big business on the soi bullying the little guy and trying to look selfrightous.

Yes and your hindsight sitting at your computer is astounding. Anyway yaaaawn......an attempt to tell a humorous little anecdote in which in the end nobody was hurt is obviously lost on some. Never mind. She did no wrong, I was there and you weren't. She politely paid for her meal even though she wasn't happy with it. Loudmouthed cook decided to take it further, his problem, not hers, not mine and certainly not yours.

[bermondburi]

Just out of interest, I live in Nonthaburi. Whereabouts was this place. Just so I know not to go there.

[Roachiebkk]

Just out of interest, I live in Nonthaburi. Whereabouts was this place. Just so I know not to go there.

Tiwanon Soi 24. Down in the Moo Ban.

[The Snark]

Insulting is very serious in these parts and can carry great weight.

True story some old timers may remember. A farang was loud and drunk at a local bar in C.M. He left on his motorcycle. A Thai drove up beside him and shot him in the head. (Dead at the scene). The police traced things back to the local bar. They caught the perp who was shown demonstrating how he shot the farang on the front page of the newspaper. The perp then brought 8 witnesses to the police station to testify the farang was extremely rude and insulting to him in public. (Shoe in face, literally, and '<deleted> you, -expletive- kwai').

The police dropped the case, calling it justifiable homicide.

Heads up folks. This isn't Kansas.

Edited May 22, 2011 by The Snark

[Willeyeam]

Of course I don't know all the circumstances, but if the cook is an older man and the girls are young, and both parties have an interest in patching things up (as Ian pointed out), then I suggest a courteous apology from the girls to be extended at the restaurant and accompanied by flowers would settle things. And the cook may well go out of his way to take care of your group as a result.

The apology doesn't have to be sincere - just courteous in deference to the age difference - and the cook's face will be restored.

HAHAHAHAhahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahaahahah! FOR WHAT?

The service was shit!

Let him eat shit!

This is what is wrong here, compromising all the time to save face! It is about time they took a reality check! IDIOTS!

If you were at a restaurant and the service attitude food etc. was SHIT...would you buy them flowers? People like you compound the problems for this country, the young people need to get out of this stupid patriachal slavery thing, Jesus, bring them flowers...wake up!

Simple answer...go take your business elsewhere and FCCCC them!

See how long the "Kreng Jai" can stand losing 2500 Baht per day...vote with your feet. Sadly however, in about two months from now, the retard will be looking at his empty restaurant, scratching his baldy head, tweaking his 6 foot MOLE hair, contemplating where he went wrong! But it will not cross his mind that any of this was to do with him or his attitude, it will be simply "business has slumped".

No r3esponsibility, no foresight, no idea of actions and consequence - like a 5 year old if you are lucky!

Edited May 22, 2011 by Willeyeam

[Payboy]

Sadly however, in about two months from now, the retard will be looking at his empty restaurant, scratching his baldy head, tweaking his 6 foot MOLE hair, contemplating where he went wrong! But it will not cross his mind that any of this was to do with him or his attitude, it will be simply "business has slumped".

Doubt that, he will most likely up his prices and gloat over his cash register.